Thursday, March 1, 2012

1/3 - Epi 199 ... Ghanti Baji ... Or ... For Whom the Bells Toll

1st Mar Thurs

Better than I expected ... I thought today would be full of Gupta drama, but fortunately not :)
Liked the way it started, with Khushi's flashbacks of how she left her home that night, never dreaming so much would happen to change her life ... and being disowned ...
The Guptas' neighbours seem to be classier than the Raizadas' neighbours ... they politely enquired about her wedding, remarked without malice at the suddenness, and wished her well before leaving. Happyji was sweet!!!

Gupta melodrama was expected ... I like small subtle touches in this show which make it realistic - Garima's face showed her initial happiness, before the anger re-emerged, she let Khushi enter, and then shut the door so that nosy neighbours would not overhear. I remember even during the break of Payal's first wedding, she did the same - first asked Khushi if she was all right, then took her inside so that the scolding would be in private. A small touch, but it makes a difference.
Of course Buaji and Garima couldn't forgive Khushi ... liked the way Khushi started off all spirited ... you thought because I got late, you would leave me? ... and then getting steadily more and more hurt ... her tears as she knelt in front of Babuji, the one person who hasn't turned his back on her ... okay, Payal was added to the list today ... but Garima and Buaji, unforgiving, threw her out.
As we guessed, Khushi pretended to call Arnav, and left ... still keeping his 'maan' in her maayka by telling the Guptas subtly through the phone call that yes, her husband is with her in this. Trying to lessen their feeling of guilt that they're not throwing her out on the street? And she leaves, takes one last look back at her family ... and shuts the door behind her. There's no going back now, if ever she thought there was.

Payal redeemed herself more by calling Arnav to ask if Khushi has reached all right ... so she let Arnav know that Khushi left an hour ago, didn't eat anything, was scolded by Buaji and Garima and was upset, and the family thinks he's picked her up so she's safe ... all in one breath without pausing much ... I think Payal was scared she would lose the courage to talk if she stopped even once ...
Arnav bitwa already unable to concentrate on work before the call, is even more anxious after it ... and gets ready to go find his missing biwi ... but he can't show his anxiety because his sister reappears again, asking about Khushi ...

Anjali seriously needs to stop shadowing her brother and get her own life! Maybe if she did, her husband would stop looking elsewhere!

And the hunt starts ... Delhi Darshan as Arnav reaches Khushi's house, calling her phone all the while, why is she not picking up ... asks Happy, asks the chudivala, asks the chanavala ... he sure knows the right people to ask ... gets a clue and takes off again ... this girl will drive me mad ...
Arnav bitwa, you're already mad, just admit it now.
And Khushi can't stay khafa with her best friend for too long, besides the poor girl has literally nowhere else to go ..

*gloat break* ... I said he should find her in a temple ... Yippee!!! :>

So Khushi scolds her Devi maiyya ... I haven't come to talk to you, I just wanted to sit quietly alone ...
She decides to leave and the temple bell is struck ... time for the aarti ...
And the bell strikes in another quarter ... Arnav's brain ... as it finally clicks where she might be ...

The second time Arnav has come to a temple in search of Khushi ... of his own volition ... entering a temple ... (counting their wedding, the third) ... Khushi sees him, and decides she doesn't want to see him ...

So Arnav now searching among the praying multitudes, looking for his Khushi ... DM having a good laugh ... bitwa, aur bolo that you write your own destiny ...

Dia's note ... I think we need to keep those shiddats moving ... a good many are happening here! Do the cv's ever come here?

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  1. 'Yeh ladki toh mujhe pagal kar ke hi chodegi...'ROFL ...Really I agree with Arnav this girl is totally mad. She's irrepressible 'happiness' and just so brilliantly determined.

    I love her characterization...And I love that Arnav knew exactly who to ask-she gets distracted easily by shiny objects-let me ask the bangle guy...that day I was going crazy looking for her she was haggling over chana...and the way he's asking everyone have you seen khushi?? Yes yes your Khushi she's the only one in the world...bitwa just because your universe revolves around her that doesn't mean everyone elses does too...belatedly Arnav realised this too and described his 'missus'...

    Khushi...asked to leave her own home...doesn't want to go back to lanka(a.k.a RM)..As NK says Raavan tho works from home these days...so the Mrs. is off to 'not' chat wth DM....

    "No I'm not talking to you DM! in fact I'm leaving! Aarti...? maybe I should stay-No i will stand firm-you wronged me- good day madam! ASR!! Okay I'll choose DM aarti over a fuming Arnav any day of the week and twice on Sunday!"

    Lol...does she think he won't come into the aarti to find her because of his aversion to aartis and poojas? Guess again bitya...He attended an entire 5 day long havan to see your bangles, you managed to get him to light the diya for janmashtmi, he broke your fast at the teej aarti, your oh so auspicious engagement happened at the mandir and your oh so private marriage also happened at the mandir...when it comes to you ASR only seems to have an aversion to not being able to see you... Anyway whether you both like it or not Devi Maiyya is running the show and as I said earlier she likes to have the really big Arhi moments on her home turf...if only so she can watch her handiwork and enjoy the show...

    SN 1: The Gupta's neighbours were so sweet!! and Happyji-aww...now maybe the Gupta's havent noticed but apart from mami-who would have found a reason to taunt them irrespective of Khushi and Arnav's eloping affair- no one else seems quite so judgemental. The Raizada's have accepted her, Nani has accepted her heck even nasty aunty said she looks beautiful how about you tell buaji to keep shut and take a cue from babuji and stop being so bothered about a society which has already accepted her?
    SN 2: ...I hope NK doesn't leave without giving gyaan to both ODG and ODB...he's totally on the ball and they're in dire need of his vishesh tippani.
    Sn 3: Khushi please please call Arnav's bluff! No way he can make nani, di, mama and Akash ship off Payal.
    Sn 4: Payal is catching up with Akash on the RTR...good girl.

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    1. Gargi, I hope one day just like she sits and thinks that for a guy who does not believe in God, He has done so many things just cos she wanted it that way.

      Totally with you on SN1..Loved the lady who said Khush raho, heartfelt and the first genuine blessing for Khushi as if DM herself came and wished her.

      I don't think she expected he would come looking for her which is why she is shocked first and seeing his anger a bit scared...She knows he is going to be furious, can I say slowly the anger is little bit disappearing..Be it in the shirt scene or now at the temple, the first reaction is just like how it always has been.

      I also loved his first reaction was not that she was with shyam but concern on her safety.

      I am hoping she faints...Ab toh ek faint banta hai yaar.

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    2. Hehehe...Shweths so with you on the faint...I think it'd be nice if he's yelling at her and she starts feeling dizzy and he gets exasperated with her and remembers the time she pretended to feel dizzy and when he went to get water ran away. He tells her to stop 'acting' and she collapses right into his arms...promptly making him feel bad and maybe for a split second think about his acting comment.

      Also so agree with you on the things he's done. That's what I like about Arnav's characterization...in spite of everything that's happened to him he's inherently such a sweetheart. Outwardly he'll be cross and annoyed but he'll do everything in his power(which is quite a lot)to make everyone around him happy. Especially Khushi and Di.As you said I hope Khushi does one day remember all those times...

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    3. Lolz, loved the little chat with her DM ... I'm not talking to you, yes, I am, no, I'm not ... I'm not staying for the aarti, ouch, LG is here ... and back to 'Hey Devi Maiyya' ... back to the fold ... like with all her other relationships, Khushi can't stay mad at Devi maiyya also for too long ...

      A few miles redeemed on the RTR - Bitwa was already disturbed about Khushi before Payal's phone call ...
      A few more miles redeemed - his first concern was for her safety ... no thought about Shyam ... :)

      And agree, ek faintiya ho jaye ... it's been too long. But with the challenge coming up, I doubt it will happen ...

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    4. Dia, Challenge could be a red herring, me hoping just like bua's red lehenga that never made an appearance.

      Garg: I prefer your sceneario, thinking she is pretending and her really faiting. U know that epi was the first time I noted Barun's voice when he corners her and is all angry and the moment he realizes she is fainting, his voice instantly goes soft with concern, Khushi....*Thud*

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  2. Dia and Gargi,

    Feel much better today. Haven't watched the episode yet but your updates tell me it will be worth it.
    I as a person have a lot to learn from Khushi. Her undying fighting spirit, being able to always find something positive even when her world is crashing down on her is such a life lesson for some of us. I do love her character and Sanaya has done a fantastic job breathing life into the character.
    One main reason I watch IPK is Barun and Sanaya. No matter how crappy the storyline gets, I will never abandon this serial only for their sake.

    More after I watch .

    Bye Now

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    1. Sahana on a personal note, I can tell you this and if at all I have to give only one advice to my kids is simply this. Have faith in God. If god gives you problem, God will always have a solution and more importantly you will be given the strength and heart to find that solution.

      This simple thing has helped me deal with all the ups and downs of life with a smile.

      Hope you don't mind my zabardasti ka gyaan.

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    2. Sahana and Shweths, very true ...

      When I saw Khushi's quarrel with Devi Maiyya the other day, I was reminded of this story ...
      A man dies and goes to confront God - he says you were never with me during my tough days.
      God shows him his footprints and says, see, wherever you went I was always there with you - that second set of footprints is mine.
      The man looks and says - but see, during my toughest times, there are only one set of footprints ... you left me at my worst times ...
      God smiles and says - during your toughest times, those footprints you see are mine - because I was carrying you ...

      I have seen people deal with illness, and the ones who come through are the ones who have faith ... it really helps and gives a lot of strength and mental courage. Do what you have to, whatever you can to deal with the situation, and have faith that somewhere, someone is watching out for you.

      I agree, Sanaya has really breathed life into this character and made her an inspiration ... there is so much to learn from her positivity and fighting spirit.

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    3. I feel odd talking about it Sahana, but honestly I really agree with you. Its so strange to sort of I don't know, look up, to a fictitious character but its amazing the positivity this girl has and spreads. Its infectious and even in real life people want to be around such people and such people are so resilient. Something to learn and imbibe...

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    4. @Dia, your story bought tears to my eyes, though i have read it countless times before...even i am a firm believer and have always felt looked after.......

      @Gargi n Sahana..was thinking the same thing the other day when she had a convo with DM in Rm Mandir (was thinking bt it during my ride to office) that this character is quite phenomenal....her chirpy bubbly nature, her never say die attitude, the strength to stand up against in-justice.....i love her character..... and Sanaya has liven the character for us....i can't imagine anyone else as khushi...

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  3. Dia and Gargi,
    Beautiful post on a episode aimed hopefully to move the story forward...
    Really nothing to add to what u guys have written, u have covered every single aspect...
    Khushi's spirit so beautifully conveyed by Sanaya, this girl never ceases to amaze me..she can turn an ordinarily conceived scene into a brilliant one with that special "sanayaness". I forget, barun was very good too!!
    Now since this blackmail thing looms large, wondering which way will this go? Will they return to RM on equal footing? Its important they do...
    It can't do anything for Arnav's characterisation to use Payal as an excuse any more so i am curious what the CVs have in mind.A lot of dilution has already happened, any more will make it difficult for even the rosy optimist in us to let Arnav take the RTRW pathway!!keeping fingers crossed!!

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    1. Sanaya was like a kid yesterday at the temple. Barun was great with his expression during payal convo.

      I think they will return on an equal footing now. The anger mistrust will be there, but I already seeing thawing of relationships.

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    2. Sanayaness..hehe..The way she freaks out when she sees him ascending the steps was just too cute..freaked out and knows exactly what he's like when he starts yelling at her she turns and hides amongst the aarti attenders..

      I agree about the Payal part...Khushi needs to call him on that bluff...

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    3. Me too ... loved Sanaya today ... the sulky scolding talk with her DM ... she is really her best friend! And interspersed with her genuine hurt about her family - I miss them, I want to go home ... Sanaya manages to keep that lost little girl part of Khushi alive even in the middle of all the family drama ...

      Barun was good ... I watched the episode with my mom, and we were both going ... serves him right, achha hai he's so worried, let him worry more!

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    4. Hahaha....I watched the episode with my mum too Dia and she asked me what would you do if you were in Khushi's position?(mother's and their need to prepare you for everything-even fake tv serial scenarios)...I told her hello! its just a show maa!(she doesn't need to know about my gazillion visits to R&R)...she asked me but still, hypothetically?...I told her if I were khushi I'd probably run in the other direction at the sight of ASR and once he caught up I'd refuse to go back anywhere say I'm becoming a sanyasi and shifting to Rishikesh because of you. Come get me from Rishikesh once your brain wakes up and you've sorted out this mess with everyone...Lol...

      Totally random I know, but just remembered...anyway random bak bak contribution:-p

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  4. Dia, Gargi and Rekha...all beautiful posts. I just watched the episode quickly and will repeat again when it is shown on TV in the evening. I cant wait till the evening everyday and end up watching the You Tube version during the day!!

    Loved the episode...I agree, the Gupta neighbours were all nice to Khushi unlike the Raizada guests who keep sunaaoing tane when they come to their hosts house....do people really do this even today?

    Happyji made Khushi happy! He said he was angry that she did not invite him, but immediately asked if she was ok? One of the only people these days who is kind to her.

    NK needs to say something to her and give her a pep talk. He had once said to Khushi...aap bahut kuch kar sakti hain, during the sangeet.

    The moment that took my breath away today is when Arnav suddenly realized where she is and sighed in relief and realization! Of course! She would be at the temple. Isn't that where she would go!
    Barun is so good at portraying the conflicting emotions, but he was completely unconscious of any conflict at that moment...All he felt was relief...brilliantly acted and directed....This is why my dil always mange more! Also remembered the time when both of them are sent to look for Anjali before Rakhi and Khushi has the insight that Anjali would be in the temple and, sure enough, there they find her!

    Bitwa certainly knows his patni well... (Where would Khushi go?)
    Churiwala? Chanewala? Nooooo, Devi Maiyya, of course!

    Bitiya tho hamesha dil chura lethi hai! Her never giving up, always thinking about the people she loves, Always trying to put a smile on their faces even though she may be in the tightest of spots. And today she was back to dodging patidev, who is striding up the steps of the temple in the best angry-young-man fashion that he does so well!
    Sahana, I know what you mean about Barun and Sanaya! The show would not be the same without both of them...I mean, even if one leaves the show for some reason, I dont think I would have the heart to watch!

    Payal is back. Its time that she and jeeju did something for their Khushi. At least give her some moral support.

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    1. Harini, the Raizadas have mastered the knack of inviting Nasty aunties to their parties who end up doing more good.

      Waiting for NK's gyan baantofying maybe he won't leave after all,I am sure Karan can manage 2 shows if he wants to.

      Bitwa knows her the best just as Bitiya knows him the best. Both are excellent at pushing the wrong buttons when it comes to each other, lol.

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    2. Harini, the middle class Guptas ke middle class neighbours are far more tolerant than the high society hypocritical ones. My view is people who have struggles in their day to day lives, who have to make small compromises and adjustments every day for their day to day living, are much more tolerant of other people's weaknesses and so-called mistakes, because they know that life throws difficulties at you every day and you have to deal with them in the best way available to you. Also, they are more caught up in their own lives, and don't have the time to pass sweeping judgements on others!

      I was really glad that Shyam didn't even enter Arnav's mind when Khushi went missing .. he was just worried about where to find her!

      Payal ... am not surprised ... remember, we did say earlier that Payal is the only other person who has managed to scold Arnav at any time, and that was always for Khushi's sake. So glad to see her redeem herself ... and I like seeing the mutual respect between her and Arnav. Makes me hope even more that Khushi will call Arnav's bluff ... because there is no way Arnav will drop Payal back home - he won't be able to do it - and if he does, Payal will start asking him questions as well as Khushi - he can't handle both the Gupta sisters together!

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    3. I'm glad the guptas neighbors were nice to khushi.. but most probably they knew her bubbly personality, remember she gave them jalebis for new year and tutored their kids..

      raizada guests never knew any personal things, so they can talk whichever way they want.. but i wanted the gossip to be gup-shup between two guests, not outright questioning their hosts.. won't that be more natural?

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  5. Dia, looks like they know you are in Delhi and hence the Delhi Darshan for us, lol.

    My take on epi:

    Gupta family torture...MEHHHHHH..I can actually watch Lakshmi's Mehhhhhhhhhhhhh over it anyday.

    Babuji is the only one who is happiest to see her, loved his expressions.

    So they kick her out and Khushi pretends to call Arnav asking him to pick her up at the temple and walks off.

    Payal gets worried calls Arnav, Arnav is FURIOUS that Khushi got scoldedd (YEAHHHHHHHH, I am soooooooooo looking forward to him blasting the Gupta Ladies one day *SHIDDAT ALERT*)

    Bitwa all worried and concerned starts to leave, his Hitler Di comes and asks concerendly is khushiji's okay, he lies, she instantly guesses something gadbad.

    Okay why does she keep asking this, What are you hiding from me chotay..(Okayyyyyyyy...I actually wanted this castle beckett scenario, I love you kate on Arnav and Khushi and not Arnav & Anjali, Di your hubby is a KP, Could it be that she heard him and fainted...and now is not sure that she hallucinated or was it for real?)

    Anyway she insists he go with Akash, he goes..........Duh, I have my own car you know and leaves.

    And searches and searches for her.

    Meanwhile Bitiya is at her BFF home, her second home and is having a mock fight with DM, I wont talk to you, I wont stay.

    Aha, But DM has other plans bitiya and that includes bitwa too.

    Bitwa keeps searching and has his Menthos moment, Oh she will be at the temple ala Anjali.

    Goes to the same temple they got married (GLOAT ALERT, I was right I was right) and finds her there.

    She turns, he is standing and she instantly realizes he is furious and tries to hide.

    So blackmail will happen tomorrow, come home with me now . No I wont , not until you tell me and our family why we got married the way we did.

    He will say you have 2 hours, she wont come home.

    He will go searching for her again and then RAIN HUG/ACCIDENT/ WHAT???

    If only Babuji could talk, he would go, Khushi Bitiya I am sooooooo happy that you got married to Aranv Singh Raizada, I met him at Diwali, He is a good guy, I instantly liked him and trusted him.

    Ignore these dumb ladies, they had you almost marrying that slimy snakewa...You are better with Hottie Bitwa. You go girl, have a happy life and get all the love you deserve from the guy who loves you as much as I do.

    Dia & gals, his brain seems to be coming back from vacation, bitwa zeroed in on the temple.

    Dialogue of the day _ Yeh ladki mujhay pagal kar kay chodegi.

    Dialogue from the audience - Ab pata chala hamara kya haal hota hai, get back soon together both of you, your bed is waiting for you.

    Khushi has not eaten anything, they are at a temple, What say Teej scene faint repeat minus the standing faint, rather this time fainting in his arms?

    Payal and Aranv spoke to each other, I wanted a convo, got one.

    Bakwas Humor - If Diya had to rename her blog what would it be?

    DIYA AUR BAK-BAK HUM :)

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    1. Haha ... so you want me to rename this blog now??!!! Love the bak bak here ... I have almost stopped going to IF now!

      DM is stepping into action, Shwets ... She rung the ghanti over Arnav ... dimwit, socho, socho, at this moment, Khushi is upset, disturbed, kahan jayegi ... nope, not to you, she will come to me only na? So chup chap mere paas aa jao uske peeche peeche ... DM wants to get this errant black sheep back to her fold ...

      I am annoyed and a bit puzzled with Anjali - why is she shadowing her brother? Did she actually hear what he said, or what Khushi said to DM ... or has she actually figured out that ArHi are exactly the epitome of a happily married couple ... Anjali is not such a bright light to zero in on their emotions so quickly otherwise!

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    2. DIYA AUR BAK BAK HUM...ROFL...

      And babuji's silent...glad you married hottie bitwa rather than slimey snakewa...still ROFL-ing...

      ;-)

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    3. Dia: Aiyoo naaaaaaaaa re, just goofing around.

      Waisay if you ever decide to change the name of your blog, you should hold a contest for it, Contest ka naam:

      Iss Blog Ko Kya Naam Doon?

      *wink*

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    4. Shweths will win hand down...Shweths do you work in advertising? Because your one liners are too cool and spontaneous....if not I think you have option for career switch;-)

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    5. I am at home mum now, but thanks Gargs *hugs*

      Dia, You know even in SBB segment with the fake kheer, why is she spying on them, why is she not spying on Payash cos she knows wahan kuch nahin hota.

      Jokes aside, this is really strange so I feel the castle scenario, she hears her bro saying your hubby is cheating on you, faints does not hear Khushi but now is not sure, did he really say it or did she imagine it.

      Or if she really did hear Khushi, now she wants to make sure dunno how.

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    6. Yep, Anjali's antennae are definitely raised ...

      Saw news on IF that Abhaas is unwell, so there will be more fake ArHi romance till he is back ... only then can we expect any more progress for ArHi - after all, RS is our resident Cupid-in-chief! Every time he tries to separate ArHi, they come closer ... so hopefully this fake romance will finally reach the person it is intended for once Abhaas is back, Shyam will get infuriated and make his next slip up ...

      When he saw that bindi scene between ArHi, he swore that Khushi would wear only his naam ki bindi and sindoor - and hey presto, Khushi wore Arnav ke naam ka sindoor promptly ... we desperately need Shyam back to shove some sense into DB's head!

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    7. DIA, wah wah what a point, Shyam jo chahata hai uska ulta hota hai, his shiddat is that powerful.

      Abhaas get well soon, I am tired of seeing Anjail spying on these two.

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  6. Dia,

    Babuji and thankfull Payal added to the list. Can I say I love when Payal and Arnav talk, the mutual respect for each other just comes through so easily. Yes, he calls her Payal while her hubby for whatever reasons suffixes a ji, but you can easily note the respect in his tone.

    I also loved the way the Gupta drama was minimal and Khushi didn't give away Arnav.

    As for the temple scene, Did you read my shiddat in shiddat post, bahut cheesy hai, I know,lol.

    This is my interpretation copy and pasting from Sathya's thread after Doodz mentioned Bidaai.

    For me I interpreted it a little bit differently for 2 reasons. I was not happy with the way they got married and what Shwets said the other day about the validity of the marriage.

    Like You and Sathya said, this is her Home, her True Maayka.

    So for me Arnav coming to get her was in the form of his baraat coming to get take his bride home.

    You know the saat pheras, I wouldn't be surprised, if they both end up circling the temple and finishing the last of the pheras...I think on last count they have finished 5 or 6 right.

    That day he dragged her in pretty much against her wishes and they got married without getting ashirwad from DM.

    Today I am hoping when the Panditji comes and gives them the prasad after a stern look from Bitiya, Bitwa takes the prasad...Accepting DM's prasad and Ashirwad.

    Who knows the Pandit might ask him to put sindoor too, do it Devi Maiyya ka aashirwaad aap donon ke saath hamesha rahega. Now he won't argue hopefully.

    Now if he does that, there will be witnesses, So Shwets Point about marriage and witnesses is taken care of.

    So now phera, Sindoor, mangalsutra already there, Marriage is truly completed now.

    This time when she goes home, It is because he wants her back, in his home as his wife and she goes willingly. The bidaai happens.

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    1. That's actually so apt Shweths...Devi Maiyya is her unconditional family, her true maayka...her mother, her best friend her humraaz she says so herself..

      You guys said that your husband is supposed to pick you up from pag pheras...how apt! That's really deep Shweths.

      Yes I agree I hope Arnav accepts prasad this time. Or another scenario...he tells her off and says ok lets go and she willingly leaves the aarti in between...he's shocked..when it comes to aartis both khushi and Di are as strict as boarding school matrons so why is she leaving in between?..he asks her and she says...'hum inse baat nahin kar rahe hai...chaliye' and he stares at her dunmbfounded-this girl really baffles him. Then just because she doesn't want to he decides they should stay(because his Di wouldn't like him barging into an aarti and just leaving, of course Di ka bahana) and then both end up taking prasad.

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    2. Gargi, love the second scenario - Amen to it!

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    3. Gargi, I liked that second one too ... Arnav deciding to stay just because Khushi wants to leave ... our Bitwa is like Mary Mary - quite contrary!

      Shwetz, am with you 100% ... I also prefer this bidaai, from DM's house, and Arnav picking her up himself ... also agree with you on the marriage thing ... they got married in front of Devi maiyya all right, but duniyadaari bhi koi cheez hai ... so if Arnav in the temple, in front of witnesses, has to put the sindoor again and even lands up doing the last remaining phera, I will be happy with that. And accepting the prasad from the pandit of course ... or if Khushi is feeling faint, he needs to feed her so he takes the prasad from the pandit and feeds her himself ...

      Also, in my experience, in a temple, the pandit never puts the tika on a married woman himself, either she puts it herself or her husband has to do it ... so if panditji brings the tika and tells him to put it on his wife, Bitwa has to comply in front of so many people ... bingo, one more marriage rasam done in front of witnesses this time :)))

      all sorts of possible scenarios now that they are in the temple :))) But the blackmail thing ... when? how? Need to wait till tonight!

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    4. Ya the mystery deepens, luckily the fake kheer will happen only on monday after they reach home and that will be the precap, mehhhhhhh as if we dont know it is a fake.

      So obviously today will be spent at temple...Cudnt they give us spoiler or anything, so it will either be a delight or an absolute disaster, let us see.

      hey diya, since you are on IST, will the post be up soon?

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    5. Yep, will post immediately after the episode ...

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  7. Ladies, you speak my language!! what a relief, a good episode finally (one that left me all smiles :D)

    so with you all about ODB asking the people he thought would be imp to his DG for directions, so glad he only though of her and no Snakewa!, loved the part that he was so worried that he did not even understand that Payal had mentioned a mandir, so loved the fact the he said "I should have known!" - Yes DB you should have! you should have also known what she is like, she cant cheat, she cant harm anyone least of all you and your family!!
    from the beginning -
    - Gupta neighbors - far more classy than the Raizadas
    - thank God the GH scene did not stretch till eternity - but i understand that they had to kick her out - see she cant have another heaven to turn to, she has to have no one but ODB!
    - Payal redeemed herself completely - i think she suspected Khushi did not call ASR and hence just told him all in one breath! Good ODB did not give the Guptas a piece of his mind - would not have been appreciated by ODG - she would not have liked him scolding her parents!
    - Him saying - 'this girl will drive me nuts" :D - DB - you already are nuts (about her!!!)
    - Him saying - i should have known - DUH - yes you should have!
    - ODG fighting with DM - funny!
    - liked they finally showed Delhi - ok the central parts but at least it had some sense of place - not rides in the jungle bayabaan where he can stop the car anywhere and there is no traffic around and the only shops are bad kiosk!! (sorry am a sucker for such things)
    - in all - things seem to be moving - :D - we might actually get to see the family behaving normally now - having dinner/lunch (which was a regular feature till now), people going to work, the famous morning aartis (the ones La got scolded for!!)

    ps. have to add this - read some post by some person pointing out the importance of the following episodes:
    25th - first pool side meeting
    50th - first time he realized he missed her
    75th - smiled for the first time
    100th - she hugged him .. and this continued till the lady talked about the 175th, ending by asking what would happen on the 200th!!! - I could not help laughing and saying 'baab ray - either this one has an amazing memory or too much time on her hands to actually note this' - THEN - blush blush - i actually watched all of them for the said scenes!!! how pathetic am I :D :D

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    1. hahaha...nah not pathetic... committed, like all of the rest of us following this serial;-)

      And you're right...he should have known!! but its ok dimaaag ki batti ghanti bajane ke baad toh jalti hai at least.

      Question...promo shows khushi in the yellow sari again so does the blackmail scene happen again or did they just shoot that for the promo and now the actual scene will happen with her in a pink sari and awful gold choker...?

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    2. Mona, so is it true? The episodes, I mean? Then we can expect something tonight for sure - the 200th episode :)))

      I liked the Delhi darshan - just arrived in Delhi and at night I see all the old haunts ... me like! :)))

      I loved Payal's phone call to Arnav - so glad she took the initiative ... she is proving to be a good sister, far better than Anjali, I feel, who is just forcing Arnav into doing all the rasams, but not trying to mend things between them ... maybe I'm being a bit harsh on her, because she has actually been instrumental in getting Khushi accepted by the rest of the family.

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    3. Yes Dia it is! :D (almost - one episode here or there) but then that's how it has been from the beginning - every few episodes something imp happens! -

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    4. Mona, Payal did not tell him to meet her at temple, she simply said khushi asked you to pick up etc etc.

      Ya me too counting on 200th episode, let her atleast faint, maybe that explains the kheer, she says she is hungry and gets the kheer on Monday.

      ODD 200 episodes and we get zero news on celebrations etc, looks like the team is too busy shooting to realize all this.

      Oh i so want that arti, arnav attending cos HMC (Happily Married Couple) right, Lunch, going to office, some sense of sanity than all these rasams or heck let them talk, ignore, argue in their bedroom woh bhi chalega.

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  8. Hey Dia...

    me too liked the episode, loved khushi's small talk with DM.....she may say that she doesnt need DM but in the end she prays to her only, when she sees arnav.....

    Day b4 yesterday i was confused at Arnav throwing the bangle piece out, thought maybe he will steel himself now, against khushi.....but yesterday it proved that no matter what happens he cant do that......he was already restless b4 he got the phone call.....

    and best piece of news was that his dimaag is on its ways back.....

    also liked khushi's fake call ( i was dreading that shyam mite pick the call and turn up at the mandir, thankfully that didnt happen)

    i dont mind this kind of nok jhok between them......

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    1. Hehe ... Khushi went straight back to 'Hey Devi Maiyya' as soon as she saw Arnav striding up the steps in a temper ... bitiya cannot go too far from her divine mother, and DM is always looking out for her ...

      I actually wanted Arnav to get worried for Khushi without Anjali prompting - I was so glad to see that happen ... he was worried even before Payal called, after her call, he was instantly up and ready to go hunt for her, worried that she was scolded yet again, that she was upset yet again ... let's see how they take it today, and how he asks her to come back, how she refuses ...

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    2. I really liked how she kept her husbands maan in front of everyone. Whatever happens its between them. She will yell and shove him but within the confines of their room. Their interactions have always been so private, and I like it like that. The phone call made me like her even more- she has no one in the world and even then when she has nothing to lose she still isn't exposing him. The way Arnav deflected his sister and went looking for her with such genuine concern made me like him more too:-D

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    3. @Dia....our wishes are coming true, isnt it ?

      ditto Gargi.....all their problems are just theirs to argue and solve......i wish he ask her bt payal mentioning that khushi had called him.....and she replies that she knows that she can't bother him, but didn't want her parents to know that.....

      I am happy at the fact that the realized that she must be at the temple, and his affirmation that how can he forget that..now, if only he starts placing all the other fb's together......

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    4. Girls..a random thought
      when i watched Arnav's dialogue"yeh ladki mujhe pagal kar ke hi chodegi", i was reminded of that epi where Payal and Khushi have that convo about LG's patni...well LG ko toh aisi hi patni mili hain jo use theek karegi...

      This is the beauty of this serial, a simple dialogue, a fond recollection of an older moment..making the current moment even more special...

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    5. When do Khushi and Payal discuss LG's wife? I don't remember this! What did they say about his wife?

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    6. Gargi,

      It was one of those episodes after Khushi-Arnav have brought together Payal-Akash...payal saying something nice abt Arnav and Khushi immediately telling her off..it was a cute scene..I try and look up and let u know the epi..then u can watch it again

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    7. Hehehe..sounds only damn cute..:-)

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    8. @all: The moment payal called his body language was superb, it became alert. Payal why is she calling him and when she says she called you, he almost blurts out but she didn't.

      Will he realize she did not give him away at her parents place and pretended to call him. The same way Arnav does not say anything to Anjali, I LOVEEEEE this about this couple, whatever happens between them stays between them.

      I think it pretty much started from Rain park episode right, cos after the hug, she comes, they sneeze together and when nani asks you too were out in the rain, she instantly looks at him both remembering the hug and both keeping quiet. And he returns the favor by not telling Anjali about Hot tea.

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    9. i loved ODB's reactions to payal's phone call. but why did he outright lie to anjali? it was to be expected that something would go wrong at the guptas, what would have happened if he just said "i'll take care of it" instead of "nothing's wrong"?

      yes, bitwa does guard his emotions about ODG, but i thought he'd be honest to his di.

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    10. Jaya then he would have to explain to anjali why khushi did not call him first if that was the case, why payal is inquiring about Khushi when payal comes home and tells anjali this is what happened, khushi left first and called arnav.

      Now if Arhi come back and payash are already there, if arnav says they went out from there, payash will keep quiet tactfully.

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  9. Hey Gals...today's sbs segment link

    http://tvmasti.in/online/dm/?url=xp66hq

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    1. Oh my god...thud thud thud!! ...

      Then I saw Anjali standing there and I thought cruel cruel cruel why make her hope...and us too:-(...false hope is worse than Nooo hope...:'(

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    2. @Gargi.......i felt somebody must be around, just like the last time.......just instead of mami, now its RB.......the cv's think all this fake romance will make us go aawwwwww...

      yeah Aarthi, even i wud've loved it if it was for RS......poor ODG....i hope she keeps her sanity intact and remember all his insults when he goes all fake lovey-dovey....

      on another note...i guess they are setting it up this way cause when the truth will be out (only to him, not Khushi) he will go all real romantic and she won't believe it, thinking its another of his dramas.....

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    3. @ geetanjili I really hope the idea is as u said, so when he knows the truth and yep only him to know the truth we will go all romantic and she won't believe it. May be its the another track which the CV's are keeping it open to contd the Pyaar and Nafraat intact.

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  10. Ok girls DM going on a break to grant our SHIDDATS i suppose. Bitwa faking loveydovey moments again agrhh!!! SBB seg . There goes the 200th episode . Bitwa's dimaag back to vacation and using it yesterday.
    Oh DM why faking it and for who RB? DM why this Kolavari Kolavari di.. It would have atleast been better if it was for RS . I would have loved to see that twitch of the Snakewa.. but for RB.?...
    But the sliver lining is ODG is asking the right question why is it always about u? Go girl . Now go and asking more and give him the ultimatim and for gods's sake act upon it...

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    1. OK DM you take a break but I want to add one more to our
      SHIDDAT list and on top priority.

      I so want Khushi faking love scene too a little more sexy one and I so want to see Arnav's reaction then, Bitiya just telling Bitwa that’s how you fake it and that’s what other feels when do it right and if you wanna fake it , fake it right the next time. Your DI might take your acting, but your manorama bond and KJ will need more realistic one.
      Sorry just getting annoyed with seg.

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    2. Love it Aarthi!! he needs a taste of his own medicine!! Even I'm damn annoyed!...

      They should have a scene where MB or KJ is spying once again and bitya right out of the shower hair all wet, marches upto ASR who'll be fake working at his laptop and say 'Sunno ye bandh do na...' nodding toward the dori of her blouse, he'll be shell shocked and stare at her and she'll say 'Jaldi karo na, humme jakar jiji ki madad karna hai.' He'll be all flustered fumbling around with the dori and suddenly she'll yank it out of his hands, tie it herself, dry her hair, pin up her pallu and start to leave.
      he'll ask 'Khushi?'...she'll reply 'mamiji chalegayi...tumhi ne natak karne ko kaha na??' and turn on her heel and walk out.

      Sorry even I'm damn annoyed. Two can play at this game. Or rather two should play at this game of his...and then later when he's all guilty he'll also remember all his missed 'opportunities'.

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    3. Aarti and Gargi, with you gals, the next time they are in the middle of the argument, she sees Anjali, goes all coy and lovey dovey, bitwa is WT...gets totally lost and she pushes him away, Di was watching you know and coolly walks off. Bitwa shaking his head going WT...

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    4. Yep, am with you gals too ... let her pull the same one with him just to show him what it feels like, including the push as soon as no one is looking, and telling him ... okay, you can stop now, she's gone ... and I want Arnav bitwa to be left all flummoxed and more than a little turned on ... grabs her and says WT ... and she goes coolly, isn't that what you wanted? and walks off.

      *SHIDDAT ALERT* let this happen, plzzz

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  11. And she should establish some ground rules too.

    You want to do natak outside? then

    1. Inside this room I'm sleeping on the bed you sleep wherever you want to I don't care. Why should I get a backache just because you're insane?
    2. No more shouting at me for no reason. and no more nostril flaring and glaring.
    3. If you want me to act like your wife outside you better start acting like my husband outside too! and not be so slow on the uptake and remember you have a wife without your saintly Di reminding you every time!
    4. Either Laxmi or Devi maiyya ki murthi are going to live in this room too. you pick and you make space for them.
    5. No need to get all over lovey dovey with me-no one buys it-everyone knows you're a Rakshas and the definition of happily married can be just being normal also like your sane brother and my sister! civil from you will be accepted as happily married by everyone. - basically stop chance pe dance maaroing-I'm not buying it buddy!

    Gah!! Enough is enough...clear the MU or don't that's fine wtr the cv's have decided but at least let her stay on her own terms. or on my terms rather. GAH!!!!

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    1. loved all ur points Gargi.....esp the 5th one.....But hats off to Barun for making fake look fake.....

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    2. Gargi, got that episode...its the 21st December episode..i mistook it to be after the payal-akash suicide drama, its actually after the engagement...
      Dia's Post for that date is titled Limping back to normal, u can also re-read that..
      happy viewing...sorry i don't know to put the link...

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    3. Geetanjali,

      I abs agree..Barun makes the fake look fake....and I think we must thank Barun for that becos when it will be real, bitwa will have us swooning...
      I think this difference would be vital and I am sure CVs will be particular to underscore the difference...
      In a way, I am glad they showed us Arnav in a flirty mood in the good times..otherwise this playacting would have looked unreal on a hardnosed character like Arnav. But now we know he is quite the charmer, so this acting(however, painful it is to us as viewers) is not hard to digest as a character.

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    4. Oooh thanks Rekha!!

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    5. Great points, Gargi, I especially want the first and the fifth ... let her do kabza on the bed - that's for starters!!! And her Devi maiyya/Nataraj comes into the room too ...

      AND let her tell him, stay civil both inside and outside this room ... I'm tired of your Jekyll and Hyde act, and I can't keep track of when you're what , and I don't want to bother any more! So stop shoving me around inside the room too.

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    6. 1.2.3 ASAP PLZZZZZZZ

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    7. Am so with you guys ! Gargi , especially ofcourse the 1st and 5th but i will hoot for the 3 and 4 also. I really dont want ODG to give him a choice , I want her to choose Laxmi and later DM saying Laxmi is all alone and needs a company. Poor Bitwa would be running to the pool side automatically. I so want DM in that room, our bitwa sees her chatting with DM and spilling out all her hurt and likes dislikes,infact everything but in parts.
      (Although i am really annoyed with our Bitwa now, and hope so, when he takes RTRW these would be handy tips)

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  12. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FwpXdBs1Sek&feature=g-all&context=G295f235FAAA

    more links gals......she not letting him hold her hands.....good going kkg....

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    1. Awwwwwww, YOU GO GIRL!! Loved how she said everything is about you, main main...she should have added no wonder this house as Goat as a pet.

      And Hayeeeeee, his version of HMC is holding hands, making her eat kheer, WHEN WILL THIS HAPPEN IN REAL?

      Why didnt khushi stop him saying, kheer may shakkar hai, aapko meetha mana hai..

      YOU KNOW what I would LOVEEEEEEEEE, Bitwa going all lovey dovey with kheer and I think we see khushi sees Anjali is watching and turns on the charm too.

      Fluttering her eyelashes and going arnavji, arnavji and ask him to do something which he CANNOT REFUSE with Di watching. Oooooooooh YEAHHHHHHHHH*Rubs hand in glee*

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    2. awesome thought shwetha.....bitiya holds the power now, let her realize it and use it accordingly.......so what do you want her to request....lets start making one more list.......

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    3. Shwetha,

      Hayyee yaar sach main Hayee bas kaash yeh naatak nahi hota.

      New bolegaindia article says ki Khushi eventually gives in and comes home :(

      Rangmunch has an article on 200 epis of IPK. Apparently the initial title of the show was Didi Ki Saut YUCKKK!!
      ASR is supposed to be a dark horse - a hard hearted man!!

      On the segments, my 2 bits, they meet in temple, ODG hopefully faints into his hand and DM finds a way to bless this union in broad daylight with people around. They blackmail and Khushi I think gives in (cos of that article). Come home and she refuses to do all this lovey dovey naatak of holding hands. Then the kheer thingie happens. Arnav gets her to feed him first, He then feeda her and with that bit stuck near her lips bitwa gets carried away (her lips have always distracted him yaar!). That removing kheer is not fake. Khushi is so stunned, she gulps her kheer the wrong way, chokes, bitwa rushes for water. Khushi sees Anjali walk away and when Arnav comes to offer her water says you can stop now, Anjali is gone. You were doing all this for her right. And bitwa to some extent feels like a heel bcos a fraction of that scene was not fake but real. But ODG will ofc not believe and ODB will not bother to explain.

      Then that confrontation in the room - going Main main Main. Actually it's either Di or Main with ODB

      Was also wondering about the title Iss Pyaar Ko Kya Naam Doon and the 4 main characters
      Look at it as Shades of Love b/w
      Arnav - Anjali (possessive / protective)
      Arnav - Khushi (irresistibe attraction / destined love)
      Anjali - Shyam (needy - attention, money)
      Shyam - Khushi (obsessive lust)
      Well if you add Payash - (mellow, mature)

      YDAY's EPI
      Ydya's epi was nice. Very apt titel Dia - DM decided that these 2 will just not get anything done by themselves. Ghanti bhi baji aur shankh naad bhi hua.

      And Khushi nailed it - "aap hamaare saath khel kehl rahi hain". I had hoped this scene to have flavours from both rakhi and engagement temple scenes. The I should have known reminded me of Rakhi and the seeing each other just as arti began reminded me of the engagement.

      I loved that Khushi pretended to call Arnav. Protected her family from knowing her suffering (they say she has no idea how many taunts they have born not nowing how many taunts she has heard and biggest of all words of hate and disgust from him)
      And also not giving away Arnav by revealing he would not come puck her up.

      Yes, what happens b/w them stays b/w them and DM ofc.
      Some lonely thoughts on that from all teh comments above.

      Arnav's restlessness, confusion and worry before and during Payal's call - Hayeeee

      Him knowing where to look for her - bitwa it is not just her who has observed you closely ;)

      Happyji....tussi bade cute ho!

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    4. Sandy, kahan this aap..

      AND would love it if that happens, he can fake romance, bitwa CANNOT FAKE HIS CONCERN FOR HER.

      So she will just assume he is faking the concern too and walk away.

      I want her to have the upper hand in all fake romances from now on.

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    5. Shweths,

      Kaminaa kaam all day today!
      Yep he cannot fake concern. Chk my comment to gargs on how I want the next fake scene to happen b/w them.

      When I saw that article on how she eventually gives in, I was a little heartbroken. But that main main main argument gives me hope. Hoping she will set some terms there and ofc there is all the points u've all made up above on that.:)

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    6. Geetu,

      Let us make a list of what annoys him the most: Attending poojas, going to temples, Oh yeah, wake him up early and get him to attend the arti daily, that is what I can come up with, what about you guys.

      If they were married for real, she would have insisted he take her shopping,but She will not ask any materialistic stuff from him...So pooja, arti is the way to go I think.

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  13. Just had a thought... There should be a scene when anjali isn't feeling well and wants her bhabhi's help So asks Khushi to sleep with her for a night... Khushi great fully accepts and Arnav and Snakewa are forced to share a room and then let's see ASR make Snakewa sleep by the poolside!

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    1. UNLIKELY SLEEPING PARTNERS, *rOFL ROFL ROFL*

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    2. no Gargi......poolside is very pure.....dont want to spoil it Snakewa's presence......

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    3. Geetu (hope I can call u that),

      Agree. Don't send that creep to the poolside.

      Instead let Anji and Khushi take the bed and ODB can take the recliner in Arnav's room.

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    4. Hey Sandy, sure you can call me Geetu :)

      ur idea likey likey

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    5. We missed your comments Sandy

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    6. Gargi...Khushi cant sleep in Anjali's room...that would be too creepy...and Shyam should never be in the poolside...that is only for ARSHI....it is their private space....just theirs alone!

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    7. Gargi....such a cute comment...I just can't stop laughing...*IJCSL* invented this just for u..
      Revenge ke liye kuch bhi karega kya?
      Sankewa and bitwa in the same room...how romantic
      RB and Khushi, kya match kar payenge KJ-LG ki chemistry?

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    8. hahaha Rekha I like!!

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  14. Hi Sandy! Uv been MIA all day?!

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    1. Gargs,

      haan bey!! Crazy work day. Kyun miss me;)?

      Just got thru all the comments. Some awesome thoughts and wishes from you and the others!

      Fingers crossed and waiting to see what happens. Looks like things are really slow moving bcos of RS being sick. After MB and RB, the next HCL act scene BETTER be before RS and I WANT ODG to initiate it and I SOOO HOPE it is the DORI scene - maybe when she comes down to arti, sees RS and confounds ODB by getting all lovey dovey...

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    2. Ofcourse yaar we missed you be, yeh kaisa sawal hai?

      Zuzana my IF friend told about this dori scene...Hayeeee, pehlay pearl ki dori thodi, ab bandhanay ka bhi to chance milna chahiye bitwa ko, what say girls?

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    3. I've been looking for sandhya(HAA) in all the replies!!...;-p

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    4. Oyeee, Sandy, where have you been the whole day?!

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  15. OMG...this clip of them feeding each other kheer was tooooooo good! it looks like it will happen after they come back from DM's after Pug Phere. Since he knows that she has not eaten anything, under the watchful eye of Di, it looks like he is feeding her kheer...Even if it is fake, I so love it when he pulls out all the stops....of course, bitiya is shocked. But she will recover her wits soon...she always does !!

    Love these two together......kyaa chemistry hai!

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  16. "yeh galli uski style ki hain.." ODB really knows his girl. and she DID buy channa from there :D

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  17. Damit there goes all hope of fainting and phera's
    but Bitwa Dhulaniya utha kar legaye.... cant wait for the next half... bitwa spilling out that she hurt him
    Bitiya's dimaag lights up. that he knows abt shyam.. and too making jelabi's dam

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  18. Ok now can have that Shiddat of Khushi taking the charge of all "in love couple moments" and especially infornt of RS and make a point that it was him there. Go girl u proved to be smarter than the dark horse.

    sorry am on rant mood.. happy that atleast some one is using their brains and thats has to be our shanka devi. DM thought it was no use just directing these 2 idots. so i better do it through help of Saraswati ma and tell shanka devi to the rest. Jai DM. you rock

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    1. Sorry making too many comments .. Akash and Payal redeems themselves some miles by promising bauji to make his family accept khushi and also telling RB and Nani the truth.
      Now Payal tell your JI the truth of RS and team up with khushi to bring out the truth.

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  19. finally gals.......bitiya switching on her brain bulb.......realizing what can be the problem......so ME will be a confrontation between them bt the truth....also she knows that Arnav is hurt, so its obvious that he had some feelings for her.......gr8

    ditto Aarthi....go khushi go.....be all lovey-dovey in front of RS.....

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  20. Girls,
    Jalebi bai ka hi sahara tha...finally some dots connected...
    I think the blackmail scene will play out in such a way that Khushi will come back hoping to unravel the mystery and not becos she believes Arnav will act out his threat....to me that seems a better alternative. ( that does not redeem arnav in my eyes for stooping so low but WT**, we will make him run a few more miles, if u girls permit)
    Khushi in control of the love scenes...thats sounds very promising!!her sanka dimaag will always be one upon bitwa...
    Dia, will wait for ur post...as always...

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    1. Girls there is spoiler by some from sets regarding the new promo. Holi celeberations and our bitwa and bitiya are drunk and their Dil goes Dhak Dhak. Promo to shown on tuesday night.
      here is the link http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=2817831

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