Thursday, February 23, 2012

23/2 - Epi 194 ... Grihapravesh - check; carry over threshhold - check; SR ...?

23rd Feb Thurs

Day of frustration for Snakewa .. everything backfired on him today =))
Tried to make mischief with Anjali against ArHi ... she decided on making Khushi official Raizada bahu.
Mami caught on to his fury ... lucky for him she misinterpreted it.
And to add final insult to injury, he was designated to set up the bridal 'sej' for ArHi's Suhaag Raat. Snakewa, ab bhi sudhar jao ... samajh jao ... you're up against not only Saale Sahab, but also Devi Maiyya ... you don't have a chance!
And I really do wonder ... does Anjali know her husband better than we think? Those were some very strange expressions there ... 

Arnav bitwa, it's time you also had a few realizations of your own ... saying that you won't give her the position or respect of your wife is one thing, doing it is another. Not a peep out of Bitwa when Di made the decree official ... do all the rasams or else Khushi doesn't get the status ... glaring, fuming, staring ... but bitwa complied without a word ...
Saying you don't care about Khushi, that you hate her is one thing ... but then why do you jump up the moment she winces even slightly? Why does the sound of her bangles send your concentration haywire? 
And why did you want to stay in the room while wifey was getting ready? ;)
Carrying over the threshhold ... the walk ... need to write at length on this, so will edit tomorrow. Devi maiya in action again - her agent this time - Khushi's earring :)

Khushi looked like a dream dressed as a bride ... no wonder Arnav bitwa couldn't take his eyes off her!

We still need a full blown ArHi wedding with pheras, mantras and the works ...SR is not happening till then ... :'(

*edited*
Today was Devi Maiyya's day ... sending signals to the two dense men in her Khushi's life ... one - move IN, the other - move OUT!

So Anjali fiddling with her cupboard in very sombre mode - after all, Chotey is acting extra-stubborn, even for him, and won't confide in her ... and is holding the threat of moving out over her head. The last time she dealt with it by moving his girlfriend in ... but now wife is already in, and he's threatening to move both of them out ... which means she can't just throw Khushi out, Arnav will follow, he's made that very clear. So time to eat humble pie but do it in a way that makes him still realize the enormity of his deed ... somewhat. 
A furious Shyam adds to her dilemma ... his first slip - almost calling Arnav by name, then recovering quickly ... how can we accept this marriage like this?
I wondered at Anjali's expressions here - the way she closed her eyes briefly ... it could have been her acknowledging the truth of Shyam's words ... it could also have been her upset at Shyam's adamant stand at not accepting the marriage and what it actually meant ... cv's have actually opened this possibility ...
But she just agrees with her husband as a good dutiful wife, he adds more fuel to the fire, and Anjali makes her decision ... a family meeting ...
Abhaas was good here ... no facial twitching ;) ... fluctuating between his own frustrated anger and keeping up the face of a concerned husband... worth watching the scene to see his expressions of satisfaction as he imagines what is going to happen ... the annulment of the ArHi marriage by the family ... no remorse or concern for Khushi that she would be alone, homeless and completely helpless if that did happen ... this guy is sick!!! x(
Or maybe he didn't know of Arnav's threat to walk out with Khushi if that did happen ... yet ... you've got a shock coming to you, Slimeball Snakewa!

Family meeting ... Anjali assuming the role of spokesperson?/decision maker here ... Arnav is apprehensive, ready to fire ... Khushi descends slowly to where the rest are waiting ... her future, her life is at stake here ... Already thrown out, disowned by her own family, if she is disowned by the Raizadas, she has literally nowhere to go.
Loved the way Khushi silently comes to stand next to Arnav ... not sitting down with the rest of the family, because she is not a part of them yet ... she is still on trial ...
Anjali's first words ... You will not be accepted as a Raizada bahu ...
And Khushi looks at Anjali in shock ... devastated ...disbelieving ... her eyes filling with tears ... where will she go now, what will she do?
Payal is upset, Nani nods firmly, affirmatively ... even Mami is shocked at the decision ... NK gets to his feet, ready to protest ... aww, he's a sweetheart >:D< Arnav starts slow boil ... till he sees Shyam's smirk ... and he gets to his feet decisively ...
Fine, if that's your decision ...
We're not done yet, Chotey. Don't speak in the middle ... this is not your office ...
He has to keep quiet ... Khushi is distraught ...
Anjali approaches Khushi ...
You will not be accepted ... till you do the grihapravesh and fulfill all the rasams of a married couple ...
And Khushi looks at Anjali, in shock and disbelief ... as though scared to believe that this could be true ...
Arnav surprised ...
Shyam's smile wiped off his face like magic ...
Nani nods again firmly ...
NK's face splits into a broad grin ... that's more like it ... did I mention he's a sweetheart? :x
Payal breathes a sigh of relief, Mami still open-mouthed, Mama nods in agreement ...
(side note - I would have it was more important to make sure they were actually married, by doing the pheras again, but oh well ... this means that there is yet another ArHi marriage to come before the real SR ... ;) )

And Khushi looks at Arnav ... as though asking him what to do ... what does he want ... what should she do ... he looks back impassively ... his silence is her answer ...
Anjali gives her the shaadi ka joda ... much to Shyam's fury ...
And Khushi reaches to take it slowly, hesitantly, as though scared to believe again that this is actually happening, that she is being accepted, that she has a place, that she will belong, even if for a short while ... the wedding joda, the embodiment of every girl's dreams ... what she thought she had lost ... and has suddenly been given back again ... her shattered dreams slowly taking shape again ... And again a look at Arnav, tears in her eyes, still fearful of his reaction ... in case he says no to them all at the last minute ...  and he looks back with dawning surprise at her tearful acceptance, how much this means to her ... she wanted this?!

Back in Arnav's room ... no, their room now ... as Khushi sits on the bed with the shaadi ka joda, lost in thought ... her dreams with Payal about their Prince Charming ... Garima's words when she wasn't happy about her engagement ... don't worry, you will get all the happiness in the world after you get married ... as long as your life partner is good ...
Her words to Lavanya ... marriage is not just between two people, its a relationship respected by society ... and she just got that stamp of acceptance, of respect ... I'm sure that for everyone, there is someone just made for them ... is he that someone just meant for her? ... her own marriage, the abrupt proposal, the runaway wedding in the temple, sindoor, mangal sutra and done ... but it's been accepted ... she has been accepted ...

And Arnav enters the room to see her in tears, and he softens instantly ... seeing her distress, understanding it ... but of course, he hates her, he can't show it ... yet neither can he leave her alone ...
So laptop to the rescue ... back to her, as though he doesn't care at all ... and Khushi looks at him, her doubts, her questions rising again, he still hasn't explained to her the reason ... again she gets to her feet to face him, to ask him ...  

To be stopped by a knock on the door ... Anjali ...
(side note - wonder if this is the first time Anjali knocked on Chotey's door?) Anjali hands over jewelry and tells Khushi that they are both awaited downstairs ... only a single grim look at Chotey, which he doesn't quite face ... and Anjali leaves ...
So Anjali is still angry with Arnav, is ready to talk to Khushi but not to him ... accepting his guilt is greater than Khushi's ... Arnav feeling guilty about the distance that has crept in between him and Di ... but it's for her sake, so it has to be ... Khushi feeling guilty that because of her, the distance between brother and sister ...

And Khushi changed into wedding lehnga, starts to get ready, while Arnav sits in the same room, pretending desperately to concentrate on his work ... while every chink of her bangles shows how well he is managing ...;)
She looks at him through the mirror ... does he remember the first set of bangles he brought for her?
Her dreams again ... of getting ready for her wedding, clothes, jewelry, pomp and ceremony, laughter and gaiety ... and the reality ... getting ready alone, a silent brooding bridegroom beside her ...
The heavy necklace threatens to choke her ... she lets out a small whimper ... and he's on his feet instantly ... tuned to her every sound ... is she hurt, does she need help? And as she looks at him in surprise, he's furious with himself again ... why can't he ignore her, why can't he concentrate on anything except her? And strides out of the room in disgust ...

Waiting at the door of RM ... Payal brings the aarthi thaali and the kalash of rice ... Arnav and Shyam have a brief, fierce, silent face off ... and Arnav waits for his bride ... and can't look away ...
Sanaya looked like a dream :"> :"> :">
He only manages to look away when she looks at him, her questions still in her eyes ... and then back to her as though drawn by a magnet ...
Khushi gazes at Nani hopefully as she passes her, but Nani is still grim ... it will take a while for them all to forgive her ...
And Arnav still can't stop looking at her ...
Loved the exchange of looks as she comes to stand next to him, her face troubled, nervous, worried, questioning, seeking answers still ... his trying to stay impassive, yet unable to hide the softness in his eyes ... his bride ... his wife ... he has to force himself to look away ... much to Shyam's fury again ...

Anjali does the aarthi with a very morose look on her face, her tone equally morose ... lighten up, woman, they're doing what you wanted, aren't they? Payal is still distressed ... and ArHi can't stop stealing glances at each other ...
Grihapravesh ... check ... kalash of rice knocked over ... Akash and Payal relieved ... Shyam gnashing his teeth impotently ... Snakewa, let your dimaag ki batti light up - every time you try to separate these two, they come even closer together ...

Anjali lets loose the next rasam .. he has to carry her in ...
(side note ... of course he has to, hamari shiddat kab rang layegi?! =)) ...)

Shyam actually closes his eyes in sheer exasperated fury ... oh no!!! Not that as well!
Arnav is taken aback ... he has to do what?! In front of everyone? Of course he's already done it a few times, but heck, no one knows about those instances, not even Khushi herself !
Khushi is going all red pink with embarrassment ... sweetheart, don't worry, this isn't the first time, it's just the first time you'll be conscious, that's all ... :">

Rather liked Mami's one-liner ... Akash did the same thing, only you guys were busy in your own personal marriage, so you didn't see it!
Arnav tries to protest ... Nani has the last word ... do as you're told, Chotey.
So Chotey does ... with a grim look stuck on his face as though he really doesn't want to do this at all (although inside him, laddoo phooting ;) ) ... Khushi hesitantly steals up her hand to catch his collar, looking at him as though to ask permission, still searching his face as to the cause of this anger ... loved her expressions here, hesitant, tentative, nervous, searching ...
I would have preferred a less grim, angry expression on Arnav ... some more conflict at finding her in his arms ...
Shyam fuming all the way through ... that would have been a heck of a long walk for him ...
Mami adds salt to his wounds by reminding him of the fact that both the Gupta sisters are now Raizada bahus ... his secret keeping just got ten times more difficult, because trying to sweettalk Khushi under the watchful eyes of Arnav and the slightly blinder but constantly present ones of her sister is going to be tougher than ever!

Arnav puts Khushi down like a sack of potatoes, Devi Maiyya does NOT approve, so Khushi's earring gets stuck to his lapel ... he holds her hand to remove it brusquely, gets a bit sidetracked and ends up removing her hand ever so gently, and releasing her earring ... Devi Maiyya is happy now.

And the best for the last ... can't believe am saying this about a Shyam-Anjali scene =)) ... Anjali forces Shyam to help decorate the wedding bed for Arnav and Khushi. Devi maiyya ka divine retribution ...=)) =)) =))
And again wondered at Anjali's expressions ... does she know/guess about Shyam's infidelities? And she hands him the flower petals ... well done, Anjali!!! =D>



More side notes - Don't know whether the scenes were originally written without dialogues for Khushi, or they made them that way because Sanaya lost her voice ... either way, it didn't matter ... she said everything through her eyes, her expressions ... she didn't need a word ...
ArHi marriage means that we are going to get a lot of bedroom scenes ... now, now, minds out of the gutter, people ... scenes in the bedroom is all I meant ;) =))


Edit again ... adding links for the SBS SPA segments today ... there was lots of SaRun, looking all happy shappy and lovey dovey :"> ... for relief if the fighting on the show gets too much!

First the fighting - ArHi's first night SBS
Star Plus bahus in Red
TV actors turn Rockstars ... Balwant Kaur again???!!!
SPA promo shoot

I pasted all the links I found, I think they all have some SaRun glimpses :)



96 comments:

  1. I take back anything I ever said about Anjaliji :-)

    Scenes of the day:

    1. Undisputed: the best thing that happened: She handed the basket to Shyaam! ROFL...! oh wow...Snakewa is decorating Arnav and Khuhsi’s SUHAAG RAAT bed...Divine Irony. Perfect.

    2. Manodrama slyly telling Shyaam...’I know what’s in your heart bitwa’...Forget Arnav, forget Nani, forget Payash...if Khushi had Manorma Mami on her side she wouldn’t need anyone on her side for saaton janm as a Raizada bahu...

    3. NK jumped up outraged at the prospect that Khushiji wouldn't be accepted (Shabaash mere Black Knight...come hell or high water it going to take a lot more than eloping to make NK doubt Khushi’s good heart) Does he have to leave? I’m really going to miss him...Only one who really saw how through and through good Khushi is and in such a short span of time.

    4. Abbhi farak padta hai!! She barely let out a gasp of pain and within a micro-millisecond ASR jumped up...Superman himself would be proud of ASR’s reaction time to anything Khushi related...too bad he can’t go all sadda haq on her right now...:-p...It’s okay - Dimaag is touring French Riviera right now once its back he can take care of her as much as he wants to;-)

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    1. Gargs,

      You have stolen the words from my mouth. Am with you all the way :):)

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    2. HAA...I'm not kidding the moment Anjali handed shyaam the basket of rose petals I fell of the bean bag laughing...

      Snakewa has some instant karmic retribution man..he does anything and Devi maiyya gives him 10x back...He should take a hint and just stick with his Rani Sahiba.

      On a side note...he realizes his wife is pregnant right?...urm hate to state the obvious but add double standard hypocrite to his list of attempted murderer, master manipulator and psycho.

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    3. Gargi,

      I know, I was laughing so hard I had tears in my eyes at that scene. I was sitting on the floow so couldn;t fall anymore:)

      Shyam never learns from his mistakes - any plan he makes always blows back in his face. You would think he would have realized that all the poojas his wife does are resounding back on him...*ROFL*

      And wrt your note below - yep how cute is NK. I am gonna miss him. He is a true friend to Khushi.

      And yes, I said this yday and I say it again (agree with you) to Shyam it is now about one-upping Arnav, lusting after Khushi is just a means to do that.

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    4. Gargi,

      Anjali asking Shyam for SR preparation help - Jalay par salt n peppar chidakna at its best.

      You know the day Mami finds about Shyam, I am betting She will love Khushi more than Payal (apart from the obvious saas thingy) cos khushi suffered so much for Anjali.We all know Mami treats Anjali and Arnav as their own.

      NK was awesome. I have to say I am super impressed about Karan. He excels in serious scenes as well. I will try to check out his new show.

      Lol at French reviera, that scene made me go Hayeeeeeee..

      Oh and AGREE WITH YOU, it is becoming TOUGHER to prove you are NOT a robot

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    5. Yeah even I think once Mami finds out about everything Khushi did for her beloved Anjali she'll soften...unless she totally blames Khushi anyway(she's observant but not too bright...)

      And Khoon bhari taang will always be the girl who stole her Akash bitwa from Miss India but yep it'll be nice to see mami doing a 180 with Khushi.

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    6. Gargi, French Riviera ... lolzzz!!!

      I loved NK today ... will feel really sad to see hm leave.

      Even Payal bitiya showed signs of her dimaag returning from holiday ... did they all go on the Riviera tour together?

      Loved that quick jump when Khushi let out the tiniest whimper ... when she's in labour, what will this guy do?!

      Barun's expressions were off in the carrying scene, I felt ... too angry ... the body language was perfect as he starts to remove her hand roughly, and then gentles it suddenly ... but his expressions could have been less grim, more indecisive ...

      Mami's remark about 'personal marriage' was classic! :)

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    7. Lol...yep all of them are touring South of France together...only return tickets are for different dates;-)...Anjali will have the longest vacation (After all ASR will be paying)

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  2. 1) And Anjali redeems herself - handing the basket of roses to KJ (Ps. love the name!) - perfect scene so far..
    2)By god this KKG, Sorry - KASR is drop dead gorgeous - can not understand how Arnav could even look away and could stop his jaw from dropping to the floor (instead of an infinitesimal drop but had 'wow' in his eyes!)
    Poor girl is probably still unable to speak - so no verbal dialogues.
    3) Just one more thing though - who comes up with their set designs - Anjali - fake flowers, really! and horrid candles with mismatched holders - eeeuu!

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    1. She should have asked her KP (Kevin Peterson -Cricketer nahin Kamina Pati), Meray Bhai nay bhagkar shaadi ki hai, why are you so Overreacting?

      Mona, do you remember what was the decoration for Payash, assuming there was one, Nahin na, the CVs know we will be concentrating more on Arhi than on the decorations,lol.

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    2. Mona, I too noticed those horrible purple and green candle stands - yuck!!!

      KASR is drop dead stunning for sure ... makes the most beautiful bride ... no wonder Arnav bitwa couldn't tear his eyes away. What is he going to do on their SR that isn't? Pick a fight, I'm sure ... all those raging hormones need an outlet!!!

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  3. Yeah!! that is some progress Raizadas.. Claps!!

    I think Anjali has a lot to show in coming days..remember girls she still hasn't given Khushi the "Kangan" and also the altercation of Arnav and Anjali where he threatened Anjali to leave the house has made her to bow in front of Chotey for now! What plays in her mind is something that I really want to know and wish to see more in coming days.

    Wooohhoooooo!!! We are going to have so many many more Arshi scenes coming for next few weeks! My romantic antenna is in full swing now..aww..I love it..So much for wishes I hope everyone of your dreams to come true..If only I can ask for more is that scenes to be from both of them..Its Arnav who is showing that small things that happen to Khushi matter to him but what about Khushi! Her eyes show that she is with him in every problem..but the touches, the proximity with Arnav scares her..bring the Arnav's caring Khushi! may be slowly, i will grant writers that :-)

    And, i don't want NK to leave the show I mean he is one super sona munda of mine!! I know if he will be there at least we can see Khushi smile at least once every two days!

    jai Devi Maiyaa Ki!!

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    1. Anjali's character will be watch out for, will she go typical SP way or do the rishta nayi soch nayi way and kick her hubby out and embrace Khushi?

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  4. I couldn't take my eyes off NK whenever the camera shifted its focus to him and Nani. I kept wondering about how he would react and to be honest, I don't think I have loved him more than I did in today's epi. He was genuinely relieved for Khushi - it drew such a sharp contrast between his character and Shyam's. One cares for her to an extent where even though she is not married to him, he is more concerned for her while the other doesn't really care if she is hurt (remember how he was smirking when Anjali was saying that she won't be accepted?) except that he is obsessed with making her his.

    I loved the fact that Khushi's bangles caught Arnav's attention, his expressions were a treat to watch, specially the way he was torn between looking and ignoring. Btw, my wish just came true - by showing concern for her, he just reconfirmed that his feelings aren't just going to disappear in a flash not even when he believes the worst of her.

    I am bit confused with Payal. I feel she is torn between wanting to support her sister (she seems to look upset each time Khushi is insulted) and being the perfect daughter-in-law.

    Oh, on a side note, I am going to miss NK, I wish the creatives would bring him back some time in the future.

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    1. I absolutely agree about NK. That boy genuinely cares about her...Yes he had crush on her(Who wouldn't she's freaking gorgeous! side note: hate Sanaya for that non existent tiny waist)but the she married ASR and he's still there for her in whatever capacity, friend or brother-in-law. The difference is NK got to know Khushi...he likes her as a person, as a guy he had a crush on her, the crush goes away with the words 'bhabhiji' but he still likes her as a person. Whereas Khushi never opened up with Shyaam she maintained respectable distance and he kept coming after her (I blame bua for this...seriously woman 2 javaan ladkiyan ke saath you kept a kunwara PG). He really doesn't care about her...Yes he demonstrated that with his glee at her not being accepted (previously with her getting blame for necklace incident)...I think now its not only about lusting after and objectifying Khushi its just as much about beating ASR.

      I'm really going to miss NK...I'm telling you guys, La and NK would have made such an adorable couple and would have supported Khushi and been comic relief. Daayaam.

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    2. exactly Gargi! I was also thinking that La and NK would have been great together. I read somewhere a long time back (can't even remember now as I have been googling about the show so many times) that the CVs are planning to back La as a revenge track or something. I so hope that is not true as La's character had become really sweet.

      Deviating completely, since there were so many comparisons to HP, LOTR and so on, I couldn't help thinking that ASR is the Indian version of Mr.Darcy in most ways, both of them are extremely arrogant, care a lot about their sisters and have difficulty with their feelings for the heroine. Khushi is like Elizabeth as both of them have a feisty character and don't mind standing up to anyone for their sisters. *dream* in my opinion, I will take ASR any time over Mr.Darcy, he is so much hotter! *blush*

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    3. Hahaha...I love pride and prejudice (hated bride and prejudice)...but yeah..apt comparison...and of course Shyaam is our Wickham ...he got on alright with Elizabeth until his true colors about him and Georgina were revealed...

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    4. I hope NK takes the first step by calling her Bhabhi signalling what Arnav has been saying all along, she is a Raizada Bahu now, accept it and move on.

      I am sure NK will impart some gyaan to Arnav about Khushi and about Arnav to Khushi.

      Will miss him though.

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  5. Dia,
    Even i wondered about Anjali's strange expressions...it was not about staying upset and agreeing for a compromise..she looked forlorn around shyam but u know it cld be red herring; given her fragile mental makeup, she is not likely to have read anything unless it hits her like a road roller....
    After ur post on anjali's hold on Arnav, I felt the CVs are sitting on a gold mine on how to play out the future parts, the sister-brother dynamics vis-a-vis Khushi-arnav marriage. They can always consult the blog for ideas u know...

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    1. It is a Red Herring for now. I don't think the writers have decided how to take her characters, so they are giving us mixed signals so all these would be useful in FBs.

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    2. Yep agree..Red herring...Anjali's character is going to very grey in certain scenes I think so that we don't know which way she goes...

      Well whatever they decide for her, once they reveal Shyaam's murder attempts on her it going to be bye bye hubby - hello OB Gyn/Divorce Lawyer/ Therapist.

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    3. Yep, I also think so ... I got suspicious of Anjali - shouldn't she ask KP why he's SO hyper mad about her brother's runaway wedding? Arey even their own brother Akash isn't so annoyed ... but all she says is, yes, darling, I understand ... but please put those flowers anyway! :)))

      So I think the cv's have cleverly opened this crack in Anjali ... she could go either way ...

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  6. PS> i read someone's post somewhere saying that the official cupid for Arshi was ACTUALLY KJ - every time he tries to come close to Khushi, she lands up with ASR -
    KJ tring to get KKG a job => KKG end up working for ASR,
    KJ & KKG's so called engagement, ASR did that with the bandage,
    KJ hugging Khushi => ASR marring her,
    KJ trying to bharkao Anjali => him having to do the sage!!! :D

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  7. Dia, Yep DM in action. Ab kya hoga tera Snakewa? and Arnavji DM has always been working overtime with you. on side note as i said the earlier post i want DM back with khushi..

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    1. Payal will give it back to her in tonite's epi. They will drag the epi with Shyam fuming and twitching, Payash scene and hopefully some nice rasams the knot ones and the ring one which Payash themselves did not have. Hope they keep it fun, tabhi they can end the epi with Arnav entering and Khushi looking at him.

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  8. Shukran Allah - Nazron se nazrein mili toh jaant si mehki fizaayein

    Anji has started asking her hubby to help her - tht day at Payash wedding and today

    Toh kya if shyamu did not do kanyaadaan he had to decorate the SR bed of ArHi - Karma dude karma *EVIL GRIN*

    I knew creepwa will intigatewa our pooja ki thaali but as usual uska plan total failwa. His act almost slipped when he called bitwa arnav and then covered up with saale saheb.

    Mami almost gave crep a heart attack by saying I know what is in your heart!

    I felt Arnav had that grr look in the precap for Shyam and yep he did

    NK - MUAH for u today - 1 for feeling sad / shocked when Di said Khushi will not be accepted as bahu and 2 for the sincere smile and happiness for Khushi when she added but only after you complete all the rasams

    I hoped arnav will say ok di if u do not accept we will walk and yep he did or st least started to

    We all wished that after Anji's dialogue Khushi looks at Arnav and yep they both looked at each other. And what was that look in arnav's eyes - was he asking "khushi tum theek ho?" / feeling embarassed that she now has to do this for his family tho he only gave her the symbols of marriage. I felt she looked at him as tho asking "are you ok with me doing this?"

    How awkward were they they when he walked into their room. Arnav for a second was like oops! is this my room? :P

    Khushi's FBs about her prince charming and a Happy Married Life - has she begun to accept in her heart that she will remain true to this relationship accord marriage the respect it has as a relationship in her eyes?

    Arnav saw her tears and he felt oh so lost. couldn't meet khushi's eyes. Her tears affect him - still

    With his dimaag on its long overdue vacation, Arnav forgot that by marrying her and making her his wife she will stay not only in his house but in his room - Aaah bitten off more than you can chew mere sher?

    Khushi gets ready in THEIR room. Bitwa is soo distracted. Her bangle noise unsettles him and when she goes ouch - bitwa is up in a flash - and then unable to bear emotional atyaachaar huffs away. And how aware was khushi that arnav is in the same room as she decks up.

    Bitwa is lost when he sees his bride and how awkward did they feel thru the whole carry the bride rasam - for once anji we r all proud of u :P

    Khushi was so lost in him when he lifted her and she oh so slowly and hesitantly put her hand up to his collar. Arnav looks at her hand on him and did he feel "oh this seem so right". Bitwa walked into the house with head held high and feeling oh so proud with bitiya in his arms. and all of us went shiddat boy shiddat :)

    aww and her earring got stuck in his suit and arnav moves her hand (DHAK DHAK ALERT) and eased the earring out. But how flustered was he all the while she tried to unentangle herself.

    Dia I had earlier raised the point on whether they do saat pheras or only griha pravesh. Well saat pheras have been saved for when they get married wholeheartedly. Guess DM has her limits given we are all sanskaari bhaaratiya naaris

    Today our tigress almost ripped into her mate but he was saved in the nick of time by his maatey. tomorrow no such hope for you arnav

    SR Bed last scene freeze - luckily its not weekend yet *evil CVs*

    After a week of drama, dhamaka and context setting, today's episode seemed to have accelerated to the finish - yeh dil maange more!!

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    1. If Khushi was happy that she will get some amount of respect from this relationship, can I say so was Arnav atleast my family is ensuring she gets it.

      With regards to Khushi, Bitwa would love to lick, bite chew and...well you get the idea...but cannot so it is back to Feeling hot hot and doing not not.

      I LOVVVVVVVVED that she was sitting on his bed, there was no hesitancy or awkwardness there from her part and Arnav accepted it to and I am sure he must have been wishing like if things were different he would have sat right beside her*Adding to the wishlist*

      SR BED Freeze will happen - TRP Baba ka sawal hai?

      Yes looks like Khushi will get her grand marriage when they both confess and accept each other.

      MY QUESTION PLZ ANSWER:

      Minus the Pheras are they married or not? Is sindoor and Mangalsutra enough to be termed married or The Pheras absolutely necessary?

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    2. They are not legally married yet ... I was reading some replies on Tanthya's post, that in South Indians the mangal sutra is the defining moment, so some people felt they are married ...

      But in North Indian shaadis, the pheras are more important, just mangal sutra and sindoor alone is not enough ...
      Also - this is from some research I did earlier ... the Hindu wedding is basically a social contract, it is solemnised in front of witnesses ... if you need to prove you are married, especially if you go abroad or something, then you have to have a marriage certificate, which will be given by the Marriage Registrar when he sees proof of this marriage - i.e photographs and witnesses who attended the marriage. The witnesses actually have to go the Registrar's office and sign an affadavit that they attended the marriage.

      In India, most marriages are still not registered, the religious ceremony is enough ... but it has to be in front of witnesses so that there can be proof that the shaadi actually happened.
      So legally they are still not married ... the family has accepted them, so for the world they are married, but from both legal and moral standpoints, they are not yet married.

      So that SR is not happening for some time :))) We HAVE TO get a full blown ArHi wedding for sure ... which won't happen for another year a least, considering how long this one lasted!!!

      HAA ... your choice of song very apt ... nazarein se nazarein mili, to jannat se mehki fizayein *dream*

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  9. Spoliers
    pics - is there gonna be a reception? Payash look decked up.
    Todays tagline said "kya khushi naaraaz payal ko mana paayegi? (yep i have begum watching sgp too)
    Looking to see what more spoiler pics are put up
    IF confirmed spoiler said there will be a passionate / romantic scene either today or tomorrow between ArHi (is that why no precap?)

    And Shwetha went from WT WT WT to OMG OMG OMG :D:D:D

    Sanaya ki awaaz udi hai toh kya - these leads dont need to talk to make us all go aww. For them "Ankhon se toone yeh kya keh diya, dil yeh deewanaa dhadakne lagaa"

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    1. Hahahaha...love both your song references...

      It was just too cute how awkward they were around each other...my face was hurting from smiling while she was getting ready. Bitwa has definitely bitten off more than he can handle;-)Bechaara...She was looking stunning. And you're right...these two could bring back the era of silent movies and we'd still watch...She so scared and hesitant and he's outwardly so gruff and inside - Kya hua usse...theek hai wo? No! I don't care!...oh but you do... koi baat nahin bitwa...at least KJ is doing full taiyari for your SR...that might cheer you up..

      Also the part where he drops her and then shoves her hand away when she stumbles and tries to regain her balance. Its like DM says...you did not just do that...theek wait...Ten seconds later he's holding same hand and helping her free her hand...very smug and efficient DM smiling...

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    2. Gargi

      Smug and efficient DM - ROFL

      But bitwa being as thick skulled as he is and his heavy head of hair distorting signals plus his dimaag on leave, DM has decided to pull out all stops. After all she needs him to eventually say 'Yes Boss' ;)

      The episode caught me off guard it was so cute after all the heavy drama. And I am like oh so this scene has happened, oh yeh bhi, arre wah this one too and then jab sab ho gaya I was like what? over!! and kal kya hoga - Dayum need to prowl net again tomorrow...

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    3. Devi Maiyya will unite the two sisters. But Payal changed her saree so is the after morning or now that she is a Raizada, frequent saree changes are happening?

      and agree with both of you, so much was conveyed without a single word exchanged between the two of them. Sheer class!

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  10. Anji was very strong today. no tears, no melting. Why did she decide to announce the parampara thingie like she was the head of the house? (promo shows nani). today in the hall, anji spoke and everyone listened; usually asr speaks and all listen. is her need to get khushi offical bahu status tied to something her dad did; something that caused her mother to end her life?

    I loved that when khushi walked into the room, she stopped next to arnav. liked it that Arnav cast a sideways glance to his wife when Anji says khushiji is also here good.

    When khushi receives the shaadi ka joda from anji, she has tears in her eyes and looks at arnav saying see - marriage is so much more than a MS and sindoor. And he looks at her - puzzled / trying to decipher what is going through her mind / realizing her happiness at getting recognition for a bond which means so much to her and which she has entered into in a shotgun manner? Will he start faintly wondering if marriage is so important, how she may not callously ask another to break his / her marriage

    anji came to the room and spoke to khushi telling her that everyone was waiting for both of them. will khushi help build broken bridges b/w the 2?

    when anji leads khushi to arnav, she makes ArHi stand together and she herself stand b/w them and shyam. an indication of things to come?

    Loved how when she is walking out, it is nani (a mother figure) that khushi seeks out.

    While waiting for his bride, was that a smirk on bitwa's face telling his jija - na na na na na

    And I think when he raises his eyes and sees khushi in her bridal avatar, for the first time, arnav realizes, this is MY bride, she is mine.

    Akash looks so happy to see Khushi do the grihapravesh and be accepted as the bahu in the family

    Love the looks they exchange when Anji tells him to carry her almost as if each says to the other "I know this is awkward for you but we need to do it, ok?"

    Can I again say how I loved khushi putting up her hand to hold arnav's collar and his eyes fluttering about till then in embarrasment look down and note her hold on him

    And Arnav for the first time in the history of IPKKND carries Khushi when she is awke. She was passed out the last 2 times (GH and Teej).

    Did you notice Arnav's nostrils flaring and his jaw tightening once he set her down, realized her had for on his midriff and then that her earrings got stuck - i am sure hormones raging in *ahem ahem* body parts.Bitwa kaisan control karoge - make sure u tap all the tears your family sheds for long cold showers for you

    Khushi needs to ask anji how she got the bandages

    SHIDDAT ALERT - Wish Arnav gets her stars to hang on the ceiling in her room

    It is going to be a very loong weekend I just know it

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    1. I liked Anajali today...honestly I don't mind her being a bit of a controlling nanand if the damn waterworks stop...Daljeet must be so relieved...they must have had a private glycerin stock just for her.

      I loved the part where she is terrified to hold his collar and he looks down to see her hand clutching his collar so loosely.

      I'm so with you...its going to be a very long weekend...

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    2. HAA - He will probably put the Asian paints night sky pattern glow paint that glows in the night.

      You noted it too, Anjali became the protector of Arhi by coming between them and Shyam. So my hopes of Anjali kicking her KP out just brightened a lot.

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    3. No no they have to use dulux paints:-p

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    4. Dulux paints it has to be :)

      As for Anjali, I think we will need to wait and watch. Cvs need to be keeping their options open. But yes if she comes betweeen KP and ArHi, uske saare waterworks maaf

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    5. good catch both of you forgot about dulux:)

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  11. *warning gloat alert* - On the grand occasion of us getting another century tonite AND after a century of getting predictions/wishlist wrong, It feels so good to get a good one come true (slap wishlist does not count), So I am going to repeat my OMG OMG* Try not to hate me for this, lol*

    Epi:

    Shyam - It is not going to be your day or night is it from now on?

    First Morning biwi throws a googly asks him to gather all the members for a meeting, creepwa gets excited ki Saalay Sahab kay bouncer par Chouka marengay only to be clean bowled by the googly.

    Next at Evening/Night - Biwi throws a bouncer help me with Saalay sahab's SR preparation and creepwa kay chakkay choot gayay.

    (Abhi toh shuruaat hai, Shyam ji Aagay aagay dekhiyay hota hai kya, forget Saalay saahib, yahan par aapki Lust Story ki main villain toh aapki raani saahiba hai.)

    Arnav: Okay I have this doubt, did he speak up only cos he saw Snake smirking or he was going to do it anyway? wish His Di had let him finish the sentence.

    Khushi: I am loving how tactfully they are not giving her dialogues till she recovers.

    I loved the constant glances she kept giving to Arnav what to do, guide me here.

    Shaadi ka joda (have to say Pretty Sexy by the conservative Raizada standards and Anjali just happened to have one spare, WOWWWWWWWW...looks like she too doesn't trust Shyam much)

    The scene with Khushi thinking about her wedding, what she had dreamed and how it happened was really so sad to see.

    Mami's random dialogue to Shyam - Why was it needed?

    Mami's Taunt to Arnav & Khushi - Much needed, spurred bitwa into action mode and lifted his biwi smugly, thinking ha as if you guys think this is our first time.

    SR Waiting - Okay I actually LOLed when Anjali said after Grihapravesh you have to wait chotay, looks like she guessed, Bitwa grihapravesh karkay had no intention of stopping, would have taken HER straight to THEIR Room (Hayeeeeeeee THEIR Room, sounds so dreamy right)

    SR Waiting Part 2 - Okayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy, What did the Raizadas think Arnav and Khushi did last night? DUHHHHHHHHHH

    Did they really think they would have actually waited for the formality or family approval if Arnav and Khushi indeed had eloped and had a love marriage like they claimed? WT????????

    *Gloat alert*

    OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG -

    Please tell me it happened and That I did not dream it.
    Please tell me when I wrote it and you read it.

    Bitwa working on computer, Khushi getting ready, Bitwa getting distracted and shutting the Laptop and storming off...

    WOHOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO...

    *Gloat ends and off to think about more Shiddats*

    Okay cherry on sugar free cake -

    The necklace thingy - She was practically trying to strangle herself with the necklace and his concern (Say it with me Hayeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee).

    I did feel bad for her though when she was putting that necklace and thinking how she would get all dressed up etc..

    I also loved Bitwa enters, sees her sitting on THEIR Bed, has a wish I could join you guilty look and pretends to work.

    Biwi needs to change, so what let her change, I won't look I will pretend to work and steal glances now and then and act as if I am completely upset and disturbed by her bangles, her presence.

    (All the while kicking himself, if things were different he would have flirted with her, teased her, Openly Niharofied her and made her go blushy blushy.

    Right now Bitiya is all Glarey Glarey - Look You Idiot What have you done, Why did you do it, grrr....)

    Bitwa just cudn't take his eyes off her (Aur karo bina sochay samjhay shaadi, Bitwa let us see on your SR biwi toh naseeb nahin hogi, Bed atleast naseeb hota hai ki nahin*wink*)

    Earring thingy, wished they had shown the FB...Didn't do much for me cos My first reaction...

    Ye le lo, back to square 1...Kahan kiss tak pahunchay they yeh donon waapas Earring par aakar atak gayay hain...

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    1. Hayyeeee ... can't stop laughing and 'awww'ing at your post!!!

      I liked Abhas in the first scene with Anjali - no facial twitching there. After that the twitches returned in full force :p But ooohhhh, so good to see him gnashing his teeth today and Arnav's smirks ... Bitwa, smirk kar le jitna karna hai yahan ... bedroom mein jayega to saari smirks will be wiped off your face ... especially if 'fully official' biwi's voice has come back! What if jijaji sees you sleeping on the floor - don't put it past that tigress biwi of yours!

      Loved the way Khushi is sitting on his bed so comfortably, as though it's the most natural thing in the world for her to do ...

      Ok, Shweths, get going with your shiddats, they obviously work big time :)))

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  12. Hayeeee..;-)

    @ thinking ha as if you guys think this is our first time....ROFL

    No one actually knows the extent of their history...Nani and Anjali barely know the tip of the iceberg...they don't even know that she's the reason La and Arnav's engagement got called off. They're both total chuppa rustams... bechaara parivar is shocked at their sudden nuptials...but we the audience are like ...vaise bhi itna kuch ho gaya hai or sari rasam tho ho chuki sirf shaadi baki thi.

    Mami's comment to Shyaam was unnecessary, in the sense that it didn't have a plot purpose like when NK asked him who are you looking at during mehndi function. But nevertheless it was funny, and showed how observant mami is...I really like her mooh phat comments. Though I wonder if she'll have the himmat to call Khushi phati saadi in front of ASR...hmmm

    And what's with Abhaas's acting...only one expression throughout the episode. That weird facial twitch. Makes Shyaam look like he has a muscle twitch in his face!! please for heaven's sake use your eyes. you don't have to scrunch up your whole face and squint.

    SR waiting....Shwetha bitwa spent the whole night burning fuel. So gharwale know SR is on hold. After all SP...sanskari log hain hum:-p

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    1. Gargi, I am now getting irritated at the Twitch too. Abhaas does well with dialogues but with silent expressions it is hit or a miss.

      EXACTLY - Oh if only they knew. Atleast Nani and Anjali knew they liked each other. Guptas including Payal had no clue so therefore double the shock. Hayeeeeen, Yeh kab hua? Kaisay hua/Kyon hua?

      And Arhi jointly singing: Jab hua Tab hua, Chodo Jaaney bhi do, zyaada na socho or drama karo.

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  13. Gargi and Shwetha.....i think the twitch is from the directors side......even barun does this different movement of his lips (sort of predatory style) but he does it well and i like it on him......but abhaas is not able to do it justice

    wow...34 comments already.....gr8 going gals :)

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    1. I actually noticed the twtitch on Barun only yesterday,lol.

      Actually aaj bahut kam hai comments, itna sannata kyon hai behnon..I would have expected us to reach by 75 by now.

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    2. Everyone's gearing up for the weekend...

      Friday to do list:
      1. get done with work
      2. rush to tv set at 8p.m.(even if I have to watch it at Das electronics...lol)
      3. Log on to R&R
      4. ...
      Huh...Monday already? okay... get up and resume activities..:-p

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  14. Edited main post ... :))) Now to read all the comments!

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  15. Congratulations Dia for your 200th blog. You beat IPKKND by few days.

    Is it just me or you also felt:

    The so called nafart from ASR is losing its steam way ahead of time? Him getting confused at her tears, distraction(That too BIG TIME... DUDE, you never thought through this now, did ya???), all indicate that right? Seriously "pyaar sabase bada hota hai..nafrat se bhi"..otherwise how will La's words ever come true? During earlier episodes we have seen his anger and that DID continue for long time. Bitwa lost only when she fainted or cried...

    Khushi is also losing her anger earlier than expected? Her looking at his face wanting for his acceptance etc indicate that right? We have seen her being mad and making sure that Bitwa knows it.

    Bottom line, sub consciously both of them SO WANTED this (May be they both were inspired by Shwetha and has their own Shiddat list?). Ek Room, ek bed (NO COUCH, I am with Shwetha..), Bitwa is so gonna suffer....jawan hai...and harmones uske control mein thodi na hain??? This so called upcoming passionate scene...could be one of those Diwali kiss type scene where both get distracted? For sure we know there has been infatuation from both side.

    Loved the episode and silent acting from Khushi....SR...another confrontation coming up....hope this confrontation gets some answers for Khushi...nahi to how will she try to solve her problem...first she should know the problem...

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    1. Deepa,

      1 ROOM 1 EMPTY BED...story of their SR.

      She is sleeping by the pool, he is sleeping on the couch.

      Looks like the bed will remain empty for a pretty long time by the looks of things.

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    2. Deepa, you spoke too soon ... SBS/SBB show that Bitwa's dimaag ka leave got extended, so he throws Khushi out of room ... idiot, give her the recliner at least ...

      No, sorry, no can do, because Bitwa then promptly gets pangs of guilt and can't use the bed himself either ... so he uses the recliner himself ... *head desk*

      Anyone feel like giving these two hot headed idiots a whack on the head?! *rofl* ... read my lips, guys ... pieces of furniture and their function -
      BED - for sleeping, and *ahem ahem* ...
      RECLINER - for lounging ... you can use it to make out on at odd moments also ...
      POOLSIDE - for hot passionate fights and confrontations, also for those rare staring at stars together moments ...
      DO NOT CONFUSE THEM!!!

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    3. Yep!! glad they show it this way...it'll be realistic and makes sense with where the characters are...Now that we know SR situation I hope they show it all today only no delays...

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    4. Me and my comment....Devi Mayya decided to take exact U turn on that...I am gonna send my dimag for French Reveria tour seriously....

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    5. Dia, that is why he is not sleeping on the bed, he will sleep on it when khushi is there with him.

      *head desk* with you too and I know Aranv is a businessman but does he have to use the stock accounting FIFO - First in First out here too?

      1st day he was in the room first - he went out and wasted fuel.

      2nd day she was in the room first - she got thrown out and spent the night out.

      All in all that bed has not been slept on 2 straight days.

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  16. Hey Deepa.......did u see the sbs segment......he throws her out of the room......she will sleep by the pool side, i guess......on the floor.......

    :(

    this is gonna get more painful to watch

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    1. OUCH !! That hurts ...... good good - Greater howls coming up for ASR !

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    2. OMG..really??..Sunane mein it sounds really painful and watching will be 100 times painful then.

      Ok..with romantic antenna on..me thinking..when she finally sleeps off at poolside...Arnav comes out due to his concerns...and niharofy her and all...

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    3. I am sooooooooo going to stay out of the forum and stay here on this blog. Dont want to get in arnav vs khushi war again.

      Abbey yaar donon dhakkan hai that is why we love them so much.

      It is Nainital all over again, oh btw, he says outside we will be happy married couple.

      Now let us see what is his definition of a happy married couple on the outside is...See I have my priorities right and so should you, lol.

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    4. Oh ho what is this Arnav vs. Khushi...they are on the same side baba...IF people are getting confused kya?...Shyaam is the villain...or well is trying to be the villain..right now he's honeymoon suite decorator but he's the real IPKKND villain lets not get confused between the leads and the villain...lol

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    5. Yep, IF will be a war zone again ... why can't people get it straight, who the real villain is?!

      Vaise am sure tonight I will be badmouthing Arnav too ;) Arey bhai, chivalry naam ki bhi cheez hoti ha ... YOU go sleep out in the cold!

      Nainital again ... hope they show his remorse again too ... well, Khushi seems to be back to spitting fire, so he might not get a chance ... boy, this guy didn't know what he was getting into when he told her to marry him!

      And yes, he needs to TRY to act more happy married couple in front of the family, especially Snakewa ... tabhi to fayda of this runaway marriage!

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    6. Nainital again......hmm......that thought gave me some hope....although, i have already started praying for 17th march to come soon.....the spoiler that NK leaving is gonna bring some good news makes me hopeful.....

      Glad that she didn't take the blanket thrown at her......just like the parking lot-rain scene, when she didn't accept his jacket......you go girl.....better shiver in the cold then accept his bheek......

      some people are still droolin on IF that atleast he got her in, in the morning, he cares so much......blah blah......i guess even i will have to stop my IF visits for some weeks......

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    7. But he doesn't care right now! and he's not supposed to! He only cares in those involuntary moments where its a knee jerk reaction and he can't help it...otherwise he's expending serious time and effort on trying to hate her...and this is ASR at his best. No chivalry for the girl who tried to break up his Di's marriage and definitely no mercy for the girl who stomped all over his heart.

      people if we want 500 episodes of Arhi we're going to let the love-hate relationship continue...!! don't fight it ...embrace it;-)...it enables us to have so much fun on Dia's blog...and I cannot go on IF...:-s

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    8. @Gargi.......no mercy for the girl who stomped all over his heart....that is eatin him up more.........yeah we want 500 episodes....and yeah all lovey dovey will become boring, so we have to embrace it d way it is now....bring it on cv's....we are ready, just give is a heads-up on the sbs segments, so it wont hit as hard.....and yeah..a lovely SaRun interview, once in a while, will earn you brownie points


      Okay....wish list.......Whenever the truth is out to Khushi (the truth from ASR's pov ) i want her to ask him just one question that when ASR knew that Shyam has been lying to them all along about loving Anjali......when he told ASR that Khushi loves him, Didn't ASR even for once think that maybe he is lying again....


      Just this one question Khushi....and let ASR do that maths on his own.....and then tell him that since he didn't bother to ask her, she wouldn't want to give any explanation to him....just serve the six months of prison term and leave.....

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    9. Gargi: Honeymoon suite decorator, rofl.

      Dia: Array even I am mad at Arnav ki what is the use of holding out the door and chair if you are going to kick her out of the room.

      But I understand that he right now thinks the worst of her, so he is going nuts with anger. And when khushi gets fever he will be up all night tending to her.

      The problem is if you say this IF chances are ppl will read either the first one or the second para and fight.

      I love them both, get mad at them both. Dont want to belong to any camp whatsoever. TEAM ARHI All the way!!!

      Geetu: Don't you know ASR's math is weak?

      She wanted 1 silver coin, he brought her 2.

      She wanted the balance 3k for hospital bills he paid the entire 30k.

      She wanted 15 pattas, he brought 15000.

      Toh Maths ki ummeed ASR say chod do!!!!!*lol*

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    10. Yeah Shwetha i forgot all those scenes.......right......no use hoping anything from him....better show him that 2 + 2 = 4 and not 8

      people go crazy on IF.....remember that one segment where Sanaya was teasing Barun's eating habit....and people took offence....i mean hello, arent they friends and friends are supposed to tease each other...sanaya herself do a lot of self-teasing......barun also teases sanaya so much, she never seemed offended, so why are we bothered.......lets just enjoy their interview and the special bond they have.......

      I am also hurt at Arnav throwing Khushi out and throwing the blanket on her......once the truth is out, she should give him a cold shoulder atleast for sometime......but then i want ArHi to be together always........but not before the separation track....so that he doesnt take her for granted next time

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    11. before that let him spend a night at the poolside and ya sooooooooooo rooting for silent treatment. Separation for 1 day in arhi land which can be a week but not more than that.

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  17. as much as i love watching ArHi ...... Anjali handing over flower basket to Shyam made my day ...... LOVED IT !
    whole week's slow drag forgiven :)

    I want ASR to lose control grab Khushi and when he is about to kiss her BOOM !! Flashback "tum meri patni ho sirf duniya ke liye"

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  18. Dia...loved your post ...was grinning like a moron...hahaha...laddoo phooting..

    But I kind of am glad his expression was grim during the walk. I don't want them to lose their fight and anger so soon. In IPKKND land its still just the next day after Arnav discovered Khushi's betrayal. I'd like to believe that while he can't switch off his feelings for Khushi, he's disgusted with her and at himself for not being able to just switch off his emotions. The grihapravesh and rasams...I think he's doing it for his Nani and Di's sake and to one up KJ and remind KJ that Khushi is his Wife. None of it is actually for her. Only the involuntary reactions of concern are genuine. Right now he's not doing anything with Khushi in mind in fact he's trying real hard to surpress his feelings...of course Di handing biwi sexy shaadi ka joda isn't helping bitwa in that endeavor;-)

    Deepa don't worry Khushi is not losing her anger...she's softening only towards the family because she really feels that her and Arnav's actions were wrong and she really cares about Raizada parivar who have treated her as one of their own since day 1. Arnav has told her categorically this isn't a real marriage so when HIS family wants to solemnize it with their rasams its Arnav's call so she looks to him for his decision. Even in this episode she was all raring to fight with him but Di came and saved bitwa's neck.

    I think they will show more hostility, confrontation and cold indifference before either of them find out any more part of the truth...

    SR...well lets wait for the weekend comments..today's going to be Khushi sitting on the bed...pan to Arnav...involuntary swallow...mental chastising...pan to Khushi look up at ASR's entry...nervous, hesitant expression and freeze frame...and some totally stupid unrelated Payash recap.

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  19. LADIES,

    I think there will be some action today - now now mind out of gutter pls. SR spoilers out on SBS and SBB

    Shwetha's shiddats are powerful - keep coming true in parts; he carries her yet again (in anger so DM is deffo going to go on ho bitwa, retake) hehehe

    Looks interesting and I am soo hoping Sanaya's voice is back.

    http://www.dailymotion.com/video/xp0plp_suhaagraat-ka-anokha-nazara_shortfilms#

    http://www.dailymotion.com/video/xp0qn2_arnav-ko-aaya-gussa_shortfilms#

    http://www.dailymotion.com/video/xp0q78_hot-news_school#

    In the last one towards the end there is some ArHi scene

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    1. Ya, he is carrying her around with a vengeance. Did you see him ripping off the decorations?

      You know why?

      Cos they were awful.

      Bitwa was furious ki on his SR he is ripping the decorations rather than something else on someone. 8 mahinay ka ripping practice gaya waste.

      tch tch tch....

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    2. Oh yay!! hope they show all this today only!...Liked what the sbs segment show..!:-)

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  20. Ooh and bitwa has a new tee-shirt - dhinchak orange some more - heheh wifey's colour choices rubbing off on him is it?

    And I think in one scene bitwa almost says "Where did I think about having to share a room with you post marriage; agar socha hota tih"..confirming what we have been saying all along. Arnav this decision was all heart and like ur Di said in an epi eons ago Dil se liye faisle kabhi galat nahi hote (in matters of love and marriage)

    Was anyone reminded of the Nainital morning after scene after the spoilers. Oh and ArHi and back to playing Sliding Doors - recall that scene which Arnav remembers when he thought he had lost Khushi following the accident

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    1. HAA - Yaar khud to change kar liya, biwi ko bhool gaya, WHEN WILL HE TAKE HER OUT FOR SHOPPING?

      Or atleast go out and shop for her alone?

      And I think Anjali is handing her a new dresse..

      WT WT WT WT, Khushi ko daily 1 installment @1 month may dresses milega kya roz?

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    2. Yeah seriously...daily installment of clothes...if only her mum had let her pack when she was trying to..:-p

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    3. Where did Anjali hand her a new dress? I missed that.
      Khushi ka wardrobe will change automatically, I guess ... Bitwa is not taking her shopping in a hurry. Maybe Anjali will do the needful.

      Bitwa is too busy gritting his teeth and trying to adjust to big blooper he made in those wedding conditions ... inside this room, we are not man and wife ... meri akal ghaas charne gayi thi kya ki I said that?! Yes, bitwa, ghaas hi to charne gayi thi ... international world tour vali ghaas that too ... varna it might be back by now!

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    4. Well Dia, anjali is still sulking and handing her something so I am guessing it is a new dress. And did he say that ghaas charnay gayi, will watch the video again

      And I still havent rewatched today's epi nor have I read your post, will do it now.

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  21. Oops and I forgot - there is a SBS segment on ArHi dancing for the SPA Awards promo song - ODG and ODG in red...

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  22. Oh god its going to be painful watching Arhi today. In the SBS seg cracked me up.. oh not because of KASR getting thrown out, more because the way that segment was shot espl barun running around to play cricket once the shot is ok'ed. The best one was the BG song played Shayam “ kya se kya oh gaya tere pyar mai “ shot where Anajli brings KHushi into the room..
    But I am aren’t much surprised with Arnav ‘s reaction, may be i expected it or i was more sure that the character ASR would react the same. Just wonder what song would they give for BG here? I liked all the songs going well there.
    Dia remember we discussing the predictability of character, till now the characters haven't deviated. That’s something feels so go about this show.
    From what i can see from both SBB and SBS seg Khushi still isn’t abla nari. And thank god for that. She is still giving back to him. Sure she would have lashed on him and hence the poolside. Maybe if she kept quite he would have allowed her the couch lol. So we can accept more of old scenes, I want a Almost Kiss scene again ‘ this one is more like the Nainital one

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  23. I think the morning after and some Arnav-KJ confrontation will clear the sleeping arrangments soon...after all it can't be poolside everyday..na..KJ will provoke and naturally bitwa will rise to the bait...arhi coming closer...willy-nilly!!
    so the real conflict of arnav will be shown once Khushi is in the "arena"; he can only get away until she is outside this *ahem* space; Swetha, feeling hot hot and doing not not..time for real action and shiddat winds to be channelised in the "right" direction..

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    1. Rekha: I want to realize how foolish it will be for Arnav to daily run in the morning and fetch her...like really.

      So he will say you sleep in the bed and I will sleep in the couch and vice versa.

      The one who will sleep on the bed will have a stiff back and neck till sense prevails and both sleep on the same bed.

      By that time hopefully the MU should have cleared somewhat and Time for Action...Keep your mind in the gutter, I am exactly hinting that only *wink*

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    2. Yep, agree ... they have to clear the sleeping arrangements soon ... can't be poolside every night ... I hope Khushi fires back and says, last night I slept out, now your turn ...
      Or else Bitwa realizes that every morning if Di comes to call for puja, then he will get backache lugging sleeping biwi in, might as well do thoda adjust ...

      Aaru, yep ... they haven't deviated the characters so far ... ASR is still now back, fighting Arnav ... and Khushi is still spitfire ... TG for that.

      The SBS has LOADS of SaRun today - they showed the shooting of the SPA song, plus all the jodis are singing their own songs, I think, or maybe their own parts of the song ... SaRun were definitely lipsynching to some romantic moments ...
      Bulk of the segment was on the new shows - IPK, DABH, EHM ... Gopi Ahem and Pratigya got very little space - at least that's what I felt ... what do you think?

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    3. Dia I think Star News has waken up to Arhi magic finally. Their teri meri segment has nearly 6 lakh views on last count. Which is why if you see they are almost featuring them daily.

      And our show is pitted against BV which is a tough one unlike other shows in all the numbers where they are clearly the winners in that time slot.

      Imagine with BV if our show was top 3 on trp and 2nd Tam, then if BV was not there, our show would easily be the no.1 show and I suspect for that reason the channel has woken up to its potential. Even with the lousy treatment it got and it straying from its storyline, it never went out of top 10. So touchwood, the good ratings continue and the quality is maintained.

      And every actor gets his/her due cos they deserve it especially sarun.

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    4. Ooooooooooooh I so want Shyam to taunt him on that(ya I can be a bit evil when it comes to fictional characters ONLY, mind you).

      I know You guys didn't do a damn something. You can't fool me.

      Oh crap, Arnav will then think she has done it with Shyam *ewwwwwwwwww*

      Dia and Gang:

      What say GH confrontation round 3, YOU IDIOT HOW COULD YOU EVEN THINK LIKE THAT I HAVE ANY FEELINGS FOR SHYAM.

      Because I love you dammit and I lost my mind thinking you were with Shyam.

      It has to be heat of the moment confession for both of them.

      Okay I want her to fight him and then dump him for an episode atleast.

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  24. Shwetha..sorry misspelt ur name...in the last post..
    Agreed agreed..absolutely...mind in the gutter was getting anxious thats all!!*wink*
    I have great faith in your shiddat powers and the collective efforts of this blog!!

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  25. OMG OMG OMG ROFL ROFL New promo spoiler

    http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=2802005

    Both are blackmailing each other

    rofl rofl rofl

    @rekha: Arrey no probs ya*hugs*

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    1. wow, just wow......this girl is something else........she will not rest till the truth is out.....

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    2. Gopi vahu she is NOT ... *rofl*

      Shwetha, not only has our show beaten BV, BV was on top spot for ever and ever ... and no other show could challenge its position as slot leader. And the thing is, it climbed the charts slowly and steadily, means the viewers have been reeled in by the developing storyline ... and the acting, of course ... not just by one track - like Navya started, climbed rapidly, fell out quickly , EHMMB the same - it climbed quickly, then fell again ...

      DABH and IPK have been consistent ... they started slowly, kept developing their plots step by step and have climbed the charts slowly and steadily ... IPK actually got sidetracked by that brilliant interpretation by someone among the 'powers-that-be' that comedy would work better than intense, but fortunately TRP's didn't support that at all, so they went back to main story ... and now there seems to be no looking back ... touch wood.

      I don't follow DABH, but apart from the lead actress, the acting is decent, and the basic story is actually attractive ... I saw the last bit of one episode where Sandhya gives a lecture on how the girl child in India should be welcomed, and how India's sex ratio is falling ... it's a show with a message delivered through saas-bahu antics ... so am not very surprised it's doing well.

      What STILL puzzles me is SNS *rofl*

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    3. @Dia

      If I am not mistaken this week SNS fell below IPK. And if you look at the SPA shoot videos, onscreen ArHi or offscreen SaRun, none of the other copuples hold a candle to our jodi yaar. kitne cute hain. And the best part is they seem so chilled out with each other. I always feel barun is the coy one of the 2 :)

      And yes DABH within the bounds of story and saas bahu saga is quite decent. They are a pretty sweet couple. Definitely better than SNS IMO

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    4. Yep, double cause for celebration ... IPK actually beat SNS too! And oh yes, I felt the same way ... none of the other couples hold a candle to ArHi, both onscreen and offscreen! Though Suraj-Sandhya are not bad - the guy is sweet.

      Have a feeling ArHi will get best jodi ... SP is definitely promoting them - SaRun announced the SPA in the SBS today ... let's see if the other couples get a chance to do that in the next few days.

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  26. Kya baat hai!! Kya baat hai...

    Abala nari...my foot...you go girl...and you go boy too!!

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  27. Arre i was just making a post on that and then realized u've already given breaking news. This will be fun, All out war b/w ODB and ODG

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  28. OMG ROFL ROFL

    Suite decoratoe

    international ghaas

    I am soo cracking up - been real busy all day today and just caught up on all the posts. someone said silence on the blog - well thats cos we are all in ArHi dreamland since last night's episode ;) IF is seriously crazy. People are fed up of reminding each otehr that it is team ArHi all the way and at time you will be mad at one or teh other. Both too logical we would not be watching this show with so much passion.

    I am soo excited about the new promo spolier. Will be total pataaka and givens KASR a chance to get back into her tigress avatar

    Wondered why that spoiler pic on FB of an empty decorated bed - well today's sbs / sbb solved it. SBS is still being careful on what they show. SBB is the one scooping / giving spoilers all week

    And I like that they have not softened to each other so soon - would have been out of character. When he slammed that door and told her aaj se meri jagah yahaan and tumhaari wahaan, I recalled the bandagement scene when he said I do not want to see or talk to you from tomorrow. And I did a mental victory dance ki bitwa now that will definitely not happen, from tomorrow she will definitely be in your room BWAAHAHAHAHA

    I think Arnav got all worked up cos he saw Shyam come out of the room or he saw Khushi on the recliner and not the SR bed when he came in. And what was that stupid dialogue about "Jahaan rehna chahti wahaan nahi reh sakti aur yahaan mere saath bhi nahi" Khushi you are a smart girl (remember even La said that) , come on now and start connecting some dots.

    I do not want Arnav to take Khushi shopping next week. It will be good if he calls someone (ofc Aman;))and gets dresses delivered home. There will be a sudden influx of packages at home and Khushi will ask "aap yeh sab hamaare liye laye, kyun?"

    If that promo spoiler is true then 1) Khushi wants to earn back respect at RM and 2) she wants Arnav to be rejoined with his family as she cannot see him in pain (when she is not angry with him for doing what he did)

    @Dia
    He did not say ghaas charne gayi, but in SBB, I thot i heard him say ki tumhaare saath ek hi kamre main, agar soch hota (what have we all been telling you ODB)

    @Shwetha,
    bitwa is carrying ODG with a venegeance cos DM sais Shwetha typed it out a gazillion times, you can at least carry her twice this week. After all you are a hot blooded young man :P

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    1. HAA< I know he didn't say ghaas charne gayi thi ... that was my interpretation of his thoughts ;-) Bitwa must be kicking himself!

      Actually, he's still in anger mode, and have a feeling Snakewa is going to add more fuel to fire to make Bitwa flare up again and push Khushi out of the room tonight ... unless she does it all by herself by pestering him with questions again ... yeh ladki bhi toh nahin sudharti!

      Yep, he will not take Khushi shopping, he will get Invisible Aman to deliver packets of clothes for Khushi ...

      I've noticed SBS gives out mostly things planned for the same day or one more day at max ... have a feeling this is controlled by the channel/ph ... but I don't understand why the temple wedding scenes really looked like they had been taken through khufiya camera.

      Oh well, humko kya ... as long as we keep getting ArHi onscreen and SaRun offscreen ... :)))

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  29. HAA - HI FI Soul sister! I was actually thinking of the same scenario, after Anajli gives the package bitwa has a menthos moment, oh oh she needs more clothes and Khushi enters the room and it is full of packages good one. You put that in the Shiddat list.

    Dia _ Finally caught up with your post and am watching the epi again side by side.

    Apart from the comments too good ya, lol.

    I loved the anjali part. Yes, I think it is the first time she knocked and the first time she did not speak to Arnav or he to her.

    Khushi is maha confused as she should be.

    Bitwa drags her and gets married to her does not say why.

    It is not love only anger she can sense in him.

    Yet he is fighting with his Di for her for them.

    And then when she gets hurt almost rushes to help when just few hours ago had no problem hurting her.

    And yes the carrying scene did not work for me too, I dunno if it is the stubble or the haircut rather the lack of it, Arnav appeared a lot more stern than he was meant to be. But loved his expressions uptil the point the struggling to keep his eyes away from her and the awkwardness momentary when he has to carry her.

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  30. More pics on FB from yday's episode

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  31. Barun got a haircut...;-)

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  32. I know right...But the haircut was kabhi long kabhi short. My hubby looked at me strangely when I screamed Oh he got a haircut, wow!!!

    Okay peeps, help:

    New tagline says Will Arnav help khushi with Muh Dikhai?

    What is Muh Dikhai and what role does a hubby have to play?

    Aaaaaaaaaaaan Did you guys notice the Naughty smile Anjali gave Khushi when she looked at her in the morning...Too sweet.

    Rest bakbak tomorrow

    ANS: Ofcourse he is going to help her...duhhhhhh

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    1. Gargi / Shwetha,

      Yippee - I did not dream that then..my live player kiled itself in that crucial scene :( waiting to see repeat telecast.

      @ Shwets,
      muh dikhaai is a ceremony where in the bride sits with ghoonghat and all the family members lift her ghoonghat and give her a gift - made sense in the days of yore when brides wore long ghoonghats. This was the first time the women relatives got to see the chaand si dulhan.

      @Dia
      Yeps i saw all the SPA segments today - so mich of aww SaRun and ArHi looking so cute and hot in red.

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