Friday, April 6, 2012

6/4 -225 ... Missing You

 6th April Friday

Making post early as am in hospital tonight. Please girls, do discuss - this is my stress buster! Will catch up tomorrow.

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Thanks all for your wishes and prayers ... he needs them all.
I did catch the episode on a very fuzzy tv in hospital late last night ... am happy with the way it's going ... and for once am happy it's the weekend! Hope to be back soon with my vishesh tippani ... till then, keep it going, girls ... loved reading everyone's takes and discussions.

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Don't have time for a detailed write up ... maybe tonight!
"Missing You" is for both Arnav and Khushi - Khushi missing the old Arnav, the Arnav whom she felt cared for her, took care of her, was there for her whenever she needed him ... the love she felt from him, the love she sees in him for his sister ...

And Arnav, of course, missing Khushi ... the physical presence, the ever-present smile, the laughter, the annoying habits, the fights ... and the love ...

106 comments:

  1. hope everything is fine, diya! My best wishes to your dad! :)

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    1. hospital, bystander.. good luck! maybe i'm too late with my wishes because its almost morning there as I type this. but hope your dad feels better very soon. as mona said, your whole gang is praying for you guys!

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  2. Hey dia Hope everything is fine! Best wishes to your dad!

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  3. Dia,

    Hope your dad's recovery is on track! Wishing him a speedy recovery and an early return home.

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  4. Dia,

    Take care ..... Wish your dad a speedy recovery :)

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  5. @ Dia... Warmest wishes to your whole family... Take care...

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  6. Hey Dia, hang in there - your dad shall recover soon inshallah - after all your whole gang is praying from him! - take care

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  7. Dia - take care and wish your Father a speedy recovery.

    As the rest of us in Dia's virtual coffee shop complained about the ring-a-roses storyline after yesterday's epi.......check out the spoiler news on India FOrums..............there is light at the end of the tunnel...........

    Aki

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  8. Dia- sincerest wishes that your father gets well soon.

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  9. Total haaaayyyyeeee!! Episode....

    This is what we're talking about CV's:-) keep this up!!!

    Emotional, sweet and pulled at your heart strings just right... Pls pls pls don't degenerate into slapstick comedy keep this track going...

    Loved ASR today- perfectly in character...
    Khushi- I felt like giving her a hug...she's so heartbroken poor thing...
    Music- one of the highlights of IPK in my opinion. Today with so many solo ASR scenes it really shone through.

    Basically loved the episode... Wish they hadn't already decided to follow the track with baccha party...

    Wished she'd gone to maika for sometime and Arnav had insisted she come back and nani telling him off- she's allowed to go home bitwa... And finally him just getting annoyed and going an getting her back telling her off for leaving without telling him.

    SN: did not like his green sweater...

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  10. Dia ...... As per your wish ..... Quick update on the epi

    Bad news ...... Less of Sanaya

    Good news ...... Very good without editing mistake or blooper epi with lots of shiddat come true
    1. Bitiya give pati silent treatment
    2. Bitiya has started taking care of pati's essential
    3. Bitwa missing biwi's glaring absence
    4. Bitwa having flashback of nautanki biwi's moments when she placed her mark in their room .... Like SK's poster , stars , while he was in the recliner .... How fews days back she said "aap ka gamand jal raha hai"
    5. Dabba business I guess came to an end ...will have to rewatch .... He said her to do something dang ka ..... I guess hence the kids
    6. Anjali cleared yesterdays MU ..... Bitwa was in all sorry mood but biwi's anger got reciprocated .... No fights though
    7. Di-Chote effect back in action
    8. Snake ready for next....... Still with file ....dint understand clrealy
    9. Oh and maybe I'm wrong but Payaliya seemed a bit tough infront of sasu maa

    Happy after a long long time ..... Not trying to convince myself happy but actually felt good

    Hope everythings shaping up good at your end ..... A big warm hug !!!! :)

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    1. Oh and very good use of BG scores and RV too ..... Though nanoseconds was good

      Hope editor ji keep it this way and not get back to his talent of 2 min pop-corn ishtyle

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  11. Dia - Wishing your Dad a very speedy recovery Our thoughts are with you and your family.

    Coming to the episode, finally an episode that I'll rewatch several times. Yes, no SI but loads of BS. But really really endearing scenes. I've had this wish for a long time about KKG giving him the silent treatment and also disappearing so Bitwa starts missing her. We got so many of our shiddats checked off today. This kind of episode gives me hope that the IPK CVs can still deliver if they put their hears into it.
    Gargi/Sama - You are correct, no choppy editing, no big bloopers. This was so much better tan what we say for the last few weeks.
    Will re-watch tonight and really looking forward to it.

    Bye

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  12. A total Hayeee Episdoe, What i loved is one yesterday's MU getting sloved.
    Loved shiddats getting granted
    1. Time being No more MU.
    2. TF in action, Bitwa you better connect the dots later.
    3. Bitwa self agreeing his mistake.
    4.Best is bitiya giving him Silent treatment but taking care of his things.
    5. Thank you for giving into Bitwa's monologues at last. yep and the right ones.
    6. Expression completed.
    7. Surprise Bitwa already missing his wife (loved it but found little abrupt, but can ignore)
    8. Dabba service closed,and Chilar party start!!
    9. Nani still in loop with Arhi.
    10. Good BG scores at right place with right time length.

    what I loved was K watching Bro-sis and think how can this guy be so different- for one he is all love, while for other its all hate. - what i liked here is the equation she gives herself unknowingly. She placed herself in par with Anjali.
    The fast pace of days moving.
    Will this pace cover the next four months logically !!
    Although i wish there were no FB's it would have taken the missing part to next level, but didnt harm so ok with them.
    Now with the way these MU are getting clear without any interaction btn Arhi and TF as usual ignoring the hints MU will be cleared soon, IF AND ONLY IF The CV's keep this pace and intensity in emotions and take the story forward without any slapstick comedy.
    And In the end will thank CVs well done Guys!!. IPK is back with last 2 episdoes. So please maintain this!!!

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    1. One more point noteworthy
      When Bitwa is searching her, he first checks the poolside and calls Khushi.
      Next was when he wakes up next morning and doesn't find K on the bed, and bed unused, he first checks for poolside with the hope of she being there!Hayee and the chimes waking him.

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  13. dont worry Dia, our best wishes are with you, your Father will recover soon...

    feel good episode...glad that Anji cleared the MU... but he still felt that kkg shud've refused to go with TF... bitwa, u think she is in cahoots with TF, then why do u think that she shud've refused.. please make-up ur mind.. (i mean steer it in the +ve direction) wonder if he will think the same when the truth is out...why didnt u refuse to get angaged to him :D

    he asked her to handover the dabba service to shukla, wanted her to do something dhang ka and also didnt want to see her the whole day...that means dabba business is gone....hence the tutorials....

    loved the way he was missing her.... but she is too heart-broken and when she comes to know what he thought of her, she will be devastated....

    again no precap......did u guys read the spoilers..... MU will be cleared by the end of 6 months...and he will hurt her more so that his repentance is more, so gals, get ready for more heart ache...

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    1. the spoiler really spoilt my mood - 6 more months - well in ipk land, but still! uff - have already written about this point but still - ufff!!!!
      and yes agree with you Geetanjali - if ODB believes ODG is in cahoots with RRR, why will she not go?? maybe coz you know she cant be cahoots with the reptile but of course tum maney waley kahan ho!!

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    2. geets, he said she COULD have refused... means he believes that she accepted because she wanted to go with TF.. spend time with RRR away from the family's eye. (dettol rinse)

      good that they gave spoiler, warning that there will be more heartache, because if the warning did not come, i'm sure many more viewers would have dropped off after one more week of the MU melodrama.

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  14. hey dia mywarm wishes to your dad!dont worry he will get better!

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  15. Shyaam was good today!! And Payal didn't turn on the waterworks once throughout her 3 minute cameo!!

    But loved the episode because of ....

    The scene where Khushi is wistfully watching Arnav fuss over Di.

    The scene where he goes on about how much he dislikes her and everything about her and she silently tears up facing the other way...

    The scene where bitwa can't get biwi out of his mind and remembers all her silly things

    The fact that the first thing he did when he woke up was to look to her side of the bed

    How he snaps at OP for immediately knowing he wants Khushi Bhabhi...

    The way he snaps at Aman for asking about Khushi Bhabhi- aww!!

    His line 'I don't know why I even listen to you people and your emotional drama' and then promptly falls in line with nani's emotional drama... Hahaha

    And finally he comes home and can think of only one person he wants to see... His wife... Where is she???- very sweet episode....well worth the second watch Sahana... Definitely will rematch when I can:-D

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  16. Love the silence in today's episode. It was much needed after the chaos of the fancy dress competition.

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  17. Okay I know I'm going to sound nuts but I have to say this... Why the fake CK sweatshirt:-(.... Wholesale rugby sweaters are better than copies:-(

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    1. ek complain toh banta hai boss :D :D

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    2. @ Gargi - yet again - agree agree & agree - and that too a very bad green! plus the horrid shiny brown ASR suit is back :(

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    3. and also Gargi - did you notice the really bad wallet - button style! that too for a fashion industry guy!!!

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    4. arey girls...why are u discussing the sweatshirt and wallet when we have such a horrendous bathroom! :P really, either the CVs have an extremely low budget and dont care abt such things (in which case they should please let the actors bring in their personal stuff..I can bet barun will have a better wallet than the one shown today! :P).. OR they want to show how unimpressionable this guy is when it comes to material things.. :P

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    5. Yes Mona the moment I saw that wallet I was like * head bang* bet they found some random wallet where they could get the key to pop out:-(

      Hehehe madsie I can't help it... You put a person like ASR in fake CK it really bums me out... Somehow the bathroom I've made my peace with... Suppressed memories of that ridiculous week... But clothes and accessories have to be good for ASR If no one else:-(

      Hehehe but that's just me... Light lo mujhe... I won't be happy till I get ASR outta those shiny shirts and into some normal cotton blends:-)

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    6. @ sandy ... I saw EHM again today... Can't follow the show not at all my types but Wanted to see The lawye chap again:-)... He's got a really nice dress sense... Smart and minimal... Me liking... Can he make a cameo in IPK? Hehehe

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    7. but Mads - all this is imp (including the bathroom - hence mt narazgi at it all)
      - its all part of the persona, the character - our guy is this immaculate, suave businessman, so he has to look the part, i mean if he has to be a Remington Steel - he has to have the accessories to match!
      (plus the right clothes and hair - and right length of stubble) make ODB look dreamy!)

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    8. Gargs,

      Thoughts of an affair dscarded but now you are thinking of a One Night Stand..hmm!!;)

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  18. gargi, after your post and before watching the episode - i though ODG had gone to her maika! :D

    Good episode - brought home the point real well - without her - his house (and life) was like a tomb, empty and lonely!

    Happy with -
    - he tried to apologize (going so far as to say - if you had just told me.... i would not have lost my temper?)
    - ODG giving him the silent treatment - aawww she looked so sad :(
    - him trying to act as if he does not care for her - does not want to see her in his office - but in the very next breath says - do something meaningful with your life (me likee - does not want the perfect ghar ki quiet bahu type girl - no gopi vahus for him)
    - liked how the poor boy knows he is being blatantly emotionally blackmailed and yet gives in every time!
    - no focus on 'his realization' any more - he knows, God knows we know - he is nuts about his wife - it was all focused at him missing her - not realizing his feelings her for - a subtle change and a good one

    Me not like:
    - he comes home, works reads a book and goes off to sleep - how about asking where she is - (missed her yes but did not make any moves to call/locate her?) - ps - does no one in this house have a normal routine - how about dinner folks? and that too for a diabetic!
    - next day goes to office - comes back - misses her but again - no calls not asking nani etc about her

    SN
    - felt bad for the poor boy - am sure he will get a bad back with all this sleeping on the lounger!
    - no wonder the magic of the poolside has gone - ODG has really reduced it from a magical place to a dhobi ghat - and in ipk narnia land she does not even change so often!
    - the horrid ASR brown suit is back
    - the golden curtains from the fancy dress show are being recycled
    - finally really hope i am wrong about my prediction as posted on yesterdays post!

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    1. mona, looked like he was working on his laptop after dinner..at the poolside. and he called up Di to remind her to take meds.. and she was staying over.. where?

      he was just about to shout khushee when nani came and asked him.. and he said no.. then he cannot shout, right? so he asked the duplicate HP. and then said, i'll find her myself.

      honestly i had to watch the subtitles to understand half the script!

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    2. Oh i agree Jaya - noted all that you pointed out - its just that he used go wild looking for her at the drop of a hat - and now no calls even in 2 days = they did show him trying to call someone but it should have been clearer
      but like i said = liked the episode and the shift to him missing her and finding it so empty without her :D

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    3. Those golden curtains were in RM too (in the scene where Khushi wears the bangles gifted by Arnav and he secretly admires her from behind the golden curtains). So I guess they just packed up the curtains with the rods for the fancy dress competition and brought them back after the show. No wonder the rods hung so precariously and fell on poor Arnav.

      Opti

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    4. haha true - well observed!

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  19. will come to discussing the epi later on...but first girls, have a look at this - http://india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=2919679 a very very interesting topic! :) do put in ur views either here or on the topic itself..I thought of putting them here once I finish discussing the epi..

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    1. hhuumm! interesting - but i for one never took ASR as a rake - yes La was his girlfriend but she was brought in more as a counter to nani than any other reason. even when he married ODG - he was furious - could have actually told ODG you will live in with me - but he did not - went to a mandir and got married (short and brusque version - but wedding none the less!)And finally it has always been shown that he was too busy building an empire and staying away from 'love'!

      to the point do (reformed) rakes make good husbands? don't know - can they give up the pleasure of freedom? and if they can - can the wife live in peace without being conscious all athe time (looking over her should so to speak?

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  20. hey gals, am out of tv time umtil after easter.. but can sneak in some 'net time, right? so had to come and see how the episode was..

    I loved yesterday's episode..just saw it now.. don't know why everyone was bashing it.. (well, I'm not tense because i have today's epi watch right now, so i'm okay with it :)

    today's epi, though, some things did not gel.

    firstly, who is the new butler? no proper introduction, not even his name? every other *.praksh would call ASR arnav babu, this one calls him bhaiyya, and calls her bhabhi? kya - lafda kya hain yaar?

    secondly, look how deeply bitiya was hurt yesterday... and now she sees that he was telling the truth.. " i love many people.. but i hate you!" his love for his di is so evident.. and his hate for her is equally clear... poor girl.. her heart breaks again.

    Di's meds.. why does dizziness medication look like acidity medication? and it was an unopened packet..

    (rant : why are all the meds in a common box? same question as last meds fiasco!)

    loved how soft his voice was when he almost apologizes to ODB.. gosh he's in love with her, innit?

    loved how so effortlessly his expression turned to hate.. "she must have WANTED to go with sham" (hey, he stopped saying jeejaji)

    and did you guys see.. he has started taking chest breaths like khushi :D (CVs, dont repeat it!)

    sham.. for once, nowhere near bitiya. thank you!

    ROTFL at nautanki's walkout. loved it!

    "emotional drama".. hmm barun's real wallet? last day the wallet did not seem to have a button.. and btw, last day it was HP who kept the file in ODB's locker.. so how can the key be in ODB's wallet? well, okay he keeps it safe now that at last there is something worth keeping in the locker. gosh! you people! won't let a girl question in peace!

    p.s. the whole wallet scene.. MIG

    the newly-ex-dhobi ghat.. oh no, the butler's name is hari prakash! :( means my fav actor in the whole show is gone?? what will lakshmi do?)no wonder she is now hanging out with bitiya!

    ooh, ASR with his tie.. first go, I was concentrating on the dialogue.. but second pass, awww.. (and yes, I needed to get english subtitles to understand some of his speech. Barun, ENUNCIATE!)

    but then, he gives such jibes that she gets so deeply hurt! he is talking in the tom n jerry style, expecting the nok jhok.. he does not realize that she reached her limit yesterday.. and reinforced it today... so none of these words are gonna get a joking response.

    khushi is not giving him silent treatment to punish him, it is her immense hurt and feeling of unworthiness (that he heaps on her) that made her withdraw from his life. ASR does not realize that khushi will not bounce back every time.. that she, too has some hard limits.

    and now, after a month of living together, it is only normal that he misses her presence.. yet he doesn't know that he did anything out of the ordinary. he does not know that she has decided to stay away from him.

    p.s. aww that couch must be so uncomfortable to sleep in! and who re-redecorated his room? good eye.. lots of things that were missing in the previous shots of the room reappeared.. the poster, the big street picture... btw why do the pictures on the far wall keep changing every day? okay i know.. i wont ask.

    loved the background score after the stars dialogueFB. so perfect there.

    and now, ODG has bacha party from 7 to 8pm? I like it. she gets to play her childish scenes and will not affect the serious track running parallel... or will ASR kick them out when he finds them?

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    1. Jaya, just caught up on Thurs epi. Liked it too.

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  21. I wish that poster would disappear its just too juvenile:-(

    I think it's 7-9 p.m. ....although why on earth she would babysit/ take class at night rather than any 2 hour slot during the day beats me...:-)

    I kind of liked new HP calling them Bhaiya and Bhabhi... More normal na?

    'laxmi hanging out with bitya'- ROFL

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    1. it was 7 to 9
      and it could be coz ODG wants to be busy during the time ODB is expected to be home! (but why parents send their kids so late - i am yet to understand that!)

      And Jaya totally agree with you - ODG is giving the silent treatment coz she is sssoo hurt - not to teach him a lesson - its she who has really reached her limit
      And ODG is back in the tom and jerry mode without realizing that ODG is really hurting (so like actual men!) - hope this MU gets over soon - cant have ODG sad for 6 months (nor do i want the CVs to bring in juvenile sense to lighten her mood followed by many smaller MUs and fighting scenes)!

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  22. Dia, hope ur father gets well soon...take care and all the best!! will catch up comments on ipk when i get back....

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    1. rekha i am glad my hello hi bye bye prediction for u at least came true :)

      IPK predictions usually go phhhuuussss

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  23. Why was Bitwa not concerned about Bitiya's whereabouts at night? He just remarked about how peaceful it is without her, shrugged his shoulder, read a book and fell asleep???????????? DIrectorial faux pas??????????? I understand that they want to show how her absence affects him, so .......... shouldn't they at least complete it.......

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    1. precisely my point (noted above!) - ok so he assumed she slept late and got up early- but how come he slept through the night and did not get up just to check?? (one would normally do so) - also he did not even call all day!!!

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  24. I am going to add a heart felt shiddat - want the CVs to read though Dia's posts - specially the ones where she writes (with dialogues!) what the leads are going through (one such example - the post in Dec - Breakup Break down and next few - where ODG find out the truth about RRR and how ODB feels then!) - if ODB (when ever he confesses!) says those dialogues - that is at some point tells his lady love of how he felt - she is his, for eternity - no doubt about it :D

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  25. Fri – Apr 6th - Part 1

    “Kahin Na Suokkon Aaya, Kahin Na Karaar Aaya,
    Jabse mujhe tumpe pyaar aaya”

    Scene opens with Arnav fussing over Anjali and Khushi wondering how one person can be so different to 2 people. I hope someday soon she will realize how she has always been very different with TF and Arnav even when they have done the same things to her.

    Khushi’s “Apni di ke liye itna pyaar, itni phikar aur humaare liye itni nafrat” (Someday soon Khushi should think of this is in conjunction with Arnav’s outburst of just because I hate you does not mean I hate the whole world. Then the hurt, her attempt to destroy lives will all make sense in a blink).

    Arnav spots a new medication and confronts Anjali who reveals she was dizzy and she sent Khushi with TF to get medicine. Also that knowing Arnav would panic, she told them not to tell him. Now their being together, Anjali covering for Khushi and Khushi deflecting his Q about her whereabouts all make sense to him. And he realizes that despite seeing and hearing it all he still made a wrong conclusion. He realizes his anger and outburst from the previous evening were all misplaced. It also told Arnav that Khushi kept her promises. (She honoured Anjali’s wish to not tell Arnav similarly she will never break her promise to him to tell another soul the truth of this marriage)

    When Arnav spotted Khushi walking up, reminded me of a happier day when he sees her walking up and decided to tell her his heartfelt feelings. Then they were both happy whereas today they are both hurting.

    Arnav calls out to Khushi and lets her know he now knows where she was last evening. Very lovingly he tells her “She could’ve just told him. If she had told him where she went then he wouldn’t (have yelled at her unnecessarily). But would he have believed her? Khushi refuses to soften to this polite and caring person before her (because she now knows that the angry person will always be back to hurt her. Bracing herself for anger is better than allowing herself to open up to emotions and be doubly hurt by the anger). Khsuhsi’ caustic reply on how she need not tell him anything hurts his ego and he immediately reverts to how she could have refused to go with TF though Di asked her to get medicines. If yday her concern for Anjali made the brother in Arnav angry, today it was pure jealousy that makes Arnav angry.

    The raksha dhaaga TF left back in ArHi room was found by the servant and returned to Anjali (the servant again witnesses this lost and find) and Anji wrongly assumes it fell when she found TF in that room a few days before the competition. Then another raksha dhaaga enters the picture, Though bought by TF, it was passed on to Nani who seemed to be DM’s doot in that scene. Tf chooses to give this through Nani instead of Anjali though later he evokes her name too. Hmm, did TF fear that his increased interest in Arnav’s purse may set Anjali wondering about his remark on property papers the other day?
    Seeing TF against the diya in these scenes made me think of a pre-holi scene where in Anji-TF room he was shown against the diya in DM’s presence. Today again they were all in DM’s presence.
    Nani seems to have become DM’s apostle within RM. Nani is still charmed by TF’s concern. But she does not dismiss his talks. She jousts with him til he tells her what he wants. And her memory is not weak. There may come a day when she will recall he had bought that thread for Arnav but not for Anjali, who is carrying their baby and is a big believer. For now, DM seems to have decided to accord her protection to Arnav too while it seems to have been temporarily withdrawn from TF.

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  26. Fri - 6th Apr - Part 2

    Arnav Nani conversation was very adorable. It seems to have started with the fancy dress and continues today. Both are equally stubborn, practical and love and care for each other a lot. Both have shouldered life’s burdens and carry the scars in their heart from these wars. And like he gave in to wearing the Ranjha costume, Arnav gives in to keeping the raksha dhaaga too.
    Nani made a jibe about people changing over time – TF seems to have changed for the worse and is Arnav changing for the better?

    TF’s talk of Anji does not even bring a wrinkle on Arnav’s forehead. Nani who went all the way to force Arnav to convince him for the play does not push too much today when it is a matter of his beliefs. A contrast wherein she wanted to ensure they had a chance to air out their differences and feelings while today she understands and respects Arnav’s personal beliefs and space. Arnav gives in to the emotional drama because he allows his family to exercise their right over him and because he would like to respect her beliefs as they are important to her (Nani’s dialogue from the green room).
    As Nani hands over the sacred thread to Arnav, TF and he were standing side by side. Made me think that tomorrow when she has to make a choice, Nani will side with Arnav rather than TF. Arnav had the truth on his side whereas all TF can lay claim to is deceit.

    Good to see mami and payal on a better footing but still with the saas bahu drama. The lepard does not change its spots overnight. Mami is no longer upset abpout her loss but she is upset about having fallen down. She did not once call Payal KBT today – progress in itself.


    “Tere ishq mein dooba rahe, Din-raat yunhi sada
    Mere khwaab se aankhein teri naa hoye ab juda”

    When Arnav walked into that dupatta and pushes it aside, Khushi reaches for it at the same time. She does not say a word and he is alredy upset with some file not being found. Immediately he sets off on Khushi telling her how she should not dry clothes by the poolside. Khushi keeps mum as she collects the clothes and walks away. Her silence and her walking away further annoy Arnav and he is spitting fire only to realize she was doing exactly what he wanted her to do. Where he thought she was ignoring him, he realizes she was prioritizing his wishes. Khushi has no reservations talking to Lakshmi but still does not utter a word to Arnav, Picking up his bag, he sees her things on the table and sets off again trying to get a rise out of her. He is fed up with her mess but all he needs is to find her file. Since you have come..and she stalks away. He reaches out as if to call her when his phone rings and the missing file is still causing him consternation. He instructs his assistant to look for it at work sure it would be there somewhere when Khushi walks in with just the thing he needs. Stunned, surprised that she did hear him, that she knew what he wanted and where it was and that she went to get it. For once he actually let his staff address her as Khushi bhabhi and not correct them.

    Temporarily mollified, he starts getting ready for office. When he tells her “Good you are not talking, it is a little easier to bear you” almost telling himself how much he misses her voice. The other day Khushi missed Arnav’s WT and this morning Arnav misses Khushi’s incessant chatter and bustle.

    Arnav goes on with his instructions: Tell Shukla to handle your dabba service, Aman will brief him. I don’t want you coming to office (like an employee. You are my wife and I can take care of you).

    “Do something worthwhile with you life” – And for a moment Khushi is surprised. Does he care?
    Arnav has always believed that Khushi was capable of a lot but she would never reach out to the fullest of her capabilities (he said so to NK at sangeet). He has always seen her lack of seriousness in things to be her reason for not realizing her own self worth.

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    1. I thought that Arnav comment "Do something worthwhile with your life" was uncalled for and insensitive to say the least.


      If there is something Khushi always did, that was to do something worthwhile with her life. She never spent an idle moment either in her own house or at the Raizadas. Despite being a multimillionaire's wife, the woman asked for a loan from him to pay for things she wanted. Even the dabba service was to ensure that she remained financial independent by doing something she loved to do. He was being mean and narrow minded to ask her to give up on the dabba service, knowing her passion for it. Did he not hear her tell his sister that her dream was to feed people and now she can die peacefully? If he did not want her to go around distributing the dabbas to his staff and in the process get an opportunity to step of the house (maybe with Shyam), that is fine. He could have ensured that Shukla takes care of the distribution while she takes care of the kitchen (I thought that was the arrangement in any case).


      Just because she is his wife does not mean she does not have a right to a profession she loves and there is nothing big or small when it comes to labour. They are all equally dignified as long as they are not violating the law.


      I am sure that when he asks her why did she gather the kids in the house, Khushi is going to retort that he was the one who asked her to do something meaningful with her life and also keep away from him. She is doing both by engaging herself in tuition for the kids.


      When things normalise between them I want him to actively encourage her in the career she chooses and not turn her into another decorative piece in RM.

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    2. Opti ..... really hope team picks up pace and actually run till then where A can think of encouraging his wife in her career ........... this fear has developed once I did a background check on the PH and their previous show Geet

      Sandy ........ Beautiful ....... loved it as always :D :D :D

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    3. Opti,

      I am all for Khushi having an active vocation - be it dabba service or teaching children. I would also love it if she became a chikankaari designer as she has a knack for it. I guess even if she had started it as a genral catering service and one of the offices she served was AR, he may not have said it but for now she has limited herself to just his canteen.

      Yes, Arnav's dialogue of her doing something worthwhile with her life did sound callous but I looked at it this way - feeding people was her dream and she has fed many. Somewhere he was trying to put her down but at the same time tell her you are capable of so much more Khushi, don't limit yourself - reach out and the sky is the limit. He knows she has always tried to do something worthwhile but her dreams have been limited in the sense that they have been more to meet imediate needs - cash flow for teh family, returning a loan of 300. (There is a dialogue from sangeet b/w Khushi, Arnav and NK where NK is saying something nice to Khushi but Arnav has harsh words which kind of make Khushi buckle down and give her that extra bit of nerve because she will now do it just so to show him. Sometimes we do not know our true worth. It takes a johari to parakh a diamond. A beautiful stone cut diamond needs to bear the blunt of the jeweller's tool. Similarly Khushi is this immesnsely talented person on whom Arnav's goading acts like the jeweller's tool giving her that little extra push).

      He was goading her to think of what she wants from life for herself int he long run. If his words hurt they were meant to hurt. He will repent for them in the future. And yes when things stablizie I want him too to encourage her in a career she chooses. And I think he will. Her go getter attitude has always made him grudgingly respect her.

      Sama,
      Thanks! :)

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    4. I am told that the actual lines were "Do something worthwhile with my life" and not "Do something worthwhile with your life". He wanted her to stay out of his office and give him peace at least there. Now that would make more sense given his state of mind. Barun needs to enunicate properly for us to be clear what Arnav is really saying.

      Opti

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    5. Opti,

      Looks like you and I will have to agree to disagree on this point :D

      He said "Apni zindagi ke saath kuch toh dhang ka karo"

      I have been ok with Barun's enunciation as Arnav actually. Maybe a life spent trying to make sense of people's mumbles helps :) :)

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    6. Hahaha oki guys intense analysis...though I gotta side with Sandy on this one...

      Dabba service was a good start but I think she should do something more... With a little push and some help she really can... That kind of twisted encouragement stings but personally I think it's more motivating than 'oh I'm sure you'll do so well'...

      Though I agree Opti he did sound callous... But he's not supposed to be nice to her right now so it's ok.

      Sandy Are you in crisis management? I feel like I'm playing 20 questions lol

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    7. Gargi,

      yep u r showing those lawyerly qualities in u :P

      Crisis management is something I have to do both professionally and personally. But I have borne the brunt of the twisted encouragement funda to know how it does spur you on :)

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  27. Fri - 6th Apr - Part 3

    Arnav says “Waise bhi is kamre se toh nikaal nahi saktha main tumhe. Yahaan toh you’ve made my life hell anyways”

    This was my CCKKP moment of the epi. True. The room will never be the same for Arnav again. He can never erase her from there completely. Where ever he sees, he will be reminded of her. Every corner has a memory associated with her. His life will be hell there as her absence will be more prominently felt. Look at the cupboard, he will recall how she hid in it once, how her clothes hung by his. Look to the bed, he will recall how she threw water on it, how they ran all over it for those legal papers, fell onto it while looking for a match. Look at the all above the bed, how her stars hung there. Look at the room and see her talking on her Bluetooth, talking to him on their HM night, looking for coins under the bed. Look at the poolside and see her sleeping there, mumbling about colours on Holi, shivering in the cold, washing clothes to annoy him, hanging her dupattas. Look at the lounger there and recall how he had told her he hated her, how he had wiped the colous off her face on Holi. Look at the recliner, recall how they fought for it, how they managed to peacefully share it. Look around the room and recall her hero antics, rushing to enter the bathroom, teasing him about the towel, cleaning every nook and cranny when he was unwell, miss her presence on it. Look at the wind chime to be reminded of her laughter, her anklets, her smiling face. Sigh Arnav is in for hell indeed when she is not around.

    But Khushi’s heart breaks:
    “Bairi piya bada bedardi, dil ka haal na jaane saudaai, harjaai, zulmi ram duhaai…”

    And like at the temple, Khushi decides to stay away from Arnav and not show him her face. Well that will not happen for long but it will pinch Arnav when he does not see her.

    “Yeh dooriyan
    In raahon ki dooriyan, Nigahon ki dooriyan
    Hum rahon ki dooriyan, Fanah ho sabhi dooriyan”

    That evening when he comes home, he does not spare a thought to her absence. Assumes she must be busy somewhere as always. All set to call it a night, he automatically calls out to Khush and realizes she is not around. Check how he automatically looks at the poolside when he does not see her in the room. He recalls he has not seen her since morning but then he tells himself she must be around and tries to convince himself that her absence is better than all her chatter. (Ha Ha you wish bitwa you wish)
    He assumes she will come in to sleep later and as usual settles down on the recliner. But just as he is about to sleep, Khusi’s memories from the HM night assail him – her smiling face, her sarcastic kiddish humour, how they had danced.

    On Diwali when Khushi asked Anjali how would you know you were in love one of the things she had said was “Theirs would be the last face you would want to see at night and the first face you would like to see each morning”.

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    1. I didn't give your CCKP Moment much thought apart from khushi's reaction... But you're right... Wow it's soooo royally gonna suck to be Arnav... And if they keep it in character he's going to struggle to find the words to fix this...

      Blah so so much potential for this show...hope it progresses nicely now... Slowly I dong mind but sequentially...

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    2. The guy couldn't stand to see her struggle to remove a speck of dust in her eyes. Imagine what he will go through when he realises that he wasn't there for her when creep kept physically abusing her and openly leching at her right under his nose while she was forced to put up with it for the sake of his sister.

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    3. well written as usual Sandy!
      loved how you turned his callous, meant-to-jolt-Khushi-into-a-response dialogue into such a though provoking observation - by thw way - what is CCKP?

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    4. Chote chote Khushi ke pal...

      Sandy's creation;-)

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  28. Fri - 6th Apr - Part 4

    Arnav wakes up to the wind chimes that Khushi hung so she would always know when he came home. But this morning, it is their tinkling noise that wakes up Arnav. Immediately he looks to the bed to check for Khushi and then checks the poolside in case she was there. But she is nowhere to be seen.

    They say distance makes the heart fonder. Lets hope it works on the Laad Governor :D

    The servant comes with tea, informs about everyone being out and immediately asks if he want to know about Khushi. But of course Arnav has to be the macho dude and say no, did I even ask. All set to leave, he spots the poster and again thinks of her. Upon returning in the evening, the first person he seeks is her, the voice he wants to hear is hers but her vibe in the house seems to be missing. Hoping she is in the room, he walks up. Freshened up, he walks into the room only to realize Khushi is not to be seen in the room or the poolside. (The BG music they have been playing is the one they used to play for them initially especially when they used to have FBs of each other). And having not seen her 2nd day in a row, he is getting concerned. Where could she be?

    “Tu jo nahi, toh soona hoga yeh jahaan, Pheeki Pheeki hogi saari yeh daastan”

    Trying to call her he chances upon the stars and recalls her asking him where to hang the rest of them and how she was sad that there was no way for her to hang them all up right above her bed. He decides to go look for her in the house and on not finding her in the hall even, almost calls her only to have Nani ask him who he was searching for. He cannot tell her it was Khushi for then she would again wonder if they had fought. Seeing the servant, he asks him about Khushi only to hear that he too had not seen her. (Reminded me of the time he was waiting for Khushi to come so he could apologize to her for having been a jerk to her on his parents barsi).

    Hopes dashed, all set to walk back to the room, he hears Khushi’s voice and turns back. Reassured that she is at home, he sets about looking for her. Ironically she is talking of getting back her book on fairy tales. Will she have her fairy tale now?

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  29. Dia,

    Haven't heard from you all day today. Huggs and take care. Hope all is ok with you. Wishes to your family.

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    1. Dia, hope your dad is fine. Take care of him and yourself too. My wishes for his speedy recovery.

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  30. Hi nice episode . Nice views too

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  31. Her name means happiness, which is an intangible emotion that needs to be felt from within. If Arnav has to understand her, he cannot judge her superfluously on the basis of external appearance. He needs to feel the essence of her with his heart. For a man who has locked out happiness from his heart for years it is a tough task to get under her skin and understand her effervescence and zest for life which goes beyond all the trials and tribulations she is forced to face. She gets hurt like anyone else but she also has the resilience to rise above it all and try to live up to her name and spread happiness to people around her. She may be a drama queen, resorting to theatrics to make people loosen up but she is incapable of duplicity or treachery. If he wants eternal happiness in his life, he needs to allow his heart to guide him in order to bring his Khushi back into his life.


    His name means ocean which is deep, dark and murky. It is a tangible object which can be seen and touched but to understand what lies within it, one needs to go deep down into its depths. If Khushi needs to understand Arnav, she needs to dig deeper and swim in unchartered territory, unmindful of the dangers that may lie on the way. The ocean may well swallow her up but given her fearless nature she needs to take that chance for both their sakes. For a woman who has always skimmed the surface, fluttering like a butterfly ( Buaji has aptly named her titiliya), never pondering too long on anything, this calls for special effort. She is now getting distracted by the waves that are hitting her with force but if she wants to find the love of her life which at present evades her, she needs to hunt out that precious pearl (his deep and undying love) which lies on the ocean bed. She needs to let her mind guide her in this process.


    Opti

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    1. Very nicely expressed Opti!

      Basically both need to explore uncharted territories now in order to find their happiness.

      And yes, he is going to find it very difficult to forgive himself for exposing her tocreep's leching nature when he should have been protecting her instead.Repentant Arnav is going to be heartbreaking to watch just like a hurt Khushi is today.

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    2. My God, you girls really have a way with words - well said

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    3. That was beautiful to read. I quite enjoy reading everyone's analysis of this show.

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    4. Opti ....... beautiful as usual ...... love how you can think so deep .... Lit major ?!?!?!

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    5. Nope, I majored in Economics but was always fond of English.

      Opti

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    6. Opti,

      Just re-read your character sketch and realized this song from the film Soutan fits it to a T. I have

      "Zindagi pyar ka geet hai
      Ise har dil ko gana padega
      Zindagi gham ka sagar bhi hai
      Hanske uspaar jana padega

      Jiska jitna ho aanchla yahaan par
      Usko Saugaat utni milegi
      Phool jeevan main gar na khile to
      Kaanton se bhi nibhaana padegaa
      Zindagi pyar ka geet hai
      Ise har dil ko gana padega

      Hai agar dur manzil to kya,
      Raasta bhi hai mushkil to kya
      Raat taaron bhari naa mile to,
      Dil ka deepak jalaana padegaa
      Zindagi pyar ka geet hai
      Ise har dil ko gana padegaa

      Zindagi ek paheli bhi hai,
      Sukh-dukh ki saheli bhi hai
      Zindagi ek vachan bhi to hai,
      jise sab ko nibhaanaa padegaa
      Zindagi pyar ka geet hai
      Ise har dil ko gana padegaa

      Zindagi ek ahsaas hai
      Toote dil ki koi aas hai
      Zindagi ek banwas hai
      Kaat kar sabko jana padega
      Zindagi pyar ka geet hai
      Ise har dil ko gana padega

      Zindagi bewafa hai to kya
      Apne ruthe hai hamse to kya
      Haath me haath na ho to kya
      Saath phir bhi nibhana padega
      Zindagi pyar ka geet hai
      Ise har dil ko gana padega

      Zindagi ek muskan hai
      Dard ki koi pehchaan hai
      Zindagi ek mehmaan hai
      Chhod sansar jana padega

      Zindagi pyar ka geet hai
      Ise har dil ko gana padega
      Zindagi gham ka sagar bhi hai
      Hanske uspaar jana padega"

      On YT:
      http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M9YGUkKphsg
      http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fBWwBeMZUVk

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  32. hmm... beautiful. profound!! THANX

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  33. Dia,

    Saw the edit. BIG BIG JADOOI JHAPPIS from the blog to your father. LOADS OF HUGGGGS TO u too sweetie. Hang in there. He will be better soon!

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    1. Dia, been checking the blog all day to see if you have had the time to respond - your responses would mean your dad is better but unfortunately did not see any - praying you are so relieved with him being better that you could not come online (a very twisted way of saying - we are all praying for him and you - this will pass inshallah and he shall be better soon)
      love all :)

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  34. Thanks, everyone, for your prayers and wishes ... everything is the same, critical still, so just praying for the best. Rest is in God's hands ...

    This place is still my stress buster, so please do keep it going ... loved everyone's takes!

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    1. aww diya...our best wishes and prayers will always be there with him! :)

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  35. Hey Dia... We're all here for you and praying for uncle... Take care and keep your spirits up...lots of love from the whole gang...

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    1. Dia we all are praying for your Dad. All will be well.

      Guys there is a spoiler from Mishti. Saying there will be a new entry as akash friend.
      A softens to the children and some flash back of A will be shown. MU will not get cleared this week.
      *head desk* new entry??? hope it is for Payalash.. Pls no more third party for Arhi..
      here is the link : http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=2923469&TPN=5

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    2. whoa aaru, thats an exciting spoiler now! :)) would LOVE to see A's childhood.. and new entry of Akash's friend? :S don't know where the CVs are going with that...

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    3. mads if the cv's are bringing this new entry as to let know more of A in his childhood .... it makes complete sense ..... only A knowing K won't take their relationship ahead ....... its gotta be both the way .... hai nah

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  36. Dia with so many spoilers I think you should make a weekly post like the shiddat one where all the spoilers are added. I get cophussssssssssssed as to what are they. esply from Zee and mishti.

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    1. yes yes..I second that too! :D it will be much more clean on the blog too, if we discuss the spoilers separately from the epi..

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  37. Dia you know it already ....... we are praying .... InshaAllah things will turn out for good :)

    back to my obsession with ME which was suppose to be on 17th March and now is scheduled on 28th april .... i know i know .... throw whatever you want just like calories, bruises will be virtual too ... LOL

    anyways back to the spoiler:

    1. new entry was suppose to be on the third week of ArHi marriage .... which was then 3 weeks to ME
    new entry is week which is again 3 weeks to ME

    2. new entry was suppose to be around the time when ODB went crazy over hearing his biwi is not in her maika and cannot be found anywhere ..... and after that followed a dragged week which could actually have been summed up in a day or two ... the two hour challenge ...... which was all about LG dictating his dictatorship over his biwi of six months
    new entry is again around the time ODB is missing his biwi like hell and is elated even with her sound .... his dictatorship has also been conducted again
    3. is new entry part of the original track or have they changed it completely .... if she is Akash's childhood friend whom Arnav met during the summer holidays and then the kids around .. that may blend beautifully to relate to his past ..... maybe a scene where Arnav's mom is narrating 'sundhari and shaitan' to him ..... or Akash's friend revealing it was Arnav who made him sit the whole day on a glued chair ..... maybe

    somehow it makes me happy to think about the chaos and inbetween the beautiful and mismatched Holi track to have something to do with MahaEpisode schedule .... you know self-satisfactory explanation :D :D

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    1. I like the way your mind works sama... LOL

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    2. hehehee ...... yup anything to keep joy in life !!!! :D :D

      damn ArHi .... big part of life these days

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  38. Was going through old videos of IPKKND and realized that there is a pattern to the revelation of the truth about Shyam to various members of Khushi's and Arnav's family. It all began in the second week of October and since then the truth is getting revealed to one member after another during the second week of every alternate month. Take a look.


    October 13th ' Shyam's truth was revealed to Shashiji but before he could act on it, Shyam ensured that he was paralysed.


    December 9th ' Shyam's truth got revealed to Khushi who broke her engagement right away but could not reveal it either to Arnav (because of his love for Anjali) or Anjali (because of her obsessive devotion to Shyam)


    February 10th ' Shyam's truth came out in front of Arnav in the most ugly way. He saw the love of his life in the arms of that creep and worse, heard her urge the creep to leave his wife. Despite best effort to alert his sister about the two-faced crook, Arnav could not reveal the truth to Anjali because of her pregnant state.



    We are entering the second week of April which is the alternate month after February. Would we see Shyam's truth getting revealed to another of member of the Raizada clan, maybe Aakash or mamaji or dadiji ? Instead of the Raizadas, it could be Payal or Bua who are already aware of the two-facedness of the creep who may get to see that the creep has not changed one iota and Khushi is still in danger of him.


    I may be completely wrong in my intuition and we may get another week where the truth gets dragged but one thing is sure. Anjali will be the last to know.

    Opti

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    1. well whatever the reason they have delayed the story by a month (again my ME obsession) .... or so it seems ..... so maybe around 1st or 2nd week of may ..... hope its Akash .... he is the only 1 who is shown to keep a cool head or not get too emotional ..... he may confront Payal, which may lead her to go to Khushi and ask for advice "ab hum kya karein?!"

      Economics ..... phew ..... never had patience with descriptive writings .... gave up economics after 1st term in 9th grade :)

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  39. I really don't want another female entry on the show if there's a new entry let him be a male character... We already have Khushi, Anji, nani, mami and Payal... Whereas in guys it's basically Arnav and Shyaam... Mama and Aakash don't get much screen time...

    So hope his childhood friend is a guy... Anyway one of my shiddats is that ASR get a friend... Aakash would have been nice but they don't have that bond so let him have a friend at least.

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    1. din't they mention its a girl already ????

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  40. read this ......... cracked me totally ....... specially Rabba wayyyy!!!

    http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=2923519

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    1. aww thats so cute and rofl funny! thanks for sharing!

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    2. you are welcome Jaya :D

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  41. Dia,

    Sweetie hang in there. Difficult times are meant to make us realize how resilient we are and for us to be thankful for all our blessings. Am sure he will be fine soon. Prayers and dua for him. The blog gang is praying!

    And keep those marker posts - we will provide all the stress busting you need :D

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  42. New Ramngmunch Article on ASR - The Control Freak

    Nice read

    http://rangmunchtv.blogspot.in/2012/04/sunday-doze-arnav-singh-raizada-control.html

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  43. I watched Thurs epi and wrote about it but something struck me today.

    Each time Arnav is really annoyed he calls her KKG liek he used to in the early days when he believed her to be a gold digger. When he softened he has always just called her Khushi.
    But after their marriage, every time he called her KKG (even when they were fighting outside the office) she would add the SR. Thurs she did not. It almost seems like she has resigned herself after the blowput post HR that those hopes and wishes for him to sepak his heart are all futile. Fighting him is going to get her nothing. And now all that matters is to keep her remaining dignity intact in this marriage and try not to hurt him anymore. They showed no scene of Khushi telling her diary anything again. It is almost as if his declaration of hate, of having to bear her each day in this loveless marriage, of hurting each day seeing her have resolved her to make her prescence as scarce as possible in his life.

    Sadly, it is Arnav;s inability to have her become his in every sense that is the root cause for his anger and apparent hate.

    Sigh - how complicated!!

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    1. that is so true.. so here is a bit of CCKKP to chase away those blues.. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H2Vn_loHgyI&feature=youtu.be

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  44. Here we are all discussing on some deep levels and there they are hell bent on gving us gopi vhau in IPK - *head bang* on wall - CVs we have been thankful that khushi did not do that and now u r doing this to us - some sense of humour u have.

    We want indifference and you give us khushi as gopi vhau - ya she is trying to irritate arnav but isn't there another way. And bhaggu another shirtless scene - most of here said we don't want one more - nothing agnst barun he has good abs - but it is just getting a tad too much don't ya'll think

    bhoot, shoes and colourful clothes - i think I will just write a omni at teh eend of the week. There better be some good villain scenes and subtle ArHi moments too. Nahi toh dandaa!!!


    BLOG GENIE, your blog commands you to reappear this instant - please we need some DANDAAAAAAA!!!!!

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    1. Your kidding!! No even I don't want mindless shirtless scenes and Khushi degenerating into the silent sufferer...!! Agh! She's supposed to ignore him!! What the hell is happening to the CV's ?? Have they lost their initial character sketches?? Oh no:-(

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    2. I was thinking.. the emoting of sanaya in the past two episodes.. don't you think the dialogues themselves did not warrant that much angst?

      in the previous week, the poolside fight and all, there were some uber-serious scenes and then nok jhok again.. like that, if this episode's SERIUOSly angsty reaction from khushi was just overacting (with directives from the director, sanaya never does otherwise)... will everything just go back to the normal nok jhok in the upcoming episodes?

      somehow the angst is does not make sense suddenly.

      when khushi overheard the siblings, her reactions were perfect. when khushi was hurt over arnav's 'room is hell' dialogue, it was too sad. especially if she is still going to be joking around with kids and all..

      what do you think?

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    3. Blogger swalloed my response :(

      Gargs,

      Check this out: http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=2924267

      Btw Khushi si getting inspiration from gopi vhau to do things like teh ideal wife and thus annoy Arnav. What has prompted this I do not know. Going back from indifference to nok jhok with a man who has hurt her with her words after saying something of his feelings during the play - need to see what happens today and whether tempers settle down for her to tamp down on her hurt and get back to irritating Arnav.

      Almost seems like post engagement when they had said no seeing and talking and then the whole dumb charades thing happened and then Payash milap conspiracy - abhi bhi aisa hi kuch hoga kya?

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    4. Jaya,

      It was not over angsty. She has been constantly getting words of hate and disgust from him. poolside blow up, then the HM night tussle, his non acknowledgement of her contribution to his office deal, his lying to her about his voice coming back and that credit denial, saying something out of character during teh play only to hide it with total anger and denial, cornering her for being missing at the auditoirum and again stating his hate for her, throwing her things around callously, still being affectionate for his Di but saying he is happy with her silence and asking her to not come to office 9thereby not show him her face) and speaking again of how his life is hell. It gets to you. Hence the angst. maybe after 2 days of not seeing him and hearing his harsh words she may have her emotions under control and plus something he does today for her to get back to some comfort and nok jhok again with him. Lets see.

      I want one more holi like confrontation b/w Khushi and TF where Arnav intervenes and asserts his claim of being pati

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    5. SP site claims that they are going to pass chits via teh children - http://starplus.startv.in/show/iss-pyaar-ko-kya-naam-doon-arnav-looks-for-khushi-is-he-missing-her/news124_3132.aspx

      am totally reminded of DumbC track earlier. Ofc SP site is teh most unreliable with IPK news :)

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    6. devi maiyya aap ne hamaree sunli!

      the green suit! and gargee.. did you ever think they'd update his wardrobe this way?
      http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zUwdzAuGxJo
      Rotfl

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    7. What The %@&$!!! Hawain shirts...head bang!!...

      Gopi-Ahem spoof...that might actually be funny depending on how they do it and long t lasts...

      So basically we need to accept that they're going to oscillate between intense love, hate and comedy...:-s

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