Monday, November 5, 2012

5/11 - Epi 380 ... Her World Falling Apart

Monday 5th Nov '12

Sheetal fasting ... check.
Sheetal giving Khushi very dirty look when Arnav breaks Khushi's fast ...
Sheetal breaks her fast using Khushi's thaali and glass ... after looking at Arnav through her dupatta ... seen by Khushi ...

And Khushi is very, very disturbed and upset ... so much so that she refuses to go out for dinner with Arnav ... much to his annoyance. She manages to cajole him out of his annoyance with a touch of her usual craziness ... and he gifts her a company ... she can start her catering service whenever she likes ... wherever she likes ... because she should be independent financially ...
She doesn't like the idea ... she, who always wanted to be independent ... who always said, "I'll manage ..." ... she who didn't even let him pay her Buaji's rent ... today his words about being financially independent strike a feeling of dread in her heart ... 
'Why?'
'Because if I go away ...' 
He gets an instant mild slap for that ... 'don't even say such things ...'

A small loving moment ... interrupted by Chota Packet ... because he wants to play chess ... seriously?! Kid is as bad as his mom ... doesn't he know not to disturb a couple in their room?

Arnav and Arav play chess ... to the accompaniment of more exclamations of 'they're so alike' from Payash and Nani ...

And Khushi gets the copy of the DNA report ... and her world tilts over on its axis ...

Precap ... Khushi confronts Sheetal ... damn it, Khushi, why are you maroing kulhadi on your own foot?!

SN - Mami remembered Mamaji :) And Anjali continued to be brave.

*edited*
Quick edit ... as I want to join in the discussions  

Teasing Arnav, mock angry Khushi ... a moon that wasn't ...
"Sambhaliye ..."
"Hamesha Sambhalta rahunga ..." A promise... will he be able to keep it?

And the next time he pointed, she didn't believe him ... but the moon was really out ... he had to turn her physically to show her ...
A quick kiss is his reward ... reward enough for a doting husband, whose world really does revolve around his quixotic, quirky flighty wife ... flighty she might be, childlike she might be, but her heart beats only for him and he knows it ...

Mamiji remembered Mamaji finally ... and broke her fast looking at his picture. Begs the question - why did Sheetal not do the same? If she really wanted to hide the fact of her fasting, that is ...
Anjali captures the festivities on camera, a small wistful smile on her face ... yes, she's missing old times, but no, not unhappy ... better to live without false happiness and deceit ...
Payash celebrate their first Karva Chauth ...
NK fasts openly, but breaks his fast furtively ... hunting for that special someone whose face he wants to see through the sieve ... NK bitwa, find someone better, please ... not the woman who's trying to break Arshi's happiness ...
Chalo, he saw Sheetal, Sheetal saw him through the sieve ... Arnav is safe.

And Arshi celebrate their first Karva Chauth with their usual banter ... a challenge won, a challenge lost ...
'Ok, you won, I lost ... which means I have to let you do this fast every year ...'
She emphasizes ... 'Every year!' 
Me thinks Arnav was in a win-win situation here ...
And Khushi sparkles with happiness as he breaks her fast, feeds her water and a jalebi ... remembers belatedly to touch his feet in the middle of chomping happily ... and turns to find Sheetal staring at her with a very strange expression on her face (to me it looked as though Sheetal wanted the jalebi ... but I think that's just MN's expressions ) ... and Sheetal looks away quickly as though guilty at being caught staring ...
which raises Khushi's antennae suddenly ... what was that all about?

Family assembled for dinner ... Khushi doing a quick clearing up ...
Mami's one-liner ... Hari Prakash, today you please become Hari up LOL
Nani asks Sheetal where Arav is ... Sheetal says he's asleep, he had dinner early ...
So why did he wake up later? To play chess? Kaisa bacha hai yeh!
Sheetal doesn't sit down for dinner yet ...
Arnav walks in, doesn't even notice Sheetal standing ... looks for biwi, finds her clearing up at the poolside, and with an impatient look, walks off to fetch her ... leaving Sheetal staring after him ...

Arshi at poolside ... their own personal Garden of Eden ... complete with serpent ... as Arnav tries to hurry Khushi ... 'come on and eat, HP can finish the clearing up, I'm hungry and I won't eat without you so hurry up' ... awww ... these little touches make all the difference ...
Khushi's smiling face ... changes to questioning as she sees Sheetal appear ... Sheetal offers to help, Khushi refuses politely ... gathers all the sieves up ... her thaali is lying under the table ... Arshi leave ... but Khushi is slightly troubled at Sheetal's presence ... and that unexplained look earlier ...

And as they leave, Sheetal shakes her dupatta out as though something is caught in it ... quickly sees the moon through it, calls out to Arnav urgently ... and peeks at him through the dupatta quickly ...
A very lame excuse about a call from an old college friend ... ok, go ahead, I'll just join you ... 

And as Arnav and Khushi move ahead, Khushi makes an excuse to stay back .. to watch with disbelief and dawning shock as Sheetal quickly, furtively takes Khushi's glass from Khushi's thaali under the table and drinks from it ... and then replaces it. 
Which means, she realises, that Sheetal kept the vrat ... that too, for Arnav ...

Back to the dining room, Arnav takes Khushi away from the dining table ... Sheetal watching with a not very pleased look on her face ... (can the woman emote please? She just looks blank most of the time!) And Khushi is already worrying about talking to Sheetal ...

Arnav wants to take Khushi out for a special dinner ... her favorite food, champagne, the works ... but Khushi refuses ... she's too troubled and worried ...
Khushi, sweetheart, just go ... it might be the last alone time you get with Arnav before all hell breaks loose!
Arnav is not happy, he cancels but his annoyance is apparent ...
Khushi starts clearing some files ... including one in her name ... what's this? 
A gift for Karva Chauth ... some husbands gift jewelry, sarees ... he got her this ... 
KKGSR Catering Service ... a legitimate company, so that she can be financially independent ... a really thoughtful gift from a caring husband who knows his wife inside-out in many ways ... her fierce streak of independence which prevented her from taking money from him during the hate marriage, which made her work, no slog, during her time at his office because she had to earn for her family ... her love for food, both cooking and eating ...

And Khushi is apologetic and penitent again ... he had organised a special evening for her, and she was too lost in her own troubled thoughts and let him down ... disappointed him ...
She apologises sincerely and deeply, the troubled look never quite leaving her eyes ... but first she needs to make him smile again with some of her own brand of pagalpan ... and she does ...
He smiles reluctantly ... a small hug ... he needs to register her brand of sanak as well, and patent it ... she's a unique piece ...

'But why did you suddenly remember my dabba business?'
'Because you love cooking and eating almost as much as you love me ...'
A smile at her indignation ... more seriously ... 'you'll be financially independent, not have to rely on anyone ...'
Khushi listens with growing disquiet ... the girl who was so fiercely self-dependent, who worked all hours to support her family, who set up her Dabba Service with so much enthusiasm and zeal, now uneasy about talk of being independent ...
And when he starts to say something about 'in case tomorrow ... you never know ... I'm not there ...'
She doesn't let him complete his words ... a light slap ... 'stop right there! Why, when I'm so happy, are you saying these things and spoiling my happiness?'

He tries to explain ... he's just being practical ... but she's already disturbed, with that feeling of unexplained dread mounting ... she's not having any of it.
'No need to be practical ... I don't want to hear all this ...'
'Okay okay ... you really do need to eat ...' He drops it, she's upset, and probably tired with the day's fast ... 'let's go ...'

Interrupted by Chota Packet ...
Kid, did no one teach you to knock at someone's door before entering? And I thought you were asleep?
Khushi, that's why you should have gone out with Arnav for a private dinner ... now you'll have to watch while Chota Packet monopolises his time! And worse ... 
Arav wants a favour ... Arnav agrees readily ... and Khushi's unease builds again ...

Turns out Arav either woke up, or wasn't sleeping at all ... because he decided suddenly that he wants to play chess.
There are days I like Arav ... there are days I don't. Today was the latter. Ouch Thumbs Down

Arnav and Arav play chess, while Payash and Nani watch, Khushi tries to eat ... her unease growing every second ...
SN - did Arnav ever get around to eating?
Nani and Payash discuss again how much like Arnav Arav is ... and how good Arnav is as a father ... really guys, give it a rest, will you?! Not in front of his wife, at least! Unhappy

Khushi goes to the kitchen ... and gets the copy of the DNA report delivered to her ...
Maybe it's DM's will that she find out the truth today ... as her eyes show her fear and dread ... already expecting the worst, almost prepared for it ... too much has been happening  and that feeling of impending doom has been building bit by bit ... till it's taken over her thoughts completely ...

And she opens the report slowly, her eyes and her trembling hands showing her fear ... and reads it ... tears welling up and starting to fall slowly ...
Just as Arva defeats Arnav ... Castling ... replacing the King with the rook ... Arva Arnav hi5 ... and Khushi whispers brokenly ... 'you're his father ...'
And her world has just fallen apart ...

SN - Good thing ... cv's have finally started putting in some family scenes as fillers ...makes the scenes more complete ...




100 comments:

  1. DNA report positive match....I know u girls don't like that.....for me it was the lesser of the two evils

    I know it makes me happy about one thing...Dia knows that...I never wanted it to be negative and a mountain about a molehill irrespective of Khushi's underhand tactics...I know Khushi has not done herself a favour here by not confiding her fears to Arnav but tat is exactly the thing she has been short on...(her ability to trust her own happiness) so I am hoping this story will soon move to Arnav's perspective and/or move to a track where Khushi will have learn to have atoot vishwaas...Arnav in the Box and only K trusts him...his peetal bartan and she gets him out....Possibilities are immense, i just hope they do this...now on to PH and BS to manage the rest!!

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    1. i feel that dhruv n arnav also have some blood relations so maybe aarav n arnav are a match because of that?

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    2. or sheetal tampered with the reports...

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    3. Mish,
      Idk if Dhruv is really being considered...really doubtful...
      i guess it has to be something else here...i know its cliched but Sheetal tampering reports seems a better option...( i can't believe i am saying this)

      If this is final thing about arnav actually truly being Aarav's father...there is not much that the story can do from here...Khushi being Khushi will be forced to don the mahaanta mantle...so ARHI is then over...and that is not somethin the fans will ever accept..so i am hoping there is a twist in the tale

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    4. btw, i just saw the episode....the chess game is a gud scene..i could not follow anything tat Barun said there...poor voice quality on the online epi...can anyone tell me what was Arnav saying about Aarav's move when the rpeort was flashed?

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    5. even i couldn't hear properly but i guess he commented on the checkmate from aarav n said something on the lines of 'u defeated me big guy!'

      n i DON'T want the mahantaa angle...i guess its good that Khushi confronted Sheetal...

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    6. Rekha,

      It was the chess move - Castling

      Similar to queening but this involves the king and his rook.

      The report being negative was last week. After what Sheetal did today, the report had to be positive.

      Waiting to see how the precap plays out tomm.

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    7. Yes, he said something on the lines of ... I don't believe it, you defeated me, big guy ...

      Rekha, me too feel the same way ... expected this. Now the possibility of Sheetal having tampered with the report is pretty high to me, as we don't have any credible reports of any other man on the horizon.

      And Sheetal is coming across more and more dark grey ... if she had used her own glass to break her fast, it would still seem that she just wanted Arnav back or was holding on to an old flame ... but using Khushi's glass ... to me, indicates she is out for some serious mischief.

      According to spoilers, Khushi doesn't keep it from Arnav for too long ... this week itself will be the big dhamaka.

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    8. yeah and why couldn't she have used a photo of arnav like mami did? assuming that's what she's been doing all these years...the whole call-out-arnav-and-using-khushi's-glass seemed intended..

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    9. Hey Sandy,

      where is the other chess expert? gargs...girl...where are u?

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    10. Yes sheetals grey side was quite obvious in todays episode.
      Why i feel tht aarav was sent to arshis room by sheetal.....she was disapointed when arshi left dinning area...was she afraid of k missing the dna report and disturbance in her plan?

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    11. Rekh,

      (AS usual I am here to break your heart....Kaan pakadke sorry.)

      "DNA report positive match....I know u girls don't like that.....for me it was the lesser of the two evils"

      One evil: ASR had a kid outside marriage...
      what is the second evil?


      Sheetal is black to me for wanting to come in between a husband and a wife- CHHHEEEE....Dusht aurat!


      I feel Sheetal wil keep mum about the DNA report. She will maintain silence or let out a namesake protest and let K interpret it whichever way she wants.

      I think Sheeal is selfish to the core. She has seen K helping Aarav out. In spite of that she kept a fast for K's husband.
      Black Sheetal will let K take F/U it up on her own...let things take their natural course...let Arhi fight, let Khushi leave on a MU...then she can have ASR.

      Grey Sheetal will walk out with dignity. She knows she has clearly come in between Arhi. OR like Sandy says, may be Sheetal is only taking care of the child and thinks ASR is the father.

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    12. SU OH SU,

      tera mera MU ka jawab nahin....Hehehehe

      lesser of two evils....

      menaing DNA report is tampered...u know my point about Aarav being Arnav's son....it can only work if this serial was not IPK...FOR ME IPK IS ARHI AND ARHI IS IPK...bas bol diya....

      SO AS FAR AS I AM CONCERNED ARNAV IS NOT AARAV'S FATHER....

      never will be DNA report or no DNA report....mera atoot vishwas....

      as i said, i am equally concerned about Khushi ka character butcherisation....i wanted there to be some consistency there...some base for all this bhakeda....bas.....



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    13. and on this note, a spoiler from mishti
      http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=3274669

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    14. J,

      The report as of now is positive. Whether it stays thus or is proven to be negative will depend on how they want to spin out the story. So it is not confirmed till it is shown onscreen.

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    15. of course..
      which is why i called it "a spoiler from mishti".
      which means, can be, can be not.

      the rambles are too spread out for me to comment today.. will think more and comment.

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    16. J,

      ROFL :)

      which is why i called it "a spoiler from mishti".
      which means, can be, can be not

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    17. Nope, yaar ... my 'atoot vishwas' ... DNA report has been tampered with, and Arnav is not Arav's dad.

      Unless of course Khushi read it wrong - apparently a DNA test is not a paternity test ... these serials are so educational, I tell you! Now I need to google DNA test vs paternity test :)))

      So either Sheetal is merely grey and there is a Dhruv ... or Sheetal is black and there is no Dhruv. Bas - no third choice.

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  2. the cv's are hell bent on shoving the "OMG they're so alike" observations down our throats... Yes. they have similar mannerisms. We Get It. why remind us again and again!

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    1. agree with you...there is no need to exaggerate it...we get it CVs...asr and ASR 'saans bhi ek jaise hi lete hain'...
      i guess it was there to push Khushi...else she might have torn DNA report again..

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  3. didnt like khushi refusing for dinner...that was before she read DNA report...
    sheetal khulasa kab hoga...she is confusing me...till yesterday and even today the way she was looking while Arnav breaks Khushi's fast but then i also felt she genuinely fasted for Arnav and wanna hide it from everyone...or is she so dark...???

    girls...DNA report tells father-son relationship or it tells a blood relation...???

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    1. even i was confused about that point...Khushi says 'rishta hai' as in father-son or what? i'm no expert here but i guess the dna match has to be upto a certain level and only then the paternity is confirmed?

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    2. Ayesha, Misha,
      DNA report just says you share some genes, so you belong to the same family and how closely you could be related considering how many genes you share.
      It is not the same as a paternity test.

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  4. Hallelujah for the spoiler..........for once, I will be relieved that Khushi opens up to Arnav pronto........castling seems to be the in thing with this PH at the moment.....just caught part of yesterday's epi on Arjun and they showed the same move by the opponent, albeit different 'context'....ASR's SUV exchanged in favour of a castling move on Arjun?????

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    1. gud one aki....

      The way they do this all the time, we don't know which is a move for us and which is for them...keeps on our toes all the time

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  5. I thought it was cute how arnav said he won't eat without khushi!

    Also just a thought about khushi becoming independant...is that hinting towards khushi becoming a successful business woman after leaving arnav?

    What do you guys think arnavs reaction will be after khushi tells him about the DNA test results?

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    1. he said he wont eat without khushi. a moment later, he was insisting on taking her out to dinner, because 'it was special to her"!

      why was khushi cleaning up at the poolside while the rest of the family was sitting down to dinner? she is the badi bahu.. ah well.

      arnav gifted her a company for keeping vrat on karwa chauth? and that too a cookery company? ROFL

      arnav fathered aarav? yeah right. i can imagine his reaction a little too well..

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    2. J i was laughing when i heard that dialogue..'tumne vrat rakha toh maine socha tumhe ek cookery comapny gift karun'!! kya connection hai bhai??!!!

      aur iss ghar mein toh Khushi hi sab kaam karti hai!!

      I am waiting for a Arnav-Sheetal confrontation..no wait..make that ASR-Sheetal...Arnav should take up his ASR avatar for that one!!!

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    3. of course! the way he bit into shital after aarav collapsed in the "freezer"... was a trace of the old ASR.. so am definitely waiting for his reaction to this news.

      though, arnav has been emoting a lot more after easing into the role, so I dont think the old poker face will be back.. though i would love to revisit that shuttered face with eyes spitting fire..

      will he? wont he?

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  6. Just started watching IPPKND since the past three weeks and caught up on all episodes at a stretch. Am hooked! As part of browsing landed on your page and loved the discussion.

    Wanted to say hello and chime in.

    I do think there will be a separation track what with talk of being self sufficient et al? Will be curious to see how it all plays out.

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    1. hello NK.. welcome to R&R!

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    2. Hi Enkay,

      Whoa you have been seeing past 3 weeks (approx teh time shyam ouster and sheetal aarav intro) and you got hooked. Interesting :)

      (Girls are we the ajeeb lot.?)

      And that must have been a lot of catching up.

      Welcome to the blog and jump right in.

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    3. Jaya, Actually a friend of mine pointed me to the first episode and its been a non stop marathon. Haven't slept over 3 hours for weeks now. ;) Obviously am at a stage where I have OD'd on the serial and am having severe addiction symptoms. :)

      Just when I thought OK, now they are married and all the evil elements gone, enters Sheetal. Just can't believe my luck. Sigh!

      I do hope if they do insist on dragging it out, at least have Khushi do well and build a successful business. I really do think the poor girl has had enough.

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    4. hi Enkay

      whoa...welcome....we all suffer from this addiction ....differs in degrees tho....jump right in!!

      am rather glad u are able to see a silver lining for K in this.....we are the doomed ones.....kambakth usme mein bhi humein koi Khushi nahin mil rahi hain....Ideally one should rejoice that the woman will be delivered from all this pain!! but we have a bad case of ARHITis!!

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    5. Hi Enkay,
      *hugs* for being hooked on at this stage.
      Proves the magic is still there!
      Welcome!

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    6. Hi Enkay ... welcome! Jump right in ... join the band of crazies! If you check out the Members' Intro post, you'll find a lot of company :)))

      You caught up with 1 1/2 years of IPKKND in 3 weeks ... RESPECT!!! :)))

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  7. Hi all....watched ipkknd after a short break. Thank to dia.....it was ur posts and the team comments which connected me to sereal..was busy in work, festivals and ofcourse the track was boring too.from mh, there s glances of hope for a better track.

    I loved todays episode and watched it. Loved the way arnavs reaction to sheetals presence and the concern for k. Being a cute child and different from rest of kids hes attached to aarav more which sheetal will utilise.
    Sheetals grey side was more obvious in todays episode....shes playing with k wonderfuly....poor k, my baby grl i feel so sad for her....but im loving the track now.yes . I loved the dna result being positive

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  8. So Khushi has her own company...DNA report is positive..Sheetal is obviously black..will we get ASR black?? i am kinda missing his attitude...or will we be saying tata bye bye Arnav???

    Come on ASR..dikha do apne college friend ko that she cannot mess with the love of your life!!!

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  9. Hi girls,
    My two cents on two epis.

    Managed to catch the ME. Didn’t get the time to really savour it.

    Loved reading all the 360 degrees. Didn’t see this mentioned. That lift during the dance reminded ne of the lift during ‘dili main baali’ dance, which was again during the heights of hatred.

    And that song by the poolside: Wonderful! Couldn’t hel;p smiling to myself by the end of the epi. Bitwa finds 1001 ways to romance biwi, and bitiya is stuck with that book on 101 ways to ruin romantic moments! I am simply amazed at the portrayal of that song, bitwa was all passion and bitiya was all playfulness! My, my, what a couple!

    What is this track about?
    For now, I am seeing Arnav as the most sensible character. And K is totally sanak… but she is clear about one thing, she will not tolerate ‘dusht aurat’.So I hope the track is about ‘sense’ teaching ‘nonsense’ an important lesson. ASR teaching K an all important lesson, “Khushi, you CANNOT SHARE me with anyone, even if it is with a child you think is mine.”


    Before that he will realize why Khushi did what she did. He already knows how huge her heart is, but he would be amazed that she can so easily accept a kid of his, without throwing any tantrums- after shouting at her probably, initially. Following that, I hope he will also go about teaching her that crucial lesson, not just about trust, but also possessiveness.

    Hmmmm….
    So,
    1. ASR realizes K is great beyond his imagination and appreciates it.
    2. May be that will make him reflect on the various times she has sacrificed herself for him, plenty of fbs...
    3. He might show attachment to Aarav, to make K realize that she should never have thought about sharing him…
    4. ASR appreciates all her efforts to make his world perfect and Khushi apologises for doubting him.
    OR


    1. ASR blasts Khushi for MISLEADING Aarav into believing he is his dad…
    2. K leaves momentarily in guilt/ anger…
    3. ASR retrospection- fbs from premarriage and hate marriage , regret.
    4. K realizes she was wrong to not believe him…

    Arhi reunite…

    Heh heh…Am I trying to kill too many birds with one stone? I know, I know.

    OR


    Simply a shouting match- very unlikely, I feel.

    OR

    ASR re- orders a paternity test...and proves his innocence.

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    1. K did not order a PATERNITY test. All she asked for was a DNA test, which proves Arnav is related to Aarav- gehra rishta- Dhruv angle seems more likely.

      Sheetal-

      is hiding Aarav’s parentage from Raizadas because she is afraid once that is revealed, Aarav will be taken away from her. Probably she has no claim to the child other than that of a caretaker or an aunt. Legally, she will be expected to hand over the child to the living parent, and that she wants to avoid at all cost. That she still has feelings for Arnav, may be just an unrelated thing, as in not a motive or anything.

      I realy liked how the DNA report came through to confirm K’s suspicions.
      When I read the spoiler I thought K will base her belief just on Shetal keeping fast for Arnav, thank god she has a good solid reason for her belief now. Really, thank you CVs.

      That she interpreted the test wrong can be forgiven totally.

      I loved the ME and Monday.
      I don’t know if it is an end to the drought ,or an oasis in the desert.

      BTW, If you want to watch San as Goddess Lakshmi (the story related to diwali being celebrated in connectiopn with goddess Lakshmi), watch diwali prog at 7: 30 today. Today is probably the only day worth watching.

      Oh! They put an end to that rumour on ASR’s shatir dimag yesterday. He lost to Raashi of SNS- Quite a shatir dimag, that woman is…in fact, the only character I like in SNS!

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    2. Is the DNA report a 360 of the terrace MU?

      ASR saw something and heard something...he could not disbelieve his eyes and ears.

      Here K has seen something (DNA report, resemblances, Sheetal keeping KC for Aarav's father- turned out to be ASR) and heard something (constant reminders from the family)...Is she not justified in wanting to believe her eyes and ears?

      The difference here is that Khushi will not react in the same way ASR reacted. She will want to welcome Aarav into Arhi's space. I really hope ASR teaches her to be SELFISH about him.

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    3. su, today's retelecast showed khushi saying "arnavji aarav ke.. pitaa hain!" while looking at the DNA result.. so they have clarified that bit.

      now i really hope arnav thinks enough to follow your line of reasoning.. how long can a character be dumb? (okay, don't answer that)

      and no, it cannot be terrace 360.. because she is not listening to one snippet of conversation and basing her decisions on that.. she has seen with her own eyes how similar arnav and aarav are..how arnav has bonded with arav.. she has seen that shital hid the fact that she fasted for arnav.. she has seen shital hiding the truth of arav's father.. she has seen the DNA report that clearly stated that arnav fathered arav.

      now it maybe that shital is playing on khushi's insecurities, but right now, khushi is fully valid in believe the evidence stacked up for her to see.

      you cannot tell me that a wife should believe her husband over everything else, like anjali did. i dont care that they are arshi and the allegations cannot be true.. i will not accept if khushi goes the dumb anjali way of believing her husbands word against all proof.

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    4. Su,

      Huggs!! Was hinkign about you past 2 days. Good to see you back. All ok in AD?

      Chalo off to read ur bak bak

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    5. Su,

      just logged in thinking of u and I am so glad to see ur post...was wondering what happened..

      will now read ur post....

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    6. Thanks, girls. Missed you all. Everything fine, just a very tiring, busy weekend.

      J,
      "you cannot tell me that a wife should believe her husband over everything else, like anjali did. i dont care that they are arshi and the allegations cannot be true.. i will not accept if khushi goes the dumb anjali way of believing her husbands word against all proof."

      I am not saying that at all.
      Khushi is justified in believing Arnav is the father, she has not gone into the detalis of the report.That is the beauty of bringing in the DNA report- she is totally justified.
      The report just says, 'bond positive' or something like that, which means they share a set of genes. If there is a Dhruv, Aakash will be a stronger match than Arnav.

      Now how will Khushi react?
      Will she tell Arnav that she is basing the 'truth' on the DNA report, since she already tore it up in front of him?

      OR
      Will she just tell him to bond more with Aarav, and BE a father to him? MOst likely, she will tell him the entire truth, that is,if they stick to her character

      And how will K respond to her hubby's child? Won't she welcome that child and want him to bond with HIS father? Isn't that what the spoiler intended to say? K tells Arnav to accept his child and he denies or something like that? Well, with the DNA report in one hand and Arnav denying it all, will Khushi call him a liar? This should be interesting to watch.

      I agree with you, she will never go the dumb Anjali way. I don't want her to. This is not about atoot vishwaas yet, maybe she will learn that at the end of the track.

      What would a sensible K do?
      Call Arnav and Sheetal together, put the report in front of them and demand an explanation. Simple. But if that happened, where would the angst be?
      NOw since Sheetal will most likely not clarify things, K will just put all her evidence together and conclude that ASR is the dad. She will not remember that he said conclusively that he cannot be the father, he never had that kind of a thing with Sheetal.

      This is where the similarity with the terrace MU lies for me. Arnav should have called Shyam and Khushi together and demanded an explanation, which he did not(thank god!). It is all about communication, na.

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    7. EjakTLY SU...

      i was willing to forgive on why Arnav never confronted the two...not about shatir dimagi....it was rela Love u know...fearing the worst!!

      In this case, it is a little diff even tho the underlyin threads are the same.
      Khushi has made it her business to snoop after getting a clarification from Arnav becos of circumstances...and what does she arrive at...a confirmation that arnav was mistaken...so in a way she stands vindicated in hindsight but how does she approach from here is the point...does she give arnav the whole truth or does she handle him with kid gloves, giving him partial truth and expectin that it will all fall into place...

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    8. Su, good to see you back!

      Agree with you and with Jaya ... I don't fault Khushi for investigating ... it was not one single scene she based her doubts on, it was a whole continuum, and the DNA report is actual proof ...

      There are two issues here actually ... one is Arav being Arnav's son. Which Khushi might eventually accept ... after some trouble ... he happened before her time, she knew she was not the first girl in Arnav's life, she knews his views on living in, and by extension casual sex ... it will be difficult, but eventually she would accept Arav, for the child's sake.
      The second issue is Sheetal ... although Khushi is insecure, worried, and very disturbed about Sheetal being Arav's mom, what disturbs her more is Sheetal keeping fast for Arnav, staring at his pics, not being over him ... that's the part which worries me. Will she keep her word of nochoing the chudail's hair out? Accepting Arnav's love for herself as bigger than his relationship with his son's mother?

      Or will she be mahaan and sacrificing, and want to give Arav not only a father but a complete family, with his real father AND mother? Now that one, Arnav will absolutely not allow ... so it depends on how Sheetal plays her games ...

      Either way, I somehow can't see the MU lasting for too long ... not if it has to make any sense. The aftershocks can go on for some time ...

      The Shyam MU lasted for 4 months without making any sense, because Arnav didn't do any investigation to find out any proof of Shyam or Khushi. Here IF - a big IF - Khushi opens up to Arnav completely, about why she went this way, then it should not last too long. And then, they need to investigate why Sheetal dropped all the hints she did ...

      Depends on one big thing which is always missing in serials - COMMUNICATION! :)))

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    9. actually, arnav trusted his KJ.. sham was the one arnav trusted till that day, the one who influenced him to flex his rigid decisions that even di could not bend.. the one who talked to arnav, explained the emotional matters in practical terms for his EQ negative saala..

      and on that day, he indeed did hear khushi asking TF to leave anjali.. and his trusted jeejaji confirmed it.. ODB could not have thought to distrust his words, to imagine that KJ was playing him..

      that is what arnav does, he puts his trust in ppl.
      so he expects the same from khushi.. she shares his heartbeats, how can she distrust him?

      like you said, it will be interesting to see ODG explaining to arnav about the proof.

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  10. shital told everyone that aarav was sleeping..
    arnav and khushi left the dining room before having food..

    later, arav came to their bedroom to ask a favor..
    then, arnav khushi are shown , arnav is playing (almost to the end of a chess game) while khushi is shown eating.. did arshi eat dinner? if yes, then why was khushi still eating in the family room? NK was eating too, but he was eating dessert. khushi seems to be eating the main course.. so arnav did not eat?

    and there, someone asks about shital and they say she might be in her room.. so did shital send aarav to break up arnav-khushi in their bedroom? if shital was in the room, did she not see that aarav was not sleeping? //if she was the actual mom, she would have come to check on him :D//



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  11. Random Rambles

    Yes heartbreak is in store for Arnav when he sees Khushi believing a scrap of paper that says they; Aarav & he are related (gehra rishta hai, khoon ka rishta) baap bete ka will be a dil ka rishta - Bas Bol diya! (btw I thot DNA reports only confirm that a person can be your father / mother not that he or she is. I mean a negative report concludes that he or she is definitely not related to you so a positive report is good after all hum khushi main bhi aapke saath hain, dukh main bhi aapke saath hain hum humeshaa saath saath hain. Sheetal toh 2 4 din ke liye hi hai)

    Btw could Aarav be NK's child with someone (not Sheetal) back in Australia. Pranav / Arnav / Nannav (Brahma / Vishnu (ocean) / Shiva (raakshas laad governor))NK is Aakash's cousin bhai & in the intro Anjali mentioned Arnav not being very fond of him. Is it a case of Salaam Namaste or Paa with NK?

    I mean NK seems to have a thing for Sheetal but he is not making any special effort to befriend Aarav (Junior) which would be a sure shot way of making inroads with his mum isn't it? Besides the NK - Aarav interactions have been to a minimum from the start - is it a case of what we are not seeing that we should think about? (Mami spoke of babies getting exchanged leading to NK mentioning DNA test. Yday NK asked for a glass of water & Khushi got the report in the privacy of the kitchen. Glass of clear water - clarity or the real truth?). NK wanted Aarav to move the knight (horse).

    Castling - a move when 2 pieces move together on the chessboard. Almost a swap wherein the king moves to the corner towards the rook & the rook moves over to occupy the space left vacant by the king. Usually this move is used to "protect" the king.
    Arnav used his black rook to counter the threat from Aarav's white queen. What Aarav did was castle his king & rook to deliver the checkmate.

    Black Rook / Elephant - Sheetal
    White Queen - Khushi
    White King - Arnav
    White Rook / Elephant - Aarav
    Knight / Horse - NK

    Sheetal has delivered a check to Khushi in the form of her sneaky KC fast compounded by the other truth that Khushi thinks DM wants her to see. Yes if DM wanted it then I believe the report & that its not been tampered but it only establishes a relation not paternity.

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    1. Random Rambles (contd.)

      "Humne aapke sukh samridhi ke liye aur lambi umr ke liye vrat rakha hai". Khushi completed the fast successfully so she will get her wish of hum bas aapke saath khush rehna chaahte hain humeshaa humeshaa ke liye.
      The agar mujhe kuch ho jaaye is related to the sukh samridhi part - warna what is the reason to shift scene to GH & get babuji on his feet eventually. It will help that Khushi will be financially independant (did you not hear Arnav say you can start it anywhere, operate it from anyplace & make anyone your partner) - Well any guesses who KKGSR's partner will be? Hum halwai ki beti hain aur businessman ki patni :)
      Plus there is that small karma about babuji losing his sweet shop because of loan & Payal's broken wedding.

      "Mujhe pata hai Mrs. Arnav Singh Raizada bankar is aisho aaram, daulat aur shauharat ko chodkar jaana kitna mushkil hoga".(when she went to GH, she took a plant & he had said yahaan ghar basaana hai kya? Besides GH now belongs to KKGSR. Ghar ki lakshmi, how can her hands be empty when Diwali & Dhanteras are around the corner?). Either Arnav suffers an actual financial loss or for some reasons, there is a demand for a split in property & Arnav chooses to relinquish it all & walk away (Hmm will Mami do it I wonder in Akash's name & will Akash only agree to be a guardian till bhai returns but leaves RM & goes to stay with his father thanks to his mother's deeds?) Or does Mami pretend given that she told Khushi that nothing mattered to her more than Arnav's happiness?

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    2. Random Rambles (contd 2.)

      Recall Bharat loved Kaushalya as much as his mother Kaikeyi & when Kaikeyi's truth in banishing his brother came to fore, Bharat sacrificed the very thing that Kaikeyi had won for him. Kaikeyi had leveraged boons she had from Dasharatha when she saved his life on the battlefield (on the pool Arnav telling Sheetal before the bubblegum scene, if you need anything just let me know).
      Will Akash become the Bharat? And Shantivan the Ayodhya? Payal the sita who chose thorns of the forest?

      Chances are Sheetal has begun to hanker for Arnav in this trip because of his wealth & prosperity. Him being an ex-flame is incidental. (will not be surprised if she had broken up with him earlier for someone richer only to meet with deceit). Her ace unexpectedly becomes the child Aarav - that Khushi now confronts Sheetal as being Arnav's. It is not his & Sheetal knows it but it is now going to be her meal ticket. But here she will need Aarav & Arnav to fall in with her plans. Arnav is already besotted & Aarav has seen that Khushi never lies whereas his mum Sheetal has a track record of lying. He thinks she is sweet, pagal, filmy & talks a lot but he has been getting far more polite & his usual childlike self with her. Eventually will it be to upkeep Khushi's word to Aarav that Arnav is his dad that Arnav will agree to let the boy call him that provided he will call Khushi amma? Always a deal with ASR :)

      Krishna was Devaki & Vasudev's son but circumstances made him bond more with Nanda & Yashoda. Some of the puranas say Vasudev & Nanda were brothers.
      Also, Tulsi Vivah (around Diwali) signifies the end of monsoon & the start of the auspicious period good for weddings / new beginnings (The much awaited SR or honeymoon?) Well we at R&R always believed that GH vaastu was better for ArHi romance ;)

      Tulsi also reminds one of the Rukmini - Satyabhama tulaabhaaram. Narada (Mami?) incited Satyabhama that Krishna loved Rukmini more & shared a deeper bond with her of all his wives so he challenged her to give him Krishna in charity & win him back for riches equal to his weight in gold. Krishna knew the ploy but played along. Satyabhama lost despite asking all the other wives to give her their jewels. Finally she had to kill her ego & approach Rukmini who then placed a single tulsi leaf which alone balanced the tula. Heatfelt love & devotion for her husband. For Krishna, if Radha is his eternal lover, Rukmini is THE wife.
      Besdies some say Satyabhama was an incarnation of Bhoomi Devi explicitly born to help kill Narakasura & end his atrocities. The act that tipped Krishna into action was Naraka stealing Aditi's earrings. Aditi was the mother of the devas.

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    3. Oh one last,

      I get a feeling Sheetal could perhaps go on a short business visit leaving Aarav back at RM. She will let Khushi fight it out with Arnav and having seen his anger assume that they will have a fallout by the time she returns in time to takeover everything.

      That way she will delay her confrontation with Arnav and keep Khushi in the lurch.

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    4. Ok Snekaing one more ramble:

      If DSR is indeed in the picture, he wants Sheetal to win him the riches of ASR, else he will not grant her divorce though he was the one who desrted her and did not want the child. (chalo maana Sheetal is Aarav's mum and DSR's wife and she has now tampered with the report). If not DSR threatens that he will win his custody battle and she will loose Aarav. DSR is unhappy for he has been sidelined for Arnav (Mami is his step-mom and packed him off by poisoning his mind when she got married but later accepted Arnav)
      Sheetal would have had an easy time but here she finds a doting wife, Arnav in love and she needs to break all that else she cannot fulfill her sister's last wish to see her son hold his father's name perhaps?

      Now what happens when Aarav is proven as ASR's son, he will be the benefitor of the wealth as the child. Either now or with Sheetal as guarantor till Aarav becomes an adult. The job application, the return to Delhi all was done knowingly by Dhruv with Sheetal perhaps not privy to all the facts.

      Now she will let Khushi fight her battle for Khushi is the only one whom Arnav listens to so any strain in that bond can come only from that quarter. She may even flee RM to prevent a confrontation with Arnav post her faceoff with Khushi on the pretext of emergency or work leaving Aarav behind. But little Aarav is going to be the one going around creating chances for sulking Khushi and Arnav to better understand each other and make them see the others goodness when each is clouded by thier own anger or misery.

      So don't banish Aarav yet.

      Besides from hereon till after Diwali it will be be about proving the ehmiyat that Khushi has always had in ASR's life - even to Khushi herself.


      SN: ya ya this is me trying to hope that eventually sheetal will be painted grey and not black as from KC fast and hoping for a NK Sheetal jodi after NK's kadvaa chaat. Eventually NK Sheetal and Aarav leave for Australia to start afresh.

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    5. Sandy,

      read ur rambles...as usual very interesting....u r sure u don't want to try ur hand in this CT business....u really have the talent....spin a thot in so many directions...i love ur brain....I love u too!!simply out of the box thinking..

      U r also tokkoing nails on ASR's shatir dimag or the lack of it...
      I am glad about one thing and that this track is ab about HAQ...
      for a relationship that was always about HAQ right from the beginning, even when there was none and now when there is so much HAQ....i am mighty happy that it is veering around that thread....u can spin it any which way....but the underlying thot will be about this only like any real love story should be about....

      I am looking at the Satyabhama tulabharam and the devaki stories and spinning them around in my little brain...wl come back with my thots on that...hold the thot

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    6. more plausible plot:
      shital was america returned, looking for job, in financial trouble.
      shyam meets her in some (un)forunate circumstance, finds that she was arnav's classmate.. now orchestrates the whole son drama, forces shital to enact this drama...

      knowing exactly how arnav and khushi would react.. thereby driving a wedge in arhi, hoping to never let them live in peace... and if (pretty big if) they get convinced of the paternity, can get right to ASR's riches.
      what say?

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    7. J,

      If you want the blackmail angle, keep Shyam out. He will be the next track when Anjali wants to move on. More convincing that way!

      Dhruv can be the blackmailer without ever making a presence on the screen.

      Aarav - hmm for a second I wondered if he is NK's love child above and then felt ki chalo if kadva chaat between NK and Sheetal happened then he will eventually become NK's child.

      Sheetal is being blackmailed using Aarav as collateral. She needs legitimacy for Aarav but will get it only if she gets her hands on ASR's wealth. Dusht paapi is Ram a.k.a Dhruv. He is not the traditional Ram rather he is like the Mani Ratnam Ram - thoda twisted.

      Mami was the Kaikeyi who to secure the kingdom for her Bharat, Aakash, banished Dhruv. But later she accepted Arnav and even helped him out financially. So full on anger from Dhruv at Raizadas specially Arnav.

      Today with Khushi confronting Sheetal, its all going to start unravelling and soon Sheetal may flee using a business trip as excuse to avoid a confrontation with Arnav.

      Yes sheetal was grey and now looks black but still hope that they will not in jest show a woman walking into a couple's life, trying to break them and using her child in the bargain. That way the latest report need not even been have tampered but rather it is a report confirming relation but not paternity.

      Though it still begs the Qn how Arnav and Aarav can be related when they are not of the same paternal line - unless Dhruv is Mami's love child with Arnav's father. In that case Dhruv becomes like Karna and Mami is Kunti who was unable to accept her son and give him his father's name Mallik.

      But whether Mami becomes Kaikeyi or Kunti I like the idea because it is the mother angle at play and that angle of his past Arnav is yet to resolve properly.

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    8. Rekha,

      Tulaabhaaram I liked because it reminded me of Jodha Akbar - in the Diwaan- e - Aam when Jodha returns in all her glory to Akbar as Mailka-e-Hindustan.

      And Akbar is conferred with "Tehezeebon ka tu sangam hai"
      (yes Khushi's character dheela to Arnav rankles so I am still harping!!)

      And it will also be a 360 for Arnav who had taunted Khushi on that bridge that being Mrs. ASR she could not walk away from the wealth and luxury. But he will realize that it was always love that bound her to him.

      Oh there are so many ways the story could go now. Thats why I was telling J not to bring Shyam in for the moment.

      Actually if it is about identity, then I like the idea of Dhruv being the love child of Mano Mami and Arnav's dad - perhaps why Ratna killed herself (the affair she could live with, the child she could not bear). And a guilt ridden Mano Mami embraced Arnav as repentance in the hope that if she looked after him, someone will look after her own (the Dalapathi angle with the elder half brother being abandoned).

      Despite it all Mama married her and gave her respect and a name. And this love child ends up being the khoon of his dad - Nani's dialogues of her fear that the son would turn out just like his dad. (which could give some credence to the child exchange story Mami read in the newspaper and Dhruv thinks he is the rightful son whereas Arnav got the spot - like in that Amitabh, Vinod Khanna, Amjad Khan, Shammi Kapoor movie where upbringing triumphs blood, bonds of the heart win). There is also the castling to wonder about.

      I know the sketches probably said, Dhruv was Mama's son from first marriage and Mami sent him away. Hmm then it is just the son's anger but I don't understand wrecking Arnav's life using Sheetal in that case for it would be more sensible to make a mess in Akash's life.

      SN: Yep logic is not to be thoguht of but I have my fingers crossed that Arnav's past that he felt he had reckoned with comes in for a sucker punch not just in the form of an ex-gf rather as more of his father's sins visitng him.

      Sigh I wish I could join the CTs but I am doing it for free on the blog and I am sure someone stalks so well!!

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    9. sandy, you cooked the spaghetti so well.. all the straight sticks have now become a tangled mess! dhruv is AD's lovechild with mami? ROFL

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    10. J,

      You know why the thought crossed my mind and Su mentioned it above too. When you do DNA testing, for the male line it is usually a male relative by blood (ofc if the report is tampered or logic boatwa is missed then ignore all this).

      So if Dhruv is in the picture then the report should be positive for Akash and Aarav not Arnav and Aarav.

      The only way Aarav is blood related to Arnav and the test will be positive is if Dhruv is related by blood to Arnav's dad and hence Arnav.

      So
      1. report is tampered
      2. else if report is true then there is a twist from that result.

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    11. J,

      Very simply if you think Jane Austen's Sense and Sensibility,

      Elinor - Khushi
      Edward Ferrars - Arnav

      Marianne - Sheetal
      John Willoughby - Dhruv / Pranav
      Colonel Brandon - NK

      There is a misguided notion about Edward's supposed committment to a childhood sweetheart who actually rejects him for his welathier elder brother :)

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    12. sandy
      no yaar...dhruv cannot be the love child of maami and AD...her actions don't indicate any guilt at all...she is just a hello-hi bye bye...i can accept that DSR is a son of mama and first wife, well.... if u put a gun to my shoulder.

      There is some past but for me it is truly buried...i don't think they wish to go there becos they never answered why Garima went to meet AD on that day....(presumably Khushi was eight-nine years then....was Garima having an affair then or had she gone to meet him for a reason but by Arnav glossing over that detail, i will always remain in doubt- LOL)

      u can see where my brain is still stuck...maybe i need to write another story and add all these ARHI scenes there...hehehehe

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    13. SOMH,

      Its simple. If the report comes out false / tampered, Dhruv or Pranav is not related by blood to Arnav. So that love child angle with mami simply goes away.

      Heck it yaar lets just watch. :)

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    14. Haan yaar....waise ek time humne Arnav ko bhi toh Garima ka beta bana diya tha....

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    15. Sandy,

      "The only way Aarav is blood related to Arnav and the test will be positive is if Dhruv is related by blood to Arnav's dad and hence Arnav."

      Source WIKI
      'A man's patrilineal ancestry, or male-line ancestry, can be traced using the DNA on his Y chromosome (Y-DNA) through Y-STR testing. This is useful because the Y chromosome passes down almost unchanged from father to son, i.e., the non-recombining and sex-determining regions of the Y chromosome do not change.'

      You are talking about Y chromosome which is only one of the 46 chromosomes.


      'A direct maternal ancestor can be traced using mtDNA. MtDNA is passed down by the mother unchanged, to all children. A perfect match is found to another person's mtDNA test results indicates shared recent ancestry.'

      Nani is the naternal ancestor to Dhruvv, Akash and Arnav.
      They will all have traces of her genes.

      *LOL* What all we learn through IPK!

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    16. Sandy, itna tangled web ... I need time to read through it and sort it out in my head.

      Dhruv ... till we get actual confirmation of there being a new entry, I will not think about him. By the way, read somewhere that Akash and Payal are leaving, so they will be shown to take off for abroad ... probably join the missing Mamaji, am guessing.

      So I won't be surprised if there IS a new entry ... can't run the show with only Sarun, Anjali, Nani, Mami and Sheetal ... esp as Sarun are taking off to the UK for at least a week. However, I will wait to see whether the new entry is for Anjali, for NK or for Sheetal.

      My feeling is, why would they get in a romance for Sheetal, who came in as a cameo, when Anjali and NK are still there? That would make Sheetal a long term actor on the show, and I don't think she is up to it - her acting is simply not of the same calibre. In that case, Arav is unrelated, he is just a pawn.

      The other option is that Sheetal is being blackmailed, using Arav as pawn, and Arav is related to either Arnav's chachaji, or to Arnav's dad who is still alive. But again the latter is unlikely, because of the time frame. Arnav is barely old enough to be Arav's dad, forget about his younger illegitimate brother being old enough!

      Need to read through your post again and sort out further thoughts :) Will be back after dinner.



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    17. Dia

      "Arav is related to either Arnav's chachaji, or to Arnav's dad who is still alive. But again the latter is unlikely, because of the time frame. Arnav is barely old enough to be Arav's dad, forget about his younger illegitimate brother being old enough!" -- *rofl rofl*

      But knowing the CV's math and ingenuity ...i wouldn't put anything past them.....they can make a dead man the father too.(technology ke bharose!!)

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  12. People,

    Good times ahead in IPK - Confident!!

    How you ask - because I am travelling from end of this week for a little more than 2 weeks. Last time I did, we got terrace expose and that week that ended with Arnav leaving for airport.

    So yes good times ahead :)

    Rest assured that Khushi will not let everything end so easily between them this time because she has the haq. And Diwali well lets say it will be about Khushi beginning to realize her ehmiyat in his life from the day they met - a 360 for last Diwali when he said she, what happened and him holding onto her paayal meant nothing to him. On the contrary it meant everything.

    KC, Khushi in red, poolside, Ab na ja - well remember how she had dropped her paayal there when she came for the anniversary party and he was stunend to find her again just when he thought her lost and then on had begun a golden period.

    So fasten seatbelts, chuck the gloom, chin up for its golden priod time again :)

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    1. Hey Sandy,

      TU kahan ja rahi hain....aise mat kar...IPK or no IPK...

      Tere random rambles pad rahi thi and u are dropping this bomb....will u get time to look in?

      Bol jaldi bol

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    2. SOMH,

      I will try but may be infrequent and mostly no time for so much bak bak.

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    3. Sandy,
      We will miss you.
      Hanging on to that promise of 'will try to'.
      Wishing everything goes well during your trip...As usual,I am still trying to process all that heavy duty stuff you have written. *hugs*

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    4. sandy, like I do with every missing person, I'll pretend that you're doing something real awesome in your AD, and hence have no time to log into R&R..

      but i have to write here.. today when you broke out the mythology box, i really missed UJ..and then it turned to a litany: shewtha... aaru.. geetu... sama.. gargi.. anita.. madsie.. and everyone else who are part of the bak bak here..

      i'm hoping that they are all having amazing times in their AD.. and may all troubles move far away from my friends :) BIG HUG to all of you!!

      and special note to you, dia.. for providing us with this platform.. despite all the glitches in AD, taking the time to put up a post for our ramblings.. every day before the show..great big hug for you!

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    5. Huggs all :)

      J,
      Trust me I missed UJ too when I thot up the myth stuff today. It would have been fun to know her thoughts.

      Well I will be doing something awesome in my AD when I am travelling so you are not too far off :)

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    6. Sandy :((( will miss you and your awesome analyses ... come back soon! Good to know AD is awesome ... phir theek hai ... leave is granted! But try to drop in when you can ... already missing UJ, aaru, mads, gargi and so many others ... tum bhi :'(

      I have to admit your posts today have me in a spin, I'm still trying to untangle them!

      I LOVE your thoughts on a Diwali 360 ... then it was, you mean nothing to me ...
      This time ... you mean everything to me?

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  13. Yesterday, two women on SP were confronted with their husband's 'out of wedlock child'.

    Veera- the wife who was suddenly exposed to the other woman, could not believe it at first. She believed it only when her husband confirmed the truth. She locked herself up and came to a decision, unwilling to listen to his side of the story. He kept pleading, 'at least, listen me out', but she was too heartbroken.

    The other woman who was already sick, died at her doorstep and she told her husband, "When she died, she took my bharosa, she took my husband with her"- implying he was as good as dead to her now.

    Arnav tries to clarify Khushi's doubts about him and Sheetal, but she just cannot believe him. All evidence points to otherwise and she is willing to go with proof. However, she has had the time to process this over days now, is that why her reaction just ended in a few sobs?

    I felt the direction could have been better there ...or may be there is more to come today?

    I feel K will not react the same way as the wife in Veera- she might be willing to forgive and will not let go. All those sily nightmares she had, esp the one in the kitchen indicates that she will hang on.

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    1. Su,

      thats the whole point we discussed and one of the reasons why i was not willing to make this about only trust...i don't the thinking of teh CVs...but the very fact that K was debating without completely breaking down meant to me that she is not talking about trust...she is talking about a possibility...she is one who has also weathered storms, she is one who knows that happiness for her has been ephemeral always..it has been snatched from her on many occasions...she is never the breakdown person, but yes, life's blows can pull u down at some point..and being human, a last straw can break a camel's back......


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    2. Rekh,
      Don't forget that this is the girl who was willing to give up her life so that Arnav can live peacefully with Lavanya. That was when she was barely aware of her feelings for him and totally unaware of his for her. You can argue that the blow will be harder now. For me the point is, she loved him then. She loves him even more now and MORE IMPORTANTLY she knows he loves her like mad.

      Dusht aurat will not break her, I am sure of that.
      And a love child will not make her hate Arnav, it might be a constant thorn, but her love is bigger than all that- she will embrace any child of his. The problem will be in getting him to accept it, I feel.

      The very fact that she has been fearing this all this while, has had nightmares on it so often, SHE MUST BE RELIEVED that the truth is out at last. You know, kind of like living with the fear that a bomb might explode any time. Now that it has exploded, she will find ways to live with it...she is a strong girl.

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    3. Su,

      I have already said that Khushi will believe Arnav when all the proofs will be against him...for me that is point of the track...becos its simple for me..
      I have a fear of say flying, i will get over that only when i fly..
      in a kind of an anology.....Khushi fears losing Arnav but it that very thing that will help her get over that fear....

      MY romantic notion...wrapped in some practicality...

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    4. Hmmn..
      So are you saying that Aarav is really not his son?
      I believe that too.

      On her believing him without proof,... since she approached Sheetal with the result and will ask ASR to accept Aarav as his child , going by spoiler:

      What will make her believe him when so far, she has gone for the proof thing?
      I mean he has been nice, tried to explain, made it very clear and she still goes by the DNA test. So, what will make her trust him now?

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    5. Rekh,
      ROFL.
      Seriously!
      I read that ' tera mera MU 'reply above only now.
      Chalo, at least we agree on one thing.
      THE KID IS NOT HIS.

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    6. BTW,
      I love your romantic notion. I'll be very happy if they bring her to that point...but I don't know if she will break down..So, I don't know how.

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    7. Su,
      The makers made a huge mistake when they brought up the DNA report...frankly its a pandora's box..they butchered the character with that....unless u want to say that yes, Khushi lacks trust...(believe me, that is not an easy thing to say even for the makers...becos that is not how they have presented K so far). Now having gone that route, they need to address it..hain na? the only way they can redeem K from here on is to make her believe Arnav when it actually matters.or atleast show why she took this position and what she will do to rectify it....i don't know how....

      To me this is just the track being laid...it is not how it will play out....and it can play out in diff ways...i also don't know abot the patience of the viewers (read largely online) considering there is the sword of damocles hanging on their head....


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    8. Su,
      her breaking down is not so important....i saw that earlier at the start of the track before hey made it about DNA and all that...

      at that point, Arnav's knowledge of K's doubts was not in the picture so i presumed that she has a breakdown fearing the worst but it went along diff lines....so now i am not talking of breakdown but it can still happen if Arnav does some playacting here which gives Khushi the creeps but also makes her aware of Arnav's real intention(like the hut scene) the PH source has quoted a new post giving some hints about the track.
      http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=3274521

      I am not sure of which route this track will take...but i see possibilities for both of my shiddats

      1)Khushi's breakdown (i am not a sadist..its more like digging deeper for higher ground....u confront ur worst fears and then come up to fill urself with greater conviction)....i had notions of arnav nursing her thru this phase..
      2)Khushi's belief when she fights her for what she truly believes his hers....The phase when all is against him....it can play out in a subtle manner or in a cliched manner....being an ardhangini in the true sense of the word

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    9. Rekha,

      Nahi not a pandora's box. It will be a nice contrast between Anjali and Khushi's faith.

      Anjali doubted and chose to ignore. Khushi doubted and chose to do something constructive to disprove herself. SHe wished her nightmare would not come true.

      Her saying - shaayad aapko yaad nahi hai is her shield. I mean she has at no point said Arnav hid from her about Aarav rather it will be about how he has the right to know about Aarav.

      SN: I was so happy with the financial independence thing ydya - recalled my fiza weave - a young bird eager to fly yet when given teh freedom fears it :)

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    10. I agree sandy, and i if u see, i have been a champion of Khushi on this matter...There was all the reason for her to snoop...and I said categorically, they can't make it an issue of trust which they would have if the report was negative...
      and plain and simple why i am happy that the report is positive..

      I never can accept that K would not trust Arnav if it was simply was only about trust...TO her it is about the possibility...thats all..

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    11. rekha, that post you linked to was brilliant.
      and honestly, reading the post linked inside that post.. suddenly made the whole track clear.

      now to wait and see if the screenplay matches expectations.

      (today, when i saw poori and aloo on khuhsi's plate, and wondering the significance of eating outside the dining area, it suddenly struck that it might be some symbolism. from poori kumari and aloo kumar who were supposed to be payash's kids, to the mathuraloo that arnav had asked for, on khushi's birthday.. that khushi offered to make for arnav everyday.. to the pooris that arnav ate to manao bua-ji.. the two puris and aloo on her plate, that she left uneaten, suddenly seems significant.)

      Devi Maiyya who sees everything, i want a dialogue this week that includes the word "spaghetti". SHIDDAT!

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    12. Rekha,

      You are jostling with trust think about this: Khushi told Arnav after guest hosue that she was fine not because of him but despite him.

      We all oohed and aahed that day but think, had Arnav not been an honourable man, had he not rushed there to check and look for her, would she have been alive.

      Yes had she died it would have been his mitake and he sent her there yes but he did not know he was endangering her life when he sent her.

      Today Khushi won the KC bet. At her weakest, in the last tough moments when she had started hallucinating food, Arnav distracted her with some intimacy some slow dancing and took her mind off the fact that she was fasting and she was hungry.

      "Main tumhaare ishaaron par naa sahi par tumhaare saath toh naacha". He has always let her win any bets between them, gone to the extent of helping her win because the win guaranteed her smile and he could always do anything for that one smile on her face. That is why her tears affected him so much.

      CASTLING:
      By rule you cannot use the castle move when your king is in check. Aarav's was in check and he used the move. Arnav let it slide because he did not mind Aarav winning. It brought a smile to Aarav's face. It made a child smile when he is very depressed about not being able to meet his father. (much like the girl at the temple who was worried for her father and he got her pigeons).

      On the BB court when Mami brought up the no touching rule, Arnav managed it then too because he did not want to detract the joy of Aarav having made the winning shot. he should righfully not have carried Aarav up but he wanted to see the child smile.

      For a man who lived 14 years in darkness because of his father's deeds and lack of loce seeing happiness on a fatherless child's face brings some sukoon.

      THINK:
      NK specifically asked Khushi for water knowing she was going to the kitchen and soon after the man came to deliver the DNA report to Khushi.

      NK was the one who gave Khushi the idea in the first place.

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    13. J,

      Since you brought up uneaten, poorly eaten poori and aaloo, on Khushi's b'day why did Khushi stop - because NK almost let slip that it was Arnav's doing. Else she would have eaten.

      Again NK!

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    14. These PH guys have great ideas.....its the medium and the pressures of the medium that perhaps got to them..

      I was sold on Gul's vision just when i saw the promos of this serial..and i still believe they could have been mule-headed about it and shown whatever they wanted.

      Just wish they had the conviction in their vision to convince the stakeholders and wish the stakeholders had the foresight to bear it out...but ofc somethings could still not have been controlled...so here's hoping for some sanity to prevail within this madness...

      sandy, i am not jostling with the trust point...I am saying K trusts him..there is no issue there but naturally when u trust, u think there is no proviso attached to it....else the report would have been negative...but in this case, there is one and i am presuming there is a reason for that....even if it might be to tell K that she needs to introspect and/or tell arnav that something is wrong somewhere...

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    15. sandy, coupled with your post, nishi's track becomes more clear..

      and castling is indeed illegal if the king is in check.. that is why there was a pause ..." castling.. hmm.. all right big guy, you beat me. " arnav cares more for the boy's happiness than following the rules. and that itself is a big indication of the track to come..

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    16. BB match.. it was declared clearly, "no touching anyone of the opposing team" hence arnav lifting aarav was not a foul.
      there too, refree was NK :D

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    17. HEHEHE NK KI TOH NIKAL PADI!!

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    18. NK has indeed been the sutradhar on many occasions.....

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    19. Rekh,
      That was A GREAT LINK. THANX A LOT.
      Oh, you are back to singing praises of the PH.
      Haaye, i hope this means IPK is truly back on track.

      That post, who is the girl who writes it?
      These people absolutely love riddles, don't they?

      Sandy,
      I want to hug you for the analysis here. BRILLIANT!

      J,
      Confused about spaghetti, if it comes up I'll demand an explanation from you. Aloo poori, mathura poori...I can see all of you are in sync here. Nice discussions, I am a little lost and hungry.

      On Nishi's post:
      Who is player 4 and 5?
      Player 4: The Joker: I have always thought Shyam is a joker, but you all are talking about NK?

      Also, 'Will he unite the two, knowingly or unknowingly?': Shyam ALWAYS does that.

      Player 5:
      The smallest,
      Marks the beginning of the game and hopefully the end too.
      The track started with K meeting Aarav. So he is the end too? The Chhota packet.

      OK, TBH ,the post really did not help me much other than for the fact that K will be sambhaalofied by Arnav, which we already knew. My Q is 'how' and I guess the answer is 'wait and watch'.

      Sigh...I am....eagerly.



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    20. su,

      singing praises...not really...just giving credit where it was due...would have sung paeans if they had shown their real story...and if they can still pull it off from here....i will definitely sing praises, i never feel queasy about such things...becos i have no illusions about my creativity.

      I just buy-in what appeals to me and it doesn't have to be what i expect...becos i don't really have the creativity to spin scenarios...i take a broad aspect in a track and comment on it and then move to the brass tacks...

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    21. Rekh,
      I wonder why they give out such inpressive spoilers. Doesn't it raise our expectations a lot. I loved the way the post was written, it is a puzzle to be solved. When the story unfolds, I hope I can connect to the post and not go WT>
      I mean, what really surprises me is that the writer knows the story might get changed,yet she has given a broad outline of the track...aren't they being very brave considering how they had to apologise about the remarriage?

      I hope things work out for them, they deserve it.

      Also can't stop wondering how the same PH can dish out crap like QH. There is something very wrong with that serial. I feel it is like an experiment or something.

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    22. I would look at it like this Su,
      If i was the PH, i should know by that the online audience has a nuisance value (even if they do have their gud days)...they can create problems out of nothing..and the stakeholders can create pressure to make them toe the line, as it were....
      so, what do i do?
      I would put snippets their way...give it some credibility and then work on the track as i want...the risk the PH runs here is that there is a chance of over-exposure causing some sting out of the tale when the track actually runs...but still is a better strategy to keep the ranters at bay...

      do u remember when zee girl was giving out spoilers, she would also do this jalebi thing...but she built the edifice of atoot vishwas thru her spoilers...i remember that very well...in a veiled way, she was able to convince the ranters that all will be ok, u have to be patient...this is why blah blah blah

      Unfortunately for the PH, my sense is that the current situation may be fluid so they are not able to replcate what they did before.



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    23. Just trying to catch up with the discussions ...

      The PH lady's spoiler ... they have another month to play with the track till the TRP's come out, and without the pressure of weekly TRP's they might decide to stick with the broad outline. I'm sure they have some way of getting feedback even during this time, online forums are one way, so they're not completely shooting in the dark.

      Sandy ... castling ... from what I got online (Google baba ki jai) isn't castling a purely defensive move? So Arav couldn't have done a check mate in the same move anyway. But your point is more valid, it was an invalid move because his king was in check ... yet Arnav gave him the match, because he's a kid. Quite natural ... anyone playing with a child would give them that much leeway.

      Same with the BB match ... in a regular match, same team notwithstanding, you can't lift a player on your shoulder to score a basket. So that was only to make Arav happy again.

      Going back to the earlier posts on this thread ... why did Khushi not break down more? Simple ... she was expecting this ... she was already mentally prepared, thinking about it, wondering ... it wasn't a bolt from the blue.

      Compare Anjali's reactions after the first Shyam showdown and after the second ... ok, the second was meant to be the final one but even then, from a story standpoint ... WHY was she so shattered and disbelieving the first time, and why did she accept it so quickly the second time? Because the first time was a complete shock, out of the blue, she had no reason to suspect Shyam of anything remotely resembling infidelity ... she wasn't given proof, just told to accept it ... she couldn't.

      The second showdown, Anjali already had the experience of the first showdown and all the accusations, she had seen her family's reactions and knew they all were anti-Shyam, it was her own blinders, that's all ... it wasn't that she hadn't seen the truth, it was that she chose to remain blind. So mentally she was prepared for the truth ...

      Khushi is already at that stage of being mentally prepared for the truth ... she's taken enough time to come to terms with it if she needs to ... she's already thinking in terms of 'Poor Arav, what's his fault in all this ...?' It's as though she has already accepted that her worst fears are coming true ... hence the lack of breakdown ...

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    24. contd ... random thoughts ...

      Khushi had learned through bitter experience with Shyam to not take anything at face value, to not trust. Actually Khushi was always this way ... she didn't trust blindly as much as give benefit of doubt ... even with Shyam. Buaji trusted blindly, Khushi and Payal took much longer to get comfortable around him.
      Same with Sheetal, she was wary from the moment Arnav admitted to his fling ... but she continued giving benefit of doubt to Sheetal ...

      With Shyam, Khushi started getting suspicious, his phone calls. mention of Rani Sahiba ... and finally she forced the terrace confrontation - she started suspecting, kept chiding herself, no, it can't be ... then when it got too much, she went looking for Shyam to confirm her suspicions.

      She's working the same way with Sheetal ... getting suspicious, keeping her eyes and ears open, moving to confirm her suspicions ... and once she has, she moves to confront immediately.

      The difference ... she should trust Arnav's word.

      The way I look at it now - in hindsight, after watching Sheetal's antics on KC - I don't think this is about trust ... if she trusted Arnav's word over all these things she has seen, I would call her as big a fool as Anjali ... it's not Arnav she doesn't trust, it's Sheetal. Sheetal is hiding something, that much is crystal clear.
      Since Khushi has not seen or heard of any Dhruv or any other R brother, she cant be blamed for not thinking of him. Akash has shown no sign of recognition, neither has NK. Arnav has freely admitted to knowing Sheetal earlier, having a fling with her.

      Obviousy her first thoughts will be towards Arnav ... can Sheetal be hiding something ... not only from Khushi, but from ARNAV as well?

      So Sheetal can be grey if she is genuinely trying to hide Arav's parentage ... whoever it is, Arnav, Akash, Dhurv or another Raizada/Malik ...

      And she is black if she is using Arav for only her only purpose ... which is to win Arnav back. If she is, she's gone a funny way around it ... by only raising Khushi's suspicions, and nobody else's ... forget the collective blindness of the R family ... and by not making any obvious plays to get Arnav's interest or his sympathy for herself ... only for Arav. Is that because she's seen that she herself has no chance as Arnav is very clearly besotted with his wife?
      (Am ignoring the fact that till the ME on Sat, we didn't see much of Arnav being besotted ... he was equally casual with Sheetal and Khushi!)

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