Thursday, March 22, 2012

Thurs 22/3 - 214 ... Don't Knock the Humble Dabba :)

Thurs 22nd March

There is a system in Mumbai, where dabbavalas, as they're called, pick up boxes of home cooked food and deliver them to office staff. Boxes from the staff's own homes, or prepared by housewives happy to earn some pocket money by putting their culinary skills to good use. The dabbavalas have delivered a few million tiffins at last count without missing a single one. This dabba system is so renowned that it's been used at Harvard Business School as a case study, and Prince Charles on his first visit to India made it a point to meet the humble dabbavalas, and their representative was invited to his wedding to Lady Camilla.
So don't knock the humble dabba ...

And so I liked the episode.
Mainly because many things I was afraid of, didn't happen ... Khushi didn't sell the food, she took it with full knowledge of Anjali (and even Mami), and she distributed it free to the staff. Using the opportunity to set up her business venture ... but not compromising her dignity as Mrs. Raizada ... or even Arnav's ... Anjali, Nani and Mami all knew what she had done ... in fact Anjali was the one who had the idea of taking it to AR.

Secondly ... nothing makes a woman feel quite so satisfied as her husband (and children) appreciating her cooking :) ... spoken from personal experience, and lots of it :) I don't cook often - am fortunate enough to have full time help. But whenever I choose to go into the kitchen, my kids and hubby make it a point to comment and appreciate, and that's what makes it so very rewarding. So I really loved the scene of Khushi feeling so happy watching Arnav eat her food with so much enjoyment.

And how cute was her very spontaneous "What the ...?" =))

Again, am not too sure where this is going to lead ... to Khushi going into this as a business venture? Will she fulfill another shiddat by telling Arnav, "I have to think of my future after I leave RM" thereby jolting him ... and herself into thinking a little further into the future? Will he allow her to go into this as a business venture, or will he stop her? From his slight smile at the end, he seemed agreeable - but then he didn't know what she was thinking about doing. Will she start this ... and succeed at it ... thereby making her more independent? Or will this also fail like her earlier ventures? I really hope not.

Good distribution of screen space, probably getting ready for four days of Sanaya's absence - she is there for the bulk of most episodes ...
Shyam gives Anjali the cot ... so she is going to announce it to the entire house - and to Arnav ...
Mami-Payal ... does Payal speak better English than Khushi? In which case, that's another thing on Khushi's to-do list. Chalo, the fashion show will keep them occupied better than the repetitive saas-bahu scenes which were going nowhere.

Last thoughts - Arnav bitwa is MAJOR Khadoos - his staff is terrified of even eating without his approval. And Akash was really funny, the way he justified - I'm not waiting for pizza - I'm going to eat my dabba - my wife sent it! =))

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Episode starts with Sanka Devi confiding in her latest confidante - I thought she had made up with DM? I guess Lakshmi has abandoned Nani for Khushi these days :)) And still worrying about returning the Rs 300. A new perspective as to why Khushi is suddenly so keen to return Arnav's money - because he said people who don't return money are cheats, and she doesn't want him to think she's a cheat - his opinion matters tremendously to her. Halwai, seamstress ... ideas abandoned ... then she needs to work off her worry in some activity or she will go mad ... so off to the kitchen to cook ... in vast quantities ... but still no ideas strike her.
Mami praises her salad ... =)) and Anjali and Khushi between them come up with the idea of distributing the mountains of food to the AR employees as their canteen is shut.

First obstacle - the hefty security guards ... charmed by Khushi and the aroma of her food into letting her in ... while the AR employees wait for their pizzas.
Akash lucky fellow gets his wife's dabba ... Arnav, still nursing his sore neck, sees wifey urging his employees to taste the food ... Khadoos Number One, still aggravated by the pain in his neck (both literal and figurative ;) ... the one in his neck and the one in hot pink) ... descends from his Olympian heights to utter an annoyed "what the ..." ... how can she be so chirpy when he's suffering?! Khushi, not daunted in the slightest, includes him in her sunny smiles, tells him to reserve his "what the's" for the missing pizzas and carries on doing a hard sell of her food :))
That beefy security guy salivating and swallowing was hilarious!!!

Arnav glares at his salivating hungry staff, daring them to touch the food in lieu of his missing pizzas, Khushi continues to chirp brightly about jalebis, and the staff is torn between angry boss and their own empty tummies ... empty tummies slowly getting the upper hand ...
Kishorilalji and Chamanlalji are recruited to help her take the food into the canteen =)) KLJ and CLJ suddenly putty in the hands of their boss's wife ... chalo, koi nahin, yaaron ... your boss is putty in the hands of his wife, which field radish are you? =))

Akash gives a barely hidden smile - he admires Khushi's guts to face his brother more than anyone else, I think ... and happily makes for the canteen to eat his dabba ... one speaking glare from Arnav - but Akash has a great excuse - his biwi sent his khana, so he doesn't have to wait for pizza ... pleasing biwi by eating her khana is definitely greater priority than displeasing bro by not eating pizza ...

Arnav furious - why haven't the pizzas come?! Staff nervously call again ...
Akash settles down with his food very contentedly ... small reassuring look at worried Khushi setting out her food dabbas ... and then the door opens and slowly, with very hangdog look, the employees start filing in ... empty tummies finally won the day :)) Arnav discovers his employees in the canteen ... Khushi gives him an exuberant Thumbs Up ... fuming Arnav withdraws ... and Khushi starts taking orders for the next day :)) ... with special orders for CLJ and KLJ =)) now firmly established as her best friends - guess they won't be stopping Mrs. Raizada from entering the office again in a hurry!

And Arnav behaving like spoilt brat again ... or sore loser ... she won this round, so he won't eat her food ... even though Akash tries to persuade him ...
And Khushi, packing up, two dabbas missing ... she goes on dabba hunt ... only to find HHWS busy proving to himself, and to her ... that her food is finger-lickin' good ... :)) eating as though he hasn't eaten for days!!!

Khushi's completely spontaneous "What the .." and clamping her hand over her mouth ... EPIC!!!
Utterly butterly cute!!! :">
And continuing to stand there and watch him quietly, her expressions changing from shocked disbelief to surprise and then pure heartfelt pleasure ... so completely happy to see her HH enjoying her home cooked food so much ... maybe this was subconsciously in her mind ever since he left the house without breakfast and Anjali said the canteen was closed too ...
No wonder cv's are delaying Khushi's realization of love ... the day she realizes it, or the day Arnav changes his attitude towards her, Khushi will not hold out against him for an instant ... she's head over heels in love with him, she's just not allowing herself to admit it in the face of his blow hot blow cold spells ...
He opens the jalebis, she rushes to stop him ... and here's the difference between Khushi and Arnav - he would have gloated over his victory, in fact his guilty look shows that's what he was expecting her to do ... but not her ... her only thought is she could have made something else for him ... she'll do that tomorrow ... And he has nothing to say, so he quickly leaves ...
And this Rabba Ve made sense ... for all the right reasons ... not ArHi, but Khushi and the dabbas ... her happiness that he ate her food and enjoyed it ... sweet!!!

She comes down with the dabbas, the staff praise her food ... but more than their praise, her happiness is because of her husband, and the way he enjoyed her food :)

Mami-Payal and fancy dress competition ... for a sophisticated family, Raizadas have the most crass neighbours and friends ... and Payal finds a new way of winning over MIL ...

Khushi returns happily with her empty boxes, Mami makes another snide remark ...
Shyam gifts Anjali the cradle ... and does he actually feel a little guilty about how easy it is to manipulate his gullible wife? But no, this is all about his plan, and convincing Arnav.

And Arnav returns home, again all businessman mode ... only to find wifey has taken his lessons to heart and is echoing all his lines ... this is the way I work, don't try to fool with me, I'm the daughter of a halvai and the wife of a businessman ...
Cute to see the way Arnav Singh Raizada melts into mush every time his wife claims proudly that she is his wife :"> ... the expression on his face as he watches her talking away confidently on the phone ... indulgent, loving, proud, questioning - what exactly is this mad girl up to now? And this second Rabba Ve was also very much in place :)

Thoughts - where exactly are they planning to take this new venture of Khushi's? Nowhere, I would think ... doubt that he will let her start up a business and become independent ... but the cv's could surprise us yet, by letting Khushi make her way back into the office, in a role that conforms to SP bahu sensibilities ...


126 comments:

  1. IS Star Plus taking some sort of revenge on IPK?

    I might be in the minority, this whole thing didn't work for me.

    The idea is good, make Khushi independent, execution sucks!

    Why are they domesticating ASR? WT WT WT?

    And Khushi offered lunch for everyone and didn't think of offering it to Arnav *Head desk*

    *Did you all hear the explosion you know where?*

    And this had to be the most bhukkad staff I have seen....Theek hai they are much much better than the meanies he had, but COME ON!!!!!!

    Waisay Akash didn't even bother to offer Arnav the food or wonder bhai aap kya khaogay, pizza toh nahin aaya?

    And how did Arnav sneak up those two boxes?

    So Mami-Payal difference would be bridged with a fashion contest? Aiyooooooooo!!!

    And where were the windchimes when Arnav entered?

    She did not have money to pay back 300 and she somehow managed to get a client who gave her the advance of 10K?

    What did work:

    Khushi feeling happy that he ate his food.
    Arnav feeling so proud of her when she said she is businessman's wife.

    What will never work.

    Shyam mending his ways. Was it Guilt for a second on his face ther? Nahiiiiiiiin, Shyam Manohar Jha can't sudhrofy just like that, This guy almost committed murder, blasphemy and what not, Grrrrr CVs.

    I want ASR BACK...This ASR was not good at all:(
    I want KKG Back...Though this KKG was better than yesterday's.

    Stop with the Gopification of Arnav and Khushi and give us the sophisticated love story we are yearning for!!

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    1. Oops forgot to add, HER WT was damn cute too:)

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    2. I agree about ASR...he's a difficult character. They need to maintain ASR and let Arnavness come through the right amount...making him too gruff or too domestic really doesnt work.

      They did the best job in January...he was still smug, arrogant, very ASR and made her uncomfortably aware of him...only gave her backhanded compliments and let his 'love/liking' for her show in very ASRish ways...concern, buying her bangles but not owning up to it...

      Also in October they did a good job with ASR's character...the month preceding the Diwali scene.

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    3. after the wedding, ASR does not know how to behave, his writers do not know how to make him behave, and the actor is lost in the directions.. this one day, that the next.. more and more, the real barun is showing through the ASR persona.

      SN1. ODB did not offer him food because she thought that he would bite her head off.. that is why she had the WT moment.

      SN2 akash did offer him food.. but ASR was seriously **ed off. and refused.

      SN3 I wanted the windchimes there.. at least it was a cute memento.

      SN4 shyam had guilt? sorry dint pay much attention to his scene.

      overall, I liked today's episode.. mainly because it ended on bitwa's smiling face.

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    4. Gargi: Yup both the months, they had ASR bang on!

      Jaya: He only said Payal had sent him food, did he offer it to ASR?

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    5. Arey, he wasn't even happy with his staff eating the food - was looking his most forbidding self and barking about pizza, no wonder no one dared to offer it to him! :))

      I liked the episode on the whole - much better than yesterday's dimwits. Yes, ASR has gotten diluted slightly ... but isn't it inevitable? After all, he's the one supposedly battling with his feelings ... I like the firm ASR with some softness starting to show through ... like the slight smile in the Holi scene ... 'aur tum chup rahogi ...'

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    6. Shweths,

      I am mighty impressed yaar. You've been faring real well wresting internet control from the bachcha party ;)

      And khushi not offering Arnav food was her sure shot way of making sure he eats - dodn't u know sadoo has to do the exact opposite of what his wife tell him :))
      Did you look at her roll her eyes as she walked to the canteen - somewhere she knew he will come 'pet ke bal' to eat man!!

      And yes if she is planning to cater to his office, I want her to excitedly but factually tell him the reason the plan will be a resounding success - make him realize she also understands "faayde ka sauda" :))

      Also deal 10 crore ki ho ya 10K ki, deal deal hoti hai na Arnavji, sachchai aur imaandari se toh vishwas badhta hai - wah wah kya dialogue maara - am telling u agar khushi ne itna bola to bitwa will be floored :))

      Gargi,
      Jan and Oct waala ASR was really cool. ASR, be the macho businessman but all mush for your lady love (when alone). Kabhi kabhi I think in their hurry to can the scene they end up missing nuances.

      And yes never let it be said that we do not want multiple RV's in a day - just not slapstick RV :)

      Adding my shiddat to the neck massage scene :))Aakhir
      gharelu nuske ki dibiya kab kaam aayegi


      Dia,
      Aur tum chup rahogi waala ASR is hayyyyeeeee.

      And HH gloatwa hai toh mushy silver coin denewaala bhi hai re. Don't be too hard on him :0

      The point on not being considered a cheater is a good one. Ties back into the MU too. If 300 Rs. can give you heartburn, home wrecking toh will melt you nai?!
      And hopefully Arnav's Dil vs Dimaag will start (dimaag will have a reason to come back from vacation)

      Shaayad, this will also give that opening for 'need to fend for myself after 6 months' point we've been talking of.

      Oh and given the scene recall & relay fundaa here, moch nikaalna toh banta hai boss - diwali pe khushi ke pair main moch thi; holi pe arnav ke gard'an' main moch hai. (oo and some nice fb's from the broken bangle scene too)
      and yeah! as she helps revlieve the pain, dard ka uff bhi banta hai arnav se - showing he is also human and khushi toh will go hyper (hopefully). And kaash ki arnav baithe baithe falls asleep leaning onto her....RV!!

      Arnav takes his cues on love from Aakash shaadi waale din by poolside and aaj biwi ke khaane ka dabba LOL

      U know I want Khushi to send him food with that sukhe mewe ka halwa. Not gloat, not ask just send it when they send dabba for Aakash. (Ofc if she is catereing then toh alag baat hai. Agree with you, with teh catering she can still be SP bahu but of the atypical variety. Also a reason for her to come to AR and bump into Arnav later if there is a physcial separation)

      Room decor wishes seem to have reached some ears. Only the stars I could see. I wish they bring the windchime back - bhale hi hang it on the doorway from room to pool. And also those faily lights. Is teh DM murti around? And pls pls get rid of the additional mirror and dresser.


      Jaya, Gargi, Shwets,
      It is a fictional show. We all have a life. But we like to have this fiction in our life because it gives us the wings of imagination to transform our lives from the daily routine to the magical :))
      Fiction gives us the freedom to craft a Happily Ever After for these 2 people without the restrictions of truth that our lives place upon us.

      2 much fundaa, well maybe its time for some pepsi thanda ;))

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  2. I was a incredibly annoyed when the episode began with the feeding the office staff track...execution of the situation sucked. Shweths mentioned all the points so shan't repeat.

    I get they wanted a scene where he's eating the food without her giving it to him and her feeling happy...what the hell was the need of feeding the staff??

    Loved both the Rabba Ve moments today...

    RV1. Hahaha poor guy – crick in the neck, no breakfast, Dominoes (hahaha you guys so called it-sub/pizza) apparently on strike thanks to DM’s master stroke and to add insult to injury wifey got food for the whole office par ek baar bhi ASR ko nahin poocha...:-(...So what? Sadda Haq babe...he went and took food on his own slyly upto his office(no idea how though) and ate chup chupke ...(after all he went all glarey on Akash and broke up the ‘kitty party-ROFL’ he had to hide from them all)...

    Now this was more the KKGSR we know...happily niharofying her Hottie Hubby eating the food she made...correction not eating ...inhaling...:-)...And the ‘Nahin! Aap ye nahi kha sakte’ concern is back (will totally ignore that any diabetic has more sense than to eat a jalebi)...koi baat nahi...for the very apt rabba ve we will happily overlook.

    Really liked this scene...after taking his case so much with her WT WT WT chant (she’s been saying it since jiji tera jethji...) she accidently says it naturally...hahaha...hope she slips up in front of him once and he raises his eyebrow and smirks...Lol.

    The whole scene was way more in character than yesterday. He for his part definitely didn’t plan on being caught and especially not by HER and especially not enjoying the food –Okay no way to get out of that one so just gathers his things and leave:-D...she’s left feeling all gungho...unhe pasand aaya;-)

    RV2. I liked this one even more than RV1...just a smidge...let us never again say that we don’t want 2 RV’s in one eppy...
    LOVED this scene! Perfect. The reason we stick by the show and endure the monodrama and TF/TQ scenes.

    Bitwa back from office still on call going straight up to his room...correction their room or 50% of his room... I dunno...and biwi is also on a business call..hahaha...ten crores...ten thousand...WT?

    let me call you back-in his head he’s thinking-Now what calamity is she going to bring down on my life?

    ‘Quality! Don’t teach me about quality...mein halwai ki beti hoon aur business man ki patni’....

    No hesitation! Declaring probably the two most important relationships of her life to some random stranger and Arnav hears and you can see that sense of almost fierce pride and it’s almost like he’s saying... ‘Yes ...you are!’ ...Loved his expression.

    Also we all have things that ‘work’ for us...clearly biwi in business mode (BBM-muhahaha) ‘works’ for him...hahaha

    SN1: So Domestic Queen is channeling KKG -Ms. Fix it - of yore...dunno how I feel about this...depends on execution I guess but it has to be better than burnt kheer na, poisoned green tea and magazine test right?

    SN2: CV's no remorse for RRR. None. Ever. Unacceptable. Don't even veer close to that highway...it'll derail the whole show.

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    1. Gargi: I am all for BBM (GOOD ONE!)..But if she intends to start a business in his canteen, shouldn't she ask him first...Not as her hubby as the employer of the office she is going to start her business.

      With sanaya gone for a week, I expected the DQ-Mami track, chalo atleast Mami will be funny.

      I loved the contrast between 10k and 10c..and pretty similar the way the do business...Don't mess with me, I know what I AM DOING..

      Okay tomorrow either she gives him a spray, offers to massage it herself (greed alert) or offers to sleep outside..and IF bitwa insists on sleeping outside, so be it..

      Why do I think we have seen last of the poolside sleeping arrangements, finally!!!

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    2. Oh absolutely...I'll be WT-ing right alongside you if she's starting some office tiffin business...Please no.

      Sleeping arrangements...just replied to Sama;s comment with my views...check it out...agreed that poolside arrangement should be over soon.

      Definitely with ya on Greed alert...

      Well he's not going to willingly let her massage his neck so how about she bulldozes her way as she's been doing lately...

      K: gardan abhi dukh rahi hai?
      A: indecipherable mumbling acknowledging yes but not really entertaining her chattering.
      K goes to get some balm of hers from her gharelu nuske...meanwhile we'd like ASR to change into hoodie again:-p(getting greedy)
      K: Aap jaante hai yeh buaji ka malham hai...isse chutki mein thik ho jayega...isme (names some desi ingredients) hai! Lo mein laga deti hoon.
      A looks at her with his (desi revulsion) look
      K: arre baitho na!
      A:Shut up Khushi mein yeh nahi lagane waala..
      K: Hum kaha kuch bol rahe hai? bas baitho.
      -waise bhi hum aapke liye nahi bol rahe! office ke staff ke liye bol rahe hain-sab waise hi darte hai aapse aur gardan yooh tedi karkar aap (scarecrow in hindi) jaise lag rahe ho...aur bhi darate honge.
      A: WT?!! (scarecrow in hindi)??
      She totally ignores him and pulls him to sit down still chattering away about how it works wonders for buaji and starts applying.

      RV or not either way.

      -I need a life.

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    3. Gargi...this is what u call a Lovey dovey scene, pyaar hain bhi or nahin bhi....Shweths will not have any complaint with this scene...ASR will remain in character...what say?LOL

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    4. Shwetha, she's not starting business in his canteen.. that was a one-time thing and was for free. she's cooking up another business plan, I feel.

      fancy dress competition? wow! must be another oh-so-interesting track.. so, will the plan work? so far, all of LQ's plans have flopped...

      the blatant admiration and pride in bitwa's eyes for his BBM.. arre my heart was warmed.. loved the end of today's episode..


      and yes, khushi was much more in character today. thank you CVs

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    5. gargi, that scene.. shiddat!

      (remember what we were saying about giving them a screenplay?) you go gurrrl!

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    6. Gargi, she fed the staff so she realized a business opportunity there.

      *shiddat alert to your scene* hayeeeeeeeee
      Rekha, you know me well don't you, I am soooooo not complaining.

      I know she didn't charge them, but when the guy so emotionally said kaash aisa khaana roz roz milta...and the other guy stopped him..I was rofling...as if you know how the hero's friend wants to blurt out the love of his friend to the GIRL, and the hero stops him in time.

      I need a life:)

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  3. it was better than i expected Shwetha ........ I loved all the WT's today ....... Not as sad as i was yesterday :)
    why do i fear that she is gonna go back to that canteen and become canteen wali? Arrrgggggg
    and Bitwa just adores her calling herself his patni ...... Bechara
    what i want tomorrow ...... Bitwa sleep on bed as he has a sprained neck ..... SHIDDAT and maybe they can wake up cuddled ;)

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    1. Sama...I loved that he was feeling all happy at her BBM..but on her face he should remain all gruff...stay true to ASR don't turn him into some lameass-go with whatever my wife wants/does all the time.

      Hope he tells her Khushi my neck is aching I'm sleeping on the bed I don't care where you sleep but I cant sleep on the ground, he climbs into bed and turns his back to her...she's left looking at the bed apprehensively and at the poolside unhappily and eventually chooses middle ground the arm chair/sofa thing-a-majick because she doesn't want to move backwards and isnt quite ready to climb into bed with him(so to speak:-p)

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    2. Oye hoye, Gargi you are on a roll...lage raho.

      Sama: I am okay with a canteen waala business,my only issue is cos I still believe she wants to cater to his staff, she should ask him right. Also if she is going to become a businessperson, DO NOT MAKE HER GOOFY...I liked the tough negotiating KKGSR. He was soooooooo proud*Hayeeeeeeeee*

      And canteen was closed for a day, what if it reopens tomorrow?

      Which reminds me what if he tells her, no need the canteen reopens tomorrow and why is she suddenly in BBM mode and she says cos I want to return the 300 and he goes what 300?

      And if she explains, I hope he brings the actual dues including the 1 lakh she owes him and the car damage fees, her dad's bills etc..

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    3. Arey, she doesn't owe him 1 lakh - she had to fulfill the contract of training Lavanya to escape that clause - and she did her part. So the 1 lakh is null and void. And since that was in lieu of the 25,000 for the car damage, strictly speaking that is settled as well.

      The hospital bill - she never asked him to pay, but yes, she could offer to pay that one back ...

      Will she want to cater to AR office canteen? Then she definitely needs to ask his permission ... and yes, PLEASE DON'T MAKE HER GOOFY ... let her be bright and smart - after all, she used to manage the finances of her babuji's halwai shop and deal with the suppliers there also ...

      I hope she does his maalish today with one of her gharelu nuskas ... and he falls asleep on the bed on her lap ... she doesn't know quite what to do, but doesn't want to disturb him, and ends up spending the night sitting up while he sleeps ... Gargi, *SHIDDAT alert* to your scene ...

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    4. Gargs,

      Jab Jab IPK ke main ASR ke character ki waat lagti hai,
      Tab Tab tere andar ka screemplay writer ki batti jalti hai

      LOL LOL!!

      I want this scene. Bhale hi next week (cos I do want her to do some nuska to ease his neck ka moch) where he says what u want him to say bcos his neck hurts!! - Adding my shiddat to urs
      hoping he also in the process does the 50% sharing room reminder to Khushi while looking at her with those intense eyes and a teeny weeny smirk!! (Shwets ka shiddat added hai already is scene pe)..

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    5. hahaha...:-) true ya...dilution of ASR invokes indignance which fuels the writers in us...(still remember how you gave specifications for the picture size -ROFL...)

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    6. LOL bey Gargs!

      Now am wondering if i should have also said classy black brown farmes - what if they give us pink hearts waala frame with chamki (cringe!!)

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  4. Have caught only parts...Shweths...my sense is that its always going to be tuf having the orginal ASR once he is in love....it will take all of the vision of the makers...and the perfect execution to be able to do that fine walk as the line is going to be very thin.
    I wl be happy even if they do even half a decent job...to me its a foregone conclusion that this is a diff love story..I hope they treat this as a diff story and give us those ASR glimpses every now then
    Not many stories are likely to have a difficult man deeply in love with a crazy girl(btw, thats not her only description) who is sought(lusted...dettol rinse) after by the husband of his beloved sister, who is mentally fragile. To top it, they have an intertwined painful past. How complicated can it get....

    No thots about today's epi as i have not seen it completely..will back soon

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    1. Rekha, I sooooooooo get what you mean..I thought the whole auto wala saree scene and the kangan poolside is the best combination I guess.

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  5. Hmmmm.... I think and I am still thinking :-) I liked today's episode. I guess it is okay for the boss's wife to send lunch for the office staff. I am okay with the concept as long as they don't show her as a canteen waali. More like the boss' wife taking care of his staff which totally works for me.
    I somehow love the independent streak to Khushi's character, yes agreed that she tends to go OTT with some of her business ideas but looking below the surface al she's trying to do is make her presence felt.
    I liked the fact that there were no challenges , no tit for tats today. The sheer pride i ASR's face on hearing 'business man's wife' was very pleasurable. This guys so loves this girl, he can't but help softening to her antics. Awww!! I do want Khushi to be reciprocating her love as well.
    Shwetha - Agree with you on the fact that how come she didn't thnk of saving some lunch for him ? Or maybe she is afraid that he'll deny her offer or say something that'll break her heart again.
    We are suckers of this serial , so will stick with it through it's ups and downs.
    Have lots to catch up on everyone's comments from last night. Looks like you all had a great session last night.
    More Later

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    1. Sahana: I am actually okay with this canteenwali rather than the lassiwaali in that Payash party. She was friendly and very dignified...I loved the way everyone called her Mrs. Raizada and he didn't counter on that...and the 2 security people were cute too.

      And yes, thankfully, no shart, no challenge so that is a relief.

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    2. Yep, yep yep!! Good concept . She managed to maintain her dignity and acted somewhat like the Mrs. Boss !! Hope the business venture goes somewhere and isn't another flop idea :-)
      I'm confident I'll like the epi even more when I watch it on big screen later tonight. Laptop mein utna maza kahan?
      Please post a link to Sanaya's interview, will watch it sometime today.

      But why this horrendous pink colored salwar suit on Sanaya? How does she even agree to wear stuff like this? I have a feeling Daljeet manages her own warddrobe which looks absolutely classy. I would love to get a hold of some of her saris :-)

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  6. p.s. i noticed that the office staff have lost their high end fashion house look.. all of them look so desp now. where did the glam girls go? (where did all the costumes go?)

    and yes, I like that the boss's wife is feeding the staff ... just once.

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    1. Maybe that is the office renovation he was talking about..throwing the old staff and getting the new one.

      And Can we have that canteen lady back in the show if she is going to continue business, that lady was really good!

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  7. I LOVED the epi today... :)) was much better than yesterday for me.. everything fits.. :) if I were to forget WHY she wants to return the 300 Rs .. :P the ways she uses to do it are perfectly fine by me..

    I know we all want Arnav to have some ASR streaks in him.. but girls, remember this...people change irrevocably in love.. and for a person like ASR, khushi's love has changed a lot... I mean, if her mere presence around him has made him learn the values of things like apologising to people and caring for others' happiness (case in point : A buying the pigeons for the little girl near DM mandir), then imagine what her love must have done to him! khushi has brought from within him the soft and caring person and that has toned down the ASR side.. I doubt if that will resurface again.. the cold hearted ASR is long gone..and replaced by Arnav, who is well aware of people around him and has started caring about them and especially about that person who has brought about that change within him... so the fact that he has become soft spoken is not bothering me much, after today's epi...

    what I like the most : K becoming soo happy he ate and loved the food she made.. really, this girl has such simple and sweet dreams.. :) "dil hai chotasa..choti si asha.." :))

    how I think the story will proceed : if articles are true and K is going to realise her feelings for him before she knows the truth about the marriage, then today's scenes were bang on!! Also, if they are going to show A's heart v/s head battle, today's epi was a key point... for a girl who is soo innocent in her approaches to solve problems, how can she think ill and have an extra marital affair? Shyam making Anjali happy...only to make it somehow reach to A... or are they showing complex emotions of Shyam as well? Does he feel that he is wrong in betraying Anjali? It is too early for the guilt.. plus he is not the type to feel guilty..he is purely mean and vicious... maybe they want to build up the track for A to start believing (atleast temporary) that shyam has given up on K... and is concentrating on his married life instead..

    question is : what will K do once she realises her feelings for A? Will she confront him and ask him the truth of their marriage herself? Or will Shyam let slip it to her somehow? I am curious how they are going to show K knowing the real reason... because A is sure as hell not going to tell her himself!

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    1. oh..forgot to mention ... the highlight of the epi for me - KHUSHI blurting out "what the..??" and then realising and getting startled by what she just said!! :D :D that was really the best.. adorable Sanaya/Khushi!! :)))

      also...the path to break the ice b/w manorama and payal is a fashion show??? REALLY??? have absolutely no words about that... guess there is going to come a time in the future when again, I will watch just some scenes..because nothing else will fall in place with the storyline..

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    2. and I put my hand over my mouth right along with her! could not control the grin after that.. which carried over to bitwa's scrambling for an excuse... too funny !

      its not a fashion show.. it is a fancy dress competition.. last time, manuuu dressed up as a model..

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    3. @jaya..oh yes that too!!! :D :D haha.. loved how he remembered that line and scrambles to NOT say something she had predicted about him! :P

      fancy dress competition or not..it is sounding very, very LAME to me.. :P

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    4. Mads I guess we all are rooting for ASR with a dash of Arnav and the problem the change is not consistent, it is abrupt, so takes a while to get used to..just like Khushi, she is 21 and suddenly she is 12.

      I guess fans will never be satisfied. Totally get what you are saying though.

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    5. Mads....

      I agree people do change in love ...this is ASR. people like ASR will love deeply and their love will also be different. and as I was telling Shweths as long as CVs do even a half decent job, I wl be happy.....
      Mads, for a person who started seeing the show so late...u have picked up the nuances so beautifully something that even seasoned viewers would fail to notice..U all guys are all capable of presenting a nice story some day...seriously...
      BTW, heard SI on the show....really really happy for her!! her song was really gud...charming as always....she has come a long way from Radha ki betiyaan days....I was sure she was meant for bigger things in that two bit role where she even overshadowed the writer backed Ratan Rajput role

      Did u guys notice SI/K's smile in today's episode...every single time she smiled, SI and K were almost merging for me. When she reiterated that she is like Khushi...i culd just feel it...

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  8. Sanaya is on in BBC RADIO NOW

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    1. loving it...she is awesome as always!! :))

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    2. Got it ... chamak challo playing ... can't wait to hear her ... missed the first part.

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    3. the reason why Sanaya IS Sanaya - "I don't want to call them my fans...I would call them my viewers..." :)))

      now THAT would turn any viewer into her fan! :))

      gosh diya..I am missing our discussions and dissections of every Sanaya and Monaya interviews that we used to have!!! :))) those were memorable times!! :)) esp Sona..she is missing all of this.. :) and I am missing her too! :)

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  9. ah u updated!!! :)) pretty much my thoughts after watching the epi... :))

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    1. I'd better sleep ... stayed up to catch Sanaya's interview ... this was a TREAT!!! She is so cute and loveable ... and so down to earth and humble!

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    2. say something we don't know about her, Diya.. :)) aww, have a good night sleep.. talk to u tomorrow! :)

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  10. Girls,
    I actually liked today's epi....the scenes defined it for me...

    1) Khushi's thumbs up to Arnav, if u see it was actually devoid of any malice...its what Khushi is really is....crazy but a lovely person at heart...she hadn't come in to prove a point or anything...she came hoping to find a solution to her Rs 300 problem. Once there, she is all heart, in to the moment..surrenders herself to the situation...
    2)Khushi's pure joy at seeing Arnav partaking the food...again all her old scores to settle with A out of the window...
    3)Last but not the least, ASR's look of pride at hearing her own up to the relationship....
    SI and BS acting was top notch...BS got the crick in the neck really right.....SI's joie de vivre spilt over to Khushi thru and thru and made her scenes very believable...the fact that K is a person without any malice came thru clearly

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  11. hey dia, found out what is slowing down my whole PC when I access this blog.. its your chatroll.. if ppl dont really use it , can you just remove the app from the page?

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    1. I think you're right, it was messing up my system too - have removed it.

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  12. Whoa! Explosion already...I am yet to see the epi - I invariably see it online - TV is never free when it airs.

    SPA sneaks

    Barun on stage in the Raza ad:
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=awFztoToeVU&feature=youtu.be

    Red carpet and othe rmoments:
    http://www.india-forums.com/video/star-plus/189701-star-parivaar-awards-2012-promo-03.htm

    Sanaya Barun performance:

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IBmUUv5k32k&feature=channel

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w2WikAayyvc&feature=channel

    (Barun needs to take dancing lesson asap)

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    1. thank you for the links sandy!

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    2. Barun needs dancing lessons asap.

      Sanaya is very poised on stage - did she host a segment as well? The one with Riteish? Why haven't we heard about that one? Or was it just an award presentation?

      Loved that bit where Manish Paul falls into Barun's arms and Sanaya's gesture at that ... yeh phansa!

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  13. Oh Lord!!!! what happened to ODB. Earlier he was Suave, stylish and sophisticated. Why is he becoming sooooo LS. Please Please Please CVs if you are reading this post bring back the original ASR.
    Khushi is acting so crass and ASR room looks so bad I can't even stand it. CVs please bring story back in style and leave these LS things to Gopivahu...

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    1. relax, take a deep breath and repeat after me.. "this is a fictional show. this is a fictional show.. this is a fictional show."

      hi kiara! I was ranting on the same thing for like, a week. now i have all but resigned to the fact that the old ruthless ASR is gone.. he got bitten by the loveria bug.. now unless something drastic happens, like shamu killing ODG, he will never be the same..

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    2. Hey Kiara ... chill hon ... Khushi was SUPPOSED to be crass and loud - she was trying to get thrown out of RM - still not sure why, though ... but cv's think of strange things at times!

      ASR is not really LS, yaar ... not eating with churri kanta doesn't make a man LS ... neither does eating with them make him HS ...
      ASR becoming more of a gentleman and being able to face up to his feelings instead of hiding behind them and taking it all out on Khushi - now that will make him more of a man, IMO ... let him keep his ASR face for the world, but be Arnav only for Khushi ...

      Girls, you should watch SGP these days just before IPK - does you good and helps you remember how totally fictional and removed from reality these shows are!!!

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    3. I agree on churri/kanta part. I actually liked him licking his fingers, showed how much he was enjoying the food. No matter how rich one is, dil se sab desi hain. And how best to enjoy desi food, make use of your fingers. Nothing LS in that.
      We sometimes forget that ASR is but human :-)

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    4. I absolutely agree Sahana... Who says business tycoons can't have puri aloo:-) and I liked how he was all glarey in front of everyone but in private he was busy licking his finger tips... That's ASRish according to me:-)

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  14. ok have made peace with the judging IPK episode by episode - 2-3 epi. tracks - and then something related to the main story will happec :D

    - what i loved:
    - ODB says 'what the' to the pizza walas and can not help thinking about ODG saying 'save the WTS for the absent Pizzawalas'!!
    - her spontaneous heart felt WT and cover up
    - that she too is using a 'hands-free' (almost like a blue tooth!) (learning from her businessman husband!) -too cute

    Ps. will she stop stomping ON the bed (*MIG* alert!):D

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    1. Mona, couldn't resist this ... so you want all the action to be IN bed? Not ON it? *MIG alert* ... *rofl*

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    2. samajdar ko ishara kafi hai! :D :D (Total MIG!!!)

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  15. My expectations of IPK these days :

    - 1/2 episodes every week worth watching
    - Fake RVs every now and then to pacify the audience
    - ASR/KKG come close, warm upto each other for 1.5 epis, then storm hits and hate track begins
    - No continuity between weeks, every week it is a completely diff track
    - Leads have amnesia , they never remember what happened last week :-(
    - MU will never be cleared, Shyam keeps playing mind games and our leads enjoy their vacation (of the brain i.e.)

    Feel free to add to the list, girls!!

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    1. Sahana,
      Hehe ... it's good to keep expectations really low ... I really feel they have 2-3 different teams of writers, there is so much discontinuity in characterization from day to day ... take the screaming shrieking Khushi of Wed and the much better, smarter, more poised one of Thurs.

      I accept that MU's will keep coming ... but for heavens' sake, solve the current one, move on, then dream up new MU's ... you can't keep dragging just the ONE MU for months and months! Lazy writing!!!

      My hubby had got hooked to the show ... he remarked yesterday that its gotten boring now ... nothing is happening.

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    2. I thin kthey have a female writing the emotional / romantic scenes and a guy writing the comedy scenes.

      Just my feeling - no gender bias or any such BS ....but yes there definitely seem to be 2 different writing teams. maybe the gopi vhau team takes pot shots every now and then

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  16. Girls

    Just had a thought....with comments coming in that ASR is changing and all that, i guess we need to be honest with ourselves...how exactly did we do we think an ASR in love would be?

    If he did not show glimpses of Arnav...wouldn't he turn into a caricature...i am tempted to think of Jackie Shroff's portrayal of King Uncle...as a vague comparison. It must be tuf for the makers to translate their vision. of gruff men falling in love..
    My own theory (prbably it is a steoreotype) has been that when such men fall in love, they fall more deeply normally men do.

    The portrayal would be a cross between a mushy man and "sadda haq" style romance..It sounds great when it is written but it is a lot tougher when we have show it on screen without the aid of the written word...I think we shld not forget that...

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    1. How would ASR be when he falls in love - like the Beast was (Beaty and the Beast) before Beauty saw beyond his gruff exterior and transformed him into a handsome prince.

      Or maybe like Batman in The Knight Rider. He knows he loves Rachel, how much she means to him but he has his cross to bear.

      Or the way Al Pacino transformed from gruff disillusioned retired blind army man with the freindship of the boy in "The Scent of a Woman"

      The pre-Diwali ASR and the post La breakup ASR was the closest.
      ASR should be aware of Khushi's likes and dislikes and her moods
      Still be a man of few words
      Enable things for her without gloating / throwing favours in her face
      Behave cordially with her (no get out, no aukaad, no yelling - the occasional WT when she really annoys him)
      Have moments when he is still the rakshas laad governor to her
      Send her red roses thru his secretary, buy her bangles, anonymously leave jalebis for her by the poolside
      Get her posters for the bed so she can hang up the stars in style
      Get her an autographed Salman Khan poster (cheesy I know)
      Give her that unguarded little smile / smirk of joy when she does something really crazy that makes his heart flip
      Offer to take her to the temple because she believes in god (he may choose to wait outside)
      Take her home to meet her parents
      Ask her about her parents, about her relationship with her babuji (too far -fetched as these are murky areas in his life so I doubt that will happen anytime soon)
      Ask her to help with teh garden
      If he is on a call and she needs to talk, put the caller on hold, ask her to wait, finish teh call and give her his time
      If there is something tasty on the table for dinner, ask her if she made it. Simply state it is nice if it is :)
      Entrust her with his Di's doctor appointments (only after MU I guess), with money or valuables needed for something in the house

      disclaimer - some of this may jar with the current story but when I thot of rekha's qn, i only asked myself how would a gruff man show his love? For a man who has always shouldered responsibilities and taken care of his family the highest form of love / respect for his partner would be to share his responsibilities with her - to trust her to do a good job with them, to trust her to not let him down, to trust her to not mock him for being weaby sharing but understand the underhanded compliment he pays her.

      True love and companionship is when even silence can be a form of communication!

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    2. I love your ideas Sandy...

      And honestly these 'little things' are way sweeter than big unrealistic declarations...

      Somehow guys outwardly being all indifferent to the mushy stuff but still knowing small things that make you happy and doing them inspite of finding them stupid- like you mentioned above- is way better than guys being overly PDA.

      I imagine ASR in love should be something like what you've described:-)...

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    3. Sandy..
      The Al Pacino comment just reminded me how tuf it can be for makers to do this (i repeat myself), assuming here that they do have a gud vision.
      Love is really a simple emotion but paradoxically what it means to different people can make it very complex...So, if it has resonance for more people, it probably means the simplicity in the emotion has been communicated well.
      When we saw Arnav in the last scene, some among us may have thot...was it love, pride, possession...the emotion that was displayed on A's face..Questions may also be asked..
      How did he show that emotion, when minutes/hrs ago, he was fuming?
      How could he show that emotion when all his doubts haven't been cleared...and so on
      But that exactly is the point about love, isn't it?
      Dil ke haathon majboor hona yehi to hain...
      It was a half smile...but the tenderness reached A's eyes completely..I don't know if it was a case of great vision combined with great acting, writing, directing whatever that did it....but what i saw on screen was magical. a beautiful moment...love is then all about simple moments!!

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    4. Become vulnerable to her ... show her a part of him that no one else sees.
      Remain gruff, but not biting or cruel .. no taunts. It's all in the tone - the difference in the way he said keep quiet, don't lie Khushi ... and the way he said, I don't drink bhaang and you will keep quiet ... the first was gruff and angry, the second was gruff and loving.
      Gestures more than words - ASR finds it difficult to express in words - keep that intact. She wanted to put up more stars - he sets up a hanger thingy where she can do that.
      No Sallu poster for me, please ... *ducking Sandy's jootas*
      A few silent scenes - watching the stars, Khushi comes there, sees him, starts to leave, he stops her by holding her hand ...
      Dining table - Anjali praises something Khushi cooked to Nani, he reaches out deliberately to take it.
      Mami says something insulting to Payal, Khushi looks upset and starts to say something in her defence, Arnav stops her by pressing her hand under the table, and does the needful in his quiet firm manner.
      Mami says something about some dish Khushi cooks, Arnav says it's nice, can I have some more please.
      Khushi interrupts conference by mistake with some problem (the way she did during the La fiasco) ... he asks his people to wait, walks out with her and asks her gently what happened, and deals with whatever upset her. Also tells one of his lackeys to get her some water etc, because she is so upset.
      Another of those "tum theek ho" scenes ... we haven't had one for ages.
      Organise his company lawyer to find someone to deal with Buaji's pension, (since Shyam has forgotten all about it), and not tell her he did anything ... Buaji tells her when its done.
      Get her an engagement ring ... Payal got one, she should get one too.
      Ask her brusquely - mera meve ka halva kahan hai?
      Ask her to accompany Anjali to the doctor? Only after Shyam has been exposed and won't be doing that - otherwise throwing Shyam and Khushi together - no way!
      Stay aloof from family gatherings like he used to earlier, but instead of going to his room, watch from the sidelines, and have that proud smile as he sees Khushi completely at home and loved and respected by his family. Khushi see him sitting on the side, and he allow himself to be dragged to sit with the family, still with that small smile.

      All the Georgette Heyer fans can add more - almost all her books have a brooding angsty hero getting reformed ...

      And girls, honestly, for me, ASR is not ideal hero ... he has to change back to Arnav to become worth living with. He has to have that ASR in office, Arnav at home quality. Even in the office scene yesterday, my first thought was, uff, such a khadoos tyrant boss - staff ko khaane bhi nahin deta in his ego over his wretched pizzas! Thank god he redeemed himself by quietly eating the khaana - otherwise it would have been another case of cutting off nose to spite face!

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    5. Dia,
      Agree agree agree....
      Ask her about the halva for sure...sulk if she has not made it yet
      No SK poster!! Sorry sandy...kuch toh pyaar ke liye bhi nahin karega....
      Tum teekh ho....somehow...that question is very romantic for me....
      That half-smile at her silly antics when she is not lookin...
      Agree ASR mein Arnav toh hoga hi..

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    6. Gargi / Rekha / Dia,

      **Huggs** I went all aww after reading your replies.

      "Love is really a simple emotion but paradoxically what it means to different people can make it very complex"
      If u recall, I had ranted a few weekends ago about how the perception of love changes with time. Today you uncomplicated it even further. A timely hand given managing the baby when it is bawling will be of more value than a 10carat diamond ring. (MasterCard's priceless ad)

      Dia that sallu thingie was cos I thot Khushi wud like it. strike it off yaar, I cringed adding it! (abbe rekhs tu bhi crucify karr rahi hai :S )

      Adding to the dining table food thing, next time he reaches for a sweet and someone stops him, Khushi just assures the person that the sweets are all sugar free so that Arnav can share them with the rest of the family.

      All your dining table scenes made me go awwww - they will mean a lot to Khushi

      Also, knowing she has a knack for chikankaari / gotaawaork, ask her to do designs for AR's select collection with them / give her opinion on some designs they have received and are evaluating.

      Ask her what they can do for Di to keep her happy as she is pregnant - maybe ask her if they should surprise her with a baby room for Anji and allow Khushi to decorate / stock it (partly fund it himself and partly let her spend from what she earns if she is earning). Let the baby blankets be cotton with chikankaari in bright red but let there also be a fisher price mobile gym hanging from the crib

      "Gestures and not words" - ASR / Arnav is essentially that. And if he does all of the above, he automatically becomes ASR to the world and Arnav to Khushi. Just look at the instances we have cited for the transformation. Mostly private or with family.

      To me there is no concept of changing back to Arnav. That is why I use ASR and Arnav interchangeably when I write about him, He is always going to be Arnav. ASR is just his public persona. Without the twain the man is incomplete. ASR / Arnav reminds me of John Thornton from the BBC series North and South.

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    7. Awwwwwwwwww, you guys!!!

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    8. DIYAAAAAA and SANDYYYY!!! what have you guys done???!!! *goes straight off to dreamland*

      want ALLLL of the above .. :))

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    9. funny you guys wrote this - i was thinking in the same lines today morning - ODB dropping in and checking on Babuji when he is in the neighborhood - and buaji or mil mentions it to ODG!
      ODB getting her a 'gotay wali saree'
      scolding her for moving around when she is sick
      sleeping by her bedside...
      and all all all that Dia mentioned (very like him slowing down the car on their way to Nainital!)

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    10. oh yes - and ODB getting a chance to show off his 'she is only mine and or i can take care of my wife' type scenes - for that ODG will have to be just a wee bit vulnerable - let her guard down once in a while (even if she is just being emotional about her dad) and he will step in to protect/help/be there/solve issues!!

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    11. Mona,

      aaja aaja, teri kami mehsoos ho rahi thi.

      I have been reading all comments in this thread and it is like we all use words like show & do for Arnav.
      gestures like dia said :))

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    12. HAA - :D :D
      well that suits ODB completely - he can limit his words to 'lagi shart' kind of phrases in that voice and we all reduced to giggling 16 year olds!
      if he wants to talk - it should be to trouble her (push her buttons - tumnay bataya nahi Khushi - ismay meri gya galti? after the pattal scene ;)) or start talking about his past - then he can shut up for she will carry the baton!

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    13. Also - maybe not now - but he has to do the silent romantic things - like stars along the poolside
      and maybe at some point try to do something for her he knows she will like but it goes haywire - he is all grumpy on his plan failing and she - loving him even more for trying!

      obviously i cant work anymore :D- better go home - have a good weekend ladies

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  17. SPOILER FROM MISHTI

    After Sanya's return, they will start with the honeymoon track

    http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=2899425

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    1. OMG...does this mean what I think it means??? :D :P although its tooo early for that.. :P *MIG alert* :P :D

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    2. oh btw..who is this mishti? And how authentic is her info..? because rem @ diya..the sohum fiasco during the MJHT days?? LMAO... he was one weird guy!! :P

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    3. Honeymoon track?! What honeymoon track???

      Hayyyeeeee ... to see Shyamuuuu's face when his wifey insists on Saale sahab taking ODG for honeymoon!

      Mads, a couple of people give fairly accurate spoilers on the forum - Zee_News and Mishti's news is usually spot on.

      But tracks change all the time - they were supposed to have a Khushi falling sick track, it even came on E24 or SBB (forget where) - but that seems to be scrapped as of now.
      I do think the basic track here is Khushi falling for Arnav - or rather, realizing her love for Arnav. What say, guys?

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    4. Mads: Mishti has a friend who works on the sets and so far all her info has been pretty authentic.

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    5. Madsieee,

      Get your Ming out of the G right now! Nothing will happen in this track at least not of that variety ;)
      But yes looking forward to lotsa awkward moments and some subtle innuendo charged RVs (oh whr is the end of my workday today!!!)

      mishti has usually been pretty spot on with her spoilers. she started with the promos and now gives out tidbits on the track and story.

      Gargi/ Jaya / Mona / Rekha / Dia / Aaru,
      time for that outdoor shoot shiddat ladies!!!

      gargi, game to write another scene?

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    6. @ diya and sandy... getting my mind out of the gutter is not so easy ... esp when I think of the SaRun chemistry!! :)))

      *pulls myself reluctantly out of the dreamland*

      :D .. anyway!! I was thinking of how they could pool all the tracks together : khushi's realisation, her knowing the truth about marriage and her falling sick and honeymoon..!!

      what I think will happen : khushi falling sick (she already has cold so there will be no problem showing that).. and A taking care of her, because ofcourse he can't see her in any kind of pain.. Anjali insisting that K needs a break from all that has happened in her life (which will also HOPEFULLY probe A into thinking what all she has gone through, hence lead to start of A's heart v/s head battle) .. and that even since their marriage they haven't been to any holiday and esp not a honeymoon..so voila! why not now?? And both protest for sometime (although both secretly want to go.. :P) and then leave straight off for the honeymoon.. Throughout the honeymoon while she realises her feelings for A, A has his strong heart v/s head battle (Gosh SaRun would be AWESOME in those scenes) and finally when she is back from the honeymoon with the complete realisation, angry and seething shyam bitwa looses control of things, forgets he has to pretend that he is turning a new leaf etc and lets slip to K the real reason about their marriage??

      Although how they are going to proceed henceforth I have no clue right now...but this is a very logical way the story would go..

      as far as K returning A's 300 and the food supplying business etc goes, I think its going to last only until tonight.. what say, girls??

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    7. Mads,

      Come back to earth with a resounding thump. Latest spoiler is that Arnav cancels the honeymoon. :D

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    8. eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeks!!! :D "WHAT THE...." :P :P ROFL!! so much for wasting the 2 minutes on writing the entire story out!! :P

      oh well..I love unexpected things...so anything that surprises me in a good way is more than welcome I would say! :P

      oh but anyway..remind me to hit the person who's spoiling all the hopes with her spoilers! :P

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  18. Will try my best to come tonite, if not, Have a great week everyone, will see you all next month:)

    *HUGS & TC*

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    1. Shweths...

      Take care, safe travel....hope u have a great time!!

      Will miss u...
      will tell ODB-G not to be too naughty in your absence!!

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    2. Shwets,

      HUGGS AND SAFE TRAVELS!!

      Be good and no MIG when in temple seriya? :)

      See ya soon

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    3. Shweths, take care, have a great time ... safe travels!

      We'll miss you, DBG!!! Hope to see you back soon!

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    4. Sandy, MY MIG ki batti is on only when I watch the show or I am here or at the forum...warna sharif bachchi hoon...or more aptly bachchon ki maa hoon:)

      Rekha, Sandy, Dia: Thanks guys, will be checking the blog network permitting.

      Will miss bakbaking here too:(

      But since Sanaya is on a holiday too next week, I don't think much will happen.

      We have been told shyam-arnav bank balance fight will happen, so let us see:)

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  19. They say the devil is in the details and it is teh details that the PH is messing up.

    Which tycoon calls his own pizza delivery. ASR should have a secretary. They should have had someone from the earlier days who now have to call Khushi Mrs. Raizada and she could have told them u can just call me Khushi as always. (they say to understand a person's nature look how he treats those beneath him. ASR will definitely fail this test till Arnav becomes more prominent in him)

    The Mind and Heart Are One
    Does the heart reflect the mind or the mind the heart? In the first place it should be known that the mind is the surface of the heart, and the heart is the depth of the mind. Therefore mind and heart are the same thing.

    Khushi said "Aathon peher dil pe hain taale; Kya karein yeh hasna bhi na jaane"
    Arnav hides the remote to trick his way to the washroom
    He snatches curd from her hands and asks her to sleep in the room as she has a cold

    Arnav said "Khushi tum har woh kaam nahi kar sakti jo main kar sakta hoon"
    Khushi walks a few miles while talking on the phone using her handfree instead of bluetooth
    Her mannerisms shave imbibed ASR's WT, crossing of hands and raised eyebrows

    Pyaar diwaaana hot hai mastaana hota hai
    har khushi se har gham se begaana hot hai

    Sunte rahiye channel R&R pe chotay chotay khushi ke pal!!

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    1. you forgot to add, with RJ....Or should it be BJ...Blog Jockey Sandy:)

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    2. Oh yes, absolutely - tycoon calling for pizzas? My husband has secy at office to get his lunch and secy at home to order dinner if required (yours truly :)) ... left to himself, he can't organise a morsel!!!

      Aww, love your CCKKP!

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    3. Shweths,

      Blog Jockey - I likey!!


      Dia,

      ROFL at "secy at home to order dinner if required" I know exactly what you mean.

      CCKKP - what can I say I was ArHinspired :P (btw I coined the phrase on the blog some 2 weeks ago)

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  20. SPOILER ALERT: HONEYMOON CANCELLED BY ARNAV

    http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=2899514

    Knew the PH didn't have the money to spend on an outdoor shoot, atleast PAYASH ko toh bhej do yaar kahin pay, even if they don't show where,lol.

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    1. WAAAHHH!!!

      Dayum, and I was calling for shiddat and gargi to write a scene. let them come to Mumbai re for a business meeting. Just get them out of the sets!!!!

      And are you like hotwired to the spoiler posts?

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    2. No, it is like I everytime I CHECK the forum, usually I see spoilers and post them here.

      SANDYYYYYYYYY, VERY VERY GOOD IDEA..YAAR, Let him have to attend fashion week or initial episodes he mentioned Mumbai office, so he visits there for a week and wahin honeymoon ka bahana ho jaayega...

      I mean the whole thing happens in Delhi, so a different place chalega na.

      Besides, we won't complain cvs promise!!

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    3. Oh shoot ... kya yaar ... hopes raised and dashed!!! Yeh Arnav bhi na :(((

      It was good to see the office sets yesterday - we need some more variety in scenes - just the RM alone is gonna get very boring! Especially as they don't even have separate bedrooms for all the main characters - the same room seems to be used for ArHi, Shyjali and Payash!

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    4. True!

      I am getting a bit bored of just RM.

      Btw Shyjali can also be Anjaam :P

      Shwets, yeh Mumabi aane ka idea main kab se de rahi hoon inko. Koi nahi sunta. ANd yeah what business tycoon does not attend a single fashion show. Fall collection is long gone at least spring / summer collect ion he should attend. IDIOOTT!!!

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    5. DIAAAAAAAAAA....Okay seriously everyone watch this from their earlier scenes*rofl rofl*

      http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=2899557

      Okay this is the scene where she comes with the sarees initially.

      Here the fun begins...when she starts twirling where to go, she is supposedly between two rooms or two corridors...But actually she is at the exit remember how Arnav stopped Mami and how he wanted to hold her hand after bringing her back from the temple.

      Now from ASR's room, you can apparantly see the sofa and the stairs that lead upstairs.

      Since when, we thought his room was upstairs.

      And Anjali and Arnav both enter from what is now the washrooom.

      Say it with me hai re nandkishoreeeeeeeee...

      And the supposed maa ka kangan she is wearing now, Anjali is already wearing it in the toottha taara scene:)

      Say it with me hai re nandkishoreeeeeeeee...

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    6. Sandy, I am sure he was a regular at the fashion weeks and all but then he met his wife in one fashion show toh woh baar baar kyon fashion show organize karega....ya attend karega.

      Does the PH realize that the guy who is in fashion industry gets such ill fitting clothes and now the wife too.

      Did you notice in the itnerview when NK commented on her style, Sanaya was like WT, people like me in that and then very politely thanked her stylist,lol.

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    7. LOL Shweths,

      But see this is what irks, The theme is new - fashion industry busiiness magnate - clothes, stylish offices, well fitted clothes would add to the charm. Am sure they have ways an means to do this without going overboard.

      You see a SATC kind of show that revolves around fashion. You read The Devil wears Prada where the boss is a sadoo like ASR abnd into fashion and you look at IPK and go huh!! fashion what fashion.

      Fabrics, materials, textures..it all matters. I read somewhere about how they spent eons finalizing that 1st look for Barun's entry and u know what even today i think he would look smart with scarves rather than ties all the time. And it grates bcos this man's entry promo said "Clothes maketh the man" Even the stubble, the holi morning, mehendi poolside scene light stubble is fine but due to day long shooting or whatever when he ends up having heavy stubble he looks positively shabby rather than droolworthy!

      Like gargi says, she needs to take the whole unit shopping. Jaya was also willing I think :)

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    8. Shweths...
      Total bakwas comment from my end...I had been bursting to tell u guys that ODB's room is not upstairs...but always held back thinking yeh RM architecture pe posts bahut ho gaye...
      If u remember, the time when ODG mistakenly wanders into ODB's room ( during the shyam fiasco, before the actual revelation and poolside scene), u can see the lounge furniture behind ODG when she enters the room....faltu point but there i have it off me now...i can breathe in peace!!HAI RE NANDKISHORE...said it

      Basically serials mein, occupation of the lead is the first hazard...details are not relevant at all..helicopter entry was the big point they made and then he is in RM bathroom...stark reality hits....

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  21. sandy missed these CCKP this whole week...nice to have it back...aaj mauka bhi hain aur dastoor bhi hain!!

    "Zindagi jab bhi teri bazm mein laati hain hamein
    ye zameen chand se behatar nazar aati hain hamein

    Surkh phoolon se mahek uththi hain dil ki rahen
    din dhale yun teri aawaz bulaati hain hamein

    Yaad teri kabhi dastak kabhi sargoshi se
    raat ke pichhale peher roz jagaati hain hamein

    Har mulaqat ka anjaam judai kyun hai
    ab to har vaqt yahi baat satati hai hamein"

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    1. Haii mai mar jaavaan Rekha! Wah Wah!

      Do you also write poetry? You have a such good choice.

      Har mulaqat ka anjaam judai kyun hai - so apt for Arnav and Khushi

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    2. Sandy...

      This is from umraao jaan, one of the lesser known songs - talat aziz is one of my fav ghazal singers...

      Poetry likhte nahin but padna accha lagta hain..
      Sufi songs are a special fav- Abida Parveen and Rahat Fateh Ali Khan..

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    3. Waah waah! Kya shayari hai - beautiful!

      That sher is really apt for Arnav and Khushi ... Jagjit Singh sang this, right?

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    4. Yaad teri kabhi dastak kabhi sargoshi se
      raat ke pichhale peher roz jagaati hain hamein

      Okay this doesn't suit them cos both don't seem to compromise on their beauty sleep and sleep peacefully irrespective where the other is sleeping

      Har mulaqat ka anjaam judai kyun hai
      ab to har vaqt yahi baat satati hai hamein"

      This is soooooooo them.

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    5. Dia,
      Talat Aziz sang it..Somehow he never had as much popularity as other ghazal singers like JS, PU....somehow i have always warmed to his voice more...dunno why...silkenness in his voice, i like it.....That genre is tough
      ...difficult to differentiate in the rendering....its in the soulfulness that it makes the most impact...

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    6. Rekha,

      Oh! I did not know this one from Umraao Jaan. I rue the increasing trend of having gibberish in songs.
      To me the words of a song are its soul.

      I like RFAK too.

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    7. Ah yes, I like Talat Aziz a lot too ... he never mde it s big, but his voice is very soulful - that's the right word.

      Sandy, totally with you about the gibberish in current songs - Munni, Shiela and Chikni Chameli are just horrendous - I cannot sit through those songs. Hate the lyrics ... and the best is - you can't remember a word of the song once it's over ... whereas the old songs, the words just come flooding to your mind, because they're so meaningful.

      I like RFAk and NFAK both! Love the sufiyana songs.

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    8. Absolutely Dia,

      My pal and I were wondering why those old songs are called evergreen melodies and our thoughts were on the same lines as yours. Even today old songs get remixed and somehow you feel like humming them depending on how good or not good the new one is.

      And yes most new songs once teh rage is done and gone, you barely remember beyond a line or 2.

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    9. Yes...abs...
      One day...when in the mood, we girls will write about our fav songs...and share what we like about it!!
      Sandy....true "the words of a song are its soul"

      RFAK can make an ordinary song sound so beautiful just by his rendering...in that lovely voice...
      Abida Parveen is a little over powering when it comes to her rendering which may put off people but i like the songs she sings...a very evolved sufi singer...
      I was listening y'day to her"Tumne diwana banaya toh main diwana bana, ab hosh ki duniya mein mujhe tamasha na bana" u may like it....its a 9 min song..

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  22. Shweths...

    ODB ko pata chal gaya that u are going away...so he has cancelled his plans..

    see without blog genie, nothing is possible" u alone have the power to make things happen *MIG alert*

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    1. Sach main!!

      I have very abysmal hopes for the week ahead. No Sanaya, No DBG - looks like a lot of creep monologue and Payal - Manorama drama and maybe just maybe some G family scenes

      Hai re Nandkishore!!

      Speaking of NK, WT - why tout his continuation if he is not going to be around?

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    2. Girls...just watching y'day epi re-run...
      Noticed while Arnav was barking at his staff to get back to work, Watch ODG motioning to his staff to get back as well..*ROFL*

      That was so Khushi/SI ....SI is so cute....I can't imagine anyone else doing Khushi ever...

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    3. They will bring in NK whenever it is required, we are to assume he is still around better than gone away for ever right, who knows we might see more of him next week?

      Rekha: I never thought they would hold on for so long...I mean the UST (Unresolved sexual tension) should have been taken care of long long ago if we went by how they were at the beginning since GH confrontation.

      Now, Payash kay bachchay ho jaayengay, yeh donon sleeping arrangements sort kar rahain hongay:(

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    4. Hmm,
      NK I think will come back when needed instead of a totally new face as his character was liked by all and he was a good friend of Khushi.

      Faaltu gyaan:
      When that astrology report on TV happened, did u al notice that they played teh same 3 /4 lines over and over throughout the scene

      Yday when the RV started, Khushi's dialogues of hum halvai ki beti hain aur businessman ki patni alongwith ab aay na truck pul ke neeche were repeated - scene recycling

      and with sanay gone, next week we will get to see arnav changing gears, pressing accelerator, locking wondows, 1 / 2 min repeat of previous day scenes *sigh*

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    5. Shweths...

      U r absolutely right...but unfortunately....this is the thing about Indian sensibilities...people behave as if u don't talk about it, they don't exist...its also the time slot issue, channel issue...

      I don't watch Saas-bahu serials becos i can't accept that a bahu can't communicate with a saas over a simple silly matter(or vice versa depending on the situation)and they will let wounds fester..the dynamics in the relationship are taken to stupid levels and so naturally u may serials running on for 3-4 years..

      Today i caught an episode of DABH (after the IPK Re-run) and believe me, I saw a lead replying sensibly to an accusation( i think so!) made by her MIL...I am not sure but it seems a first of sorts for me...I was impressed by that...Otherwise they would have shown her simply accepting it and then going thru trials and tribulations proving her MIL otherwise...
      If this serial has a top TRP, is it that audiences have become more accepting or have i misread the theme wrng?

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    6. Next week will be very slow ... Sanaya is there in almost all scenes in every episode ... far more than Barun. A throwback to our discussion that ODB interacts mainly with Khushi, and 5% of the time with Anjali/Akash ... whereas Khushi has separate relationships with each member of the family. So her absence has to made up for by lots of closeups and BD's ... even then it will be tough going. The Mami-Payal track and Arnav-Shyam track is for that, I guess.

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    7. Sandy: That can still be tolerated than Payash romance right, which reminds me is it me or has akash started calling her Payalji again, I mean kitna bhulakkad hai yeh banda.

      Rekha: I totally get, they still can set right this situation, after SI comes back and during one of thier serious arguments she blurts out why do you keep doing this since Diwali, it is as if you care and then it is as if you could care less and he says the reason why he got married to her.

      MU Cleared, khushi furious and still doesn't remember the confession and they can take it from there.

      At first Arnav not giving the reason was a bit awww, cos what if she says she loves Shyam..but now it is getting stupid.

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    8. Rekha, about DABH, I'm not sure as I don't watch the show, but I would have watched it because the theme really appealed to me - a woman studying after marriage and her husband supporting her. I tried to watch the first few episodes, but it was presented in in very over-dramatic manner and then back into the saas-bahu saga ... but they are trying to keep that basic theme - I think that's where it has hit the jackpot.

      I saw a glimpse of one episode where the lead talks about accepting a girl baby ... and at the end of the episode, she had a face-to-face with the audience where she made an appeal to stop female foeticide. So the message is good - the problem for me is the saas-bahu dynamics, which I can't stand, and the lead actress - she is pathetic. And the usual wicked BIL-SIL ... it's the usual SP soap, the only difference is that it has a message.

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    9. Yes...I guess what u r saying is right...
      in all i may have watched 3 epis, i guess....two in the start...where i was not impressed with the setting or lead acting and then tday...
      A combination of things maybe, "indian" values, social message, support from family within the confines of tradition...if thats the msg
      Matlab badlo but limit mein badlo...kind of thing

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    10. Rekha / Dia,

      What little I have seen of DABH b/w channel surfing, it does have a message. The MIL is overowering as is want in a Tier 2 or Tier 3 city. But yes there have been subtle social messages and also the hubby wife dynamics are nice I think. Panga there is the leads are ok esp the female cannot really emote looks quite 2D whereas the MIL is a powerful actress.

      Even SGP is nice and they have developed all the characters such that even if the leads go missing for sometime is is ok.

      With IPK the panga is having touted it as a love story they spent a lot of tme building the Arnav Khushi characters and the love story but then missed Payal, Aakash and others. Till the Payash track came up, those 2 barely had any screen time. La and NK were developed but they have been phased out.

      I hope in the upcoming week, we have Arnav Aakash scenes (about married life and changes, about Di, Aakash commenting on Khushi's spirit), Payash scenes (about the sudden wedding, about mami), some Nani Arnav moments (not had one in ages) some Arnav monologues or thinking about all that has happened in this short while and ofc some creepwa scenes.

      Honestly the only other youthful romantic love story which I watched and liked was Mahi Way on Sony. 26 / 29 episodes and a once a week telecast kept things moving at a good pace.

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    11. Shweths,

      Payash romance sounds eww cos they get such scenes. I mean they are a calm stable couple. Fell in love got married face issues in the house. payal has an ailing father her MIL bullies her. Their siblings got married in a very rushed manner. An elder pregnant sis.

      So much could be done. Over time build scenes where they think about why these 2 did what they did and Akash giving Payal insights into Arnav - how he has had to be tough but is essentially nice. and Payal agrees with all he has done for them. Payal talks about Khush's sanki panaa and Aakash makes her realize how mature and responsible she has been for the family (AR incidents that Akash knows of) though she was the youngest. And tell her to inform the family that Khushi is settling in well and they should not worry for both daughters. Even a passing did you speak home today Payal? Are your parents well? Will u be seeing them this week? Does babuji need a checkup?

      He could even ask her about the broken marriage and how Arnav had a hand in it and how Khushi has been shielding Arnav - but being the person he is just keeps i t to himself tho his regard for Khushi increases. Maybe Aakash brings up Shyam and Payal gets fidgety. He asks and she is shown again to have the conflict of to tell to tell or not to tell. Payal can just inform Akash that Khushi was forced into her engagemetn and the man turned out to be a fraud. How heartbroken she was how she did it all for family. Saving it all for later will again create high drmaa sometime in future and they may skip some scenes followed by draught and fillers. If they know the sequence of events, Arnav kowing, Khushi realizing, Khushi knowing and so on, they need to plan milestones and accordingly pace scenes to suit availability. Week to Week TRPs is ok but it will eventually backfire

      Even some Nani Najli scenes feeling happy about having Khushi home, how she has done so much for them. Payal and /or Arnav can overhear or not. Them asking paayl the reason for Khushi's broken rishta and she telling essentially the turth save for the Shyam bit.

      Also talking to them about Khushi's childhood and how she has always been striving for the family - the loss of their dukaan. I mean it is not like u get married and dont mention ur maayka in ur sasuraal at all. Besides this is a pretty warm sasuraal not hostile.

      Aakash and Arnav could be sitting down studying some files, a few deal related issues. Arnav could ask Aakash if he is happy after all the effort to get married to Payal. And Aakash asks him bhai can u tell me why u did what u did in a totally non offesive way. Arnav can choose to remain silent and maybe Aakash speaks of Khushi to Arnav.

      There could be Aakash Khushi (jija - saali) scenes where he tells her about how bhai is nice and not the LG she calls him. Why he has to be strong as he has to fend for a family.

      Saving it all for later for the track about the past seems stupid.

      Some self reflection scenes of Arnav about the whole matter - if done nicely they can take 2 epis for this and not necessarily rush it out. Lots of FB's inner dialgue - ofc I am guessign they are scared if they show so much and he still does not figure out then also it will be an issue.


      Anyways, bahut rant hogaya, bas bahut bore na hoye. I cannot conceptualize and create scenes for creep. But if I have to sit thru his stupid monologues whole of next week..I am going to be very cross

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  23. Apparently the writers at Rangmunch think the same as us wrt characters and their potrayal

    Does Khushi Kumari Gupta Need a brain upgrade?-An Audience Feedback! - http://rangmunch.tv/index.php/fans-adda/fan-story-menu/item/531-khushi-gupta-needs-brain-upgrade-audience-feedback

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    1. Oh yes ... but they gave only one side- how about Arnav's brain which has gone on never-ending sabbatical? Hum kab se dhoond rahe hain usko - kabhi Alaska mein, kabhi French Riviera mein ...

      But good - all feedback about the unnecessary dumbing down is useful - hope it reaches the makers. And the TRP's reflect - the last time they did this kind of inane comedy, they had to retract very quickly ... hope the same thing happens again.

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    2. Agree what about Arnav's brain and tongue..atleast tell her why he married her, duhhhhh

      Anyway, I think after she gets back, the story will move hopefully.

      Oh oh, is this why they started with the Shyam convincing Arnav that he has sudhrofied track, so that is what it will be the next week, shyam coming up with loads of stuff for Arnav's sake.

      In that case, this week shouldn't be too bad, depending on how fooled Arnav is:(

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  24. just a question girls...while I was watching some SBS segments yesterday, I came across the La exit one, where they were like the makers are thinking of bringing back La to take revenge.. and I was like.. REALLY?? Because looking at how they showed her exit, it does not look to me as if she will develop vicious feelings towards K..infact she wants them both to be together.. unless she is a split personality..

    I hope that is not true... ArHi have too much going on b/w them to need a third person..

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