Tuesday, April 17, 2012

17/4 - 232 ... Back to Where It All Began - edited

17th April Tuesday

Enjoyed the episode today ... all the parts.
Arnav-Khushi squabble over going to maayka, Nani intervenes, Di intervenes ... Arnav loses. But of course. Nani lets out this was all Khushi's idea - Arnav not pleased.
Liked the little Rabba ve when he puts his finger on her lips ... after Holi, I've been waiting for that one to happen again. And was glad they didn't have the kiss from Khushi - this was much better ... finally awareness on Khushi's part too ... Also glad the RV was instrumental - cv's are definitely listening to us!
So they will go to maayka the next day.

The scene at the Gupta house was damn cute and true to life - a frantic maayka getting ready for first visit of high class damaad, and all worried and heran pareshan over it ... Thank God again the cv's are listening and using ALL the cast ...

Khushi's tearful farewell at her sasuraal, and Arnav's incredulous looks of 'what the ... you're going for two days, not for life' were hilarious ... again the two of them are damn good together, as Arnav cynical one-liners offset Khushi's dramatics beautifully :)) This kind of comedy I like!

But Barun needs to ENUNCIATE still!!!

Mami's farewell advice to Arnav, and Hajmola ... another =)) scene.

Bubbly and Mami ... okay filler. I forget the details ... it was pretty unremarkable, except that I noticed Bubbly wanted soap.

Car ride home ... Khushi babbling away to herself about Arnav's usual "Get Out"s ... her telling him that the light had turned green, Arnav stopping the car ready to tell her to get out, then realizing he couldn't get away with that this time ... thumbs up. Nicely done - again funny and entertaining, and keeping the tempo and the characters in place.

Arrival at Gupta house, the welcome by the neighbours, Happyji has closed his garage so Arnav can park his car there ... so maybe we were right ... Arnav will see slowly over the next few days how warm and generous people without too much money can be ... Dil over Paisa. *Shiddat alert* here ... a neighbour mentions how glad they are Khushi got out of the chungal of the fake fiance, and how he deceived the entire neighbourhood.
Loved the plant scene ... LOVED the instrumental Rabba Ve there ... beautiful!!!
SN - Barun has shaved!!! =)) And slept too ... looked much better today.

Anjali-Shyam - aylo! We thought Khushi might use the soap, HP might use it, Lakshmi might eat it ... never thought of Anjali and Bubbly being the heroes. So will Shyam manage to rescue it in time? Or will Bubbly cut it up for her robot? And I thought the soap got soaked by Anjali's playful hosing, how come it still had the key impression on it when Bubbly found it? Oh well, sanu kee ... as long as another of Shyam's plans becomes a damp squib. Or in this case, a damp soap.

Am travelling back to HK tonight, leave for the airport in an hour ... more comments from me tomorrow. And will try to edit later ;) This episode inspired me after ages to want to write more.

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Had planned to edit in detail, but an overnight flight and sleepless night are not very conducive! So just adding here a few additional thoughts ...
On re-watch, why I liked the episode - all the scenes were knit together into the two ongoing parallel themes - Arav Chale Sasuraal, and Snakewa Dhoonde Sabun ... no random scenes like Payash playing Scrabble and flirting in front of ten year old kid or MIL ...

ArHi-Anjali-Nani ... Nani is Khushi's champion as always, Khushi's plan to take Arnav to his sasuraal is crafted out by using Nani's support, and firing over Anjali's emotional shoulder. Manipulation? Yes, of course. Khushi is growing into a woman, and learning that men have big egos, her man's is bigger than most (as he is happy to proclaim time and again), but like most men, once she finds his weak spot, he is fairly easy to manipulate.
Also, Nani never sees bad in Khushi, and now, neither does Anjali ... they are perfectly happy to fall in with her planning. Maybe they also see the gradual softening of their Chotey - after all, Anjali was always Arnav's weak spot, yet nobody had figured out how to use that weakness for Arnav's own benefit ... to help him rejoin the human race, as it were. Khushi uses it unashamedly. He was always aloof, set apart from the family, but now he is forced to join them, take part in almost every occasion, starting from Janamashtami onwards. And as Nani and Anjali see that happening, they rejoice in it, and so are happy to fall in with most of Khushi's plans. Because they probably recognize, unlike Arnav, that she never has any malice behind her planning, even though they don't know the true purpose of this one. Arnav, with his blinkered vision from the terrace scene, doesn't see that yet, but subconsciously he is also probably starting to realise it ... which is why he doesn't give in to Khushi directly, but when Nani and Anjali join forces with her, he caves in pretty soon.
Ego puts up a small fight though - 'we'll go tomorrow, not today.' Or was it just ego? Hopefully Arnav used the time to transport the all-important file to the locker in office or somewhere safe, knowing he would not be in the house the next few days.

Liked the finger on the lips Rabba ve ... even more because the awareness came from Khushi's side first, Arnav realised what he was doing only later. And this time, he was the one to back off first.

Gupta House - hilarious! Buaji (Abhaji) is another damn good actress!!!  And Garima was more animated than I've ever seen her before! Buaji praying to Cooler Dev to keep her garam dimaag vala damaad thanda thanda cool cool was hilarious! =)) Garima smiling sweetly and telling Buaji the cooler didn't work was equally funny. Buaji's remark that changing a few chairs around wasn't going to make any difference, for their 6 footer damaad, what they really needed to do was to raise the roof - epic!!!

Khushi's tearful farewells to her sasuraal, and Arnav's incredulous impatience at all the fuss - these two are so good together ... her sentimentality and dramatics played against his cynicism ... 'ok, you're feeling so bad about going, let's not go!'

Arnav-Mami ... after watching Nani Anjali and now Mami in action, I don't wonder at Arnav's tolerance of Khushi's antics. It's not like the other women in his life are all sedate and normal ... they're all equally mad! Mami being the most! Arnav's "okaayyy" seemed to indicate as much.
Btw, the continuation of Mami's "Jaan bachi aur lakhon paaye" is "Laut ke buddhu ghar ko aaye." Now is that apt or not? Time will tell.

ArHi in car ... Buaji still all nervous and questioning Khushi on Arnav's preferences, again very true to life ... Arnav getting all annoyed again, Khushi reading him perfectly, so she put down the phone before Buaji was through, told him he had the rest of the day to get mad at her, but the light was green, so he needed to get a move on ... and then realized her faux pas again, Arnav bitwa does not like to be told what to do, so she just might be in trouble again ... he will throw her out ... he starts to do exactly that, and she actually sweet talks her way into changing his mind ... this time without the help of Anjali. as he realizes the truth of what she's saying - he can't go to Buaji's alone, and he can't go back home. He's stuck. So Khushi stays in the car.
Khushi is learning how to deal with her Laad Governor all right. The toned down Gopi vhau actually works!
And the new version of 'Mausam hai suhana, what the what the what the ...' =))

Mami-Bubbly - on re-watch, the same impression - Bubbly wants soap. And she doesn't find Mami helpful at all.
Setting up for Khushi-Bubbly again? Because Khushi will be the helpful one ... when she comes back from GH, that is.

ArHi arrive at Sasural ... starting to show up the differences between the high class society Arnav now lives in, and the genuine warmth of less well off, but friendly helpful neighbours. We already saw this earlier, when the Raizadas' guests at the munh dikhayi were far more caustic and spiteful about the sudden wedding than the Gupta neighbours were ... now this seems to be getting reinforced. The entire neighborhood comes out in welcome, Happyji has shut his garage for a few days to house Arnav's car ... all organized by Khushi ...
And the plant scene was very sweet ... the music was lovely! Instrumental Rabba Ve with acoustics ... when Khushi went to RM as bride, no one bothered about her comfort, the reverse, in fact. Now as she brings Arnav to her house, every little detail is being looked after, from his food, to his car, to carrying along a plant, so that he feels comfortable. And he stares at her ... she did that for him? Such a little thing ... she knows, his entire family knows he loves his plants, but the gesture showed the thought and the caring, the warm heart of the person thinking of it. Love isn't made up of grand gestures, it's made up of these little things - knowing your partner inside out, and trying to make him/her happy in all these little ways, by showing you think about each and everything that he cares about. Including housing his car too ... womanly gestures, wifely gestures.

Anjali-Shyam ... Anjali seems to be reverting to her childhood in the company of Khushi - looks like Khushi is having an effect on all the members of the R house. And Shyam's precious sabun is under hosepipe attack.
Shyam has one big advantage over Arnav - he can control his temper and think calmly in times of crisis.
But he hasn't bargained for Bubbly and her soap robot.
So will he find the soap in time?


72 comments:

  1. Safe travels Dia and looking forward to edit later :)

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  2. Safe travels Dia,

    this epi was a nice one....little touches here and there,all nicely done..BS looking human again...we will ignore that he got the shave sometime from RM doorstep to the car!!just happy he had one...

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    1. LOL Rekha, somewhere in the corridor! or did the hair fall off after mami's advice?

      Dia, safe travels!

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    2. Jaya, with mami's "fishhing" u never know...hehehe

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  3. Dia have a safe journey and Hugs.

    I think Barun has a cold (Cos I thought that was a genuine sneeze yesterday, you can't fake that, no way, lol)

    He shaved dunno if it was the cold effect or he got a facial, but he looked really really good today especially at GH.

    Haircut bhi ho jaaye toh we will get our ASR back.

    Maayka, I liked GH after a long time...maybe cos RM may story toh move hui nahin, let us see what happens in GH,lol.

    The tone was nice and sweet, no comedy , no OTT.

    The finger rabba vey, you know more than him I was looking at Khushi and thankfully, she seemed as affected by it as he was, infact she was the first one to sort of realize it. And after he left, she took a moment to get her together, if this was last week, we would have seen a dhinka chika from Khushi for going to Maayka.

    Cautiously saying that we are on our way to get our khushi back.

    The plant scene was awwwwwww, so sweet of her and he was touched.

    Did you guys note the tagline? It was Arnav orders food from 5 STAR hotel (Now tell me which 5 star hotel home delivers,oh whatever) will the Guptas be able to pay the bill.

    Plzzzzzzzzzzzz CVs, let it not be lesson learning on humility for Arnav. He has always been nice to the Gupta family everytime he comes home. This has to be the chance Khushi observes Arnav and him her..

    Also plz let it be that he pays the bill and says something like that he wanted to take the family out, but figured babuji might find it difficult and so he ordered the stuff here.

    PLZZZZZZZZZZ...I dont want any lecture, CVs. plz dont goof this up.

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    1. Agree Shweths completely on the lesson on humility part...Arnav has never been shown being mean to the GH folks....so no need to go there....people used to the comforts in life need not necessarily be made to look foolish around less fortunate people....esp if the point is not about that.
      I wonder is this becos of the mami lecture? but I thot...it was just a filler scene...did not expect Arnav to do something about her advice...

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    2. Shweths,

      I hope so too ki lecture na ho. Let him call it that treat he owes Khushi for her office karaamaat and yeah let it be because he wanted to take them all out but then with babuji he thought this would be better - but private main biwi ki thodi khichaai kee toh koi pareshaani nahi :)

      He has never been shown to be mean to G's so let him not start now pls pls and also they are aakash's in laws too.

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    3. Rekha, I think that was shot before he went off on leave. And they restarted on Monday with a nice trim, shave and facial maybe? No wonder bitwa looked good. I think thankfully they dropped the comedy thingy let us see.

      Sandy: I would LOOOOOOOVE THAT...Some teasing on his part, cos Khushi gets full support at RM and here Guptas will be supporting their Jamaai. So that is okay, no putting them down or something and no lecture on family. He has sacrificed so much for family, he does not need any family lessons.

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    4. Rekha I agree with you, the mami scene was a filler (and a funny one) - and she did not mention anything about them being 'classless' - in fact she talked about them being 'over caring' - you know - too much "Khatirdari!" (the fishing line was funny - and very true in our indian context - a lot of families do put lots of oil to make the food look rich - their concept of good mehman nawazi!)
      Shwetha - would love ODB ganging up with inlaws and pulling ODG's leg - she has a lot of family support - about time he got some too!

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  4. Safe and Happy Journey Dia!!!
    liked the episode...it had little things that worked...A and K were really good! finally Barun looked human...suddenly looked young and sweet...even my mom was impressed (sd some hilarious things in telugu :D :P)
    buaji and garima were really cute..wanting to impress the new older son-in-law! Arnav will surely appreciate the efforts!! but how come no one even wonders about Payash?? no one wants to impress Akash? strange!!
    i dont think any of Shyam's plots will work now..its all about clearing the big MU i feel!!!

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    1. I think while Payash sort of had a proper marriage and all, Khushi's marriage was sudden so kinda okay with this so Arnav gets to know his inlaws more or something.

      Besides, Payash bhi GH aa jaayengay toh RM may bachega kaun and the bubbly track is also there.

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    2. Anita,

      Aakash had already come home to pick up Payal during pag phere. And he is someone the G's see as approachable.

      They are always a bit worried with Arnav since they know he is teh elder son of the R family, the main holder of purse strings and again Payal's jthji and now their bade damaad. In their context, given the bade damaad and P's jethji angles they will accord him more respect compared to Aakash.

      Plus like Buaji said on one hand is her sanka devi and on the other a short fused son in law - worry na karen toh kya karen :D

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    3. sandy, you're perfectly on point.. but he is the chote damaad , right?

      anyways, i havent waited this happily for an episode in a long time:)

      ps. ASR came to GH before.. to get chai made by his wife.. remember?

      and anita, nooo he dint look young and sweet.. young and sweet was during the "acidity" story he looked like he was 17....this one here looks positively droolicious.

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    4. Jaya,

      oopsie - rite rite chite damaad - but i guess these ppl go more by paayl's jthji :P

      arre that chai visit was not visit - it was a blink and miss so not counted :)

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  5. It's a first impression thing I think Anita, they've seen akaash before and also I think that they've always seen Arnav as an important person in their lives I mean indirectly he was always the one to provide their income right? Also akaash is more approachable as a person, one thing I noted, there was no awkwardness about the way the marraige took place which was perhaps needed for a second or two for continuity, and I guess with snakey the soap was Alright because it was. Behind him so he moved it to preserve it?
    Sonu

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  6. Girsl,
    Will be back to read your comments. Loved what I saw in the episode today, can't wait to catch it on big screen.

    Heard that LM is back to directing the show, did you guys hear that as well? If so, we are in for a treat.

    Dia - Have a safe flight back.
    Sahana

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    1. Nahiiiiiiin, I dont want LM back:(

      All the best scenes of Arhi have been shot by Arshad only. Arnav's breaking down, Arnav finding about Khushi's engagement, Holi episodes.

      My humble guess is LM excels in the family, poojas, sanskaar track. I will give him that.

      Even if they bring LM back, let him stay out of ARHI...Let LM direct the miss bubbly family bonding part.

      I am not too keen on having LM back, remember the disaster december episodes including desi girl and the dabba rabba vey and later the sorry, If they have to share, Let LM direct everything except Arhi scenes.

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  7. My instant reaction after watching the episode -
    :D Poor Boy! Poor Poor Boy - he never had a chance with just Di and Nani around, now with KKG joining the force - he should not even attempt it! the poor boy cant win any battle against the three Raizada women! :D (loved the - what! can postpone it by a day!! and the three nodding their heads as if to say - ok we grant you this much!!)

    good episode - well worth the watch - and the best part - Dia is going to edit!! yipee :D
    (we are getting back both Dia and ODG- this will be a good week!)

    SN - SS already has just bad plans - if he wants to use s soap for impressions - atleast use a good quality one - lifebuoy! really??

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    1. and oh - Dia - have a safe journey! looking forward to hearing from you :D

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    2. Mona: No wonder he is going to GH, Ghar pay toh nani and Anjali are in the Khushi team, now he needs khushi's buaji and amma cos they will support damaadji. So arhi will fight on even turf.

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  8. Dia- have a safe journey back home.

    Loved the episode although need to watch on TV again.
    Missed the finger on lips scene arghh!!!

    Loved the way they showed A and K in their element. Good comedy and excellent direction. Sahana LM might be back!!

    In fact I loved the entire scene today. They used all the main characters today. But again the piano/guitar combo of RV was excellent in the plant scene.
    Hope what we think is right. This track will help to the human side of the world where Dill is bigger than paisa. Loved how they included even Happyji with his garage. That was the basic need for Bitwa. Now how Bauji and Amma were going crazy with making the house more presentable and Babuji watching them was awesome. These little nuisances actually make the whole thing so beautiful.
    Loved how they kept Khushi in her element today and ASR's reaction to situation was bang.
    @shwetha with the bill I think it would be - like to just get back at Khushi, He might have paid for it already. Or may be K will get her another piggy bank and pay. Will keep my finger crossed for this one..

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    1. Aaru,

      Yep fingers crossed that ODB has paid for the bill but just to rile her up he tells her she will have to foot it - to watch her eyes go round like saucers :)

      Looking forward to Arnav going theek hai main buaji ko bata deta hoon - he has always gravitated towards her and never been cowed by her. Tit for Tat for all the Khushi ideas where she threatens him with Nani or Anji :)

      And yes the new RV variation was really nice. I want more of this and you know that hip hop one they use when Arnav indulges in some good nok jhok.

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  9. for all the fashion experts on the blog - what is wrong with the CVs??? - they have a decided dress code for all women and all they can do is change colours!! anjali used to wear such nice sarees - now its the same saree with the same motifs only in different colours - first it was a florescent yellow (eewwwe eeewww eeewww!!!) with blue motifs - then the same coloured saree with pink motifs and now a navy blue one with yet again the same motifs!!!

    was wondering how ASR looked so good and like the ASR of old and then i realized - his hairstyle!! - this one me likes!!

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    1. Mona - ASR looked so good today, couldn't put my finger on it while watching with sleepy eyes. But later realized that he had a shave.
      Are we expecting too much now only for our hopes to be shattered with comedy again?

      Who knows?

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    2. Mona....it looks like they have decided to do the same outfit for a character in different colours. And it looks like they do it in other shows also...like Jeevika in EHMMBH used to have the same style of suits in different colours...like KKG used to have the same chamkili-type outfits...all in different colours. I wish we could see more of the Mehendi type suit that KKG wore when ODB kissed her by the poolside...or some variation of outfits.
      But ASR looks good with the haircut and shave !

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  10. Wish you a safe journey Dia.

    Loved the episode today and really happy to hear that you are back to your writing/editing..............look forward to it.

    Aki

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  11. Dia, wishing U a safe journey.
    Looking forward to your editing. (I've been reading some of your old posts at random , so I know what the others R talking about.)
    Today's episode was nice for the Arhi moments , but I just couldn't digest ASR being turned on by a flower pot! Then I decided I'll leave my brains behind in the RM and enjoy the sweet moments. Is K planning on staying back at maika permanently? (The tearful farewell and the bags. Absol. loved Arnav's response there.)Anyway, no need to sweat over that 'coz A will drag her back. On a lighter note, the star performer today was the slippery soap (and I don't mean Shyam), with the flowerpot being a strong contender!
    Su.

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    1. Su, rabba ve is not always symbolism for a woody..it just shows that he or she is affected. with the flowerpot, he was touched that she was caring enough to think of his discomfort in the new house. in fact, if she hated him as she should (considering what he thinks of her) then why did she bring a plant.. that too, especially for him?

      like one or two previous scenes, this one is showing him that khushi genuinely cares for him.. and he is impressed.

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    2. Jaya, I agree, in fact, i would say the RV for the flower pot is different from all the other RVs simply becos here it is induced due to their physical proximity, (inducing the RV)so i am glad, the CVs taking it to another level as well..Physical attraction is a big thing and that coupled with genuine moments of realisation will go a long way in cementing their bond..

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    3. Rekha, this was not the first time they used RV to show heart-touch... in the beginneing, even if the "hawa ka jhoka" came, the rabba ve would play.. like here http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_detailpage&v=9qxnptTCoBQ#t=235s

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    4. Jaya,
      I forgot one important word in my comment above. It should read as " would say the RV for the flower pot is different from all the other RVs simply becos here it is NOT induced due to their physical proximity"

      I meant more from the aspect of an event triggering that...like K's kindness triggered the RV not their physical proximity..Even the "hawa ka jhoka" in the past was induced by a physical awareness, its different in that sense...I couldn't recollect any such moment after the MU

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    5. after the MU, twice(off the top of my head).. once in the coinbox scene when he saved her head, she had a rabba ve. two in the sickbed scene when she rubbed his back... his expression showed that it was her concern that triggered his rabba ve.. not her nearness. okay, three.. when she saw him eat the stolen dabba food.. it was the love in her heart that gave us her rabba ve.. lots of times.. (if only my exams were in IPKKND )

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    6. "if only my exams were in IPKKND" - ROFL

      True True

      Rekha are you still jap karaoing This is only fiction ;)

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    7. Jaya, baby...I bow to thee...agree...the cough scene...is defi similar...was the RV played then? I was saying it more from A's view so the other scenes did not count for me..

      Main exams mein fail hongi...teri IPK classes join kar lungi...
      Sandy
      Japna chod diya..raat mein uthkar IPK ke scenes jab yaad aaye and not what is to be cooked for breakfast, what is the use of that Jhaap...might as well concentrate on a few scenes to try and ace Jaya in her IPk exams...(i don't have a hope in hell tho!!)

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    8. ROFL Rekha," raat mein uthkar IPK ke scenes jab yaad aaye and not what is to be cooked for breakfast, what is the use of that Jhaap..." you described my haal to a T!!

      i dont think it would be this bad if i was a normal serial junkie... but this is the only one I watch and you guys and this cafe make it sooo interesting ki real life mein sometimes I dont remember what I had for breakfast, i sure remember how he looked at her 9 months ago!

      Dia, glad to have you back and settling into your routine... yes, the sombre mood toh rehtha hain, please remember to get enough sleep. I really appreciate you getting the post markers up everyday.. even through such tough times, your care for some faceless voices really touched my heart. off to read your edit..

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  12. Dia,

    Pahunch gayi kya?

    Caught up ydya's epi late last night. A feel good episode that left me with a warm fuzzy feeling. Lots of innuendos interspersed across the epi.

    Buaji's comment to cooler Dev about keeping their damaad's dimaag thanda and the rest her nandkishore will manage - LOL

    In the sshhh scene, was Arnav's finger trembling slightly by the end when he realized just what was happening?

    My CCKKP moment - Khushi telling Arnav "Aapne kuch soch kar hi gadi roki hogi" displaying still an innate trust in him though she was slightly fearful, despite him having recently told her he lied to her about his illness.

    Another like - The new RV tune variation - gentle like spring breaking with the piano and light drum beats during the plant scene.

    ASR is partially back with lesser stubble and a light haircut and parting that makes his whole face look different - more like the ASR somewhere at portion of beginning of the show. I liked!

    And Shwetha, yes Barun has a cold and a bad one at that. Looks like all that coughing and sneezing was real after all.

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    1. [quote]Buaji's comment to cooler Dev about keeping their damaad's dimaag thanda and the rest her nandkishore will manage - LOL

      In the sshhh scene, was Arnav's finger trembling slightly by the end when he realized just what was happening?
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      Ditto on both..Gupta scenes were rofl and i noted the tremble too. Both were very good there. We need more such scenes with focus on Khushi now.

      Waisay sandy, Khushi has dragged him to GH, has she given a thought about the sleeping arrangements (Yup, as I Always maintain, I have my priorities right with this show)

      The bed in GH is exactly half hte size of RM and no recliner too *wink*

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    2. agree again - was smiling as i was about to fall asleep!!
      loved the cooler scene! and yes his finger was trembling!! (always wondered if these little things were meant to happen or do we read too much into it - after all we watch the episodes with pink panther's magnifying glasses!)
      your CCKKP - i read it a little differently - not as you say - that she trusts he can handle it - (that she does but did not feel this is what she was referring to here) - felt it was more on the lines of her knowing how to handle him better now - without shouting or getting angry - she just pointed out that he cant go to buajis house (or return home) alone! - so she shows him that this will not work but in the right way - in a way neither are hurt! loved the way she handled him - just like the Khushi we have known and loved!

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    3. Shwetha - loved your points on the recliner, the size of the bed and having your priorities right!!! :D

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    4. Mona,

      Tere point main dum hai!! :)

      I guess I was fixated only on her telling him she trusted him to do the right thing.

      But yeah like u said she does seem to be learning how to manage him better- good hai!

      And Shweths,

      When I see you questioning about sleeping arrnagments, I feel like all izz well in the IPK world :D

      And as for Khushi thinking - nahi re pakka nahi socha hoga. She was so hell bent on dragging him to GH to show class ki woh sone ke baare main toh bhool hi gayi hogi :) U recall that NYE scene where she held her head and went Hai re NK when buaji came knocking again...:)

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    5. I wish thee would be lots of awkwardness about the sleeping arrangements.. just to see their faces.. Sarun usually Rock such scenes!

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    6. Have reached home ... have edited :)) Thanks for all the wishes, girls - crazy overnight flight :(

      Will they concentrate on the sleeping arrangements at all? Or will they gloss over them?

      I also felt that his finger was trembling on her lips ... watched in in HD, and it definitely was. Now whether that was because Arnav was affected, or Barun wasn't well ... kya pata?!

      Buaji's comments were hilarious - the prayer to the Cooler Devta and the chhat oonchi karo, shifting furniture around se kuch nahin hoga! My mom always goes hyper checking if the AC and heater is working in our room whenever my husband visits - for me, she's more relaxed, but for hubby, she gets all tense - so I found that very relatable!

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  13. Few news you should be aware about:

    LM has put IPK pic back on his FB page, I DO NOT WANT LM BACK...Arshad is excellent thank you very much. Waisay even when LM was there what did he do, most of the Arhi scenes were shot by Arshad, the Holi scene, Arnav breaking down scene, Arnav finding out about Khushi's engagemnt scene, so let us see.

    SPOILERs from Mishti...Barun indeed was sick and was off for 3 days and resumed shooting since Monday only. We will be seeing Arnav settling down in middle class environment (extremely worried now) and bubbly will bring Arhi closer.

    Dia: Hope you reached home safely.

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    1. Barun shot the car ride on monday.. No wonder the hibiscus rabba ve was so long.. they had to stretch the scene... but I liked it.

      and i loved the new rabbav ve tune.

      waise, I had said that he will get a haircut when he becomes bitwa again.. hoping to see bitwa in the next epi, not ASR..

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    2. Jaya,

      Even I liked that new tune.

      And now I know why on Mon when Khushi was coming to the room with TF in it they showed scenes of her walking so many times. And they keep showing car scenes, gear changing scenes to fill in those 20 30 odd seconds.

      Eeks thanks to IPK I now notice all these gimmicks too :)

      As for the haircut, the main difference was the side part - I have always like ASR with teh side part than that front spiky gel look - side part with or without gel anything looks ok - looks mature on him and does not make him look old. I hope they just maintain this amount of stubble on the guy from now on.

      Well bitwa ya ASR dekhte hain - high time both made peace with each other and became one :P

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    3. Shweths,

      Arnav living in moddle class environs - no they will not dilute ASR - better not CVs if you are reading the blog.

      I am really keeping my fingers crossed for him to see Khushi in an environ he has never seen her in. That one time when he saw her happy for her sis, it had made an impact on him. But he has never seen her interact much with her parents, neighbours or buaji. Plus he knows she was adopted by this family. Also, there would have been a time when he would have had to live in similar conditions when he was climbing up? Can we see some more FBs about why he has this class bias - maybe his experiences at that time were unpleasant.

      It was in the very same GH that Khushi asked him why he was so cynical and he had spoken of a stone hearted world. Can we hope for Khushi to get a glimpse into that part of his past?

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    4. Shweths, tumhe Bitwa ke cold ka pata chal gaya tha? Ek sneeze mein pakad liya that..Uff teri nazar....

      Dia, hope all is well!!

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  14. @Shwetha - ok so LM is back - I don't know what to say there. Arshad has given excellent scenes, but then gave slap stick comedy too. So hope they work together and take the story forward.

    For Mishti's spoiler - of Arnav settling/surviving down in middle class environment??? And why are you worried abt this? I thought it was for him to understand the different side of K and confusion of his dil and dimaag. Dam confused with so many spoilers and the non continuity in show.
    And hope Barun gets well soon.

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    1. Not yet aarthi, till yesterday it was Arshad only, let us see. Both are guilty of the comedy stuff, guess they can only direct what is given to them, oh well let us see:)

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    2. Aaru / Shweths,

      LM ho ya Arshad finally I think the screenplay writers are also responsible for scripting the scene. Ok director's view also matters. I think both have had their highs and lows and yes if scene hi thoda cheesy hai toh comedy toh aayegi hi na.

      Guess 2 directors are coming in with Maha Epi coming up and maybe parallel shooting b/w GH set and RM set. They did that during NYE too when folks were about to go on leave.

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  15. Girls,
    on the 5 star bill, i hope its a case of Arnav ordering the food with the full intention of paying the bill( there is some e24segemnt (sorry don't know what that is? of spiceless food being given to A by GH folks on K's instruction)
    I hope it turns that GH folks will not allow him to pay the bill and it becomes a moment of introspection for A regarding GH values.

    I am also hoping that A eavesdrops into Garima-Khushi conversation (remember, when she said that its only important that jeevan saathi accha hona chahiye...and hears K bragging about A) A has another eureka moment....to the extent this girl will go to hide the state of affairs from her loved ones for their happiness...

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    1. but then he knows that.. remember desi girl? that drama was for her jeeji ..

      this time though, he has ordered her not to tell anyone their reason.. and she promised after holi that she will never tell anyone.. so he wont have any such thoughts even if he overhears.. mostly, if such a conversation happens, he will think she is great at acting.. so I hope such a thing does not happen.

      on the 5star bill, i hope he orders food after seeing the ladies of the house overworking themselves in his khaatirdaari.. so he orders food as a favor.. but will they accept it like that?

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    2. Or maybe he will order the food as payback for Khushi, because it's her doing he got the boiled food, and the G ladies insist on paying because he's a guest in their house ... and he sees them trying to collect the money.

      *SHIDDAT alert* and he remembers Khushi buying plants for Lavanya, and wonders how she would have got the money.

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  16. Jaya, Rekha,
    Thats not what I meant(turned on EMOTIONALLY). I was LOL when I saw the pot. So I couldn't connect with him being touched by this one gesture esp after being rude about the hypo and the perfume + lipstick. Second time around, I was prepared for it and enjoyed it. Also realised that ASR has really mellowed down for her maayka. Loved the way they took the extra shot of the car getting parked.Gave me the feeling he will be made to feel at home there. (After all, he has only happy memories at the GH.)I wish they showed the same continuity in the other scenes as well. Maybe things are improving.
    Su.

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  17. hey Dia, Glad u reached safely...was getting a bit restless not seeing ur edited post...(how demanding is this R&R group? won't let u even get some decent sleep ha?...no, seriously the blog members were actually getting worried...

    nice post....missed it in these last few days...of course the epis were themselves nothing to crow about but glad they are progressing as they are meant to..

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    1. Awww, thanks, Rekha ... I just caught up with all the posts, and was so touched by all your queries ... got back after a sleepless overnight flight, and was trying to sort out my house after almost three weeks away. Tough, when the mood was pretty sombre too ... but am getting back into the routine now, and that helps.

      Thanks for all the care and concern, girls ... you all rock! It was a very good day when I started this blog - never dreamed you all would become such an important part of my life!

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  18. Two more articles -

    http://www.metromasti.com/tv/gossip/Star-Plus-IPKKND-Khushis-caring-nature-turning-Arnav-soft/17523

    http://www.bolegaindia.com/gossips/Will_Arnav_change_his_perception_about_Khushi_in_Iss_Pyaar_Ko_Kya_Naam_Doon-gid-12545-gc-16.html

    But after that boiled food segment, am confused. That seemed to be Khushi back to her antics - not designed to soften Arnav, but to irritate him, which I presume was her original plan of taking him to GH, after his low class remark.
    Are these people as confused as we are? Or do they really have some insight into what is going to happen? I hope he does see more than the attempt to irritate and starts softening a little ... and more important, I hope Khushi starts seeing a different side of him ... though am not holding my breath on that one, she is head over heels in love with him as it is, but will not admit it again ... it's more important that Arnav start suspecting that something is wrong in Shyam's story.

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    1. Dia, exactly my thoughts when i read the article.

      Well, the thing is, we now accept that K's own feelings have never seen the light of the day for various reasons (lack of reciprocation, being one)...however, the only constant being she can't stop herself from caring for him in things that really matter.
      I have a theory about it becos i never really understood Anjali's advice to Khushi the other day..To me, it seems that tho khushi will do things to irritate, her love for A will also shine thru...
      well, its actually going to be a tightrope walk but if the Cvs manage it...it wl be great...Imagine Arnav softening a bit (before Shweths shouts at me, pls keep ASR nature intact)during all this...proving that probably Anjali got it all wrong...this A loves attention from his love, i hope we also see a part of the truth emerging in GH

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    2. what boiled food segment???
      where, when, what???

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    3. Dia,

      bey huggs!!!! indeed a red letter day when I cahanced upon the blog :D and thank u for starting it and keeping it going. My work is heading to craziness so can I hope for good IPK epis - usually tehy do go in tandem :P

      You know that Anji's advice was becasue she only sees the fighting Khushi never realizing that it is this very spirit of hers that is a major pull for Arnav. I mean that day at mehendi when he came back he was so happy to see her all worked up and she was yelling at him initially but did ODB mind - Nah and he was actually irritated that his Di became KMH :)

      It basically comes down to this - Anjali's looks at all relationships thru her perception of that person. She judged Khushi's love jataana basis how she loves her brother. She judged Arnav's reason for telling a lie basis what he would do for her. But the same people react differently with 2 individuals whom they may love equally. That lecture of Anji's was more to tell Khushi that you need to stop fighting with him and start working on the relationship - bcso she has not seen very demostrative side of Khushi vis a vis Arnav - maybe that is why that day at havan when they were judging Khushi's reactions to Arnav it was more blink and miss whereas Anji has seen Arnav get her bangles, worry for her etc. To her it is enormous bcos knowing her bro it was a huge step for him. But though she thinks she knows Khushi she is not aware of so many things about Khushi and how much she is exerting herself for Arnav and her concern for him.

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    4. Rekha,

      i completely agree - that constant has to remain - even during their worst fights - ODG has to be concerned! (remember her - yah meetha nahi kha saktey!, at diwali right after ODB says he will marry La!
      so yes - despite her '100 ways to get back at ODB' - her love and concern will def. shine through.

      as for Anji's advice - i think the purpose of this was to tell her sil that she should not expect her husband to be demonstrative of his feelings - so not be sad and disheartened as ASR was capable of loving someone but not comfortable with PDA - hence she said - if you want him to demonstrate - read him better - no direct pda is every coming out of odb!! but he will be doing things indirectly (like joining her on stage for the HR act! / like saying he had not fainted to save her the anguish of causing her a restless night!) - so what i basically want to say is that Anjali is not saying ODB does not like the attention from his love - he is not likely to blatantly accept it.

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    5. sandy,
      I get what u say...This relationship thing is very layered...and obviously that's how any close lover and sibling relation will be. Arnav had better not react to Khushi in a way he reacts to Anjali in some specific situations..I would say let him feel bit stifled if Anjali pampers but he is bound to feel elated if Khushi pampers him..hain na? the mehndi scene for example.
      Sandy, I don't know if i heard it wrong, I thot Anjali said to Khushi, Arnav feels upset if u show emotion....in way so don't show emotion...Isn't that the reason, Khushi is doing the opposite?Showing emotion so that he gets upset...

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    6. Me too was confused as to what exactly Anjali wanted to tell Khushi ... if it was to warn her that Arnav is not a demonstrative person, fair enough, but her tale of the balloon seemed to indicate that Arnav doesn't appreciate PDA. Which is actually incorrect - he does, from Khushi. The thing is, Arnav is sure of Anjali's love fo him - of that he has no doubt. His fear is of Anjali's leaving him - through death, through anger, whatever ... death like the mother, anger or affair, like the father maybe - they haven't touched on that yet ...

      With Khushi, the whole doubt and insecurity is whether Khushi loves him at all. And with Snakewa's antics, even more so. In that case, Anjali telling Khushi that Arnav doesn't like PDA is wrong ... he wants proof of Khushi's love all the time.

      And Khushi started off on the wrong foot with the Gopi vhau act, and made him think again that her love was an act ... but now with the toned down act, both are getting confused! Because she doesn't find it difficult to show her care and concern, she loves him, after all. And in between the acting, the genuine care and love keeps peeping through ... which confuses him.
      On Arnav's end - he starts off thinking it's all an act, part of the Swami act ... initially he was getting angry, then he played that faking the hypoglycemia stunt, because he found her getting genuinely worried, Anjali Di showed him the mirror to his feelings, that he can't really bear to hurt her, and he backed off ... so he's not hurting her any more, he's tolerating what he thinks is her act. Which is confusing her ... she's doing it to irritate him, and he's being surprisingly tolerant. And of course, adding to the confusion, is his confusion every time her care seems genuine.

      And now I am sounding totally confused ... :)))

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    7. sandy, you are right.."Anjali's looks at all relationships thru her perception of that person. "

      and again,TQ's lecture was "if you love him with cheesy romance, he will run the other way.. but if from your actions, he feels that you love him, you will see another chote" and now, khushi went OTT cheesy, but we don't see a wall.. why? because in bits and pieces, he sees that she really cares for him. so he's okay with some antics..

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    8. Dia, I couldn't have said it better...u wrote exactly what i wanted to convey....this Anjali madam is one confusing character...(dekho, y'day she looked peeved when Shyam called her Anjali...ok...maybe thats was just for fun...but our microscope is out whenever Anjali is on screen..kya karen, sherlock holmes jaag jatha hain...

      Sandy,
      This is for U, bahut dinon se koi gaana sun nahi pa rahi thi, heard one today....fits K-A so well, i thot...

      Agar mujhse mohabbat hain, mujhe sab apne gam de do
      In aankhon ka har ek aanson, mujhe mere kasam de do

      Tumhare gam ko apna gam bana lu, toh karaar aaye
      Tumhara dard seene mein chhupa lu, toh karaar aaye
      Woh har shay jo tumhe dukh de, Mujhe mere sanam de do

      Shareek-ye-zindagi ko kyon,Shareek-ye-gam nahin karte
      dukhon ko batkar kyon, in dukhon ko kam nahin karte
      Tadap is dil ke thodi si,mujhe mere sanam de do

      In aakhon mein na ab mujh ko kabhi aasoon nazar aaye
      Sada hasati rahen aankhen, sada ye hont musakaye
      Mujhe apni sabhi aahe, Sabhi dard-o-alam de do

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    9. Rekha,

      Muah Muah Muah!!!

      Gaanon ki jaan 3 cheezein hoti hain - Alfaaz Alfaaz Alfaaz!!!

      Thank you! Badde dinon se koi gaana jam nahi raha tha.

      Btw happened to hear tere Bina from Tezz yday and now it plays on loop in my head.
      Oh and call me weird but the Satyameva Jayate anthem song seems to suit ArHi very well except for the Let truth wim portions ;)

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    10. Rekha,

      She did not say he gets upset, she said if you show overt love, he retreats behind a wall - ike Jaya said but wahi toh. She has neevr seen bitwa when he was HOH in love with Khushiji - he liked her selecting the saree he chose, he liked her wearing that bindi he left behind in the mirror, her bringing him warm water when he lost his voice. Just bcos woh di ke overt love se bhaagta hai jaroori nahi ki Khushi ke overt love se bhi bhaage - and I guess it is because of the difference - Di ka pyaar Ma ke pyaar jaisa hai - sometimes smothering and overwhelming plus the dutybound feeling; whereas with khushi it is always about give and take of affection and her love displays care without overwhelming him or usurping his space.

      You know when I wrote about Anjali's self righteousness - meri badi wish thi to see how would Arnav react if the one truth / constant of his life his Di, their relationship, his trust in her was shaken - I had then wondered in teh context of what if she knew shyam's truth and hid it from Arnav to protect him from pain. And I still wish they would do that - ofc thats painting anji very dark gray and dia tells me this will not go well with the poojs paath audience.

      Dia,

      On u sounding totally confused - reminded me of that breathless narrative bit in the song My Name is Anthony Gonsalves

      Anji spoke of chote ko pyaar ka ehsaas bhi toh hona chaahiye but somewhere I think she wanted to see and feel Khushi's concern fro her brother, wanted to be assured that Khushi loves him as much as Anji knows he loves her.

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    11. Sandy, can u believe it, i was just thinking the same thing about the SJ tune...i agree....I think we have lost it...har situation mein ARHI ko search kar rahen hain...pagal ho gaye hain

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    12. not lost it.. i feel the SJ theme is sung in almost the same tone/feel as the songs in IPK.. maybe samepeople in the background?

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  19. Dia, welcome back .. to your own world! :D - been waiting for your update all morning - am not so sure of the quality of work i have done today :D

    loved your edit- very much on the lines of what HAA and i were discussing - ODG seems to finally have learnt how to deal with ODG though reserve my final verdict after i read the articles you have posted!

    i guess these must be tough times for you but you are right, routine will help you settle in and so will we (the pestering blog family - will not let you rest till you show up every day!!)
    once again - welcome back!

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    1. Thanks, Mona ... feels good to be back! Takes my mind off sadder things, so it helps a lot!

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    2. Dia re,

      Lovely edit. bahut dinon ke baad I am actually laughing so much about IPK. Maybe because I decided to give my intense thinking a rest and just enjoy teh scenes. But kal waale scenes the bhi na drrolworthy :)

      Soap robot - ROFL - Bubbly actually had a Doll House DIY book in her hand

      And guess what I thot of: Bubbly making bubbles with soap...Ha Ha Ha! - yes officially lost it :)


      As for teh articles, bolegaindia at least makes an attempt to sound accurate but essentially rehash whatever has happened with some influence of mishti or zee's spoilers :)

      Metromasti toh is toally IF influenced IMO.
      Rekha / Jaya,
      Sach main, Boss asks so did you see my latest email or presentation and I go which one but IPK land related memories are all on ready recall :)) New Rv tune, hair style change all at fingertips like Jaya said. Just now reading some commens almost burst out laughing while talking to a colleague :)

      also suddenly this week the blog seems to have come alive again with all of us being around with lotsa bak bak. Gargs last she was here went, hullo last visit 7- comments and next visit 150+ ;)

      Which reminds me haven't seen Sama and Mads in a while - all ok I hope!

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