Sunday, June 24, 2012

Shiddats for the Week

Biggest SHIDDAT ...
ARHI ROMANCE after their reunion!!! Lots of it :) :"> :) Rain song, Arhi take their time to go back to RM, Arnav sneaking to GH to meet Khushi if she gets banished by Anjali, more starry-eyed romance, hidden love affair ... always so much more exciting than the staid married stuff ... add more to the list, girls!

NO MORE MU between ArHi ... they should stay united against Creepwa and work together to expose him.

Arnav gets rid of his dirty white banyan pronto!!!

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  1. "Arhi take their time to go back to RM"

    Strong Shiddat for this Dia ... cause it will be stupid to expect nothing less than storm in RM if they all get to know Arnav was kidnapped ... to know the kidnapper or not is not an issue.

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  2. long route back home
    rain song
    starry eyed romance
    ....AND DON'T SHOW THIS ALL IN JUST ONE EPISODE!!


    dil ka rishta, secret love affair, starshine conversations..
    all wishes at this point. devi maiyya, SHIDDAT!

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  3. adding power to Arhi romance...RM ho ya GH ho ya KN den ho ya on way running away from KN - kahin bhi...i dnt mind...!!!!and ofc no more MU...
    one more shiddat...Mami khushi bond developed during KN track to remain like that forever...

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  4. All of the above, plus the next separation happens only after a long time, which means they take things really slow between Arhi.
    We need a break.
    CVs, please limit DDR scenes to as minimum as possible.
    And some peek into Shyam's plans. Enough of mystery!

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  5. Adding power to ARHI ROMANCE plus Su's shiddat that the next separation happens after a long time and limiting DDR scenes to bare minimum. There's just no need for it (hibiscrub, DDR).
    Plus mami to find out about creepwa and protect khushi from him while A is away. I also want Arhi reunion this week please, bahot ho gaya ye separation and KN drama. End KN track pronto.
    I want to see A's army all lined up and well informed about creepwa.
    UJ

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  6. I want some proper romance and wooing and not just jumping straight into the big C... Please I don't care how impatient ASR is he unnecessarily waited so long now he can wait some more!!

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  7. One more shiddat ... If they decide to show Khushi that Khushi manages to convince Arnav to let her continue the DDR track to find out what Shyaam is Upto let ASR know everything no more MU and let him be fuming and really annoyed about the DDR track even though it's fake...

    Oh and I still want to see RTR!!... I don't want bitwa to go overboard on the guilt trip but yea some guilt pls ...


    And ... I want a proper conversation with words spoken this time where she explains it all and he remembers each and every instance from the first time she found out and came running to him and to the way he married her, threw her out of the room, to her unfinished ' Aur humme lags tha...', to him remembering holi and the day on the bridge where she told him the truth and he refused to believe her again !?!! EVERY instance in the last 3 months ... And then he should make it up to her....SLOWLY!! At least spend a few weeks on that ya!! You'll spent a month on KN for crying out loud!

    Oh and another if they are going to show the big C then I want them to get properly married - in the same temple- doesn't matter if anyone else (psnditji) is there or not but Arnav should realise what it meant to just get married like that to Khushi and should properly get married ... This time with saat phere.... With a voice over of the vows while they walk around the fire...


    Oh and another ( hey I'm making up for my lack of posts- plus I have a lot of hopes -still!! From this show)...if Khushi does get shot I want Arnav to go to DMs Mandir and say a really heartfelt honest prayer.

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    1. Gargi yes I want A to make it up to K SLOWLY!!!! Fulfill all her dreams and more. I want him to spoil her....
      Also if we have a proper pheras wala marriage then I want A to go on his knees and propose the wedding to her properly and give her a ring!!!!
      I want Arhi to do small things like jugnu for each other. You remember after TM1 he removes the clutch from her hair so that she would wear it down. I want fun filled eppys like that ASR wooing his girl not arnav.
      UJ

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    2. hahaha i loved those few and far between episodes when he totally surprised her and he was in total flirt mode and she was super awkward but quite pleased.

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    3. Gargi and Dia and Sama

      Shiddat to all above
      I want Khushi shot and ASR going to DM and praying with FB's of bandagement and K words!!

      All i want is Arhi together MU with Anji- DDR or on runway I want them together !!!

      yes gargi me to want A to make it up to K slowly remembering each and every hurt he has given !!

      Before anything else I so want a heart to heart with proper words saying it loud about the whole thing. I LU can wait for our Pukaar song and date at wooing time ...

      I really want mami and khushi's bond be intact .. can k pls tell mami shyam dirty deeds ???

      I want ASR back leading the army of Khushi, NK and Mami...

      Mami and NK telling Arnav about the hell khushi went thru ...

      And last but not the least the sadist in me I wants khushi hurt and laying on the bed (may be just fainted due to exhaustion) and A niharofying at first and then the guilt and taking care of her while NK and Mami telling him what K went thru during his kidnapping...

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    4. I like the faintwa idea .... bitwa enters RM with his dulhanya in his arms .... refuses to answer any question and carries her straight to their room and shut everyone out & bitiya wakes up warm in his arms.

      Meanwhile bitwa gets sanitized .... Mona Khush :D :D

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    5. *ROFL* Bitwa gets sanitized ... Mona khush!!!
      Are baba, hat's what the monsoons are for ... to wash away all the dirt and grime from the banyan and make it all white again!

      The reason I want ArHi to take some time to go back to RM is that as soon as they do, Di's tantrums are going to take over again ... so they need some alone time first!!!

      And I desperately want Khushi to tell Arnav all about her attempts to get the information from Shyam ... or NK tell Arnav ... Arnav should know what all she went through to get him freed!

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    6. Sama,

      ROFL Bitwa gets sanitized ... Mona khush!!!
      we are also khush!!!

      Dia

      why I want NK and mani to let him know is just for the impact and reliability of the information ... Khushi will never tell A about her playact with shyam... So it has to be Mami telling him the first stage and NK telling him the next !!

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    7. Dia this entry is after they have stalled enough on the way back home ... after lots of RVs .... egos have cooled down as per SP ;)

      As for getting rid of his dirty banyan .... what if khushi takes a t-shirt for him ..... seeing this &of course her explanation of it ... Arnav burst out laughing ..... and our bitiya can have her 'ye haste huwe bilkul laad governor nahi lagte' moment again !! Haayyyeee

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    8. Sama, where is this article by SP that you keep quoting? About their egos cooling and the rains? Link please?

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    9. Aaru, agree ... I also want Mami and NK to tell Arnav about Khushi's worry for him, and NK to tell Arnav that she had to playact with Shyam, so that they could access his lappy and pendrive etc ... leave no room for MU in Bitwa's mind! Then Di can MU Khushi all she wants!

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    10. Dia e lo,

      http://starplus.startv.in/news/3714/5-romantic-ideas-to-enjoy-the-rains-with-your-partner.aspx

      Pehli baarish ki pis hai :)

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    11. Sama ,
      thanks bey !!

      and for that baarshat kye liye .. this song for you

      Bheegi Bheegi Raaton mai -- Leslie Lewis and can't remember the female lead ..
      but whenever their are rains love to listen to this song ...

      http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dbVE5st4c34

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  8. Gargi..."I want a proper conversation with words spoken this time"...i so want this to happen... not 'aankhein bolti hain' types and not with stars everytime...plz some good face to face talking with words for once...
    *SHIDDAT*

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  9. ditto to all that Gargi just said - yes want all of it -
    as for a long way back home - really ladies - i for one dont think you - i would much rather he came home - changed into something clean !! and all the talk and romance to be around the sacred pool!!! :D :D

    i also like timeline - i want them to understand what each when through (not just KKG) during all the times - right from diwali - the forced engagements etc etc

    and certainly no more MUs - not of the 'character pay sawal kinds!'

    and can we have the ASR kind romance back please - with a bit of guilt thrown in - of course i dont know how that will work - that is for the CVs to think!! :D

    finally - story!! nuff said

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  10. lost my post :(

    - Ditto to all that Gagri just said - not so fixed on a second wedding but the rest *Thunbs up thunbs up and thumbs up*

    - long way back to RH? really ladies? - i for one want him to be back soon - and change into something clean and decent and the romance/talk around the sacred pool!! :D :D :D

    - i like time lines and no MUs - so want them to share all details of how they felt, what they went through (both of them and not just ODG) - right from Diwali to now!

    - no more MUs please - none of the 'character pay sawal' type ones atleast!

    - finally - a story! (and no compromise there please)

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    1. - finally - a story! (and no compromise there please)

      SHIDDAT !!!

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    2. hahaha...Mona if for no one else for your sake bitwa better go home and before anyone says anything jump into a hot shower and then the story can continue....or else am sure Mona will be yelling at the telly!

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  11. Dia, following is a long post which I posted in the weekend post. I can’t find it there now.
    Therefore I am posting this here.
    Please delete if it is repeated.

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    1. Dia, Aaru,
      “But what I feel is -this was the story somewhere after the marriage... and it got side tracked somewhere in between Holi and Khushi's 101 ...”


      I am not sure if they got sidetracked.

      To me it has been perfect story telling of how Khushi tries to extract the reason out of ASR in her various ‘pagla sa’ ways. Agreed, she called it 101 ways, but the point was not to just irritate ASR, she was trying out various methods to pry the truth out. She tried all the sensible ways at first, pleading with him, getting angry with him,putting her foot down and when all failed she tried irittating him. OTT hi sahi, she gave us a lot of light romantic moments. The story actually progressed a lot from holi, in the sense that the couple grew closer without even a kiss and I feel that has been the most beautiful thing about IPK.
      The GH track was also much required because that is where ASR actually started thinking. He progressed from the grumpy businessman to the caring son- in –law and more importantly, he fell in love with her all over again. Or it might be more right to say that he realized he loved her still.
      Each episode in GH was about how he started noticing things about her and tried to make up subconsciously. His love was expressed through the gol goppas, shared smile, sudden turn around after the wedding saheliyan convo and most significantly, the impact that K-G convo had on him. I’ve said this before too, I feel ASR spent a long time thinking that night and the goodness in Khushi was enough to erase the terrace scene. Him switching off the AC and holding hands was a really big step there,considering he was the guy who had banished her to poolside and the reason to allow her back into the room was mostly his di only.
      The ASR of RM would not have tolerated the pre- suicide antics, but here he was patiently asking her “Tum theek ho?” and infact picking up that something was wrong.
      The suicide terrace confesson and the highway confrontation and the dhaaga scene all were integral parts to this love story.
      In fact, the only place I felt they got sidetracked was the kidnap, but the reason is clear. And I do grumble about the way they have stretched it, but the dreams and hut scene and tri- meri2 have been perfectly timed. And even these DDR scenes have been incorporated to lay the future track.

      Hats off to the CVs because they’ve turned a huge disadvantage in to another golden opportunity to take the story the way they wanted.

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    2. And now I feel they’ve reached exactly the place they wanted the story to be. Arhi has realized their love and more than that they’ve realized the depth of the other person’s love for them. Khushi knows that ASR has always heard her dhadkan and ASR knows Khushi could always sense his inner most feelings.( Tum mujhe sun sakti ho? Hamesha se. Aap hamari dhadkan sun sakte ho? Hamesha se.)

      Arhi’s bond would not have been formed without the RM and GH tracks. And now the time is ripe to bring in Anjali, because now is the time to test that bond.

      (I want to mention here that the Cvs made a huge mistake of not utilizing their cast by just concentrating on the love story. When IPK started, it was it was announced that the bulk of the serial will be on the shoulders of Sanaya andd Barun, but there was no point in ignoring the rest of the cast. If they couldn’t be allowed to bond with Khushi for sake of MU in future track, they should have been still allowed screen space with interactions amongst each other. They tried with babli and MM, but they failed because Arhi scenes took up all of the CV’s time and energy. )

      I think we all understand the story from different povs and I am not saying that my pov is the right one. But I think it is very important to understand that the CVs are not clueless about the direction, we need to trust them with their vision. They are telling us a beautiful story, we have to be patient (sometimes immensely patient, I agree) to see the beauty in it.
      And when you see the beauty in IPK, you really feel like you are under a spell.

      Imagine if they had brought in Anjali right after holi, we would have none of these beautiful moments- hypo scene,HR scene, beauty and the beast, ASR losing his voice(remember hum sun sakte hain?) and the whole GH guldasta of beautiful romantic scenes.
      Unfortunately, there are very few people who feel like me, therefore I was very happy to come across this post in IF.
      http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=3054470
      Please read this.

      I feel that phase of him hurting her more is over and now we will have to wait and see if the original MU has cleared. If ASR does not apologise in words, the first sign of that MU clearing would be RTR.
      Again, my vague feeling is that RTR is not yet around the corner.

      I don’t know if the next separation will occur only after MU clearing.
      There are beautiful ways to take the story forward otherwise also. Lets be patient and in the meanwhile continue to weave our beautiful scenarios around them. Also keep our minds open to enjoy the beauty in IPK as the CVs envisioned it.

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    3. Su, loved your post.. now that you put it all together so logically, the almost 300 episodes that we have seen make sense in hindsight.

      though i have to say that it is only the Main Storyline that has been followed.. the day-by-day screenplay has been so disjointed that most of the love scenes stand alone.. the continuity in the flow of the serial had been severely compromised..the situations looked so contrived and illogical that we can enjoy it only if someone highlights the love scene.. or dia writes a dreamy review.

      at some times in 2012, the scenes jumped from romantic moments into serious WT moments with such speed that it gave the viewers whiplash. what i am saying is, the CVs know the story overview.. it is the episodes that need work..especially because they are giving us the story in daily bits of 20 minutes each.

      and Su, i agree with your prediction.. and the IF article you quoted.

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    4. I have to agree with both Su and Jaya ... the cv's have a story all right, and they have followed it ... but they have definitely faltered in the execution of the scenes, and even the presentation ...

      The GH track would have been much better if they hadn't made Khushi into a klutz, who was trying to show down and publicly humiliate Arnav ... Indian audiences don't like that and that alienated quite a few viewers. They could have shown exactly the same effect but without Khushi doing things deliberately, and it would have worked equally well if not better.

      The Suicide drama could have been handled much better ... instead of giving us bheja fry.

      The cv's have to understand that the TRP audience, who likes a sober serious educated Sandhya worshipping her illiterate husband, is NOT going to accept Nayi Soch in the form of a woman making fun of her husband ... however well-deserved it might be. And TRP's still rule the channels ... so Khushi's character has to be well sketched out. ASR is unique to Indian telly and that's a huge reason why IPK worked so well, but Khushi has to be kept intact.

      One of the reasons that TRP's stayed more or less stable even in Arnav's absence was because Khushi grew up and acted like Savitri fighting the God of Death himself to save her husband. Unfortunately or fortunately, this is what audiences want ... and I include myself in that audience too.

      So the story is there ... the treatment and the scenes have faltered ... they have to concentrate on the presentation much more.

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    5. oh yes .... GH could have been a huge TRP gainer .... if they showed Arnav adjusting on his own not just with Buaji and Garima but also with their situation .... and Khushi despite her dislike and want to make arnav uncomfortable cannot help but admire her 6 months husband .... beautiful it would have been with the 'Sundhari aur Shaitaan' that started the week to GH track.

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  12. Hey girls!

    Crazy weekend for me - personally and now it seems in IPK land too.

    Didnt mean to leave u all hanging high and dry. But now with new promo, DB news - shd I even bother (are they going to stick to that or is it all going to change? I am thoroughly confused with my thots now as last week epis sent mixed signals and my scenarios of 19th and 20th are adding to the muddle in my head!!

    SN: WT the why is blogspot MUing me and swallowing all my posts??? :( :( :(

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    1. Sandy >:D< .... Punishment for lack of attendance ... hope things well at your end too :D

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    2. Samzzz,

      Like I wanted to be absent :P

      Right now I have a bunch of buffoons I am trying to push back - idiots always seem to wake up when it is time for mywork day to end!!!


      Chk out my song thots - Dhadkan it is for now. posted on the Fri epi post.

      Didnt realize ki yahaan itni bak bak ho rahi hai

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  13. Sorry, girls, the comments were going into SPAM for some reason. Have restored them.

    New SBS ... can post as it has nothing new at all ... just the shooting of the hug which is for the promo only - it's not the actual scene.

    This was clarified by Sanaya - she says - 'I shot an identical scene with Barun 15 days back, I was asking them why can't they use that for the promo ...' instead of bothering to shoot a new one, is what she meant :)

    And both she and Barun said that he has been there on the show all the time, she said she's been shooting with him all along, it's you guys meaning the audience) who've not been seeing him ... Barun also said he's been there all the time ...

    I guess he was actually absent only for those 11 days right at the start, the rest of the time he has been coming back regularly for all the ArHi scenes and fight scenes ... that must be what they were talking about.

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    1. Dia if BS has been shooting all this while we might soon get his side of the story from the airport. K is bound to ask him lots of questions around how did it happen (KN) why did he walk out of the airport blah blah blah and hopefully for once he will fully answer her questions and we will get the FBs while he is telling her his side of the story.
      Hopefully more of bitwa on screen now....
      UJ

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    2. Oh yes they can delay going back to RM with that ... if they show RM side and ArHi parallel .... it going to take a lot of time ... as bitwa is sure to lose track more than often aur ajkal bitiya is also not that hesitant .... sure is going to take time .... drag this as much as you can cvs .... hai baarish bhi toh hogi :)

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    3. Dia,

      If it was indeed exactly as BS has mentioned,(nad i have no reason to doubt it as we did get BS doses every now and then) why were the spoilers so hung upon giving the BS whereabouts to the exact minute micro minute details....
      If they hadn't told us, we would have all imagined it to be part of the kidnapping track logistics....

      My sense is once everything is on track, it is natural to say "par yeh sab hua kyun" "nothing has changed" stance..anyways....i am really not complaining....

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    4. Rekha, yep, that spoiled it all, and made us more anxious ... totally counter-productive, and very badly handled by whoever was in charge of their PR. And Bitwa shooting his mouth off every now and then didn't help either!!!

      Anyway, we're at the fag end ... jahan we jheloed 6 weeks of Arnav absence and no ArHi, what's two days more :)))

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    5. haan abs.....

      itna jhelna.....aur woh thode se meek rants ke saath.
      Had little more maneuverability in personal romance than this....yahan toh joh diya woh saha....sab arhi prem mein LOL

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  14. Dia did change the look of the blog or is it by default ???

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    1. I changed it ... for some reason many comments are going into SPAM, so I'm trying to re-set the whole thing :)

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    2. it looks like the one I have on my mobile :)

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  15. Just wondering about the word "misunderstanding". IPK has taken this word to new levels of understanding....

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    1. http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=3046918

      Read this !!

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    2. *ROFL* really gud one

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  16. ok..adding some shiddats myself for the first time.. in line with gargi's though -

    1. Arnav still may not believe in God...but he goes to DM for K's sake and asks for forgivesness from her for everything he did to her daughter.. and yes, understand what marriage meant to K and get married in front of that fry own DM

    2. No more ArShi MUs please..its a done deal!! He may cry alongwith his darling sister all he wants to, but stay by khushi's side and support her

    3. No MU b/w mami-khushi too.. mami has seen khushi's restlessness in finding arnav..she shouldnt be potrayed so dumb as to ignore all that..mami has her own set of beliefs, but she is not wrongly prejudiced against someone..

    4. NK - please, in a serious manner..explain to Arnav HOW much khushi was worried sick about u and how getting together with shyam completely plotted by the two of them.. INCASE arnav MUs khushi again.. and then u can safely make ur exit.

    5. Nani - be angry with khushi for lying how much ever u want, but please support her when anjali points her finger at khushi for plotting together with shyam and kidnapping her.. you have always, always believed in khushi and her true character even before she became a part of the family.. please keep that trust intact.

    6. CVs - we have had ENOUGH of khushi shedding her tears and getting slaughtered mentally for something she has NOT done.. we have seen ENOUGH of how she has crossed every line to prove her innocence..especially to Arnav. Please dont make her struggle and the last 3-4 months of audience emotional turmoil futile by adding another MU b/w A and K.. give her her due..let her be happy FOR ONCE .. and enjoy the most special moments with the man she loves, before another storm overcomes her.

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  17. on a side note - I LOVED the layout of the blog diya.. it looks cool! :)

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  18. Hey Dia love the layout!

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  19. Thanks, guys ... totally by chance :)) This layout separates the comments and the replies ... so I might keep it this way ... or I might experiment a little more :)

    Can you guys see the number of comments on every post? I can't see them ... I have to open the post to see. Bugging me :(

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    1. Nope Dia ... I can't ....I was just about to say it :(

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  20. Hi Dia,

    Liked the new layout....the replies to a comment are being shown nicely apart from the uniformity of fonts....liked that very much

    yes.....the comment numbers are not visible, one has to click "links to post" to do that...

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    1. Okay, either you get number of comments, or you get the main comments and its replies nicely laid out ... apparently I can't get both.

      Will try the other templates tomorrow and see if some design gives me both together ... till then, Sandy wanted red, she gets red :)))

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    2. Dia,

      I loved this new layout. Reminds me of colours running to mix with each other - like our thoughts confluence on this blog!

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  21. Hey Bhaggu

    51 comments and all u girls seem to be having fundoo ideas..ab main kaise catchup karoon?!

    Dia, nice new layout - except why so blue - thoda red ho jaaye;). The font is my personal fav so love it :)

    SN: Why am I unable to subscribe to feed. Is it that time of the month for blogger?

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  22. A song as we wait for the ARHI romance to take off

    Its a personal favourite from the film of Anupama....
    Its a romantic number tho i used to sing this like a lullaby to kid....i think becos i never liked the traditional Hindi film lullabies, i guess



    dheere dheere machal ae dil-e-bekaraar, koi aata hain
    yun tadap ke na tadpaa mujhe baar baar, koi aata hain

    uske daaman ki khushboo hawaon mein hain
    uske kadmon ki aahat fizaon mein hain
    mujh ko karne de karne de solah singaar, koi aata hain

    mujh ko chhune lagi uski parchhaeyaan
    dil ke nazdik bajti hain shahnaaeeyaan
    mere sapnon ke angan mein gataa hain pyaar, koi aata hain

    ruthh ke pehle jee bhar sataungi main
    jab manayenge woh maan jaungi main
    dil pe rahta hain aise mein kab ikhtiyaar
    Koi ata hain

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    1. Rekha, this song is one of my all time favourites ... just love it!!!
      And suits Khushi to a T right now - wish we could see a scene with this!!! :)))

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    2. Yes....Dia...isn't it?
      me too wish the same....

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    3. Rekhs,

      Hayyeee...

      Anupama is such a wonderful movie!

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    4. Yes Sandy,

      Beautiful story and lovely music.....loved Dharmendra in that role, i also liked him a lot in Satyakam as well

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  23. Rekha hugs! love the song from Anupama. It's one of my favs as well. It has a lovely feel to it. In fact my mum sang this song at my Sangeet.... Awwww!!! Hugs....
    UJ

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    1. Hugs UJ......in fact....my sis-in-law used to go into her personal lala land when she was getting married listening to this song and we used to tease her abt it...nostalgia nostalgia thanks to Bollywood and ARHI

      am yet to catch up on all posts of yesterday.....still doing that......

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  24. Adding a shiddat for this week and every week hereafter:

    May Shwetha's dream for her children come true Devi Mayya!

    "my biggest dream come true moment is of me and the kids sitting in our bedroom enjoying the rain talking and playing with each other"

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