Tuesday, August 14, 2012

14/8- Epi 319 ... Bin Phere Hum Tere :)

Tuesday 14th August

Title suggested by hubby dear after watching yesterday's episode and the promo ... :)

That was quick! Re-marriage on the cards barely a week after Dadi's arrival ... the lady sure got things all stirred up!
So Bitwa was back to his old habits ... go off on long solitary drive and leave wife to face the music ... not this time, fortunately, because just as the music started to peak, he was back ... It was good he was in time to stop the slap from Buaji, otherwise his RTRW would have stretched a few hundred miles again :(

We did touch on this briefly in yesterday's discussions ... Rekha and I ... that a man can get away with proclaiming his true love and flouting all conventions, but the girl is always the one to take the fall. Shown in excruciating detail here ... while Arnav was merely castigated for not going through a proper marriage, Khushi was lambasted time and again ... Dadi even said it in so many words ... men can say what they like, but how did your girl agree to such an arrangement? Are these your sanskars, your upbringing?
Notice she didn't question Arnav's upbringing, only Khushi's. And Khushi's arguments of the night before were validated to Bitwa very quickly indeed ... living together is all very well, but a marriage needs social sanction. 
And Bitwa was forced to back down ... because for once everyone was against him and his high handed decision ... no marriage, no wife ...

Why didn't Arnav emphasize more that it was his decision and he forced Khushi? X(
So his RTRW is not yet complete .. he hasn't manned up enough to own up to that part at all ... and the rest of the family was also happy to leave the topic the moment he agreed to get married again.

Nani, Anjali and Payal were of course delighted at his agreeing to go through all the rasams ... Mami was less than pleased ... and Dadi was frankly angry. She didn't expect that coming ... she wanted Khushi thrown out of the house. But why? Doesn't seem to be from Anjali ... because Anjali was quite happy ... IS it from VLR? Or does Khushi remind her of another woman from the past?

Cutest part ... the confession is complete ... since they took so long to fall in love, then acknowledge it to themselves, acknowledging it to each other was pretty quick ... as soon as Arnav said the words, Khushi followed ... with the exact same ones ... 'I love you dammit ...':) :">

Creepiest part ... VLR is really a Creepwa >:) ... he has the entire house all cctv'ed? Yuck!!! :-&
Double yuck ... the poolside too?!!! :-& :-&
Don't tell me .. the bedroom as well ... triple yuck !!!! :-& :-& :-&

Episode Update:
Khushi comes back to the bedroom, remembers another 'dammit' scene ... 'Farak padta hai, dammit!' ... and now 'I love you dammit!' ...  and recognises her Shaitaan for the Rajkumar he is ... he is like this only ;) A man who finds it difficult to put his feelings into words, but he loves her to bits, and has for a long, long time ... longer than she even imagined ...
And the Shaitaan and Rajkumar coalesce into one complete being finally ... and Khushi accepts her man for whom he is ... flaws and all ... and accepts that she loves him regardless ...
And she settles down to wait for him ... :">

But the man of her dreams is too disturbed ... driving around the streets at night, his eternal stress-buster ... and as he does, it seems he does slowly see the mistake he made ... regrets his words, the way he forced her yet again ... the mix of old and new shots, and lack of clarity in the expressions made it unclear whether he really regretted his words to her ... but it did seem that he did ...

What I would have liked ... Arnav Khushi to talk in the morning ... he to say she was right, and he would do the pheras and the ceremony for her, because she wanted it, it was important for her, and what made her happy was important for him ... and she to say, no, he was right, it didn't matter, their love was enough ... meeting each other halfway ... and then the whole Dadi Drama to erupt ...

But they didn't ... it did seem that Khushi might be ready to meet him halfway, as she wonders in the morning why he didn't wake her up when he came back, her slight disappointment when she sees the clean bed, and her move to hunt for him ...

And she goes downstairs, and the Dadi drama starts ... the moral hypocrisy and double standards of Dadi coming through in this very ugly scene, where Dadi coolly absolves her grandson of all blame, saying 'men will be men ... but why did your daughter agree?'

And I am more and more convinced that Dadi's double standards were at play fourteen years ago too ... it was Arnav's father at fault but Dadi refuses to see it ... till I see any proof otherwise, Arnav's stand seems completely justified.

Skipping through the very ugly confrontation scene, except to say that Dadi does her job, she instigates Nani and Anjali to do all the questioning at a time when Arnav is absent, leaving Khushi to face the firing squad ... and then joins only when Buaji appears, to indulge in repulsive, hypocritical mudslinging of the worst kind ... my grandson can do what he likes, but it's your daughter who is characterless for agreeing to such an arrangement at all ... :-&

Hated Dadi, hated the very quietly satisfied expression on her face as Khushi faced the barrage, the way she said 'aapke ghar ki beti' is living in sin with my grandson ... neatly widening the blame to include Khushi's family in her mudslinging ... 'hamare khandan mein we don't do such things ...' yeah, Dadi, your daughters and DIL's don't, but if your sons and grandsons do, that is perfectly all right, is it? Double standards at their worst! :-& X(

Felt bad for Buaji that she had to listen to such poison ... and thankfully Arnav arrived just in time to stop the slap ... if he hadn't, his RTRW would have gone back to starting point ... as it is, he lost quite a few miles by not owning up that he had forced Khushi into the marriage in the first place ... X(
Yep, Bitwa, you don't allow anyone to raise a hand on your wife ... but what about the emotional blows she takes just because of you and your deeds? Need some more soul-searching there. 

Arnav tries to stop the firing squad, but this time everyone even in his own family is against him ... and Dadi goes back to blaming Khushi again ... how did she agree to this? Arnav lost a lot of miles there ... just by saying he knew the circumstances of their marriage was not good enough ...how about confessing that he forced her to? :(
And Dadi is very satisfied ... now a poisonous dart at Buaji, and Buaji has had enough ... she drags Khushi out ... she can't listen to any more slander ... Methinks Buaji was as upset at Dadi's poison as she was at Khushi's behaviour ...
And Arnav finally sees what he has done by ignoring all customs to such an extent ... and he has to give in ...
SN - I would have much preferred if he had already decided to give in for Khushi's khushi ... he could have had a small, private ceremony with no tamasha ... now he's in for the whole works ...

There's a very cute ad on SP these days on adoption, where the husband thanks his wife for convincing the family to adopt a little girl, and the wife tells him 'tabhi toh kehti hun, meri suna karo ...' ;)
Methinks Arnav needs to learn that lesson ... biwi ki suna karo, Bitwa, she has more sense than you many times. Especially about the ways of the world.

Arnav agrees for re-marriage with the whole works ... but makes it clear it's a re-marriage ... to his already legally wedded wife ...

Khushi is immeasurably relieved ... she will get her husband and the social sanction she needs ... Nani is happy, she never had any problem with Khushi ... well, she shouldn't as she's about the only person who knows the true story of how Arnav and Khushi got married, or closest to it ... so she sanctions it immediately, Anjali adds her agreement, she wants the whole tamasha, all her dreams for her brother's marriage ... hate to be cynical here, but why does Anjali always make it about herself? her dreams about her brother's wedding?
Dadi has no choice but to agree, but ensures a separation till the marriage actually takes place ... will Dadi be another Mami and try to throw spanners in the works? Don't think any will work, not with determined Arnav in the forefront ... 

Arnav annoyed about the separation, Khushi is also unhappy ;) Nani smooths things over... you agreed to all the rasams, this is part of them ... Not a rasam Arnav or Khushi are happy about, by the looks on their faces ... :">
Nani tells Buaji, we will come with shagun and bring back Khushi as our bahu after full reeti-rivaaj ...
No mention about Arnav's wife ... even Nani doesn't dare to go there now ... :)) otherwise Arnav might just drag them all to the temple then and there to do the all-important pheras!
Arnav, if only you had listened to Khushi last night! :) What a pickle you would have avoided. Including a separation from now very willing biwi ;)

Dadi is annoyed, her plan to evict Khushi for good seems to have backfired ... Khushi is relieved and happy, Payal too ... Anjali seems happy too ... Mami is equally annoyed as Dadi ... where did that KN track bonding disappear?

And Khushi comes back ... renewed confidence to face the zoo, after those all-important words? Or confidence because her status will finally have the social and family sanction she needs? As she for the first time exerts her right to speak to Arnav ... Nani, Dadi and Anjali leave the two alone ... this has to be a first!
And Khushi confesses her feelings to Arnav ... seems like she was waiting to say the words almost as soon as they sank in last night ... she always needed them ...Arnav really didn't need the words, he knew she loved him ... but hearing them lit his face up just as much :">
And now come hell or high water, Bitwa will make Bitiya his wife ... asap.

And Creepwa makes a re-appearance ... complete with CCTV live coverage of events at RM ... what a creepwa!!! :-&
I just hope he hasn't managed a camera in Arhi's bedroom ... :-&
Although I was glad to see Creepwa back on first watch, I forwarded his scenes on repeat watch :(  VLR decides that Arnav Khushi can never be together as long as he lives ... Creepwaji, then be prepared to bite the dust :)

102 comments:

  1. "Hum Bhi I Love You Dammit"

    Daiyya Ho .... Tene tene nee nee ... Daiyya Ho!!!!

    Phir wahi basi complain .... Why can't ArHi talk. A conversation!!!!

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    1. Dia Mr.D's title is dhasoo :D

      &I loved your episode edit. Specially where there were angry emoticons, was laughing too hard :D :D :D

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  2. Hum bhi Aap say I love you dammit

    To all my R&R friendssssssssssss

    *hugs*

    Hayeeeeeeeeeee

    Awwwwwwwwwwwww

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  3. GLOATWA VEY: Marriage confrontation 360 happened:)

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    1. Jhappi BG aur aap ne dekha super last minute editting :D

      in sbs buaji did slap khushi once .... In episode cut to bitwa rescuing.

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    2. Haanji... GLOATEA VE for that Arnav-buaji scene. It's the time to disco:-)
      (can't stop the wide grin on my face)
      When everyone was questioning Khushi, I was like..Arnav where are you? Come n rescue Khushi from RMwasies.

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    3. Sama: I didn't expect her to get slapped, warna Bitwa ki pitaai hoti humsay pucca...They would have shot that scene and wisely edited it out.

      ANANYA:

      It is the time to disco

      Dadi tum jaldi khisko

      Shaadi attend karni humko

      Bitwa Ab toh SR say na chooko.

      AIYOOOOOOOO......FORGIVE ME FOR THE ABOVE.

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    4. Shweths, hum bhi love you dammit!!!

      Not to worry, bitiya won't chooko from SR this time ... last time she almost gave way :)) Ab toh full sanction from DM, DiDaDi, the works ... and mutual ILU bhi ho gaya!

      Ab the only question is, Snakewa kya karega? :(

      I WANT LOTS OF BITWA SNEAKING AWAY TO GH AND WOOING!!! Preferably middle of the night wooing ... he can start by taking her on some of those long night drives of his! Bitwa, abhi se aadat daal lo ... no long drive without wife :))

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    5. But Girls...first thing first.....let the camera be broken yaar...cant stand that creepwa watching it all....
      I also did not like that he witnessed the ILUD.....

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    6. dia, gupta house sneaky wooing was one big wish of mine... SHIDDAT!

      i dont care if snakewa witnesses the poolside scenes.. there wont be any ASR-KKGSR scenes at the poolside until after the wedding ... and if he happens to witness some, more power to arhi!!

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  4. Yippeeee... Shamu is back!!! ....and what a title Dia... Perfect!

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    1. true ananya, (rubbing hands gleefully) BRING IT ON!!

      p.s. only IPK can reintroduce the villain in a way that makes fans want to hug someone!

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    2. hum bhi aapko jhappi dammit!!

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    3. Hugwa vey.......everyone.

      Jaya, now that your family wedding is over, shuru ho jaao.

      Loved yours and Mads take on Pherays.

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    4. shwethu, one wedding over, another one next week.. now that i think about it, that fits IPK too :D

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    5. Jaya, there have been less bloopers havent they of late?

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    6. Shweths, no, just our resident Blooper Queen was busy pointing out bloopers in real life marriages :)))

      Jaya, still on the wedding trip? :D

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    7. actually dia, i cannot come here and post all the marriage bloopers..and there were many! :D
      SN you call me blooper queen?!! oh well, at least something's queen... :))
      yes, stil on trip.. but of course, finding time and internet whenever i reasonably can.

      who found the biggest blooper today? the one where bitwa stopped buaji's hand and everyone was so surprised.. (he had to have come in the main door.. dont tell me dadi etc dint see him before!or did he apparate?)

      my favorite scene of the day: him running after madhumati-ji saying "buaji, you cant ..." aww GH ka bitwa...

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  5. Wese roller coaster se abhi bhi nahi utre cvs -

    Tu hi bata mere maula ..... Wedding confrontation .... Acceptance ..... Remarriage issued ..... Confession ..... Daiyya Ho!!!!

    *phew*

    SN: so all those male servants were after all not prakash brothers only. Hmmmmm

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  6. The most loved moment of the epi-

    "mein khushi se PHIR SE shaadi karne ke liye tayyar hoon"

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    1. IKR, AWWWWWWWWWWWW!!

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    2. I KNOWWWWW ... awwww!!!

      Making it clear ... it's just for you old fuddy-duddies ... as far as I'm concerned she's my wife!
      Didn't he also say ... main apni patni se phir se shaadi karne ke liye tayyar hun?

      Need to rewatch :))

      Loved that look of consternation when the decree came that Khushi can't stay here till the re-marriage! On BOTH faces ... bitiya wasn't too pleased either! :)))

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    3. Sam, its not even Khushi se..its meri patni se.....underscores if for the fuddy-duddies...LOL

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    4. add to it "hum dono phir se shaadi karne ke liye tayyar hain"

      and poor bitwa and bitiya both were so troubled to leave eachother ... her confession made so much difference. Both of separated with a smile "hum aapke ane ka intezaar karenge" Awwwwww ... bitwa will so not last the night without meeting her. Will he go to GH and ask Buaji not to scold or blame khushi ... call hi kardo ek. That will be awwww worthy.

      So contract ko 5 days bahce hain (not that it matters) time enough for all the rasams ... anjali is suppose to go on labour. Amma-Babuji is away but how can they be away from the rasams &if Garima is the link .... hmmmmmm

      Suddenly story has got back all its meat and more.

      I was going through previous episodes and was thinking ... how beautiful it would have been if khushi already started to think about their incomplete wedding. When she got back after ME she placed her DM for the first time in their room. A small clash. "Mandir hai na khushi yahan jage karne ki kya zarurat hai". Slight trigger to khushis psyhc. Later after rakshabandhan another tiff on it leading khushi to say it matters to me. Then the Nani-NK convo cementing it. Chalo chado.

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  7. Scatterbrainwa vey....Who else me ofcourse:

    Was that his SUV.........I was too busy cursing, why of all days it didn't have a flat tyre or takniki kharabi so he couldn't have taken it out.

    Bitwa stayed all night driving*head desk*

    Am I the only one who thought he was going to fall asleep on the wheel?

    Sooooooooooo who came and cleaned up?

    The way Bitiya was, did it mean that if he had returned, ahem......would have happened.

    Unhonay hamay jagaya kyon nahin, fultoo MIG vey.

    Kitchen scene:

    Things are heating up and boiling...literally and figuratatively...Even I got that symbolism today.

    Payal looks more pregnant than Anjali

    So Dadi after a satisfied sleep politely informs everyone guess what my pota is not married after all.

    Pray tell me how did she get Buaji's number?

    Anyway just when my B.P. was raising why are they confronting her when she is all alone, call her hubby aka the son of the house will ya?

    And Khushi finally admits, they were never properly married.

    Incomes Buaji...And gets Introduced to Dragon Dadi who takes great sadistic pleasure in informing your beti has been in a living relationship with my grandson.

    Kya yeh sach hai khushi starts and

    *BARUN STYLE offscreen segment during the garam chai phenko episode*

    I was, Agar by chance Khushi ko thappad pada toh bitwa teri khair nahin..'

    And also CT..I compromised with Bua being substitued with Garima, Would have given you hell if the actual slap happened.

    Thankfully, bitwa entry maarofied with Oh no you don't not this time.

    Then he takes on the familiy for her, for them.

    I don't believe in all these rituals etc for marriage.

    As far as I am concerned we are married.

    This time Nani rightly supports Dadi..No Arnav not this time, you are wrong.

    Dadi seizes the opportunity and decides to send Khushi away.

    Arnav realizes there is no other way, the re-marriage as he calls it has to happen.

    He agrees, Hitesh & Ritesh, fantastic dialogue there.

    I will get married to my WIFE again..just so you can accept her...Will go all the way for this to happen. Whatever rituals, ceremonies needs to be done, I will do it.

    Before you all go awwwwwwww, Bitwa has his priorities clear, he has NO INTENTION TO BE INTERRUPTED AGAIN...DUE TO A Marriage Procedural Technicality.

    Everyone behaves like they are on Barjatya instead 360, Oh yipppppppeeeeeee, He agreed, Problem solved.

    Err....Nani did it ever occur to you you could have asked him the above nicely he would have agreed anyhow.

    He might have fooled you all into thinking he is doing it for you, the night drive made him realize he would have to get married to her..for her.

    And Khushi goes off just like that, she was atleast supposed to pack her things, WT?

    She goes and Bitwa goes awwwwwwwwwww, How am I going to survive without you?

    Wait bitwa, she is going to give you something to get by, she comes back....The Raizada family finally decide to give them privacy and scamper off........

    AND KHUSHI SAYS THE CUTEST ILU EVER!!

    Hum bhi aap say ILU DAMMIT

    Bitwa smiles............Awwwwwwwww

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    1. Shwetha,
      Can I just say this?
      You write the cutest things!

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  8. Diaaaaaaaaa: Jiju aur meri pukka badhiya banegi bey... Give him a hug from my side...very apt title.

    We are waiting for the hattrick to happen. The DI title still cracks me up.

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  9. I am sooooooo launching a RTI on Shyam's finances.

    First kidnapping and then cctv footage, kaun finace kar raha hai bey isko?

    And how did HP allow it to happen, did they keep a camera on Arnav's bedroom too, grrrrrrrrr..

    There defo was one by the poolside?

    Chalo bahi villainwa bhi aa gaya.

    Garima is curiously absent. Shaadi hogi ki nahin.

    BFTP WILL EXPLODE AGAIN..Can it explode after SR.

    Thank you.

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  10. got only 5 mins to bak bak , couldnt resist coming here to do a little lively jig :))

    gloatva vey shwetha... *hugs* *applause* the marriage 360 happened exactly the way u wanted!!!

    "jaane se pehle hum aapse bas yeh kehna chahthe hai. ki hu bhi appse i love you dammit" *blush* awww.... how cute :)

    last time when khushi was in this pink dress, arnav was not ready to lend an ear to her protests, left her stranded in the milieu... now he stands up for her, ready to go thru all bakwas, wich to him are bakwas, just for HER.

    "agar aap log chahe to mein apni PATNI se phir se shaadi karne ko thaiyar hun... phere lene ke liye bhi thaiyar hun"

    i loved the mention of patni, not khushi... it doesnt matter how u see us, to me she is my wife and she'll remain so irrespective of whether or not we did all the rasams....

    it was a riot today... and ODV (Our Dear Villain) has been pretty busy all along... he has the entire RM under surveillance.... there is at least some one with a ghost of a shatir dimaag!!!

    Annnd VLR wastes no time getting back into playing cupid... if he could bring two ppl together who hadnt realised their feelings for each other, now shud be a piece of cake for him.... ohhh i'm Loooooving it!!!

    tata:)

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    1. Krish, its not just ODV but its dadi also who is playing the super cupid. The more she tries to create a rift between Arhi, the more Arnav is resolved to stick to Khushi (pun intended..hehehe ;-))
      In this case, "Every action by dadi has multifold and opposite reaction by Arnav".

      Shwetha...it gave me creeps when I saw VLR keeping an eye on the pool...my instant thought was on Arhi's bedroom.

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    2. We're all in the same boat ... my first thought was of the bedroom too!!! They'd better get the entire place re-wired before the shaadi! And fumigated and Pest controlled as well! :(

      Best part is, they have both confessed ... now Bitwa won't let anything get in the way of their shaadi! Aandhi ho ya toofan, VLR ya DD, remarriage toh ho ke rahegi!

      What am I saying ... VLR and DD are the biggest cupids! :D

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  11. ast time when khushi was in this pink dress, arnav was not ready to lend an ear to her protests, left her stranded in the milieu... now he stands up for her, ready to go thru all bakwas, wich to him are bakwas, just for HER.

    awwwwww krish......

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  12. Was that his SUV? Confirmwa please.

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    1. yes that was his SUV but I bet far shots were cut paste from previous episodes. Its painted black in Arjun .... Or who know now that Gul is back full term with IPK ....they might just get another SUV for ASR the one &only!

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    2. Sama, m i missing something.....Gul had left kya ?

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    3. Nahi nahi she was busy with other projects too. According to IF reports she is completely back to IPK.

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  13. Dia dam neat title... bin phere hum...
    now this is what I call a blockbuster tuesday...

    why so jet speed.. confrontation and confession all in one episode...

    and whats with shyamu and his finaces where did he get so much money to have camera, dare he not kept in Bitwa's room the creep that he is grhhhhhhhh

    hmm my one shiddat of Arnav stopping buaji from slapping...
    some how there was lack of SP drama for the confrontation.. but I loved it to core.. not to loud, not to OTT with b/w versions and echos...

    And at last ILU Damit!!!
    ILU CV's Damit , you better dont ruin the marriage Big C can wait but pls complete the pheras and rasams and sambhars pls....

    Dhiya ho is back to play the cupid game, so was dadi sent by shyam ?? why did I feel that dadi was at first happy when bitwa accepted to do all the vidhi but then the expression was, now she can't do anything to get Khushi out of RM.

    Loved Nani and her righteous attitude...and Anji baby happy is she in this with shyam? I doubt it was real happiness about her bro wedding.

    is it me or Deepali looks pregant ?? that side profile was give way.

    now since the camera's are all fitted on lights .. can we have NK finding it while changing one the lights on instance of Mami, or Arnav/Akash??
    or I would prefer bitwa to find it..

    Now what do you girls think shyam will do?? will he get bitwa's past in open ??

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    1. Aaru: Hugs bey..We said so many things that are common. Especially Deepali looking pregnant.

      And ditto on lack of drama for a SP show.

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    2. One more thing...when Anji says that Khushi cannot stay in this house in these conditions, it appeared that the ball is now in her court. As Arnav has thrown out her hubby, now she can do the same to his wife.
      But later she seemed to be more excited with planning a big wedding for her chhotey and fulfilling all her 'hasratein'.

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  14. Dadi is soooooooooo definitely a plant by Shyamu.........so the battly cries are for unholy troika of Dadi/Anjali/Shyam versus ARHI/Nani on the other? Anjali will not change sides until she hears about the kartoots of her KP from Shashi Babua and hopefully, to be confirmed by her KP too sometime in the future?...... Shwetha, I really, really, hope it is not Bitwa's money that is financing KP's antics but the evil Chacha ji is going to make an appearance at some time in the future....hang on , wasn't Chachaji broke?...like a BFTP to clear up all the MUs, etc....

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    1. Aki EVIL chacha kay paas paisay kahan hain, his debts were brought off by Arnav na and Dadi unless she wrote a book on how to be an evil saas and is living off its royalties, she wouldn't have it either.

      So the reason Anjali is all chirpy is cos she is waiting for the right time to brig Shyamu in and hence is financing him.

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    2. Uurrggghhhhhhh......when I remembered that the evil Chachaji was shown to be bankrupt in the early episodes, I still kinda hoped that he would be resurrected somehow or the other 'cos I really did not want it to be financed by ASR's own money, but ....I guess this is what is called "saanp ka asteen".....Anjali should really end up in Lala land when she finds out what damage she has single handedly wrought on her brother.....or may be that's what is needed to show the drift between bro/sis..........meaning that ARHI become closer which is NOT in KP's gameplan....seriously, iss pyaar ko kya naam doon? Jalebi, is my answer......hrrmmmmmmpppppphhhhh!

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  15. Dia, ur title reminded me of that movie...and the song's antaras...

    tan ke rishte tut bhee jaye, tute naa man ke bandhan
    jisne diya humko apnapan, usi kaa hai yeh jivan
    bandhh liya mann kaa bandhan, jivan hai tujh par arpan
    bin phere…………

    aanch naa aaye nam pe tere, aankh bhale hee jivan ho
    apne jahan me aag lagale, teraa jahan jo roshan ho
    tere liye dil tod le ham, ghar kya jag bhee chhod de ham
    bin phere………


    it was a tear jerker and tho i did not like the movie...the song sung by Kishoreda..has resonance...even now.....nice title...


    BTW, why is the pace so hurried or is it only me who is feeling this...
    shyam and camera....tall tale....explain puleej or will this be one of those miracles in IPK that will go unexplained

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    1. Yep, even I feel the pace is really speeded up a lot ... are they in a hurry to start the marriage rituals? Is the competition BV going through marriage these days?

      Rekha, I remember the movie very vaguely, but yes, the song by KK was nice ...

      Another song coming to mind, the antara especially ...

      Chhod de saari duniya kisi ke liye
      yeh munasib nahin aadmi ke liye
      Pyaar se bhi zaroori kayi kaam hain
      pyaar sab kuch nahin zindagi ke liye

      tann Se Tann Ka Milan Ho Na Paaya To Kya
      mann Se Mann Ka Milan Koi Kam To Nahin
      khushboo Aati Rahe Door Hi Se Sahi
      saamne Ho Chaman Koi Kam To Nahin
      chand Milta Nahin Sabko Sansaar Mein
      hai Diya Hi Bahut Roshni Ke Liye

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  16. Anji comes back with her rasam- sambhars....aarzoo and armaan...
    god...i miss arnav's nirupama roy remark....

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    1. the way she was all excited about her bro's wedding, blehhhhhhhhh

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    2. DB is belhhhh ... That media stunt was the worst mistake of her life.

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    3. Yup, sama, if she had that bump, I would have said, see how nice Anjali is she is excited for the feeding.

      DB spoilt all the goodwill with that stunt.

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    4. arre yaar, jaane bhi do.. i love white anji.. she's a bit dumb, but she is adorable!!

      and now payal will be on the groom's side.. aww so many possibilities..

      knell of doom: what will laskhmi nagar have to say about khushi-bitiya's remarriage? please CVs, someone explain to them that arnav's dadi wanted to witness the shaadi, hence remarriage! or will it be a family personal function?

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    5. Jaya, not to worry, like Payal's shaadi, this too will happen all in RM, lakshminagar vaalon ko kuch pata bhi nahin chalega ;)

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  17. I know we have all gone all awwwww on Khushi's ILUD.....

    it was truly aaaaawwwwwwwworthy

    Abhi ILU se bilkul kaam nahin chalega..ILUD hi chahiye...ILUD is the new ILU...

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    1. I am biased. I will rate her better.

      Cos it was unexpected - the timings and the words.


      Bitwa - we knew it was gonna be ILU Dammit. And he said it earlier, novelty wore off a bit.

      And this is why First ILU was a mistake.

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    2. Nahi BG I love gunpoint ILU (mistake na bola karo please, it was beautiful), I love ILUD & hum bhi ILUD!!

      I love ArHi DAMMIT!!!

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    3. i watched the episode on youtube!!powercut bhi tabhi hona tha!! anyway..Khushi's ILU was cute..Shwets i agree with Sama..gunpoint ILU was more aaawwww...i went dammit ASR!! today i was like aaawww Khushi..

      my SHIDDAT was granted!!wwwoohhhooooo..i was waiting for K to say those words for a long time!!finally!phew!

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  18. Mishti spoiler: Arhi marriage happening with all rasams.

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    1. yaayyyy !!!

      taare hai baraati aur rangeeli ye baraat !!

      will arnav sneak into biwis room again through window. Afraid of buaji *dream*

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    2. OH OH Barun will dance?

      Barun bitwa, dancing classes pleaseeeeeeeeeeeeee

      Bollywood may kaam aayega..and 1 stage performance with Sanaya toh banta hai boss.

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    3. Aiyyo ye kahan tha??? Same spoiler kya???

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    4. No I am just wondering and I Faraq you sama let us have differnt fav as ILUs okay.

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    5. I faraq you too ... but aap ka fav mera bhi fav hai ... as all of them are my favs :)))))))

      >:D<

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  19. e lo -

    http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=3147330

    aap kis side mein ho!! ROFL

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    1. Mast forum reation -

      http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=3147746

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  20. Dia: I keep missing you online, hugs bey.

    Sandy: Jaldi aa jaao..Hope whatever is bugging you, today is the last day.

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    1. sandy, lagey raho! you're proving your theory that whenever you're busy, IPK goes ballistic. big hugs and prayers that whatever is bugging you will clear up without any glitches..

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    2. Ditto, Sandy .. hope things clear up for you and you come back soon.
      *hugs*

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  21. Actually, what I wanted was for him to come home and start to tell Khushi, fine, we'll do the pheras if they're so important to you ... and her to interrupt and say, no, you're right, it doesn't matter, we're married ... both meeting each other halfway ...
    and then the whole Dadi Drama to unfold ...

    But too much Nayi Soch for SP to show ... that a bahu could be happy to live as a wife without the all-important wedding.

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    1. Dia, ditto, me too wanted that,

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    2. Dia....tune mere dil ki baat bol di.....i was so hoping they would do that but SP's nayi soch is very "seemith"

      mera half way ke hopes dhare ke dhare reh gaye.....

      but i am still glad, they showed ASR in a kind of pensive mood (methinks) before he changed gears..i took that to mean, he was coming back to tell her that before the drama erupted..similarly i am hoping bitya searching bitwa was for that reason...my shiddats are rarely realised but they do in my ARHI dreamland...

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    3. Dia, Geetu, Rekha,
      They get remarried and live happily ever after kya? Shyamu kuchh toh karega, na.

      " that a bahu could be happy to live as a wife without the all-important wedding.": Still hanging on to that until I see the phere happening.

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    4. Rekha, these days, i dont see the "nayi soch" tagline promo.. maybe they backtracked?
      DABH does not have a wife studying while her husband is illiterate.. the track changed.
      IPKK does not have ASR put down by chamkili anymore..
      EHMM does not have sister taking care of sister anymore..
      other serials i dont know.

      what do you think?

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    5. J,

      the nayi soch is a "dhakosla"....if u ask me...what nayi soch is there in any of their serials....ofc i don't watch any except..see some excerpts of few mins here and there...my problem is i can't see saas-bahu sagas becos they all degenerate to just that..... silly sagas...and as far as love stories...there is only one other at the moment, pyaar ka dard..the leads don't inspire me to watch them...but my mom told me that they have decent locales/sets....it seems they were trying to ape the ASR nonchalance but ASR is one of a kind...they don't make like him anymore

      its only IPK that displays a kind of attitude that can be described new age to a certain extent...i mean more in terms of flirting with these aspects of getting a hero to mouth unconventional dialogues,heroine is not crying/ getting the heroine in teakwando poses on bed....leads sharing a bed without the big c....to name a few....i know they all end up towing the SP line of culture/tradition etc but kuch toh hain.....

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    6. I did hear from someone that they change the storyline sometimes because of the limitations of the actor/actress ... in Navya, they changed Navya's personality to match the actress's, because she couldn't deliver, same with DABH, so from Nayi Soch, it has gone to the most Purani Soch ever - wife supporting husband and bearing all insults through thick and thin ... in fact, Sanaya said in one iv that she would play Sandhya very differently ... behna show, again I think the elder sis is a very limited actress so the focus shifted to the younger pair ...

      PKDH - I watch it these days, the guy is okay, the girl is pretty blah, but the two granddads are cute. It's like SGP, I watched it in spite of the leads, not because of them :))) Here it's the granddads and the FIL-SIL relationship, also the grandfather-grandson one ...

      And the main thing I like about IPK is that I can relate a lot of the problems to real life ones ... things like an over-possessive nanad, the whole society vs love scene yesterday, the dilemma whether to tell or not about a philandering husband, Dadi's very subtle poisonous barbs to Buaji and Khushi, with no shouting screaming in front of a hundred strangers ... they don't make them over-dramatic, and that helps to keep them realistic. And the Lavanya exit was one of the best handled tracks I have ever seen on the subject.

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    7. to add to Dia's thought bt changing the character according to the actor....Sanaya requested Gul n Nissar to not change Khushi at all and she wud try n fit in that character....what an awesome actor she is....every day my respect to her goes up a notch :)

      also agree with Dia bt IPK being less over-dramatic....the LA engagement breakup, when ASR asked to speak only to the family n announced it and they all came out quietly and he made a brief announcement just mentioning that the engagement is off due to some personal reason.....gosh how i loved that...

      Dia : me too was watching PKDH that day, just to catch the latest IPK promo :P could handle the leads at all, the girl's face is set in POP, not an ounce of emotion....

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  22. why do i feel that this marriage wont happen :(

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    1. Geetu, shubh shubh bol re!!!

      With Arnav bitwa in this determined mode, doubt anything can stop him now ... and biwi too has given him the green signal! :)

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    2. Your post makes me positive Dia.. :) with Biwi's green signal, he wont let it go....even if marriage doesnt happen...waise bhi arnav said he is marrying his wife dobara...

      When Dadi mentioned pheres, Arnav looked at Khushi as if, 'look now, what u have done '...me was wondering,' bitwa, u took the whole debate to the terrace, she was asking only in the confines of ur room (waise ur room is also wired now, so kya faraq padta hai)'

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    3. Actually, to make it short and sweet, he could just take Khushi to the nearest Registrar office, get married there, all right and legal, and say we're legally married, and here is the certificate to prove it. People who don't believe in rasams do exactly that ... so do couples from different religions. Would have shut up even Dadi ... but then Khushi would not have been 100% happy ... so I guess it's as much for her sake as for society.

      So if VLR throws a spanner in the works, Arnav Khushi could still do that. I think they should do that anyway, to be on the safe side - they have to get the marriage registered if he wants to alter his will etc. now ...

      Hehe, I was thinking the same thing ... bitwa, who told you to do all the phera drama on the terrace ... sort it out in your room quietly, go to the temple and do the pheras like a good boy ... khatam hui baat. Nahin, he has to behave like a tantrum throwing spoilt brat because biwi won't agree to SR immediately ... ab bhugto! :)))

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  23. was I too naive to think the tree cctv camera was actually at the entrance tree to check on people coming in and out of RM???

    Poolside din't even cross my mind :S

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    1. arre Sama..woh toh ASR ke poolside ka tree tha naa??
      maybe it is because i dont expect any amount of decency from Creepwa!!he is capable of doing things like that!!

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  24. Ladies do you think sach mein shaadi? Or CVs will show all the rasams and sambhars, build up our hopes and boom on the D Day..real blast from past.
    I am dying to hear some theories from all you IPK goddesses, who have all the predicting powers in the world!
    My predictions are always Phiss as far as IPK gets.

    Sukhi

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    1. There WILL be a blast on the day of the shaadi ... that goes without saying. I'm just hoping the shaadi gets completed ... then another Arhi separation will happen while we wait for the next milestone ... the big C :)))

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  25. Felt sorry for ASR - uska ghar or usi ki nahi kuch chalti.......no wonder he was so cynical about people.......... But honestly, why cast aspersions at Khushi? Coming to your point of social sanction Dia,Dadi was very much a reflection of women being the creators of hell that other 'not-so-lucky' women find themselves in this predicament....what is the old saying? "People who live in glass houses shouldn't throw stones"?? What kind of a Dadi was she, running out on her grandkids at their time of need that she can turn her nose up at other people's lifestyles? Or is she as gullible and weak as Anjali?

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  26. *************SHYAM PART2 ! ****************************

    See, villainwa didn’t disappoint me.I expected him on 11th (!3 days calc) or 13th, but he came on 14th(ASR’s kurta collar 35 95 = 08.14) when I had almost given up hope.
    Guess who was dancing to daiya ho today! Some one in this part of the world has a plan at last!
    OK.. Done with the merry making since I can see chappals missiled at me.OUCH! Sorry!


    Today I can sincerely say that I feel with anyone who felt the epi was disconnected or rushed, I felt it too.
    Just yesterday, I said I dread a remarriage track, but I was willing to accept it. And they made it look- well, almost- sensible.(Can’t think of any other scenario that’d have led to this.)
    Plus I guess I am living on Shyamu’s promise that he will not let it happen.

    Jaya, since we had a discussion on this yesterday- on the old box.
    1. K carried the burden of the box today.
    2. ASR could not fathom why the hell she/ everyone else was doing it.
    3. He didn’t believe in the rituals, still he offered to help her by going along with it. (He even mentioned society today!)
    4. He tried to help by removing the wedge.
    5. Next in the sequence: Will she fall when Shyamwa plays his move?
    6. Rest of the sequence- if it happens, will play out much later.

    I am not gloating here prematurely, just trying to make an observation. I hope that symbolism makes more sense as the track unfolds.
    BTW, did U notice that new painting in ASR’s room? Got painted overnight!

    “autumn, season of the year between summer and winter during which temperatures gradually decrease. It is often called ‘fall’ in the United States because leaves fall from the trees at that time.

    Autumn can have many meanings in literature. It can be seen as maturity and wisdom. It can be seen as old age, but before sickness and death, the harvest of a lifetime of learning.
    It can also mean the coming of the cold, of sickness, of hunger and lean times.”

    There is symbolism here. Interpret it any way you want. For me the key words are fall(K fell yesterday!), lean times- because that is what I am expecting..

    (Actually the more common meanings seem to be- maturity and harvest!)


    Can I stretch that collar number one more time? Add it all to 22nd.Perhaps!
    BTW, Mishti’s spoiler said they will try to become one- here the whole week is going to be just that, I hope.
    Looking forward to all the excitement- JUST BECAUSE Anji is truly looking forward to it.
    Now it is going to be fun!
    Didn’t anyone feel like hugging her today?
    *sigh* She is going to be bashed nicely when daiya ho makes his creepwa appearance.

    Loved that last Arhi scene to bits!

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    1. OK after reading Shweta about Mishti spoiler, I retract that statement on 'someone' having plans. Grrr...
      Is it going to be another waste of time like kidnap track? or
      Will I get answers on the kidnap track?

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    2. Kidnap track is gone with the wind :) Total amnesia on that front.
      But there will be some dhamaka on the wedding day for sure ... till then, there might be a whole bunch of foiled plans and tai tai phiss ...

      I thought that autumn painting has been shown earlier ... I distinctly remember seeing it before in ArHi's room.

      When will Anjali go into labour? Will that stall the wedding? Given Arnav's determination, that's the only thing I can think of. Apart from VLR, of course. :)

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    3. "Kidnap track is gone with the wind :) Total amnesia on that front."

      Kitni baar samjhya hai Su ko .... hamesha worried ho jati hai iss baat ko lekar.

      Su Aap Bhi Na!!!

      Jhappi! :D

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    4. Su, that painting in the corner of his room has been there from the beginning. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0V_KURZxWtY



      and a blast from the past, because it gave me goosebumps..
      http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ye1UirKhfak

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    5. and with the box discussion.. su darling, i am hopeless with symbolism, but trying.. if the box was indeed khushi's burden of a non-traditional marriage, him attempting to help her/pulling out the wedge (getting the pheres done in the middle of the night) caused her to fall, and the burden went and hit the table, broke the glass, spilled the water.. as played out in the episode.

      but then, we can call every second move a symbolism.. and today i saw the manat ka chabi scene again. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nbZHqsIm3BU
      and you know what i see? khushi did indeed unknowingly pull this all on herself.

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  27. Why are they all so quick to punish Khushi. They don't even give her a chance to voice an explanation. Dadi really has it in for khushi, you can just tell by the gleeful expression on her face when everyone is having a piece of our poor girl.
    Arnav at last has stepped up to protect and make khushi's world right. He is marrying his wife again. And then the moment we have been waiting for for so long, and she says it in her own unique way. How could you not love this girl, he truly does.
    I only hope that they do manage to get married, I for one will be sooooo disappointed if the evil snake slithers in and puts a stop to it. Can't wait for the fun to begin.

    Lin

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    1. thats the side effects of being an SP Bahu (DIL) Lin.....she is the self-sacrificing, taking all the blames poor girl, who will never back-answer her elders....even if they are wrong and she is right :)

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  28. Wow!! The story is moving rapidly now. What I don't want to see - 1) another kidnapping track; 2) all the festivities with a big showdown on the BFTP and no marriage 3) Shyam somehow getting to Khushi and she in turn being the eternal sacrificial lamb and refusing to marry Arnav.
    'hum aapka intezaar karenge' - yikes - I don't like this line.

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  29. Another very unique thing about IPK is none other than DD thinks khushi was wrong. What happened was wrong not her.

    Nani-Di-Buaji were more upset that khushi allowed a marriage without rasams. Maybe the very reason that it never crossed their mind to ask her how they got married. They know how much she values them. yes one added dialogue would have been most welcome.

    To Nani-Di khushi is the only one who does not bow down to their chotes autocratic ways and a girl deeply rooted in religious and traditional norms. It was more of a hurt than disgust of live in. They know their chote is wrong. "haan chote hum sab jante hain par yeh galat hai chote" "Iss bar tumhe manna hi hoga ke tum galat ho" (though there can be other meanings to this, lets see) and Nanis agreement to it. Nanis "hume khushi bitiya se koi apatti nahi hai" and Dis silent agreement to it.

    Khushi kept quiet only after she was asked to ... she was ready to defend herself. She clearly din't like it when DD said she is not married.

    Arnav heard DD out only on Nani's insistence. If Nani din't side DD he wouldn't have given a damn.

    The only thing Arnav bowed down to was getting separated from khushi. That he cannot allow. He will do anything to have his khushi with him. They will do it together.

    Dia agree with your firing smiley with Arnav not declaring it was him who forced her for such a wedding but then he will also have to state "why" and "with what". More humiliation for khushi. More cracks in relationships.

    "Nani tells Buaji, we will come with shagun and bring back Khushi as our bahu after full reeti-rivaaj ... No mention about Arnav's wife ... even Nani doesn't dare to go there now ... otherwise Arnav might just drag them all to the temple then and there to do the all-important pheras!" ROFL ROFL .... True that!!

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    1. Sama, if he's not letting her say why she said yes, then he can also refuse to tell the reason why he forced her. Just say he had his reasons ... and he left her with no option but to agree. No one will question him any more ... Nani definitely won't, neither will Anjali ... Dadi will, and he can shut her up with 'it was my decision,' ... all Dadi will say is that it was a wrong decision, which she will say anyway!

      Chalo, let us see what happens ... according to the latest spoiler, the wedding will happen with all dhoom dhaam and rasam sambhar ;) Considering that Mahadev and BV in the same time slot both have weddings happening, and both are ahead in TRP's, hope SP is prepared to spend good money on the wedding.

      Besides they all know that when Arnav decides to force someone to agree with him, he can be very nasty. Maybe that's why Nani and Anjali, and even Mami, are not persisting with any questions ... only Dadi, who really doesn't know what sort of man he has grown into, is daring to question him at all.

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  30. I agree with sama... if arnav owns upto his his mistake... the one abt forcing khushi into a contract hate marriage, then there will be loads of qns... he already owned it up infront of khushi... and to some extent in front of nani too... more than that will only lead to more confrontations and mudslinging by dadi... i dnt want that!

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  31. A very Happy Independence Day to all :)

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    1. Happy Independence Day to all.

      Posting my most favorite piece of writing on this day ...

      Where the mind is without fear and the head is held high;
      Where knowledge is free;
      Where the world has not been broken up into fragments by narrow domestic walls;
      Where words come out from the depth of truth;
      Where tireless striving stretches its arms towards perfection;
      Where the clear stream of reason has not lost its way into the dreary desert sand of dead habit;
      Where the mind is led forward by thee into ever-widening thought and action,
      Into that heaven of freedom, my Father, let my country awake.

      Rabindranath Tagore

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    2. Happy Independence day to all..

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  32. where is everyone? waiting eagerly for today's episode.. because epi 319 seemed awfully like the middle of the story.. as in "INTERMISSION"

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  33. Dadi's "kya apke ghar mein Bin byahi bahu ka chalan hain kya"? didn't that sound very ominous?

    I was wondering who is she actually referring to?

    the point she made is explained by her next point but i found the point odd frm the Bahu angle...becos Khushi is actually their beti not bahu...but Garima is their bahu..

    ok....my imagination is running amok....hey along very harmless lines

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