Friday, August 3, 2012

3/8 - Epi 312 ... Kaya Palat?!!!

Friday 3rd August

What show am I watching?! Am I still watching the same show? :-o
Till yesterday, Arnav and Khushi were barely on talking terms, and tension was thick between them. Today Arnav is back to lover boy, and Khushi gives in faster than melting snow :)
Not that I minded ... Arshi scenes were truly Arshilicious :"> :"> :)

Till yesterday, Anjali was giving very snide remarks to Khushi about kwaality time with brother... today she thanks her for making Arnav wear the kurta. And wants a fresh start.

Till yesterday, Akash was glowering at Payal ... today he's back to all izz well in Payash paradise.

First scene played out in five minutes flat ... Khushi finds Anjali, and wonder of wonders tells her she was looking for her ... although she doesn't tell Nani that Anjali temporarily went missing ... almost did *head desk* at yet another of Khushi's fibs ...

And all the gifts were for Khushi ... including the golguppas ... I have been seeing so many golguppas on tv the last couple of days, now I'm having some serious cravings here!!!
Morning after Arshi ... what exactly happened the night before?! Why is Arnav gazing at her so lovingly ... and why is Khushi blushing redder than a tomato? And she's back in the white nightsuit ... oh well, so obviously nothing much happened ... even though she wound up on the wrong side of the bed, and her dupatta was on the other side ... *MIG alert* :">
SN - our 'niharofying' shiddat happened at long last!!! This was some serious niharofying! :)) 

And Nani is the KMH today ... tut tut, Naniji, aapse yeh ummeed nahin thi. But I forgive her ... because the Blast from the Past is finally happening ... not wicked Chachaji, but crazy Dadiji ... who makes an appearance in the precap ... just as the rest of the family has miraculously had a total kaya palat ... so are we ready for a new villain?

*edited ... finally!*

First scene ... Khushi looking for Anjali ... in the light of the recent understanding between Khushi and Arnav, more understandable now ... Anjali is Khushi's responsibility as much as she is Arnav's. And in her current fragile state of mind, she has to be looked after ... so Khushi does exactly that, like a mother hen shepherding her wayward chick ... come back home and don't loiter outside, the big bad wolf might get you :)) And Anjali knows Khushi is wondering whom she was talking to.

ArHi ... Adorable Arnav waiting most impatiently for his wife
... the man has got it bad!!! Blows up HP yet again for merely bringing Khushi's phone And is still insecure about Khushi ... if she's run away again, I swear  ...
SN - he will what? Drag her back? Carry her back? Gag her and tie her to him?
All seem possible judging from his expression :))

Fortunately for Khushi, she's done with nanny duty for her toddler sister-in-law … and can concentrate on her Hotwa Hubby, who is annoyed as heck she went missing when he wanted her (since that happens about once every three minutes these days, it’s tough to keep up!). and why hasn’t he changed his clothes when he was grumbling about that ages ago … ok, she’ll  follow him  immediately as he’s getting so impatient …
But what is he so impatient about? And as he opens the door for her to enter, why is the light off?
Stumble … automatic ‘careful!’
“Even if the light is on, your dimaag ki batti never lights up.”
(SN – are the CV’s reading R&R??!! Really? The number of times we have discussed dimaag ki battis of the leads, this can’t be a coincidence! :)) )

And he goes on to the immediate goal at hand … ‘NK and his stupid idea … me wearing a kurta. Di was perfectly happy with my jewelry gift … there was no need for me to get so uncomfortable.’
Khushi is quick to correct him … but of course! “your batti is dimmer than mine. Di was happier that you wore the kurta she’d bought you, and that you stayed for the puja. Not for the jewelry set.’
Good going … she’s getting more and more annoyed … sooner or later she will spill it out.

‘Stupid idea … stupid surprise.’
‘Stupid for you … we all knew this was the best way to make Di happy.’
So NK had warned the entire family? That was why Mami announced grand multicolour surprise number three …?

‘Rubbish! Why would anyone be happy to see anyone in this? I can’t figure out what is the most stupid … the idea, this stupid kurta, or these stupid buttons which don’t close.’
And Khushi promptly closes his button for him, in the cutest, most spontaneous, most natural wifely act yet … ‘Stop grumbling for nothing … there is nothing wrong with these buttons, they close perfectly well.’
A very satisfied smirk from Arnav … that wifely gesture noted and filed away …
‘Here you go … you can never think of such a good idea …’
‘And you can?’
‘Of course I can … this was my idea …’
Oops, caught out … she didn’t mean to admit to that, will he get angry that she made him do something he doesn’t like doing? Even though it did make Di happy?

And Arnav has got what he wanted … he knew it was her idea, of course, but he wanted her to admit it … even if he hadn’t seen her quick response to Di’s question and NK’s puzzled look, he would have known … because it’s only Khushi who knows the pleasure and happiness these little gestures can bring …
And now his turn for a little gesture which will mean so much to her … ‘why do you think I’m wearing this kurta for so long? Because I knew it was your idea all along …’

Admitting that he knew it was her idea, admitting more importantly, he wore the kurta only because it was her idea in the first place … even though it’s so uncomfortable, even though he feels the damn pajama might fall off any minute … yet he’s wearing it just for her … 

When he lost his voice because of the mosquito coil, she was upset, guilty, she did all she could to help him recover … and he never gave her credit, never wanted to admit that she did succeed … 
Now, he wears the kurta for far longer than he needed to, and tells her so, just to see her smile … the smile she told him he couldn’t buy for her, the smile he asked her for, wondering  why nothing he did for her could make her give even the shadow of one … 

And smile she does … tentatively, tremulously … no expensive gifts needed … just an affirmation that she did something right, something which made him happy, something which brought happiness to Di, made her smile, made the rest of the family smile … after all the doom and gloom and accusations of the last few days … and he acknowledged it, he did it for her …  

Time for the lights, and the next part of the plan to make her realise just how special she is for him, how important her happiness, her smile is for him … not only Di’s …
He holds her and turns her to see … a pile of gifts on the bed … Khushi first shocked, did she leave something out again? A resigned look from Arnav at his jhalli but innocent biwi … she doesn’t even realise these are for her … probably she’s never seen a pile like that intended only for her ever before … yep, she has to open them and check them all …

So she starts … while he stands back and watches with a smile … smiling as her smile gets bigger and bigger at the inexpensive, ordinary yet meaningful things … all her favorites … channas, SK poster – a delighted grin for that … jalebis from her favourite shop, and gol guppas … everything she loves … and as her smile grows bigger with every gift, so does his own … as he realises the truth of Khushi’s principle in life … seeing her happy makes him happy … so very happy … 

And then she reaches the only expensive looking box … a jewelry box … her smile fades slightly as she looks at him … and so does his, as he waits a little apprehensively … the simple, inexpensive things he knew she would love, but this one …? 

But it’s not the price of the gift that gives it the value … it’s the connection … a loop closed, a full circle completed… 
the first time they met and he broke a string of pearls, and robbed her honor and dignity … 
her dream when he restored that string, and with it her honor … 
and now, her dream come true, a reality now … he had stripped her of her pride and dignity, now he restores it himself …
And she gets to her feet, her eyes spilling over … does he even know what this means to her? How much it means …?

Yes, he does … he knows it all … silent apology in his eyes as he waits for her to take the first step towards him … does she forgive him for that first meeting? Does she accept his apology?

Generous hearted, forgiving as always … of course she does … she takes that first step, and that’s all he needs, as he covers the rest … wipes her tears, a silent promise that he will wipe them ever after … and for the first time ever, takes her into his arms, holds her close … close to his heart … and she goes into his arms as though coming home … finally … daring to hope, daring dream, daring to love again … home at last … :">

Waking up in the morning … another loop closed … when he was kidnapped, she woke up dreaming of his return, his presence on the recliner, watching her with love … today yet another dream come true … as she wakes up on the wrong side of the bed, looks around with puzzled sleepy eyes … and sees him watching her. Love, longing, passion … everything she ever dreamed of seeing, it’s all there ...

A shy soft smile … very conscious look, fiddling with her hair, her neck, the absent dupatta … what exactly happened at night after that hug? Whatever it was, enough to make them both lost in each other … he all possessive confident man, she all shy smiling, self-conscious woman …:"> :"> :">

The heat of that gaze makes her shyer, she goes to pick up her missing dupatta … he gets to his feet and comes closer… and she abandons the attempt … does he want to take up where they left off? And she’s not averse, not at all … shy but not averse … just his coming closer is enough to set her heartbeats racing again ..

Till the knock on the door … which startles them both and brings them back with a jerk to the real world … unwelcome though it is … that ‘kaun hai?’ from Arnav had more than a hint of irritation.

SN – when did they change their clothes? When did they regain enough sense to lock the door last night? How did Khushi land up on the one side and her dupatta on the other side … of the bed? ;)
And WHAT freaking happened last night????!!!
Answer to the last ... nothing happened ;)

Nani the KMH this time … Arnav opens the door as Khushi quickly picks up her dupatta … and as Arnav makes to follow Nani, he reminds Khushi … 'we’re not done talking yet …’
And she wonders … ‘I felt as though I was going to stop breathing …’
Khushi’s ‘saansein ruk gayi’moment … 

SN – when did they talk? Or was it the Nainon ki bhasha they were speaking? :))

Or … more prosaic … was it the leftover talk from the GH? Come home with me … and now that she has, they need to discuss the real problem. 

But since when has there been only one problem in ArHi land … the moment one gets sorted, the next one starts … this time, a runaway Dadi …
SN … pause please … Yippee … Blast from the Past is here!!! :))

Nani-Arnav … Subhadra Devi has disappeared from the Ashram … where she was living for the last 14 years, after ‘that woman’ caused the ‘haadsa’ … and Arnav tried to get her back from there, but she refused … 

Mami-Akash fill in some more details … lady in question is Arnav’s Dadi … and Mami is scared of her … the lady is ‘Danger’ … hopefully Danger has lessened … Akash doesn’t know much, but he decides not to tell Payal what little he does know … umm, double standards, or will he finally understand why some things are better kept quiet?

Anjali-Khushi … Khushi approaches Anjali again … yes, if her place in the house and family is permanent now, then it is up to her to try and bridge distances, not run away … Anjali did so when she asked Khushi about Bauji, now Khushi’s turn … she tries to explain about the events that happened …
But Anjali is willing to accept an olive branch, but not talk about those events yet … somewhat like Khushi, she prefers to sweep them under the carpet … leave the past in the past, otherwise it affects the present … it affected Arnav a lot, and she doesn’t want that again … she’d rather start afresh.
So a tentative hand out … ‘Thank you … I know you’re the one who was behind Arnav wearing the kurta … thank you for that …’

Is Anjali genuinely trying to reach out? She now realises that Khushi has a lot of influence on Arnav … something Arnav hasn’t done for the last 14 years, despite Anjali trying, he did today because of Khushi … And she appreciates that Khushi has been able to pull Arnav out of the shadows of his past.
Or is Anjali being just Anjali … refusing to face the past and come to terms with it … the good and the bad … preferring instead to close the door on it, and hope it will stay locked in the cupboard.
Or is Anjali already under the influence of KP, and is just trying to keep Khushi off her trail?

199 comments:

  1. Arhilicious epi! Just wish they wouldn't use a BD for their intimate moments - feels sacrilegious somehow.... :(

    Dadi's announced entry - in time and the excuse for a grand remarriage? Hope so!

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    1. Aki, the hug wasnt a bd....they were there for the shoot, saw in sbs....morning shot bd tha....cudnt they put filler mami-nk scene there :(

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    2. Saw the SBS too but it seemed like when they focused on Sanaya's expressions, it was a BD........ :( ........ hope I am wrong........maybe I should just take "another" look ... ;)

      Sama: kuch batein batayi nahi jaati hain, samji jaati hain... :))

      Glad to hear there is a problem with access - I shocked myself being the first one to comment and when I did not see anyone else here after 20 mins, I got seriously worried.... aisa kya dikha diya tha un log ne ke sab ke hosh gum ho gaye.........

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    3. Aki its not a BD..concentrate on their figures and you would know.. Sanaya's body is very skinny, you would immediately guess a BD in her position.. and I thought even in the morning scene it wasn't a BD..the figure is sooo Sanaya's and Barun's.. because check the epi online again and at one point of the morning scene they show them both together and the morning scene itself is barely for 2 mins..why would they get a BD for such a short duration?

      these were the scenes Barun prob shot before taking off..

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    4. Mads when ASR is sitting on the recliner, its a bd....
      even during the gift opening when khushi's face is shown and ASR silhoute its a BD....but i thought the hug wasnt with Barun's bd....Sanaya is present all through out..not her bd

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    5. Thank God! I am never able to guess the BDs unless and until I find it out on R&R. :)

      Exactly, Aki! Even I feel that we are soon to enjoy the grand marriage...Probably on the last day of the contract.

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    6. According to spoiler devis TEEJ &remarriage is on.

      BDs din't trouble today ... it was used in very few scenes. They have definitely scrapped some scenes they already shot at GH cause according to media news Dadi starts shooting from today and we saw that as Precap so my guess is Sans scenes were shot with BD yesterday or today itself .... God knows!!!!

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    7. Apologies for upsetting you guys........I should have clarified - by BD, I was actually referring to Barun only....Sanaya was there throughout........I guess Barun needed to take off so they used his BD in scenes where they were focusing on Sanaya's expressions........

      Thanks for the news on Teej and remarriage Sama.......FINALLY!

      Opti - please don't stop posting - look forward to reading here.

      Guess we will be in for serious drama after that.

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  2. Finally Arnie boy initiates the hug and does not wait for his gal to rush into his arms.

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  3. kostin -

    did they..didn't they? :S

    I am bherrryyy much conphuussed!!!

    Khushi looked visibily flustered after getting up in the morning.. but phan-girls (inc us) would definitely KILL the CVs if they overlook the big C like this!! :P I think they must have just kissed.. :P

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    1. will be back after re-watching the epi.. was watching it with my 5 yr old niece and she was asking me questions like "if he has given her a gift then why is she crying instead of laughing?" :))) had no answer to that...so switched off from IPK after that kostin of hers.. :P :))

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    2. Yeh kya ho raha hai... What big C and all. I thought they were not even looking at each other properly yesterday...

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    3. UJ golmaal hai bhen sab golmaal hai!!!

      Iska jawab agar aap dekh kar humein bata sakein toh kripya meharbani hogi.

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    4. mads ROFL.."did they didn't they..."

      That truly is the question...;-)

      speaking from a purely professional point of view...if they've done teri meri and barn yard scene they wouldn't lose out on promoting the big C and missing a chance to boost TRP so definitely no C and probably no K....and the second may not happen also depends on the leads if they're oki with it....

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  4. Umm Ummm come again .... E ka hui gawa??

    Morning kolaveri kya tha - Bitwa smirked Bitiya flustered.

    Cvs don't you dare cheat us on this. Samjhe Aap!

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    1. Is there other people having trouble with accessing blogspot.com through pc. Its my since last 2 days. Even re-starting pc not helping anymore. This was my nth attempt through mobile.

      Not fair!! I have so much to blabber about today.

      Pajama talk was total MIG. Bitiyas smile was sone pe suhaga ;)

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    2. so past does have an aurat connection ..... Bitiya 8 and bitwa 14 when it happened ....so she is 22/23 as bitwa is 28.

      He does not seem to dislike Dadi.

      Anjali - one word creepy.

      Wese bitwa said hamari baath khatam nahi huwi hai .... Hawww baat karte ho tum dono .... Wese cvs what have they been talking about ....cause seeing is believing I hope you have not forgotten that.

      What with the smirk???? Why so content???? What happened last night??? Why change of sides??? Why her dupatta was on his side of the bed??? What happened last night?????

      Teelllllzzzzz

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    3. and and and Akash bitwa said kuch cheezein dabi rahe toh behtar hai .... Really ..... FATAAAAAKKKKKK ..... What happened when biwi tried to explain it in so many words and emotions annnnnnnd actions????

      Come again .... What happened last night???????

      PS: sorry for the chote chote segmented posts .... Otherwise post nahi hote ... See why say its unfair.

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    4. Sama I think they prob just kissed and made out.. :P though how and why would they stop at that I don't know.. :P

      Barun has some inhibitions regarding such scenes it seems, he'd already mentioned it once in an interview.. so I think they decided to skip it altogether and left it for viewers' imagination.. :)

      I hope I am wrong though.. :P

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    5. Sama

      Aap humein conphuse kar rahi hai... What smirk and fluster are you talking about???? After the wednesday epi... What is this all about.

      Have seen the epi yet but ur post... Hmmm... Mixed pheelings... I want to know what transpired between that convo at GH and coming to RM for rakhi...

      Please CVs don't do what you dod with KN track. Arnav's instrospection ghayab... Similarly the talk and events of that night also ghayab...

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    6. Mads.. IF is abuzz that the big C happened.....wud they cheat us like that..

      Barun's inhibitions werent there in his previous show, i think its more of Sanaya's reluctance.....also sbs did have a near kiss....

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    7. Geetu could be either of them.. though if Barun didn't have inhibitions for his previous show then has to be Sanaya.. in MJHT she had done a consummation scene but that was because it was with her real life BF..

      but as far as I know San from her interviews she is pretty professional and as it is, they wouldn't go far than to show a kiss on the neck..max would be one on the lips and that too articulately shot.. so technically its no big deal.. and also the saiyyan sequence was pretty intimate..

      don't know.. maybe we will get the actual thing after the re-marriage (if there is going to be one) ...

      but what was khushi's dialogue about "aise laga jaise humari saasein ruk gayi ho.." :S

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    8. i know SaRun has repeatedly said they are uncomfy with intimate scenes but they don't have to get anymore than they already have. Rest is camera and editing with perfect BG. So whats the fuss??

      Cvs don't you dare warna KHALLAS!!

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    9. Mads, i havent seen MJHT...Sanaya had said once that she isnt comfortable with intimate scenes but since audience demand it so she'll do it....

      also u are right the hut scene was quite intimate, i think the suspense behind this scene is just to keep us guessing....even yesterday Arnav was talking bt the jewellery for Di, making us think that the bags were for her....but it was Khushi's gifts....something similar will happen with this...they might show something in fb..mostly just the kiss....

      big C wont happen b4 the remarriage...

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    10. GUYS I GUARANTEE THAT WASN'T IT....the PH is smarter than that...teri meri and barn yard sky rocketed TRP...both K and C will happen (C for sure K depends on actors cuz its actually more intimate..C is all bout angles and all)

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    11. TRP is definitely playing KHEL ... Karan aka NKs tweet on monday was of day off for all IPKKND cast and crew ... Definitely something major ... otherwise why would they give a day off without any reason when they are short of episode bank.

      But as they said "humari baat abhi khatam nahi hui" ... cvs ishara to us .... wait and watch!

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  5. I guess I'll not be posting here anymore because for some reason all my posts disappear and by the time they reappear, I lose interest. Hard to have a one way conversation like Anjali. Will keep reading the posts though even if I'm unable to contribute to the discussion. Nice to have interacted with you gals. Bye.

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    1. hey Opti, don't leave like that....your insights are amazing....i used to love reading your post on IF as well, then you stopped....was so glad to read your comments here...

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    2. hey Opti....don't do that yaar...kuch technical locha hoga...i did see ur port appear for a sec and then it vanished...it has re-appeared I used to face that problem earlier if i used devnagari script...it will get sorted out...i m sure

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  6. good episode, enjoyed it and it also touched the heart a little....

    the pearls, the tear, the hug, the kiss was all awesome...but why was the fb from the dream seq and not the breaking pearl dori one, was it cause that one was sad moment ?

    what i liked :
    1. their convo in the bedroom....how cute can these two get....he knows how to get the truth out of her.
    2. her genuine smile at all the gifts.
    3. he bought all the things that she loves.
    4. the way he admired her while she opened the gifts.
    5. the way he was admiring her while she slept (bd nahi hota toh aur achchaa lagta)
    6. 'baat abhi khatam nahi huyee', hayeeee, though i doubt he will get finish it.
    7. khushi dint poke her nose more into the Anjiali talking alone matter.
    8. Akash is mending his ways, Shwetha your dandaa reached Akash i guess
    9. loved khushi-anjali interaction.....Anjali wants a new start, good to hear that...
    10. Arshad Khan giving some time to the actors to finish their act....

    thing i dint like :
    when Khushi dint share her concern to Nani...why girl, dont u understand that its better to inform elders when matter is in control and can be salvaged...why let things get out of hand, esp where Anjali is concerned....

    Anjali matter, is still wait and watch, yesterday she was hurt with Khushi and Chotte...just a KP, some decoration and a jewellery set later, she wants a new start...whats going on in her mind.....

    New entry, so finally they are scratching into the past.....

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    1. My dhamki worked! I can finally see my posts.

      Geetu, I think the FB of the dream was deliberate because it showed to Khushi they are so mentally in tune that Arnav can even see her dreams and act on them. That is why she had tears in her eyes as she was so overwhelmed by this strong connection they seem to have.

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    2. Geetu, my reply to your post has disappeared and your counter is there. So now you really look like Anj, talking to yourself!

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    3. Geetu,
      When I saw the sbs, I actually imagined the fb from the dream sequence. I even wondered if they'd play the same song!
      It was a long cherished dream of hers!

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    4. ok...Opti's post disappeared again :(

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    5. FB was fine from her side .... I expected the pearl breaking one from Bitwas side ... but cvs are hell bent on not showing his regret and guilt ... ab kya kar sakte hain???

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    6. Sama,
      Guilt and regret will come- that is for RTR.
      Have patience, dear.(May be next year on the anniv of the wedding. Joking.)
      At least wait till the contract period is over.
      Dadi is coming on monday. What is going to happen after 10 days?

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    7. Su : i dint remember that dream sequence at all...for me pearl connected with that dori breaking sequence...

      Sama : in a way i dread bitwa's regret and guilt (his peetal ka bartan moment)...don't want him to pull himself away from her, that will break her more. but it will come when she will understand and accept his love totally....

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    8. But it has to be there .... they have to let him know what and how much this girl have suffered for him. He needs to accept he does not write his own destiny. He has Khushi today with him ... a person he cannot stay away even for a moment. He did not WANT to be with her. He had always pushed her away. Its DM who have bound her with him. He MUST admit it. "Tumhare bishwas pe bishwas dilaya HAS to play out in his actions.

      Why do I feel they will play out past and then take bitwa for a full blown guilt trip .... I want wofl cry more than I want to see C. BAS !!!

      Ok to be honest I want BOTH. BAS !!!

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    9. Opti yipeeee...

      more than the suspense on the show, i am following the suspense on ur posts....

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  7. Seems like i started watching a new series of IPK....part 2. for a minute i thot, i must have gone to sleep for a few days/years...kya hua....

    Cvs have forgotten something or Am i afflicted with amnesia?

    yahan itna sannata kyun hain bhai? i don't mean in R&R...

    will come back after i recoup....

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    1. Rekha it felt like I have skipped somewhat 5 episodes at least.

      Wese I burst out laughing when he said "agar wo phir se baagh gayi hai toh mein" .... Kabhi dekha hai esi biwi jo pati ko itna dara kar rakke

      Why is shew all so fine with him ... what happened at GH??? What happened last night???

      8 more days to go or is that out of the window now just like KN and Holi confession???

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    2. Sama about Arnav's thought process before ILU - I doubt if they'll show it.. Barun had said in an interview then that when you stay away from a person its then that you realise the true worth of that person.. probably that is what happened.. he realised he loved khushi irrespective of whatever she might have or might not have done.. and that he may not get a chance to say it again to her, so he does ...

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    3. oh no the ILU part I can totally get ... he was about to turn right and we have seen him getting to that point over months.

      By KN I meant how he was actually kidnapped ... 15 days no Qs answered at all .... no follow up.

      I for once was not holding for an FB specially after they shot fight sequence with him. Showing his thought process would have taken less of Baruns presence.

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  8. Ufffoooo morning kolaveri mein toh major *gloatwa ve* karna bhul hi gaye !!

    Lucknow da kurta na patha ni salwar ..... Mard wo jo hug initiate kare warna hai bekar!!!

    Shabash Jawan .... Muaaahhhh

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    1. to add to your bit, Sama -

      Lucknow da kurta na patha ni salwar ..... Mard wo jo biwi ko USKE pasand ke gifts de warna hai bekar!!! :))

      LOVED all of his gifts.. and they ended at a peak.. :)) need to watch again to pull my thoughts together so that I can come up with something to write.. :))

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    2. wah wah wah .... yeh huwi na baat !!

      "I wanna make love to you like YOU want me to"

      DID HE DID HE !!! *angry bird*

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    3. what bol rahin ho Sam, kuch khulke bata....my brain is fried today....aur my guru Shweths is not available for ulta decoding

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    4. Rekha dimaag ka dahi ho gaya hai .... itna toh me ne apne best friend ke morning after ke bare mein nahi pucha hoga *shayad*... What has life come to????

      yeah BG kahan hain .... Aaj toh Akash bitwa ne dialogue bhi mari ... wah kya dialogue tha!!

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    5. hahahahhah brilliant Sama....Kjo's next movie worthy dialogue.

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  9. ok ...

    writing a few points that occur to me.

    1 idon't know if i will be only one here to say...the arhi moments made no sense at all from the narrative pov...no issue with the scenes pr se or acting or anything
    2)arnav's part, i can still understand, khushi made no sense to me...
    3)why was she behaving as if an accord had been signed between the two at GH...where she has decided to forget all that has happened till now and in bargain she gets to be the old khushi?
    4) On C.....no POV.....if they can't show magic on screen with this great pair i am happier to leave it to imagination....so not holding my breath for that moment....if they have progressed to that level of relationship....gud for them.....
    5)whats on Anji's mind....is the person behind the wall a therapist who has been working wonders on her mind?
    6) Dadi....what is she is curious Rm maze? the malik part of the equation..will it balance?

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    1. Rekha..I had the exact "WTF?" reaction that you have today after watching yesterday's epi.. but actually, today, some doubts got cleared..

      see if this makes any sense to you.. but what was khushi's main problem? The fact that she felt insecure about arnav's love for her (courtesy : him mentioning the contract), her position in RM as Mrs ASR and the fact that she was a hurdle b/w the siblings.. apart from that, she had no real issues.. for bitwa, the problem was that there was no problem for him other than the ones khushi seemed to be creating..he looked at things from a very simple (albeit selfish) POV.. sure they got married under shameful circumstances, but so what? they love each other now and he has in his part assured di that nothing's going to change after his falling in love with khushi.. so there's no problem and life is a bed of roses for him..after a long time, he has found his khushi (literally and figuritively) and nothing could go wrong...things seem to be in his control again..

      so now assuming that the night before at GH, arnav might have assured her of this very talk with di.. that she is ok.. she just needs to be assured that she is loved and needs to be kept happy and must have told her that running away is not going to solve the problem, instead she should face it..prob putting in some dialogue like di ke liye shaadi ki thi, ab di ki khushi sambhalna humara farz hai or something like that.. either way it has to be 'di ke liye'.. so they both leave GH without telling the Guptas anything.. also why the rushed raksha bandhan and the "di ko khush karo" abhiyan yesterday!

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    2. Mads....agreed but what is the issue in showing

      unless they have not shot it due to RB epi constraints and BS absence.....phir it would have been better to show the dadi jhamela and keep K and us on tenterhooks as always

      it totally spoils the flow....ARHI was supposed to be a classic one...and if u see the picturisation...it was lovely but ......maybe its a problem with me.....and my expectations....

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    3. contd..

      so now that she has come back, they have both assured di of her happiness, she is visibly happy about everything and life seems to be taking a new turn for her.. HE needs to get back to settling his own life (before dadi makes an entry :P) .. and first things first, is to make khushi smile..

      he let her know that he knew it was her idea, which meant he did approve of how much she cared for di and that he approved of the measures she used to make di happy, thus assuring her again that di pe uska bhi haq hain..

      and then, the pajama talk which was total MIG.. :P when he had gifted her the red saree she'd said to him "afsos ki aap humare liye muskurahat nahi kharid sake!" and today.. he made her smile before infact gifting her anything.. :))

      and then, moving onto the actual gifts..he gifts her something SHE loves.. and all those small things that matter to her, not the 2 lakhs ka expensive bag or the online order ki hui red saree, but simple sweet gestures that bitiya loves to treasure.. :)) (though I would have loved it if he had gifted her stars instead of chane, he had already gifted her chane before...but chalo thik hai!) bitiya's smile of joy and bitwa's expressions were cherry on the cake! :))

      and then, the last and final gift of which he is apprehensive, because it is infact materialistic, he doesn;t know how she will react to it after all these gestures... and she is apprehensive too, wondering what it is.. and it is the final confirmation of his love and that the marriage is for the keeps.. the culmination...their story began with her breaking the pearls on her choli and today he gave back those pearls to her in the form of a necklace.. then, he tore apart her life, today, he is putting it all back together and this is just the beginning.. :)) she is touched because it had been her dream ever since he told her he loves her and that he fulfilled her dream without her telling him.. today she saw her shaitan and rajkumar culminated into one person - her arnavji.. :))

      he..knows she would be touched, but cannot see her crying, heck she was smiling and laughing just a moment ago..how can she be crying?! so he goes and hugs her..assuring her again and again that he is going to be with her, no matter what.. :))

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    4. having said this, I have NO IDEA what's up with anjali... I swear now it must not be the actress..because she is not THAT bad yaar, I would give her that much credit.. HAS to be the writers who are writing her..

      or is it that they had to clear all the past loops up with dadi's entry??! :S so also the fact that anjali has realised the need to start afresh?! :S

      one good thing about that scene was that khushi was genuinely happy..she had always wanted di to start afresh and today di has finally done it..her look at DM was priceless! :)

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    5. Mads....

      I am reading and assimilating....each of those points make sense....i guess the wed to thu overlap is bothering me....

      thks yaar

      As i said the scenes were classic by itself...in fact ARHI just have to be in the frame for magic to occur in their romantic scenes..esp when they are silent....i can never tire of watching these two....

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    6. Rekha,
      Khushi: She is not angry with ASR. Can never be, unless he really hurts her family. Nothing that he does to her is going to make her hate him again. She has gone through so much for him. Even her decision to keep away from him now is for ‘his good’.And she can never resist him. They both know it.

      I found Arhi very sweet today.
      ASR’s part of the equation is clear. He knows her, he trusts her.

      K: I asked this the day she was forced to tell him:”look into my eyes and see if you can trust me. I have no proof”. I felt this very strongly then, today I am reminded of that scene again.

      KHUSHI does not have ATOOT VISHWAAS in ASR’s love for her. She knows he has had feelings for her, but she does not know that he will move mountains for her. He will not let her go even if Di stands on her head!

      That is why every small expression of love affects her like this.”Really, could this be true? Can some one really love me this much?” She has not found the answer. She DOES NOT have that atoot vishwas in his love.
      HE HAS TO EARN IT. Poor fellow!
      (After all, how did she earn it? Ans: By being willing to give up her life for his happiness with La.
      His sacrifice so far is nothing compared to that.)

      But K has to grow up, she has to learn to expect and accept this kind of unconditional love from him. May be after RTR?

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    7. OOOORRRRRR

      Di did this U turn to take bitiya off her back. She had some idea of how khushi is when she gets going. So sugar coat K "with I want a fresh start" and Khushi will be happy and leave Di alone in her secret activities.

      And knowing it was khushis idea is not that a tough thing to do .... To her NK is far behind to actually convince Chote for anything that she has not been able to do. So according to her it has to be Khushi.

      That's what I got.

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    8. Rekhs Mads

      Haven't seen the epi yet but your posts are giving me... I mean I don't understand this IPK.... In fact I don't know this IPK. but will wait to see the epi to make a judgement..

      Mads i know men are simpletons... They don't complicate things especially emotional things. For them black is black and white is white there are no if's and but's.... Per yeh kya ho raha hai??? I'm still hoping against we will get some FBs of what happened between that tensed moment at GH and RB at RM.

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    9. Totally UJ.. men are simpletons and arnav, the biggest of them all!! Before khushi entered his life and he had things under his control, it was all about making di happy.. and after khushi has entered his life, it is all about making both happy.. that's all he really cares about, nothing more, nothing less..

      problem is, di ko khush rakhna aur unhe vishwas dilana easy hai bande ke liye..bachpan ki aadat jo hai! But khushi is not so easy...bahot mehnat karni padi hai use..and its not over yet.. :))

      I actually felt he lost a few miles of that RTR with those gifts he gave her.. atleast for me! :) m a sucker for such kind of gifts, rather than the materialistic ones.. :)) so that scene and khushi's joy I could totally relate to!! :))

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  10. There was a shadow that moved behind the tree Anj was talking to. So looks like Anj is not talking to thin air but to her KP.

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    1. and it was a male shadow so dadi option cancelled.

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  11. Now this is really weird. My posts have started disappearing again after I elatedly proclaimed that my dhamki worked! So much for the dhamki.

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    1. All ye disappearing posts, I shall send a complain to Godjee via teh genie and she wil be on you with her DANDAA blogspot..so behave!!

      There Opti..Shwethu's DANDAA will definitely work!

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      Blog genie is missing. So without her dandaa, my posts are still playing Houndini.

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  12. Rekha,
    Did you read my replies to you yesterday?
    I was trying to warn you about this very same thing after watching the sbs.
    It is bound to happen.
    I was expecting this. This is why I plead with Dia to keep the sbs links. They always prepare me well in advance.

    Though Anji was a big shock! Not any more.

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  13. Did Anjali just turn bleached white?

    Yes, she did.
    She sent a chill down my spine today.
    SHE IS POSSESSED.

    Is there any other explanation for this sudden bon-hom-ie with her sil?

    Anjali’s thought process:

    Hospital: Why are you both doing this to me, telling me lies?
    Rakhi: Tell me whose idea was it that you should wear kurta.(Khushiji lied to me again, Chhote sided with her.)
    Today: I knew it was your idea all along.Thank You?
    If you knew it, why did you ask that question, woman?
    Was it a test?
    Who else do we know who is fond of tests?

    Why didn't you tell her that you need time to adjust and not just outright refuse to talk about 'it'?

    Did we see VLR’s shadow today?
    Or has it been dadi all along? Is she a messenger?

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  14. Dia take a bow!! I wish I had a smiley for this.

    Trust you to come up with apt title.

    Serious niharofying ... Oh yes!!! ... Sama was blushing real hard too... Thank God IPK is an intimate affair!!

    Wese bitiya is getting comfortable with stripping and 'buttoning' her HH.

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  15. WT* was today..not that I didn't enjoy Arhi, but was having a doubt if I was watching IPK , where Anji was confused wreck yesterday she was all sugary,and ab mere chotte ab mere nahi rahai, where there was tension between the leads were high on tu tu mai mai, turned out romantic fools when they returned from GH, did they hit their head or something??? and worst is and what happened to Akash all overnight???

    Why I felt all were in bhang effect today... couldn't make head or tales of the episode. where did the SBS Scenes go...grhhh why do they have to cut the best of them and have added RV with KMH.
    CV's you better show a FB's of what happened between the night and rakhi morning between Arhi and yes also what happened btn the hug and saasnse rukh jatihai..

    And Dadi you better don't be a KHM... is she unstable like Anji..which is why they all have been keeping Anji in cotton wool??

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    1. Aaru "Saansein ruk gayi hai" was because of such intense niharofying by hubbie. This is the first. Nothing beyound that.

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    2. Sama

      that's my point why nothing beyond ... i want more there.. there were lots of scene which were choppped off. to include the Dadi thing..

      That made Arhi scenes disconnected, that's what I hate..we need to connect to the series of events that lead to it .. the lack of contd. from GH and also from today's episode is making lose interest in Arhi too..not that i will but if this goes on, i will not be able to connect to their love story..

      But will ignore for now because my shiddat of blast from the past is coming, so will let it go now...

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    3. aaru, if they give detailed SBS, it is because they could not show the full scene in the episode..that has happened many times.. can someone post the sbs link here?

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    4. but I really din't see anything in SBS that has not been shown in the actual scene or did I miss any other video.

      heres the link Jaya,

      http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LsuWrO0zTns&feature=plcp

      problem is with the editing team.

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  16. HI ,

    I really wonder what goes behing the closed doors of the PH office where the writer, producers, SP executives and whoever decide to flip flop and make an abrupt Uturn.

    Till Wednesday were we not watching a countdown to the contract and ways for Arnie to win back Khushi ? Wasn't Anji unhappy with the Bro-bhabhi on them lying ? Why follow this track when it was knowm that RB needs to be celecrated and now a new entrant out of the blue when they have not been able to figure out what to do with NK ?

    Not knowing the telly business I have to say that the PH knows it has the youngsters happy with ArHI and NK appearnaces now and then. What they do not have in their pocket are folks who rather see family drama as availabel in other shows. The mami, Payash , saas-bahu has been so unpatable ( atleast to me ) that emeregncy help was required in the form of a ashram residing dadi.

    No problemo ...lets see if she is of any help to the end game ie. to get TRPs or they have to resort in calling Shyamu back . As long as she is not loud or devious I should be fine and it is high time the cvs shed some light into the past anyways.

    As a standalone I thought the episode was very nice. The romance needs to move a notch further as how long can we awwww on a husband kissing his wife on the forehead or staring at her while sleeping. I loved the gift unwrapping scene with genuine responses from both. Makes me wish all women had husbands who could unravel our dreams and choose the gifts we dream of ..the pearl necklace was a nice touch and it is obvious a women is writing the scrip / screenpaly, atleast for this one.

    Anji did a uturn but somehow I like thsi Anji who is forgiving. her turning grey did not go well with me. I prefer teh dumb Anji. And what is with everyone in the family protecting her ? Yet again Nani made the statement "do not talk about Subhadra devi to Anji .." ? Hope we get to know the origin of this delicate flower everyoen tries to protect.

    Good end to the week ladies. Have a great weekend.

    Ratna

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  17. This is not rant....becos i understand that the narrative is taking some leap here, some depths that may not be visible on first look to all

    I was just reading DC on IF...in fact, i did not complete reading it becos i wanted to come here with a perspective/doubt before i read any further...

    from the first two lines of the post, i gather there has been no convo between the two...

    It is the silent romance that is playing out....
    That arnav is wooing her in the way she wants to be wooed....

    But did any of guys get that sign from the way the scene ended on wed....I am not talking of what happened today..that it played out well is not the point...

    Khushi was upset on two grounds....one contract and other Di....
    Ok, i accept that Di's matter is showing some signs of resolving so Khushi is encouraged by it..
    So, are we to conclude that contract matter has got resolved becos of arnav's plea....on wed plea....

    if i don't accept these two things, today's scene seems odd..or

    should I simply read it as Khushi's journey to accept her LG's way of loving....contract and other issues for the time being be damned....

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    1. Rekha,

      in a way even if they ddi nto speak after GH morning, when Arnav said, Khsuhi will you let this all end just liek that? in a way he did tell her taht teh contract meant zilch to him. She just showed him a mirror on what he had told her that day. But he did end with only the truth hencefrth and no mroe games - between us we are going to be forthright. no mroe fencing issues. He did not know Di was a factor and that could have been the upset in Khushi's face when she returned but raksha bandhan has set that worry aside for the moment.

      But as most of the junta must be grappling, there will be a in the face explanation, either a FB fo the leads or a Khushi monologue befofe DM.

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  18. Initial reaction : WT WT WT - did they, did they not? what about their fight what about... - a few seconds later (when i got my breath back..) - ok this is IPK - the guy has been trying to kiss his wife since the KN and has not succeeded so what can happen now!

    But seriously - this is what i don't like about the CVs - they start a story, build it up and then phuss - no follow up (remember holi and all the other days where they would have a fight and no follow up at all - if it was not for R&R the story would have lost its charm a long time back - we keep praying and attributing more to the story than the CVs do!) - SO am trying to fill in the gaps:

    - ODB thought he needed to get his wife back coz in RM he would be able to work on the 'win KKGSR back' agenda - hence his impatience at getting her back (from one pov it does make sense, he needs to have the wife around to win her back - long distance romance will not work right now and given the DI situation he cant stay at GH)
    OK - so she is forced back - why is she not upset - why is she not asking questions (at least about how could he force her and put her family at risk - that much she could have asked??? and he could have repiled that he would never harm her family - right now he seems like a MCP who is obsessive a la 'anjaam' style - not the pretty kinds!)

    ODG - so now that ODB has gone and done what she wanted him to do - think of what gifts to get and not of how expensive they are - she is bound to melt fast (point to be noted - he is still only putting thought into KKG's gifts, not Anji's - coz he knows her better than he knows his DI)- As for the pearl FB - i think that was a master stroke by the CVs - it was like saying - he will make your dreams come true!

    Anji - ok she is turning pure white again - i told you her sarees are getting sleeves again :D
    - but seriously - that is also imp coz these two things are all that were needed to reassure ODG - one that ASR really loves her (his gifts, hug, 'smile on your face' did that) and two that Di was not upset with her any more - so now both things are getting sorted out - so with the ending of the 8 days - she should be reassured of both things

    Akash - talk of hippocracy - you get angry at wifeee for not telling you all and then go and say to her - some things are best left hidden!!! i am not liking you at all these days

    Now from the overall story POV - here is where i have the grudge with the CV - they never complete a sentence - ok nothing major happened between ODG&B - 1- coz the biggest pull factor (trp wise)will not be overlooked so easily -2- he said - Hamari baat abhi baki hai
    AS for the niharofying – that I can understand even if nothing happened – they actually went to bed happy with each other – she got up facing him and not fighting (by the way she was on her side of the bed). He was all smug coz he thinks all is under control now and she was all flustered coz she knows she can’t withstand him much longer - after all she does want to give in – she just needs the reassurance from him (felt breathless..)

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    1. Part 2 -

      BUT how could a normal couple not talk - after the hug - how could she not have put her side of the story to him - after all she is not one to hide from him - and he - how could he not have said - 'u don't love me, ok, then why did you risk your life for me when i was KN'??? - tell her he knows and that he will make it work (or something on those lines)
      What i am trying to get at is the CV always leave things unsaid and never complete it - not like they bring it up later - no mention of either remembering holi, no mention of ma ka letter, no mention of pre and post wedding tensions - similarly - no mention of any talk now????? - Do they just leave it open to interpretation or is it poor story telling or worse - they don't have a final story so they leave things hanging loose to use later on if need be - so they kissed and made up? or they are still where they were except she was a bit pacified after all the thoughtful gifts??

      The story ahead - i so hope the story does not go downhill from here with another bad saas type figure and a more saan bahu type story!

      Also have a feeling that all this roller-coaster ride should end in a dhamaka - meaning this blow hot one day blow cold the next should end in a major showdown just a day before the endline (just before the 14th of Aug - their deadline)

      SN to KKG - girl am warning you - use your rich husband;s money - get the good stuff aong with the sentimental stuff - warna baad mnain he will continue to get you gollgappas when you want gold!!

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    2. Mona...what are you saying???!! 14th august the deadline??!! show is ending kya??!! not possible.. there would have been an uproar!!

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    3. oh no no - 14th Aug will be the 6 month anniversary - so the end of the contract

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    4. Monu,

      They did not! Confirm. Bas keh diya. Pehle step pe hi tum last step ki baat mat karo rey!

      Arnav wants to have her as his mind body heart and soul but has realized the hard way taht unless he can win her mind and heart, he will get no entry to her soul withput which there would be no point in the body. SO he has toned down his physical desire displays and the effect of intimacy and begun to focus on getting her comfortable around him, trusting around him and then when he ccomes closer, she is not scared, she is surer and more willing. Toh track bhoole nahi bas woh ek joinign kadi chaahiye..

      She did not ask him any Qs abotu harm etc. because she knows he will not harm them - a man who a day before said that the family and her relations mean something to him too would not renege. She has seen him fighting for his family and once hers became his, he would never harm them. He needed her back so that he could stop worryign about whether she would be there the next time he went to GH and also focus better on her without having the prssure of perhaps Anji feeling neglected and deprived of attention. Both in teh same house is easier access for him.

      Plus RM is where she is in trouble with different peopl so that is where she needs to be for him to set thinsg right.

      She was upset - but smething happened before they came back. They seem to have agreed on soemthing. She was upset that Di would eb unhappy but now that issue is getting ok in her opinion, Khushi will also be more receptive to Arnav.

      He is thinkign of her gifts becasue she is there to think of his family. But only he is thinkign of her hurt. Pearls are not just her dreams but an apology for the day tehy met - a day he in anger said had neevr happened but which to him has been the most fortunate day of his life. What he scattered then, he will restring it for her with his love and affection.

      Di will keep swinging Mona. Kabhi yes toh Kabhi no - till she knows teh whole truth!

      all the Qs youve asked above will keep getting answered in one way or another over teh next 8 days. As for talking tyhat will only be explanation for us mere mortals. These 2 are Heer ranjah remmebr - jab do pyaar karnewaale boltehain toh nazrein bolti hain zubaan nahi :)

      Chalo me off to sleep now..brain is all fuzz!

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    5. oh and forgot to add one point -

      - yes i get that the CVs were trying to recreate the magic of the epi immediately after TF was kicked out - they both knew how much they meant to each other - both accepting it as a fact - both comfortable about it - the first time was after a traumatic experience - no words required and the second was after a happier experience created by ODB - a way of saying let me make your dreams come true - I get that bit
      but what i dont get is how the CV never show any cnnect - the flow is very disjointed!

      I for one have never wanted a wolf cry for the RTR - the reasons i have already stated so many times - ODB was suffering too etc - but i still do want to see a apology - a profusedly (don't know if such a word even exists!)uttered apology - even a breakdown of sort by ODB in front of ODG - telling her how sorry he is and how he will never hurt her again - i mean just thinking it in your head and not acting on it is not good enough

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    6. oh Sandy i agree - have said the same - they dont need words to profess their love - but they do need words to take the story forward - i agree ODB wanted her back in RM - that was necessary - i also agree ODG knows he would not harm her family - but she still should have asked 'why threaten my family every time'!! - like you said = something happened after their last conversation adn RB - what? that is my Q -

      and as for the pearls - yes the FB was perfect coz if all started with the first time they met - her dream was the first part, her dream of him restoring her honor - him apologizing for that day - that's why this FB made sense - it was as if he was really doing that - living her dream of understanding what harm he did then and making amends

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  19. Look forward to the long promised blast from the past finally landing in IPKKND........ Anji HAS to turn grey if she is/remains the more damaged of the duo - and it has to be Shyam who is playing with her mind as he has the most to gain by driving a wedge between Arhi - and who else would do the best job than saccharine sweet Di....now if only these guys can stick to the story telling and minimise their digressions..............

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  20. Rekha,

    From what they have shown of Khushi so far, the girl just needs a little love and she forgets everything. Arnav showed her how much he cares for every little thing she likes. He even managed to read her dream and get her the exact same necklace she dreamt of. He has turned back from Shaitan to her dream Prince and she couldn't help but give in to her feelings.

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  21. My cckkp of the day - when she smells the jalebis and mentions the halwai and ODB goes all - could be - aaawww he even knows which jalebi wala to go to :D:D

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    1. There was also this "I can't believe it" look by ODB when he made ODG face all the gifts and her reaction was "humse phir koi cup bahar rehgaya".

      On second thought what striking difference between 2 most important ladies in his life.

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    2. anji mentioned "beetha hua kal" having made an impact on arnav but what about her?
      she seems to think that she has come out of it unscathed...talk of delusions!!

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    3. She stated the same in 1st episode on ramp ... she asked Arnav to forget the past where as she is the one who keeps on reminding him about the past.

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    4. Rekha,

      She was neevr in the equation. I was only her brother. One incident which mad him hard from outside and one which restored him to the boy he was.

      She told Khushi clearly taht she does nto want to discuss the past. She avoids teh past and does not want to discuss it. Discussion would lead to facing up truths and acceping some bitter pills. She said she did not want to do it. So no question of whether she is unscathed or not.

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    5. sandy, i get that part but it made me wonder that she is talking as if she has handled the past well....
      But has she?if today is any indication, yes she has..becos she shows to Khushi that she is willing to make a clean break but has she?

      Time will tell...
      at one level, it seemed she wanted to avoid talking about the morning incident and then at one level she seemed careful in her choice of words....to show that she is more welcoming today than yesterday..

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    6. Rekha,

      Handled it well past or near past - of course not - both times I think people she trusted teh most have been thrown otu and she just blocks it all out.

      Arnav at least shows anger but unlike Nani and Arnav, Anjali never mentions her father. I think taht is why she liked Shyam calling her Rani Saheba. Her dad must also have showered her with similar afectio.

      As for welcoming, she told Khushi I need tme with my brother and for Di's happiness, Khsuhi amde Arnav wear a kurta which Di had gifted him. She got his saath and her lil bro again. That is all she has wanted. When they lie to stay away from her she thinks they avoid spending time with her but taht is becasue she does nto knows the storm these 2 ae under.

      Btw Day 9 to Day 0 - thinking of naratri and teh 9 forms fo teh gooddess and their descriptions.

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    7. yes.....the transition of anji today even tho abrupt can actually be justfied....i am not very surprised
      it fits in...starting with morbid thots, keeping her counsel but will not confront....that has never been anji's character...she has always moved away from the heat....

      again,see rays of sunshine in her life....knows K has a role to play in it....will dig in

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    8. sandy,

      fills me with dread to even think how Khushi ( eight year old) would be responsible for Arnav's bad past....seems the old promo is airing again....

      kya mystery hain yaar....this is one i want to solve....i will never tho....

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    9. Rekha,

      simple - that day because of an accident the family turned back to come home early - and tehy saw a couple in the depths of passion.

      Khushi's parents died in an accident.

      There would have been another family who made a U-turn to come home and see their world shatter. Thus Khushi would have been the unwitting trigger for Arnav's world changing and eventually leading to his mother's death.

      As for Anji and Khushi - I am stil having that Holi waala "aapko aapke nanad pe bharosa nahi karna chaahiye bhaabhi" and teh way she luleld Khushi into consumign bhaang... Woh bhi kisee na kisi roop main play hogaa. Plus there is that stupid post HR scene where Khushi remains silent because Di asked her to.

      I am waiting to see if Anjali's kabhi haan kabhi naa is caught onto by Arnav and he then realzies Khushi's main reason in being ready to give up their relationship. She forged it for one sister, she will give it up for abother sister, his siter, their sister...

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    10. sandy,

      by no stretch of imagination is Khushi responsible for the event....the words are misleading....being is responsible is the word used in the promo.....

      to me, that is ramanchi....
      I don't deny that the accident may the cause....but who caused the accident..not khushi so how is she responsible.....this has to go deeper for the mango junta to accept her as the cause for his bad past....
      IMO, this is not one place where symbolism will work....this has to go deep....in symbolism and translation

      On anji's dialogue at Holi...yes...i can see what u mean...lulling has happened ....the mukhavta will be in place...

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  22. Now to the mystery of what happened the night after the hug.

    Fact:

    Khushi woke up from the left side of the bed although we have been seeing her sleep on the right side.

    Arnav was sitting on the recliner, lovingly gazing at his wife.

    Realising her hubby's eyes fixed on her, Khushi blushes.

    Arnav approaches meaningfully towards Khushi and Khushi's blush only deepens.

    Just as he was close enough to act on his thoughts (which by the way did not look too pure) they hear Nani's call and the intensity is broken.

    While Arnav answers the door, Khushi hurriedly covers herself up with her duppata which lay on the ride side of the bed.

    My interpretation of the above scene:

    We know that Khushi moves a lot on her bed in GH but sleeps more huddled in RM. Our perception is that she feels more free in GH than she does in RM. For the first time Khushi must have felt as free in RM as she did in GH. Reason: Arnav did everything she dreamt off, including wearing a kurta in which he was uncomfrtable only to bring a smile on her face. She has magnanimously forgiven his transgressions of the previous day.
    So in her free state of mind, she may have rolled all over the big bed and in the process knocked off Arnav from his side of the bed. Arnie boy may have had to take the recliner instead.


    As much as he is in love with his wife, Arnie boy did not mind his wife's full occupation of the bed during the night and was content to watch her asleep. Not without a reason though. You see, he was all set to extract the price his wife had to pay for throwing him off the bed by putting the bed to good use in the morning, which he would have done too had it not been for Nani's untimely interruption.

    Verdict:

    Khushi is still a virgin despite getting up fro the wrong side of the bed and picking up her dupatta (the symbol of honour) from right side.

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    1. Optiiii,

      I did not see this last night rrey!!

      But same pinch. Even I thought Khushi perhaps rambled all over the bed and it amused her husband no end because he finally realized why she slept how she slept.

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    2. Opti,

      hugs....even i did not see this post......


      perfect explanation.....no arguments no confusion....

      bas keh diya tumne....aur humne maan liya...

      u guys are so gud.....i love ARHI but i need u all to translate ARHI for me....

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    3. Opti &Sandy,

      Kis mitti ki bani ho aap dono !!!

      Itne pyaar se samjhate ho .... I really hope we do get a continuation. I can't stop ROFLing at the thought of Arnie been thrown out of the bed. Now that is a sight I would have loved to have seen. CVssssss

      Two thumbs up to your verdict Opti. She better be after all the slow-mo we are subjected to!!

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  23. OK since I can't see my post, I'm posting again but this will be my last. Seriously yaar, these disappearing posts are so frustrating.


    Now to the mystery of what happened the night after the hug.

    Fact:

    Khushi woke up from the left side of the bed although we have been seeing her sleep on the right side.

    Arnav was sitting on the recliner, lovingly gazing at his wife.

    Realising her hubby's eyes fixed on her, Khushi blushes.

    Arnav approaches meaningfully towards Khushi and Khushi's blush only deepens.

    Just as he was close enough to act on his thoughts (which by the way did not look too pure) they hear Nani's call and the intensity is broken.

    While Arnav answers the door, Khushi hurriedly covers herself up with her duppata which lay on the ride side of the bed.

    My interpretation of the above scene:

    We know that Khushi moves a lot on her bed in GH but sleeps more huddled in RM. Our perception is that she feels more free in GH than she does in RM. For the first time Khushi must have felt as free in RM as she did in GH. Reason: Arnav did everything she dreamt off, including wearing a kurta in which he was uncomfrtable only to bring a smile on her face. She has magnanimously forgiven his transgressions of the previous day.
    So in her free state of mind, she may have rolled all over the big bed and in the process knocked off Arnav from his side of the bed. Arnie boy may have had to take the recliner instead.


    As much as he is in love with his wife, Arnie boy did not mind his wife's full occupation of the bed during the night and was content to watch her asleep. Not without a reason though. You see, he was all set to extract the price his wife had to pay for throwing him off the bed by putting the bed to good use in the morning, which he would have done too had it not been for Nani's untimely interruption.

    Verdict:

    Khushi is still a virgin despite getting up fro the wrong side of the bed and picking up her dupatta (the symbol of honour) from right side.

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    1. lol Opti your dhamki has worked big time!! :D

      And blogspot.com has chosen the perfect post to be repeated .... Is topic pe bohut confusiya gaye the sab !! Specially MANGO janta like ME!!!

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    2. sama....u cutie.....

      i am also mango junta...isliye toh aap sabko itna pareshaan karti hoon....

      one of these days, acharyaji is going to expel this student from academy...bahut sawal poochti hoon..chup raho...

      kaan pakding but kya karen o ladies...main hoon aadat se majboor *eeks did i say that*

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  24. I'm sort of left wondering if the CV's have short term memory loss...its like each episode has its own tone and own track and we should just enjoy each individual good episode as and when we get it.

    I have to comment on this before is go all phangirl on ASR today...The story telling was very tight initially now we just seem to oscillate between 'make up and mean scenes'...mean scenes lead to cute make up scenes which they don't want to go anywhere yet so back to mean scene and so on and so forth..

    Today was Arnav's day...

    My moment of the episode was...'humaari baat poori nahin hui'....CCKP moment of the day for me...

    That and how annoyed he was getting waiting around fidgeting in the kurt a but still not taking it off just so he could get his moment...

    ...loved how they did this scene...very married couple...

    "
    K: Annoyed - Why have you switched the light off? how am I supposed to see where I'm going...
    A: throwing his hands up in exasperation at her annoyance -there's a reason the light are off! do I have to spell out everything? -I have something else in mind try and keep up;-)....Anyway never mind we'll take that bit slow...onto making you admit it was your idea...
    "

    Loved that bit too..
    A: ...'button bhi bandy nahi note!'-
    K: move aside let me do it...hmph of course they close!!

    A: 'koi kiss is main dekhkar hush kyun hoga?'
    ...and yet for you I kept it on...falling pajama and all;-)

    ...And finally he gets the presents right...his expression was brilliant here, totally ASR...stood far away and just watched her being happy...very very sweet...

    Morning scene ton I've mentioned - my CCKP moment for the day ..'Humaari baat poor nahin hui' -HAAAYYYYYEEEEEEE!!!

    Dia waiting for edit post sooooon!!

    oops there was some Anji and Payash bit also na?....ya ya they were fine...moving on...;-)

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    1. Gargi,

      I thot of u when the blast from the past scene was coming up..

      And loved ur descriptions of the ARHI moments....

      they were as gud as the scenes....awwwwwwww

      real cckp moments....*HUGS8

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    2. Gargi,

      The festival needed to be handled and it was aldo needed to stop teh descent of a sister into the depths of depression. She has side stepped thorns, been self centred but never wished harm or bad for her brother. That message needed to be reinforced in her mind and ours I thought.

      Plus we will get a scene about what happened between them before they reached RM or even an ending to the conversation that night I think. A flashback or a scene where tehy speak of what happened.

      That scene of gifts between Arnav and Khushi reminded me of this movie I saw. A boy falls in love with a girl and at teh stroke of midnight on her bday wakes her up to give her 12 gifts - one for every month in the year. 11 gifts are as per his temperament short and sweet but the 12th is as per hers long lasting; the 12th gift he himself; his love for her lifelong.

      Payash are all open for another fall again. Their truce ie because ever since the fiasco, Akash felt that Payal thought more of the house and Di rather than Khushi. Temporary respite to be shaken when the next gust of wind blows. Somehow get a feeling Payal will save Mami from Dadi and they will end up bonding.

      You finally seem to be getting your wish for the what happened in the past. If she is Arnav's Dadi, she is also the chacha's mother. Hmm..

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  25. http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=3129909

    Maan bhara nahi !! ArHilicious :D

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  26. Rambles again..

    From red, to green, blue, yellow, to sky blue and white - a recall of alaipayuthe / saathiya. A girl who has looked at her lover with love filled eyes and graced him with a smile - his biggst happiness and reward! In that movie it was Shakthi, here it is Arnav's Khushi or should be say Shivji's Adi Shakti?

    When the epi ended, first thought
    "Dheere dheere se meri zindagi mein aana
    Dheere dheere se dil ko churana

    Tune bhi aksar mujhko jagaya raaton mein
    Aur neend churayi meethi meethi baaton ne

    Tune bhi beshaq mujhko kitna tadpaya
    Phir bhi teri har ek ada pe pyaar aaya
    Aaja aaja ab kaisa sharmana
    Dheere dheere se dil ko churana"
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yuSTpS5VGJ4

    Budding romance is in the air. The boy has already realized he is head over heels in love. Today the girl has given voice to the embers that have been burning in her heart.

    Khushi in white and blue nights - there was a time when in the whte suit she woke up to say Ab toh sapnon main bhi Rabba Ve - well yes sweetheart looks like it is time for that too :)

    That night she woke up thinking he was watching her from the recliner and there was happiness and relief at his return. Today the unwavering gaze of her lover who cares for her and her happiness so much brings blooming joy to this young girl's heart! Sh still feels shy but the man moves to tell his wife, we are beyond these initial barriers. Our song began long ago and we are in the middle of i now - time to take it to a crescendo..

    This morning the ghar ki lakshmi came come bringing with her joy and happiness to all the people in RM. Her husband made a gesture indicating to her that she is his consort and she means teh world to him. He has manged o start bringing her out of the depths of teh ocean within which she had submerged herself.

    And it was indeed the anniversary of pearls today
    "Heere moti main na chaahoon,
    Main toh chaahoon sangam tera.."

    And that is what Khushi got today. A tug into her husband's heart, a sangam of her mind and soul with his. A glimpse into his heart. Arnav has a lot of baggage to erase. Life however does not have a rewind button, but his actions of today will erase teh sorrows and pain of the past and lay the foundation for a happy and prosperous tomorrow..For today, the present is the gift!
    Did the 2 here indicate that with the anniversary of pearls Arnav wins his second chance with Khushi? Yes, seems so.

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  27. Rambles again and again :)

    Last year Arnav had promised his Di that he would always ensure she is happy and smiling. This year he almost could not keep up his vow but his wife stepped in and ensured the "maan" (honour) of his word was kept. Yet again on raakhi, Khushi managed to reinfuse sweetness in the relationship of a brother and sister. The sister asked for her bother's time and she got it. She is happy for now.

    Seeing Khushi return the thaal to Anjali reminded me of last Teej when she had again got Anjali's thaal and had returned her amaanat to her (the camera pans to Arnav in that scene). This year Khushi managed to give Di her paapad ka tukda (but one who was not jab dekho ukhda :))

    When Mami said blockbuster surprise, the first memory was the bhaang ka nasha utaaro scene where Anjali presents "Humaare Chhote" magar pehle se behtar - a sequence of a love struck, carefree Arnav, who chased his wife, drank bhaang, danced with her. Mami had then too commented about how Arnav's life seem to have changed from an art film to blockbuster mainstream. movie post wedding. Then too he was running behind his wife and doing full on ramanchi :)

    I realized one of my wishes has been coming true - Arnav gave her the key to himself / his heart by telling Khushi she had the haq on him, then he put on the paayal and asked only for her laughter that day (service with a smile) and today he gifted her a pearl necklace. I give you myself and promise to never let you shed those pearl like tears again and wish ki tumhe duniya ki saari khushiyaan mile (forehead kiss on Khushi's bday) and you always keep laughing ust like those beautiful tinkling anklets you wear.

    Can I dare hope for the hands over hearts under a starry sky scene too?

    Also did today mark the closure of the 8th May middle of the road scene? (5th Aug is a Sun) - Mrs Arnav Singh Raizada banke jo aisho aarma aur daulat mil rahi hai tumhe, use koi paagal hi chhod ke jaayega. That day if Khushi left, did today Arnav finally realize that it will be the emotions of his heart which will hold Khushi to him and not the power and authority of his wealth?


    Come Monday, the 3rd part of the food bill begins(3-0-40; Dal), the next set of 15 epis where it would mostly be all about life coming a full circle, new beginnings.
    As the morning began, Arnav and Khushi seemed to be makign a fresh start - they were both into the moment when Nani came knocking. Notice how teh BG ontinues even after the knock - no sudden jerks rather an easing out of the moment - comfort with intimacy. (payash weddign bindi scene anyone?)

    Anjali speaks of wantign to make a fresh start by letting go of teh past. But will the past let go of her so easily? Who has she be meeting in secret?
    She speaks of the shadows of the past changing her brother - 2 instances; the first when the boy became the hardened man and again recently when the hardened man seemed to have thawn into the boy again.

    Anjali does not wish to disturb balance and lose this newfound boy brother again. But the reestablished lines of communiation are nascent and fragile. Will need care while handling.
    Today gives me hope that in some corner of her heart Anjali has accepted that Khushi is an integral part of Arnav's life and while she sees him hiding things from her, he is also becoming more of teh brother he used to be. The boy man and not just the businessman. He is happy and it shows. His happiness and smiles have always been her dua. Whether she makes peace with it or again goes insecure we shall wait and see. Perhaps all will be well because the Anjali Khushi truce happened before Devi Mayya today.

    SN: I am curious to know what happened when Arnav wnt to pick up Khushi at GH on teh morning of Rakhi.

    SN2: Subhadra was Krishna's half-sister. With Dadi, the past will also make an entrance. Will it bring chaos or restore order to this chaotic household? A father whose mention Arnav cannot bear but he cares for his Dadi?

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    1. lovely Post sandy.......


      The choice of the name subhadra also caught my attention....makes me wonder are subhadra and shyam connected (i don't mean by way of relation) by evil design?

      the timing of Subhadra to leave ashram when shyam is out.....Is shyam behind her coming back?

      yaar kya connection hain khushi aur arnav ke past ka?any gueses?

      btw, i am glad u want to know what happened on wed in gh...so u do think something happened...if nothing happened u must help me understand today better.....

      Loved the way u described the anji-khushi scene...beetha hua kal can mean yesterday also.....

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    2. Rekha,

      Huggs bey! Tu sone nahi degi mujhe...

      Well timing of Dadi'a return is too coincidental. Anjali begins to get calls and a few days later Dadi leaves rather she leaves Ashram the same day as Anjali realized that Arnav went back to Buaji's house early in teh morning hai na?

      Subhdara is interesting.
      It appeared that she abducted Arjun whereas they eloped.
      Plus she was not a full blood relation. Shared a father with Krishna but different mothers.

      As for GH, I am ok with what tehy showed but they will surely connect it with a FB or a monolgue so even mango juntaa is clear. They would also be wondering naa ki why did Khushi just let go all on a sudden when one moment she was breathing fire?

      I only wonder if Arnav said or did something in the Guptas presence. Plus the lack of surprise on Arnav and Khushis faces when nani said she had met buaji - blooper or they already knew - so will wait and watch.

      The next 2 weeks are going to be super nice with regards to Arnav and Khushi. Dadi may be a nice nut for all we know. Besides if Shyam has sent her as a foil fro Arnva and Khushi then toj it is confirmed that ArHi will only land up loser together.

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    3. Sandy Jai Ho !! After reading your take esa laga jese cvs haven't changed anything at all .... hope to get that joining kadi next week ... Hugs!!!

      I think its time again to set aside offscreen stories to enjoy the onscreen one.

      Beautiful take on Anji but I still have my doubt about her. She still has her &her KPs picture very much in focus whereas there's no evidence of the palna.

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    4. Sama,

      Nothing changes except that it is no more about winnign or losing, playing games or hiding behind facades.

      Aakhir dil ki baat zubaan par aa hi jaayegi..

      That day Arnav told her, it is time ki tum mere saath saath aage badho and today Khushi said aap chaliye, hum aate hain, aapke peeche peeche. And on seeing the pearls she took her first step towards him. See how he did not crowd her while giving the gifts. He showed her they were there and gave her the space to open and enjoy them. These were gifts "dil se" and all the hurt in her heart bubbled up and spilled over as tears.

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    5. Rekha,

      I went back to the Heer Ranjha post because I wnated to look up the dialogues and came across a comment of yours about a song from Hanste Zakhm

      "aaj socha to aansoo bhar aaye
      muddate ho gaye muskuraye"

      Some exceprts from my HR omni 3rd April

      "Communication is part listening, part talking, part seeing and part understanding!"

      Funnily that day too we were speaking of Khushi and lies and J reminded me of what Nani had tld her in that context f never lying even if it is for a good.

      Shucks Nani was the KMH that day in the HR green room when these two got all dreamy after the curtain rod incident.

      The pre play moments:
      “Hai teri chahat meri zaroorat
      Sooni hai tujh bin duniya meri”
      The pain and yearning in Arnav’s eyes when the next lines play was such a reflection of his inner most wishes. Arnav talks of wanting her, his need for her and how his world is incomplete without her.

      “Naa reh sakoonga main door inse”
      Arnav walks away only for Khushi to sense him and turn around to looks for him. Khsuhi would find it difficult to stay separated from Arnav for a long period.

      “Hai meri jannat galiya teri”
      Khushi does not find him and it feels as though she tells herself how her paradise / jannat are the pathways of his life.

      “Ummeed ye seene mein leke main hoo jee raha”
      Khushi’s heart still has hopes that she may one day be his

      “Kabhi tu mile kahe mujhse ke main hoon bas tera”
      And here she opens her eyes to see him while he comes to her holding out her earring. For both wish only for the other in their life to complete their incomplete selves.

      “Tu hi mera mera mera”


      Some more..
      "Today he just holds it out to her letting her know she lost something, that he found it and has it and is giving it back to her. She chooses to take it from him. He no longer imposes but lets her choose. He no longer takes her answer for granted but seeks to know her wishes and views.

      Having handed over what is hers, Arnav walks away but turns to look back to see if she chose to keep it or throw it. When he sees her wearing it, music in the form of IPK title track – jo pehle hua naa ab hone lagaa hai. Hope blossoms and a slight happiness makes its way to his face!"

      " you truly love someone, let them fly free, if they come back they will be yours forever, if they don’t they were never yours to keep. Love is not about binding but freedom.

      Arnav who has lost his mother wished to bind Khushi and her love to him before. He has seen Anji bind him to her in the name of love by her dependence.
      Khushi had feelings for Arnav but let him fly free and he has always come back to her. And every time Arnav has let her free / sent her away she has come back to him as fate kept bringing her back."

      The play:
      It is the story of a love story. Aik aisi prem kahaani, jahaan do pyaar karne waalon ne apne safar ki shuruaat nafrat ke mukaam se ki par aaj ek saath pyaar ki kagaar par khade hain. Naa ek doosre se door reh paate hain na ek doosre ki nazdeeki se khush hain. Na beintehaa nafrat kar paate hain aur na bepanaah mohabbat – Inke is toofani safar aur nafrat bhare pyaare bandhan ko aakhir hum kya naam den?

      "Tere naam se jee loon, tere naam se mar jaaon,
      Teri jaan ke sadke main, kuch aisa kar jaaon
      Toone kya kar dala, Mar gayi main, mit gayi main
      Ho ji Ha ji Ho gayi main
      Teri Deewani Deewani, Teri Deewani Deewani”



      “Jisko jee jaan se chahte hain Jab use nazron ke saamne paate hain toh aankhen bolti hain, zubaan nahi”

      “yeh hum jaante hain, yeh aap jaante hain aise main sawaal wahi karte hain jinhe pyaar kya hai iski hawaa tak nahi”

      “Jiski baansuri ki dhun sunke mujhe jawaan hone ka ehsaas hua
      “Jiske sirf ek nazar se mujhe khud ke hone ka ehsaas hua”
      “Jisne mere liye har sitam sahe, Aur jiske liye maine har sitam bhula diya”
      “Jise main bahut waqt tak milti rahi, Aur jisse main bahut waqt tak judaa rahi”

      That day Arnav needed to be told when to enter, today he just knew...

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    6. sandy,

      That HR epi was a classic whichever way u look at it.....there is that resonance in that epi becos it marked Arnav's real desire......and Khushi's too..when she almost begged for arnav's unsaid words....and arnav said almost everything that was in his heart....all this much before anything was resolved between them

      we will keep coming back to this episode for many reasons and in more ways than one..of that i have no doubt

      tere bina jeeya jaaye na..
      tere bina jeeya jaaye na
      bin tere tere bin Sajana
      saans mein saans aaye na

      jab bhi khayaalon mein Tu aaye
      mere Badan Se Khushaboo Aaye
      mahake Badan Mein Rahaa Naa Jaaye, Rahaa Jaaye Naa

      reshamee raate roz na hogi
      yeh saugaate roz na hogee
      jindagee tujh Bin raas Na aaye, raas aaye na

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  28. Such a disconnected episode... the episode as such was good but just disconnected from wednesday... anyways i think the whole what did they do at night question cud have been avoided had naani come to their room at night at not in the morning..
    Deeshna

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  29. Dia,

    Wiaiting for edit till hen


    tere title ke naam: Agar woh tumse pyaar karti hai toh woh palat ke dekhegi, palat, palat, paalt..

    Lovaria hua..

    Abhy yahaan se kahaan jaayein hum, teri baahon main mar jaayein hum...

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    1. sandy,

      palat palat....

      Hugs ...to my HAA!!

      Dia, will wait for ur edited post eagerly....

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    2. HAA ,

      Hopeless romantic .... Aap virgo hain kya??

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    3. Sam,

      Hopeless romantic nahi rey!! And virgo katayi nahi baba!!

      Palat ke so famous dialogues quoe karne ka chance mila - how could I let it go?

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  30. Some beautiful takes here girls... adding my two pennys after watching, re-watching and watching again. When I see this episode in isolation it feels such a beautiful episode, full of love all around, Arnav-khushi, khushi-anji, akash-payal.... every relation looks like it's budding, growing, reaching out and making a fresh start...

    I will not rant anymore about not getting the connect between epis. KN ke baad bhi nahi mila, toe ab mila toe thik nahi toe koi nahi... we can only imagine what might have happened...

    Pearls
    Personally I have always felt that pearls signify dignity. Somehow pearls gives women a grace, a respect and a dignity. Not everyone can carry off pearls, it's only tall women (I mean tall of character) who can carry pearls. Have you ever met a woman wearing pearls and misbehaving? I haven't so far. Pearls have an aura, a depth and a strength of tall stature....

    Pearl has a humble beginning, formation beginning in a shell. A slow process, a grain of sand transformed into an object of great value. An object found in the depth of the ocean, formed in the depths of the ocean over a long period of time. One has to traverse the dark, deep blue sea/ocean to get to the pearls, risk their lives to bring the pearls out of the mysterious waters... hasn't khushi done just that. Travelled deep with in Arnav's heart and mind to get those pearls of love, care and affection. The pearls of love which have formed in Arnav's mind and heart slowly over a long period of time. Hasn't she risked her life in the process....

    Pearls just seemed so apt for this gracious lady not just because that's where their journey started but also becasue she has the strength and dignity to carry off the pearls. It is also believed that a woman who loses her pearls or breaks it suffers immense loss either by bereavement or misunderstanding.... when she starts admiring her pearls she will covet and strive for love and possessions.... hmmm... So start of love, care and affection for khushi. Start of arnav giving her every haq on him and she claiming it slowly and staedily...

    The other lady who always wears pearls is nani... her earrings another strong and graceful matriach...suits her image.

    A beautifully done sequence. Arnav very relunctant of that last gift. He is unsure whether she will accept it for it is his love he gives her by way of that pearl necklace. He is not sure if khushi will even let him in yet. Is she willing yet to give him a chance, give them a chance.... At the same time khushi is not sure what that necklace means? why give it to her? can she dare to dream again that this time things will be alright, this time he will not break her heart all over again, she is still searching his eyes with tears filled in hers, almost pleading don't break my heart again... and he gives her the reassurance this time, he walks up to her and for the very first time he is the one who hugs her close to him, holding her close, waiting for her to find the confidence to hold him in turn, waiting for her to reciprocate. Letting her know in his own way that he is there for her and with her....

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    1. UJ,

      Perals indeed were rare and retrieving them was perilous so giving somebody a pearl was a gesture that I can go through any amount of trials and troubles for you, for you are that important to me.

      He was not sure whether she would open it because she always says she does nto like costly giifts but once she opened it there was no looking back for her. The pearls were special because they were her dignity he had scattered, the day their lives meshed in a manner both never foresaw.

      "Kuch rishte ajeeb hi dor main bandhe hote hain
      takraar se shuroo hote hain
      nafrat ke saaye main panapte hain..."

      That day it started with takraar and inkaar
      today with ikraar and sweekar

      The ice shards in her heart from the earlier heartbreak, thawed and flowed as teardrops from her eyes...

      "Aur is Dil Main Kya Rakah Hai
      Tera Hi Pyar Chupa Rakha Hai
      Cheer Ke Dekhe Dil Mera Toh
      Tera Hi Dard Chupa Rakha Hai"


      And as soon as she needed him, he did not wait for her to come to him, he approached her, becasuse if she has teh haq then he too has the haq on her. By hugging him if she accepted him as her husband, by hugging her he showed he had accepted her as his wife. It showed his need for her to be with him always. It was a simply stated yet powerful fact.

      A soft romanic number from Deewana - Dil Se Dil Tak Baat Pahunchi Milte Milte Sanam

      "Dil Se Dil Tak Baat Pahuchi Milte Milte Sanam
      Hoo Dil Se Dil Tak Baat Pahuchi Milte Milte Sanam
      Bekhudi Mein Badhe Yu Kadam
      Ho Gaye Hain Deewane Se Hum

      Jab Se Ban Gaye Apne Silsile Sapne Sawarne Lage
      Ab To Raat Din Chupke Chupke Tum
      Dil Mein Utarne Lage
      Is Kadar Pyaar Tumse Mila Hain
      Zindagi Ab To Lagti Hain Kum

      Bekarariyan Kuch To Kum Karo
      Aaram Kuch To Mile
      Aao To Zara Meri Baahon Mein
      Mit Jayenge Fasle
      Aaj Tumko Gale Se Lagaya
      Aaj Khushiyon Mein Badle Hain Ghum"

      especially that part
      "Aaj Tumko Gale Se Lagaya
      Aaj Khushiyon Mein Badle Hain Ghum"

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    2. Oh and UJ,

      What started this whole roothna between them "I wish ki tum kabhi meri zindagi main aayi hi nahi hoti, main tumse kabhi milaa hi nahi hota...."

      But today by giving her a pearl necklace he has taken back those words, told her hat he did not mean them, could never mean them. That day he walked away from her but today he walked towards her wiped her tears and crushed her to himself.

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    3. UJ,
      'it feels such a beautiful episode, full of love all around,':

      I want to hug you hug you hug you!
      Thank you for feeling the same as me.
      Beautifully written!

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  31. Ek Ladki Ko Dekha To Aisa Laga
    Jaise Khilta Gulab
    Jaise Shayar ka Khwab
    Jaise Ujali Kiran
    Jaise Bun Mein Hiran
    Jaise Chandani Raat
    Jaise Narmi Ki Baat
    Jaise Mandir Mein Ho
    Ek Jalta Diya...

    Loved the morning scene as well. His gaze is so intense that she can feel him seeing right through her mind, heart and soul. She is shy but at the same time feels confident to hold hs gaze for some split seconds, feels comfortable with him looking at her so intently. She does not move back when he comes towards her, she has to learn to walk forward with him though and Arnav needs to give her that confidence and comfort for her to start walking towards him literally and figuratively....

    har dhadkan main pyaas hain teri
    saason main teri khushboo hain
    is dharti se us ambar tak meri nazar main tuhi tu hai
    pyaar ye tute na
    pyaar ye tute na
    tu mujhse ruthe na sath ye chute kabhi na
    tere bina bhi kya jeena.
    o sathi re
    tere bina bhi kya jeena
    tere bina bhi kya jeena

    o sathi re tere bina bhi kya jeena
    tere bina bhi kya jeena.
    o sathi re
    tere bina bhi kya jeena
    tere bina bhi kya jeena

    phoolo main kalio main sapno ki galio main
    phoolo main kalio main sapno ki galio main
    tere bina kuch kahi na
    tere bina bhi kya jeena
    o sathi re
    tere bina bhi kya jeena
    tere bina bhi kya jeena.

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    1. UJ,

      beautiful, beautiful beautiful.....loved ur post.....

      Pearls : significance and connotation explained beautifully
      the Arhi scenes ---sublime...

      The makers must read these lovely posts, i hope they do.....while they have put up magic on screen....they will be happy to see how their magic is loved and perceived by so many HAAs (hopelessly(fully) addicted to ARHI)

      *HUGS*

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    2. UJ,

      loved ur song dedications.....

      Aap ki aankhon mein kuch maheke hue se raaz hain
      Aap se bhi khoobsurat aap ke andaaz hain
      Aap ki aankhon mein kuch maheke hue se raaz hain
      Lab hile to mogare ke phool khilte hain kahin
      Aap ki aankhon mein kya saahil bhi milte hai kahin
      Aap ki khaamoshiyaan bhi aap ki aawaaz hain

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    3. Don't know when I will get time to update ... haven't even managed to read all the comments yet ... but just to add another to the beautiful songs posted here ..

      Dil mein kisi ke pyar ka
      jalta hua diya
      duniya ki aandhiyon se bhala
      yeh bujhega kya

      Saanson ki aas paa ke dhadakta rahega yeh
      seene mein dil ke saath tadapta rahega yeh
      dhadakta rahega yeh
      Voh naksh kya hua jo mitaye se mit gaya
      voh dard kya hua jo dabaye se dab gaya

      Yeh zindagi bhi kya hai amanat unhi ki hai
      Yeh shayari bhi kya hai inayat unhi ki hai
      Inayat unhi ki hai
      Ab voh karam karein ki sitam, unka faisla
      Humne toh dil mein pyaar ka shola jaga liya

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    4. dia,

      lovely song...ek mahal ho sapno ka...i remember this song from the chitrahaar days....never listened to it much after that.....but when i read the words.....that memory beckoned...

      I keep cribbing that i am forgetting things...then these memories....long hidden and they spring a surprise....

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  32. Opti,
    ‘For the first time Khushi must have felt as free in RM as she did in GH.’

    EXCELLENT!
    This is the same thought I had.

    Also I can't forget Arnav's expresssions as he is gazing at her lovingly in the morning.
    What happened in the night?
    He woke up and found she had come over to his isde, just like GH. A sense of relief floods him. "My Khushi is back. I had vowed to bring her back and now she is back. Let me just get up instead of getting lost in this moment as I always do when she wakes up next to me. I need to get up and sort things out."

    So he got up and sat on the recliner, admiring her beauty- inner and outer- staring at her in pure wonder.

    "What did I do earn this honour? What did I do get all my sins forgiven without even giving an apology? Is it ANY THING at all that I did? SHE has been doing EVERYTHING in this relationship. She was forced into this marriage, she was hated and ill treated and humiliated. She was misunderstood and mistrusted. And what did she do?
    She almost gave up her life for me on the terrace and she came after me when I was in danger. I almost lost her that day.
    And all this she did in spite of all that I had done for her.

    What did I do to her once we returned home?
    The most terrible thing, accusing her of being the reason for Di's unhappiness.
    And what did she do? She silently left because she thinks that is the only way she can make my world perfect.

    And how did I respond to that?
    I tried being nice and loving and caring, when that didn't work, I had to use FORCE. Much as I hated it. I had to use the old ploy of 'hurting her family' in order to bring her back even though it hurt as hell. And I had to sound and act as if I was firm about my decision, because there was no other way she'd come back.

    And what has she done now that she is back. She made me wear the Kurta for MY di and I have to agree with my determined little wife- that made di's day. It was not the jewellery that I had bought her- don't know if she even glanced at it- but my wearing the kurta that made Di so happy.

    And this idea was MY KHUSHI's idea.
    She was SO RIGHT here. And she is careful with Di's feelings. I don't think she needs to worry about it so much. Di is fine. I know her well.(Yeah, Mr. ASR- as well as you knew the jewellery'd be the BEST gift in the world for her! *head desk*)

    Yes I wondered just yesterday why she was so comfortable in GH and why she didn't feel comfortable in RM with me and all I had to do was give her a simple pearl necklace! Golgoppas and jalebis! Yes I knew all that should bring a smile on her face, but this WHOLE HEARTED ACCEPTANCE without a verbal apology- this UNCONDITIONAL LOVE- I am bowled over. And over and over again.

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    1. I am not good with words.
      I wish she'd just confront me, hold the collar of my shirt and demand an EXPLANATION for all my actions- like she did after the guest house. I loved it when she sprang on me and pulled me away from Buaji's house (because she didn't want me to catch her lie) -HAQ hai TUJHE, KHUSHI- HAQ HAI. PLease do it more often.

      Hold me, shake me- ask for an explanation, an apology- PLEASE DO.

      I repeat, I am not good with words.
      But I need to talk to her.
      Even if she refuses to communicate, I have to TALK.
      THERE IS SO MUCH TO TELL.
      But will words be enough to tell her how sorry I am?
      Will she wait to hear me out or will she just shush me and take it all in her stride.
      God, can't she even allow me to apologise to her?

      HOw many times I have told you, "Tum har kam akele nahi kar sakti, Khushi.WE are together now. Allow me into your heart- don't place me on a pedestal- let me be your equal in every sense- OPEN UP YOUR HEART to me. I know I don't deserve it, please give me a chance.

      Look at her- sleeping like a baby- on MY SIDE of the bed.
      Will I ever be able to convince her that I CAN LOVE HER UNCONDITIONALLY too as she has loved me? That I hold her hand, not just for my sake, but for HER SAKE too. That I want to just hold her and protect her... FOREVER.

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    2. Girls, if you did not like the episode and felt disconnected, try this. Don’t watch the Anji part. She is plain crazy. We’ll find her motive later.
      Concentrate on the love story. Arhi- Arnav was just tooo beautiful yesterday. Barun SHOULD stop expressing those emotions so well. That is why they don’t write dialogues for him. His looks say it all.

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    3. SU,

      we ARHI addicts have been sold on the story long ago....

      some nuances are not as apparent to us as they are to the some of u....atleast on first view BUT MAKE NO MISTAKE.....we love the story.......the love story....

      personally, when i ask a doubt here, its not becos i have not liked the part, its more that i have not understood the intent clearly....and then u all lovely girls here help me and my addiction....of course there are rant days also...hehehe

      ARHI don't need words...a point proved over and over again...and GUL, i am happy she has the conviction to do it her way....

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    4. Su,

      The way you have written on what all could be running through Arnav's mind - beautiful!

      Yep I am sure he wishes she would just catch hold of his collar and shake him demanding answers.

      Did you see that momentary pleasure when gusse main hi shi she fixes the button on his kurta.

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    5. Su,

      I wish i could give u a hug for ur beautiful thots today...

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    6. Su - loved your post - we are all HAA and hence at least one of us comes up with perfect excuses for what seems like the CVs missing bits - Today you take the cake! (and coming from fasting person - the cake means more :D:D:D)
      wow could almost see ODB thinking all this through!

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    7. monu.....

      u can imagine the hungriest of all...oh oh not u....its me....i always start with "yeh kya ho raha hain" and then these lovely girls mujhe explnation dete hain...and i lap it up.....*wiping the cream off my face*

      Monu, seriously....I have maintained that this story can only be told in a subtle manner...else it won't be the classic that it is meant to be....those awww momens won't work.....sometimes words can spoil these moments....becos they may appear insincere....(thats the level of cynicism in real life..but yes the CVs can add sharpness in their execution

      I don't mind the silences...its the abruptness that makes me wonder....and then i go looking for clarification but i am happy to have this space that not fills the silences but blanks out the abruptness

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    8. Thanx, girls.
      It was a touching episode and I was just disappointed that the CVs can't seem to get the message across to ALL of us. They have to relate to the ENTIRE audience. It is not FAIR otherwise.
      Rekha,
      I was a little angry with the creative team that they don't want to make things clear. One or two monologues here and there will make all the difference. They should give us this before the non- HAAs feel disconnected and make the trps plunge. What is the point in keeping Arnav's thought process a suspense? Let us know as and when it happens.

      THANKS for writing this, Rekha.
      'GUL, i am happy she has the conviction to do it her way....'
      *HUGS*
      (Some one should give her a bravery award!)

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    9. Wanted to leave this thought here.
      He gave her pearls.
      What did she give in return?
      Tears of JOY- more precious to him than anything in the world.

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    10. Su,

      She gave him her heartfelt smiles and happiness - what has always made him smile!

      Girls,
      Tyhere is a rangmunch article on how this show is a romantic love story with heavy doses of reality!!

      But yes I agree execution needs to be sharp. Too much left to guessing audience. I get this feeling that the abruptness comes when tehre is a sudden change in the path to be undertaken to reach a milestone.

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    11. Su,

      when i look at the morning scene of Arnav niharofying Khushi on his side of the bed...i thot they could have had a small FB of that GH epi of which this was a ref.....but then i rationalised that it would have interfered with the intensity of that scene....tuf tuf call for CVs too....

      Not holding a candle to the cvs here, but this story is perhaps not for people who don't get it the subtle way....the ones who can't get it, if they have the interest, perhaps need to make an effort becos they care for the story....tho this may sound high-handed if this is said by the makers themselves becos even they would be happy to have their product appreciated by more people; hence their conviction in their style draws my praise....

      I am not creative enuf to suggest what needs to be changed in the scene to make it better...but i know that there is something beautiful in this story and so i keep searching....not giving up...can't do that....my rants about their poor execution notwithstanding, that will perhaps continue....having said that I couldn't find a single thng wrong about the holi epi, HR, and countless such epis....

      I deeply appreciate all ur posts....it has helped me appreciate this story better...

      this antara that i quote below is not about the current track but about star-crossed lovers.....a lovely song esp the antara from the movie aarzoo


      na tha manzur kismat ko, na thi marzi baharo ki
      nahi to is gulistan mein, kami thi kya nazaro ki
      meri nazaro ko bhi koi nazara mil gaya hota
      agar tufan nahi aata, kinara mil gaya hota


      khushi se apni aankho ko main ashko se bhigon leta
      mere badle tu has legi, tere badle main ro leta
      mujhe ae kash tera dard sara mil gaya hota
      agar tufan nahi aata, kinara mil gaya hota


      mili hai chandni din ko, yeh unki apni kismat hai
      mujhe apne muqaddar se, faqat itni shikayat hai
      mujhe tuta hua koi sitara mil gaya hota
      agar tufan nahi aata, kinara mil gaya hota

      HAA......always HAA

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    12. Rekha,

      They will set the understanding right just like they gave a Khushi DM monologue after teh bday. If their TRPs yhave been rising last week from Mon from the previous week, I think they got the idea that turning Anjali outright grey without a phyysical presence in he form of Shyam or trying o make it a Di ki saut type story will put off people. So if the last week's romance has been well received, then it will always be a love in the time of strife kind of story with lots of surrounding drama.

      For the saas factor, and to bring the past in or to initiate the process, the dadi character.

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    13. Su you describe Arnav's mind beautifully. I for once could not see anything on first watch as my reaction was similar to khushi's "wesa laga jese hamari sansein hi rukh gayi ho". My mind was fuming at cvs "you just did not ramanchi".

      And awful awful BD *yuck*
      there was no need. If they kept it to SaRuns close up only that scene could have been better conveyed. BS had expression to kill for.

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    14. Rekha,

      Beautiful song from aarzoo.
      'mujhe tuta hua koi sitara mil gaya hota
      agar tufan nahi aata, kinara mil gaya hota'
      Thanks again.

      Sama,
      Thanks.
      I am blessed with BD blindness. So far, the only BD I could pick up effortlessly was Manorama mami's- on rakhi episode opening scene. And none of you even mentioned it, so am not sure if it was actually there.

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    15. Nah Su you have spot MM BD alright ... none of us mentioned as its not worth discussing. BDs prick only in RVs other than that I really don't care much but do spot them alright, thanks to SBS/B. I was a BD blind too. At the most I used to be like "hhmmm somethings odd"

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    16. Su,

      now don't say u can spot MM in your dreams...hehehe...
      Sam ka Barun thak teekh tha....LOL

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    17. Rekha,
      LOL.
      Sama,
      Oh! I am in that phase now:"hhmmm somethings odd"
      Taking baby steps in IPK land.

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    18. Rekha .... Aap ki toh mein!!!!! :P :P

      ROFL .... Most hilarious is Anjalis BD .... at least make her wear wig -
      http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vVXMl7N7_5s
      watch @2:00

      how coulsd they move away from this intensity and go the OTT comedy way ... Why o why???

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    19. Kyun Sama...*making my best puppydog face* not the Arnav one....

      Maine kaha na Sam ka Barun.....kisi aur ka nahin kaha phir....kyun ruthi ho?*rofl*

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    20. Aap Bhi Na!!! *stuffed cheese smile*

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  33. the best part of the epi - she gets all the silly - child like things first and she accepts them as such - they were more friends there(one teasing the other) and then the real gift - held more meaning than anything else - both change expressions so well - this was so much rolled into one - and ODG is learning not to hedge off - she still needs to step ahead (not just run to him in emergencies) but move towards him in general - but she is comfortable with him coming closer for sure!

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    1. Mona,
      CCKKP! Yesterday was full of them.
      Each one of us is picking up one one pearl!

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  34. A very feel good and funny video :D

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WHFU8xDN9FQ&feature=player_embedded

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  35. girls, I am off to Mumbai today...so will be MIA for a few days..don't think I'll be able to watch the epis too, but will catch up on your updates and comments..so mere khatir, please continue updating asap.. :P :) will be back home by 8th..so see you all then!! :) take care everybody.. :)

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    1. masti trip or health trip for your mom. hope all is well at your end. be back soon. >:D<

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  36. Su

    Jhappi girl... honestly loved reading your above post. It is splendidly written. You have expressed in words exactly what he potrayed on screen without any... Huggsssss......

    'Will I ever be able to convince her that I CAN LOVE HER UNCONDITIONALLY too as she has loved me? That I hold her hand, not just for my sake, but for HER SAKE too. That I want to just hold her and protect her... FOREVER.' simply beautiful....

    Agar tum na hote, agar tum na hote
    Hamein aur jeene ki chaahat na hoti
    Agar tum na hote, agar tum na hote

    Tumhein dekh ke to lagta hai aise
    Bahaaron ka mausam aaya ho jaise
    Tumhein dekh ke to lagta hai aise
    Bahaaron ka mausam aaya ho jaise
    Dikhayi na deti andheron mein jyoti
    Agar tum na hote, agar tum na hote
    Hamein aur jeene ki chaahat na hoti
    Agar tum na hote, agar tum na hote

    Hamein jo tumhara sahara na milta
    Bhanwar mein hi rehte kinara na milta
    Hamein jo tumhara sahara na milta
    Bhanwar mein hi rehte kinara na milta
    Kinare pe bhi to leher aa duboti
    Agar tum na hote, agar tum na hote
    Hamein aur jeene ki chaahat na hoti
    Agar tum na hote, agar tum na hote

    Tumhein kya bataaun ke tum mere kya ho
    Meri zindagi ka tum hi aasra ho
    Tumhein kya bataaun ke tum mere kya ho
    Meri zindagi ka tum hi aasra ho
    Main aasha ki ladiyan, na reh reh piroti
    Agar tum na hote, agar tum na hote
    Hamein aur jeene ki chaahat na hoti
    Agar tum na hote, agar tum na hote

    Har ik gham tumhara sahenge khushi se
    Karenge na shikwa kabhi bhi kisi se
    Har ik gham tumhara sahenge khushi se
    Karenge na shikwa kabhi bhi kisi se
    Jahan mujh pe hasta, khushi mujhpe roti
    Agar tum na hote, agar tum na hote
    Hamein aur jeene ki chaahat na hoti
    Agar tum na hote, agar tum na hote

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ETKkqTOj8Ws&feature=related

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  37. Opti huggsss........

    Loved your view on what might have transpired during the night and why khushi ended on the wrong side. One thing is sure from their expressions that nothing happened other than a few intimate, loving and romantic moments. May be she fell asleep in his arms and he just held her till she fell asleep. Gave her more assurance of him being there for her... hence her comfort in RM as well now. Assurance from him.

    Sandy,
    Tussi great ho yaar... I have always loved reading your posts and savoured every single one today as well. "I wish ki tum kabhi meri zindagi main aayi hi nahi hoti, main tumse kabhi milaa hi nahi hota...." but ab aa gai ho toe pata chala hai ki ab tak meri zindagi kitni tanha aur akeli thi, iss mein rang tumne hi bhare hai... ab jab aa hi gai ho toe pata chala hai ki zindagi kitne khubsurat hai, ab jab aa hi gai ho toe pata chala hai ki zindagi sirf saansoin se nahi jeeyi jati hai per zindagi khushiyoin ke chote chote lamhoin se jeeyi jati hai..., ab aa hi gai ho toe pata chala hai ki...

    Tan Bhee Sundar, Man Bhee Sundar
    Too Sundarataa Kee Murat Hai
    Kisee Aaur Ko Shaayad Kam Hogee
    Muze Teree Bahot Jarurat Hai
    Pahale Bhee Bahot Dil Tarasaa Hai
    Too Aaur Naa Dil Ko Tarasaanaa

    Chandan Saa Badan Chanchal Chitawan
    Dheere Se Teraa Ye Musakaanaa
    Muze Dosh Naa Denaa Jagawaalon
    Ho Jaaoo Agar Main Deewaanaa

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K_dTI_GI-DE

    Rekha,

    huggss re.....
    Aap ki aankhon mein kuch maheke hue se raaz hain
    Aap se bhi khoobsurat aap ke andaaz hain........

    love it!!!

    Dia,
    eagerly waiting for your edit. I am sure you will make it even more special and magical. Loved your song dedication... and yes Rekha I remember this song from chitrahaar days. Woh bhi kya din the, every sunday morning chitrahaar on doordarshan.... no youtube nothing just wait for the sunday morning...

    Nostalgic... remembering all the adverts and serials from yonders ago... Hugs guys. My weekend is set!!!

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    1. UJ,

      Hayeee ab jab aae gayi ho toh...Superb!

      Maybe Arnav finally managed to kiss her bey! :)

      As for "humaari baat abhi khatam nahi hui" - I thought of the last GH scene where they were all hyper saying, dus din main sharte khatam, sauda khatam aur baaki sab bhi khatam..It was almost like, oThe story of our life together i not over yet neither will it anytime soon.

      And OMG Saraswatichandra, for a whole week or more I have been thinking of the other song:
      "Chhod de saari duniya kisi ke liye
      Yeh munaasib nahi aadmi ke liye

      Tan se tan ka milan na hua toh kya
      Man se man ka milan koi kam toh nahi..."

      SN: was generally googling for dadima and came up with a 1966 movie fo the same name with an interesting plot (Rekha perk your ears up and tell me what you think about it too; My Yashoda waala theory)

      There is this beautiful song in it:
      "Ae maa teri surat se alag, bhagwaan ki surat kya hogi, kya hogi.."

      SN2: Yday Khushi started to walk behind Arnav - 1 phera complete? 8 days to go and 6 more pheras left?

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    2. "Maybe Arnav finally managed to kiss her bey! :)"

      NAHIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIII

      Opti ka taekwondo wala theory hi thik hai :)

      Wese Dadima is pretty ... Nani Dadi ki pairing acchi rahegi. The way Arnav was talking about her, he does not seem to have any grudge against her. Did she leave her own home after Anji-Arnav were thrown out?

      Sandy who do you think is the 'aurat' 14 years back. Khushi's mom, Garima or the Chachi jiske 'shoshan' ke waje se Dadi left her home and rejected to come and live at her DIL's home. Now her arrival is not clear all of a sudden though technically it's Arnav home right.

      I opt for later as cvs will not bare past completely as of now.

      If Dadi is in good terms with Anji-Arnav ... I hope they at least say she visited during Anjalis wedding. Otherwise it looks very disconnected ... something I don't like about soap world.

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    3. Sam,

      that aurat's shoshan may not be the reason...the hadsa in which that aurat was involved may be the reason.....

      what is that hadsa which apparently connects Khushi and arnav's past? the theory of accident killing khushi's parents seems a very tenuous link from my perspetive....there has to be a deeper connection...

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    4. Relha
      I agree accident seems to be too superfluous a reason coz khushi would be hardly responsible for an accident at the age of 8... There has to be a deeper connection.... Although i really don't think that the mysterious 'aurat' was khushi's mum or even garima....

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    5. Sama,
      Pretty sure Dadi will not be like babli or 'whatishisname' mama.The blast from the past is bound to happen sometime after Shyam is chucked out (acc to Gul's or GH's iv).
      So this character would've been written well.
      And hopefully she has arrived at the right time.

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    6. Sweeties Sama, Rekha, UJ

      Sama,

      Dadi will be like ASR - blunt, honest but dil ki achchi. I am guessing she did not like what her son did but did not feel it right to impose on his children and her bahu's family who had suffered at his hands - so she stayed away. interesting she comes back after 14 years - Sri Ram also went on 14 years of vanvaas.

      I think she may initially have reservations to Khushi but once she is able to appreciate her nature and her concern for the family at large especially Anjali and Arnav, Dadi is going to be anothe Khushi champion. In fact she will be a ArHi champion.

      woh aurat was teh one because of whom Arnav has this impression ki choti aukaat ki ladkiyaan sirk paise aur aaram chaahti hain. ek gayaa toh doosra phasaa lengi.

      She did something to what Arnav witnessed on that terrace with Shyam and Khushi. That is why his mother running away, the gun shot and the pan to his Di's smiling face and the havoc those incidents wrecked in their life happened. Woh aurat is responsible for Arnav's Ma not being around, for Anjali's first marriage breaking.

      Woh aurat would have been sister like to Arnav's mother. The Raizada family would have lavished her with love and affection. Yet she ended up betraying them. She maanged to trap the damad. (that middle fo the road arnav khushi outburst) and taali kabhi ek haath se nahi bajti.

      Arnav is currently fighting to keep the contract marriage under wraps. Imaginee if this issue were to come out in public dragging his sister and Shyam's name in it - what would it do to Anjali, what would it do to teh family? something similar would have happened at Anjali's wedding.

      Woh aurat is why Anjali and Arnav are who they are. I would love for this aurat to be played by Achint Kaur (aakhir she is coming from Mumbai so can be a bit hep or La like too)


      UJ / Sama,
      Khushi's parents accidents caused a family to turn back from proeeding with their plans. She inadvertently became teh reason they walked in on an unlikely sight when the man was supposed to have been at some other place. Also just before that is the Drive Safely scene b/w Arnav and Anjali. May sound presumptuous but it is possible that his dad fibbed about going someplace but rushed home and actually caused the accident that killed Khushi's parents.

      2 people who unknowingly will pay for the sins of one man - Arnav's father.

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    7. I just hope in 1 year that Gul have lived the story even before planning to start working on it, they have written that past real well. Even better than the characters. Otherwise quick sand would be underestimation to where they will land themselves.

      oooo Anchit Kaur is nice .... I remember few episodes of a serial ... she was an addict and does not give a damn to anything. Can't remember which serial it was. Just googled what she looks like :)

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  38. Freaky Anjali thought

    (Opti, thou shall not dislike or kill me for this please..puppy eyes..)

    Seeing that Arnav loves Khushi with all his heart Anjali knows he will do anything for her. If he could wear a kurta which he had never done before, perhaps he may also agree to reunite Shyam with Anjali on her say so?

    Khushi is still re-establishing her relationship with Anjali and wnats Anjali to be happy. She thinks her happiness is possible only if Anjali and theefore Arnav is happy.

    DM, if this ever happens, please let ASR again see through her to know who actually made the request. Just like the time he saw through Anjali when she faked a hunger strike to help Khushi get Arnav to agree for the sangeet.

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    1. Sandy,

      girl....this is quite possible...its seems freaky but entirely plausible....

      Girls at R&R, in my post, i meant appreciation everyone's posts here...

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    2. Sandy love u for the sarawathichandra song Chhod de sari duniya...

      one of the most contrary romantic lyrics ever written bt one that i count as a deeply romantic song...

      I always make it a point to sing this number at any gathering...my friends would always laugh saying yeh bada unromantic number hain and i tell them....u r not seeing the depth of romance in this number....don't go by the mukhda see what the antara says.....just like the runa laila number..."tumhe ho na ho...mujhko toh itna yakeen hain, mujhe pyaar tumse nahin hain nahin hain".....

      khushboo Aati Rahe Door Hi Se Sahi
      saamne Ho Chaman Koi Kam To Nahin
      chand Milta Nahin Sabko Sansaar Mein
      hai Diya Hi Bahut Roshni Ke Liye

      kitni Hasrat Se Takti Hain Kaliyan Tumhe
      kyun Bahaaron Ko Phir Se Bulaate Nahin
      ek Duniya Ujad Hi Gayi Hai To Kya
      doosra Tum Jahan Kyun Basaate Nahin
      dil Ne Chaahe Bhi To Saath Sansaar Ke
      chalna Padta Hai Sab Ki Khushi Ke Liye


      sandy, on ur subhadra - yashoda theory...will come back

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    3. Sandy, while anything is possible in telly world and daily soaps, I sincerely wish they do not do anything of the sort because it would show that Anj believes in Khushi's goodness. If she does not, she wouldn't expect her to speak on her behalf to get her hubby for her, a hubby she is supposed to be lusting after according to her KP. If she believes in K's goodness and still uses her to get what she wants, she would not be white or grey but jet black for me and that is just too hard to digest.



      Well you all know that I am a stronger supporter of AA bond and I sincerely do not Anj to deliberately be a spoke in Arshi's wheel. There are two reasons for it. I feel a love story needn't exclude all other strong pre-established bonds. In fact, the love between a couple should be strong enough to envelope the other bonds and strengthen them so that there is peace, love and harmony. The second reason is I myself have two fab sis-in-laws who dote on their brother. They may not display their affection physically but one can make out how much of respect and love they have for him from their actions. They display equal love and regard for me and my son and I share the same warmth with them. Their numerous selfless acts sometimes put me to shame and I wonder whether I am deserving of it all.



      I really hope the CVs do not break my trust in them. I can live with an emotionally and mentally damaged Anj who means well but acts in a certain matter because of mis-representation and hiding of facts rather than this cunning woman out to separate her bro from his love only because she is insecure and possessive of him.

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    4. Sorry for all the typos but I think you can get my train of thought.

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    5. "Seeing that Arnav loves Khushi with all his heart Anjali knows he will do anything for her. If he could wear a kurta which he had never done before, perhaps he may also agree to reunite Shyam with Anjali on her say so?"

      Me likes .... Me very much likes *evil grin*

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    6. Sandy Rekha....

      Chhod de saari duniya....
      Ufff... What a beauty!!! It's one of my all time favourites. What amazes me is I can listen to this song when I am missing my hubby, when I am feeling low and ofc it is one of the touching romantic numbers....

      Sandy
      I still think Arnav-Anji are blood sibblings and they have a half sister from this mysterious 'aurat' and their father.... I also think this mysterious 'aurat' who had a affair with Arnav's father is Shyam's sister.... But will give more thought and come back. May be I should read the synopsis of this dadima film....

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    7. UJ / Rekha,

      I agree thsi song though sounds angsty actually has koot koot ke pyaar filled in its every pore.

      I am almost giving up my half sibling theory for ASR and Anjali. The timings don't work with what Nani said yday. I guess I will have to make do with teh fact that he was largely broyught up by his Di who is his Ma samaan today.
      But yes perhaps their dad like krishna did raas leela and ended up as character dheela and other siblings.

      Hmm, as to woh aurat being Shyam's sister (you had mentioned it earlier too), so then Shyam's single focus to keep Anjali happy and eyes on the Raizada wealth becomes part of a master revenge plan is it? Alright interesting, because then if revenge was on top of his mind, no wonder he never managed to actualy understand the essence and good ness of Anjali and love her.It also gives new innuendo to Arnav's dialogue to Nani when he confesses he MUed Khushi that Shyam's intentions were never above board.

      Shucks in that case Khushi is in for super duper trouble from Shyam cause she has derailed a huge agenda here. Plus she was also the one who unwittingly became his Achilles Heel causing his well laid plan of revenge to collapse.

      I have a feeling with Sheesh Mahal being borought back by ASR, CHacha too may join the fray for revenge in fuiture (Dia will be so happy)

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    8. Thought I'd leave Anji alone for a while, but can't resist this:


      Anji seemed sincere during all that talk, so I am still confused.
      Too premature to predict, just for the heck of it.

      Acc to Anji:Khushiji’s motive:

      She was always after money. She tried to trap my husband first, and then set her eyes on my brother. When my husband came to his senses, he tried to expose her. And she framed him.
      And now she has Chhote under her thumb. But she knows Chhote will never let me go. She tried to pull him away from me by taking him to GH and discovered that Chhote will always care about me, no matter what poison she tries to feed him.
      So she is trying to win my confidence and impress Chhote.

      And if I continue to be cold towards her, she will not stop snooping around and interfering with my quality time with husbandwa. So, some sugary words and let her leave me alone.
      We’ll have our revenge on her when the time is ripe.

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    9. Sandy,

      'in that case Khushi is in for super duper trouble from Shyam cause she has derailed a huge agenda here.'

      Do you remember? "Plan toh ab kaam kar raha hai Khushiji. Lekin Aapne thodi der laga di."

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  39. Sandy,

    Ye kya kar diya aapne?
    The ice shards in her heart from the earlier heartbreak, thawed and flowed as teardrops from her eyes...

    In aasuo ko yu behene na dijiye
    inki kimat motiyoin se bhi jyada hai
    inhe sambhal kar rakhiye
    jo beh gaye toe hum bhi ro padenge
    aur hum ro padhe toe sailaab aayega
    phir naa kehna ki humne aapko aagah naa kiya tha....

    Hamere maan mein bhi toofan umadh raha hai
    yeh toe aapki chahat hai jo isse rok raha hai
    lekin jo aapne ye moti aur bahayein toe
    iss baad ko mat rokhna
    iss dil mein lakho zakhm hai
    behe gai toe mat tokna....

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      Wah Wah!!

      It was almost like how the pieces that pierced Arnav's heart flowed out as that single tear that Holi day when Khushi asked him "aisa kyun hota hai..."

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  40. http://rangmunch.tv/index.php/writers-gully/reflections-menu/item/1262-a-fairytale-romance-dozes-0f-reality-ipk

    Mona you will love it :D

    I wish IPK had a better editing team. That's where they fail. I have shoved tones of soap in this holiday and I must admit in all other serial there is a stability and transition from one scene to another.

    &another thing if they can avoid they do not show BD at all. they show actors close up only and far away shot if needed for group scene. Like yesterday episode with Khushi's scenes there was no need to show that awful shoulder &whatever profile. For ones who cannot spot BD its fine but for the ones like me (I can spot it's NOT Barun in my sleep now) its takes away the punch.

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    1. 'I can spot it's NOT Barun in my sleep now'
      ROFL- Sama, I truly sympathise with you now.

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    2. Sama,
      Nice RM article, Thanks.
      "in all other serial there is a stability and transition from one scene to another.":

      Sama, absolutely agree with you on the poor editing.
      I used to think the same until that ladder scene in GH which I felt was the worst and I wanted to write some comment like, 'IPK will be known for its excellent story, script, direction and exceptional acting and very very poor editing'- I swear!

      Thankfully I didn't put it down. I feel it is not the fault of the editing team. The creators have weaved mystery, signs, symbolism everything in to the story. It is not a daily soap. I bet even Barun and Sanaya are made to repeat the scenes over and over again till they get it perfect, so that takes time and the editing team will have very less time to make it into a sensible episode.
      Don't know who is to blame- may be the director, he is the one who should make sure the scenes flow in to each other or may be not.

      I have only stopped complaining since I realised NONE of those other serials have any re- watch value. IPK- every time you re-watch the same episode, something new hits you.

      I am not saying the problem is not there....
      It is very much there. May be I've got used to it by now, hopefully.
      Sigh.... As we all say, tedha hai par hamara hai!

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    3. tedha hai par mera hai - ArHi ki kahani hamari zubani! :D

      all matters but if you see few sbs specially last one ... I would say much much more beautiful ... specially the far away shot when he pulls her for hug. Same goes for the ArHi milan hug.

      yesterday in sbs there was a complete shot where he wipes off her tear .... in actual scene they have used half BS with left hand and half BD with right hand. hmm

      as I don't know how these things work ... obviously they don't do whatever they want ... so shouldn't really blame editors solely.

      Yes IPK has re-watch value ... hence the only serial which is airs 6 times in a day.

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  41. ‘So, are we to conclude that contract matter has got resolved becos of arnav's plea....on wed plea.’:

    Rekha,

    Basically, I am putting together so many people’s ideas, including yours to get some continuity in the week’s episodes..

    I still feel:
    The contract was not a matter to her. Khushi had 2 monologues with DM after ASR’s outburst and him reminding her of the contract- and both times she mentioned only Di’s happiness. She never mentioned the contract to DM. I take that to be a plain enough sign that the ‘contract’ never mattered to her. If it did, she’d have mentioned it in some small way. And yesterday she thanked DM because her only concern was Di and DM seems to have resolved it.

    Since the contract was not a matter at all, there was no Q of it dissolving at Arnav’s plea.
    (Sorry, I am repeating this: The ‘contract’ was not the problem, but the SOLUTION for Khushi.)

    So why did Khushi react and blush when the Di issue was not resolved at all? (The sil convo took place later.)

    Wednesday: Khushi was hell bent on not going back. And she was surprised that he’d go to such lengths to take her back. She knew he was using the LG tactics to force her into HIS way. He had said, “I am Arnav Singh Raizada, I am always right.”

    What he meant was she is not dealing with this issue properly by running away. If the problem was at RM, they’ll have to deal with it there.And she did not agree, because she was sure of ‘her’ way. She had tried to talk to di and it was a disaster. She felt it will not be solved just like that because she was seeing something that he couldn’t see.
    But she had to leave with him. She knew the LG act was to show his authority over her and there is no shaitaan there.

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    1. Thursday: She still resented it that he’d treat her like a school kid and brought her back, but couldn’t help admiring him in that white kurta. That was a proud moment for her, seeing LG in Di’s kurta and she concentrated on Di’s and Chhote’s happiness.(Although I felt Chhote didn’t look too happy there, he was still working on ways to bring Khushi back, not sure if what he had planned for her would work.)

      Also, why didn’t Khushi suggest the idea to Arnav herself?
      1. She was miffed with the way he had forced her back.(I personally feel she deserved it because she was the one who wouldn’t communicate. There was nothing left for him to do.)

      2. LACK OF CONFIDENCE in Arnav’s response to her. (Khushi is carrying on a one sided affair here with Arnav. She is not allowing him to reciprocate because she does not know how important she is to him. She soes not realize that she is not being FAIR to him. No one can blame her, because this is what life has taught the little orphan. GIVE GIVE and only GIVE. NEVER EXPECT. This is why the pearls and his other gestures moved her so much. Unfortunately our headstrong heroine is not an analyst, and she is not going to analyse and find that indeed, she is the most important person in his life.)

      So, that was Thursday, Khushi still roothi hui, but adjusting as usual.

      Friday: She was taken back by surprise. Arnav had started out by treating her like a small child and she responded like that child. He scolded her for not being around and she was back to her ‘I’ll irritate LG back’ mode. Seeing the gifts, she thought he was going to make her do the presents again: here, I don’t think she takes Arnav to be mean. She knows he does not mean to demean her. It is just another of his mad ‘arrogant I am Mr. Right’ acts.

      If Payal was free, she’d laugh with her about this.

      But she can’t help reacting to his every taunt due to their great chemistry.She does not MU his intentions with her. SHE KNOWS HE MEANS NO HARM. She has atleast that much CONFIDENCE in him.( And she knows that if she didn’t listen to him he might act on his threat, not because of his meanness, but because he has no other go. He wants to prove to her that HE IS RIGHT about his sister.)
      So, she starts it as a game, not sure what is awaiting her. And one by one the surprises are there, each one makes her smile. She appreciated the effort he had taken to get the golgoppas and jalebis.Just like she appreciated the rose carpet.

      But the pearls… this was her dream…How did he know about it? She had never shared the dream with him. It puzzled her, it moved her- hence the tears.She didn’t know someone would actually read her mind and make her dreams come true. This was stuff for fairy tales and in her dreams, yes. But Arnavji… her LG….She melted that moment. None of anything mattered that moment. It was hers, it was theirs.No Di, no jiji, nothing mattered. She allowed herself to have that one selfish moment.

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    2. (I wrote ‘one selfish moment’, because it does not have to last forever. She might get back on the sacrificial mode again, because KKG is fundamentally that.

      These moments are only slight aberrations for now. ONE DAY, she will learn to expect and accept love from her laad guvnor. May be after he bares his heart thru his RTR.)

      Getting up in the morning, she finds herself on ‘HIS’ side of the bed. And ‘HE’ is not batting his eyelids as if he cannot take his eyes off her.Ooh! She blushes. “How did this happen? How did I end up on his side? And where is my duppatta? What happened? Why is he looking at me like this?

      She gets up. He gets up and comes towards her. For now, she is prepared to embrace him, because there is nothing bothering her as yet. It is morning. They are on a fresh page.
      Then nani knocks on the door. As he prepares to leave, “Hamari baat abhi khatam nahi hui hain”

      A promise- she is not sure what he meant by that.

      And…. “Aisa laga jaise hamari saasein ruk gayi”

      ************** INTERVAL***************************

      I hope I could bring some continuity thru wed, thurs and fri.

      It was a wonderful week of IPK. (Dadi and Anji, please excuse. Both of you fail to interest me as yet. I’ll comment on you as and when you decide to show your true colours.)

      I wrote ‘fresh page’, towards the end of my post here. That does not mean they won’t turn back and go into the past. Enough room for blast from the past and RTR…. And OTT comedy and what not.

      I have a good feeling the comedy might have ended with Friday. However, knowing Khushi, there is no telling when she will start acting like a 9 year old kid again. Leave room for everything.

      (I know we all agree to disagree on the contract bit, so ignore it if you don’t like it.)

      Problems in execution, YES YES. Definitely, here and there.

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    3. They really want us to exercise our brains....Grrrr....

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    4. Su,

      lambi saans andar, lambi saans baahar...

      contract does nto meana thing to Arnav - woh Arnav showed her yday by showing her how her smile matters, how he can guess her hand in things, how he made an effort to do something that would make her happy, by giting her things she would like and then by giving her back that motiyon ki maala - dreams he shattered, teras he caused, all frozen and strung up as a necklace. - as a promise to care for her, always be there for her. Aaj mangalsutra nahi pehnaaya toh kyaa hua, apne andaaz main he told her what this marriage meant to him. And he will ccontinue to do so more and more till she has no doubts about them and tells him just how she feels about him.

      There will always be ladna jhagadna in their relationship. But no more childishness. Abhi toh Arnav is hell bent on making his biwi realize she is a woman!Plus with Dadi in the ppicture trust me she will also need to become the badi bahu. Time for her to grow up and keep her kiddishness only for private moments with Arnav :)

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    5. Sandy,
      Yep. Taking your advice.
      I started ranting towards the last bit of my post. Sorryyy...

      'There will always be ladna jhagadna in their relationship. But no more childishness. Abhi toh Arnav is hell bent on making his biwi realize she is a woman':
      SHIDDAT.

      At least until the next comedy track!
      She should be serious for a few weeks now since things seem to be winding up.

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    6. "Plus with Dadi in the ppicture trust me she will also need to become the badi bahu. Time for her to grow up and keep her kiddishness only for private moments with Arnav :)" Shiddat

      apart from this I am expecting Dadi to -

      1. keep a check at Manoroma Mami ... No more KBT and PS
      2. cure Anjali of Ostrich-itis
      3. ask tons of Qs about ArHi marriage ... for what I don't know but do want it.
      4. nice Nani-Dadi moments - positive or negative but nice.

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  42. girls...nice discussions thoeries...the only thing that i don't buy is the past linkage of khushi...as per this linkages, theories.

    altho its quite possible that these may be only theories and Cvs may spring a surprise on us

    I don't know why i feel this but i feel strongly that the past is being tweaked big time to let shyam have a bigger role....

    else my surmise when i started viewing IPK was Khushi was a direct link to the past...and Garima had a role to play in it..based purely on website reports..the actual linkage ...i don't know

    In the stories/theories being circulated now, i don't see a real link.....the promo (one one) is misleading...thats my only point..
    i have asked this question many times now....what is Khushi's link in Arnav's past....

    Is it that her family was in the midst of an accident which apparently caused the family of Arnav to come home and witness a horrible truth that made all lives asunder...If so...how is she a cause....this is a very far-fetched theory...one i find diffi to accept..

    which makes me question has the story been tweaked?....well that is ok becos ....it is the prerogative of the maker to put his vision out..just as its our prerogative to buy in to that vision. this is one link i find diffi to digest....no logic here at all

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    1. haawwwww Rekha ... I can feel your brain dancing with this "khushi being responsible angle" :D :D :D :D

      answer 2013 tak shayad miljaye onscreen .... kripya dheeraj rakiye!!

      When I started watching IPK the only thing I had in my mind was -

      Shyaam wants to be with khushi because he understood this girl effects ASR (how was to be seen) &he wants to possess everything that A does maybe because of some past linkage. When I found out he is Arnavs BIL I was more excited with my theory but then after couple of months when I came back Shyaam was trying to profess true love (DDR) to khushi and no insight to anything else on any other level either. hmmm I lost interest.

      Another thing I could not accept was Khushis coming back again and again and again. Then "Lagi Shart" happened. Rest is history :D

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    2. 'I don't know why i feel this but i feel strongly that the past is being tweaked big time to let shyam have a bigger role....'

      heh...heh... We are on the same page here.
      Always said, All 4 must have had a common past since they are from the same place.

      Also, your "Khushi Express" dialogue.

      Vague here: That CD that Shyam played: Train and Temple bells= Khushi Express and Poojali clouding Arnav?

      'what is Khushi's link in Arnav's past.':
      Me, not yet reached that page.

      Oh! I forgot, I had a theory for that.
      Dood's post- Kumars in 3 months- Khushi's angry chacha comes looking for her- blah..blah...

      Where did this dadi spring up from suddenly?

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    3. Dadi is a last minute addition...why has it never been alluded to, ever been mentioned....no ashram visits....ashram ka a bhi nahin bola.....imagine if they show she is a loving person and these guys love her...very strange....amnesia about a close relative....teek hain they can justify it anyway, thats not the issue but if she was a important link, why not allude to it in some form?

      didi ka saut dialogue was mentioned by GH in a tweet...why suddenly...a retraction.....all this is pointing to how shyam is being made an imp link to the past and the Khushi link is almost a by-product....IF the theory turns true...i would say Shyam has a bigger link to ASR past than Khushi by any stretch of imagination....

      this is not a rant, only a POV....is theory ke baad bhi story can be made interesting....i am sure of it....

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    4. Rekha your POV is factual .... according to Gul ... I need to find that article again. She said sometimes when a character connect with audience it has to be extended in reference to Shyaam. I think Shyaam was not to be around for long, not after ArHi marriage as Shyaam revelation was on cards immediately post marriage (everything went for a toss so can't really say what was the real thing) but as AM has made an impact there are some alterations done, maybe that's why such diluted form of villain-ism was shown.

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  43. She got him to wear the Kurta for his Di to bring back Di's lost smile because she thought in his Di's smile lay his happiness and his happiness means the world to her.



    He wore the Kurta to bring back the lost smile on her face because he knew she blamed herself for the loss of his Di's happiness and making Di happy again would make her happy and her happiness means the world to him.

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  44. OK, my posts are doing the disappearing yet again. Anyway here is a theory about the past I would like to advance.

    Arnav's parents (or at least the mother) died 14 years ago. Khushi's parents died 10 years ago. This means Arnav must have been around 18 when Khushi lost her parents. What if it was Arnav was responsible for Khushi's parents losing their lives? He may have just blacked out the incident and hence has no recollection of it. The rest of the Raizadas too may have kept him in the dark because they may not have wanted him to regress further considering that he was still to heal from the scars of his teen tragedy. Shyam may dig this past and reveal it to Arnav who may then have his peetal barthan moment and withdraw from Khushi because if there is one thing that strongly connects these two is the fact that they have been orphaned and if he knows that he was responsible for Khushi being made an orphan, I guess that would eat his gut. Khushi may not be aware of the reason for his withdrawal but when she knows she may pull him out of it.

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      I love this theory of Arnav being responsible for khushi's parents accident. But that makes him responsible for not only spoiling khushi's present also scarring her past. Wherein according to the promo khushi is / was responsible for his ruined past....

      I think they might not show their past to strongly linked or anything. They might instead show shyam's past and AA 's past having strong links.

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  45. dia's edited post is pending and comments have almost hit a double century.....

    saina wins bronze....yippeee!
    her opponent withdrew....after an injury)..

    so india oly tally is 1 silver and two bronze now.....

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