Wednesday 5th Sept
Like the way Khushi quietly takes over the duties of the lady of the house ... where is Payal, btw? The simple gesture of instructing HP to remove the paalna (what happened to the will stuck under it? Gone with the wind?!) as Arnav looks on ... calling her home to give the update (why didn't she do the same about Shyam's ouster?) ... and all the time, trying to give Arnav the strength to carry on ... give him the courage, the confidence ...
While Dadi tries to undermine again ... he was wrong, she was right ... both 14 years ago, and today ...
Glad that Arnav recovered his shatir dimaag to ask her how when exactly she had met Shyam, how she was so sure that Shyam was right, glad he pointed out that she was relying on hearsay, as she accused him of doing ... the difference being Dadi was relying on hearsay of one person, while Arnav was not only relying on the trust on one person, but also on the supporting evidence of many others ... Glad that he actually asked her to leave ... Glad to see Mami and Nani silently supporting Arnav, and making it clear that they did believe Arnav was right in what he had done, by inference, that Khushi was true in her story ...
Forwarded the Shyali scene ... Anjali a puppet in the hands of a master manipulator ... he cleverly plants the idea into her head about refusing to eat and take medicines ... now Arnav will be helpless ... Anjali, how about you go off with your loving husband to his house if you are so madly in love with him and can't stay without him ... why are you still sitting in your brother's house if you think your husband is so perfect?
Was not really surprised that Khushi thought about giving Shyam one more chance ... *head desk* exasperated though that she thought he might reform, would have been far happier if she had said, let him meet Di once, we know him, we will keep an eye on him ... and spike his guns by agreeing to let him meet Di ...
Because this way, Arnav is coming across as very arrogant and rigid in his refusal to let Anjali meet Shyam even once ... after all, Shyam is the father of her baby, and she doesn't know Shyam is also the killer of her baby ... by allowing that meeting, they will spike his guns, get rid of his brave martyr attitude and put themselves in the right ... let them allow Shyam to visit Anjali three times a day at mealtimes to feed her and give her medicine ... in the sitting room in the presence of the entire family ... bas!!! And if she wants more, she can go off to her husband's house once she is well.
Because at the end of the day, however much Arnav may love Anjali and hate Shyam, Anjali is an adult, and a married woman at that ... she cannot be kept away from her husband if she wants to be with him, however much of a kameena he is. And although Anjali is a child at heart (and in her itty-bitty teaspoon of grey matter), and Arnav wants to protect her from all harm, sometimes when children are stubborn and wilful, one needs to let them get hurt to learn from experience what is harmful for them and what is not. Let her go off with him, let Arnav stop her money ... in fact, Arnav should make that a condition for Shyam ... make a house for Anjali in the next three months, and make enough money to keep her happy and comfortable, without any help from me, and your wife is all yours. Then Anjali and Dadi will see how quickly Shyam drops her ... like a hot potato!
Anyway, am very glad that finally Anjali voiced her thoughts ... she wants Shyam back. Leaving Arnav thunderstruck ... and the rest of the family ...
What I did like about the ArHi scene ... they had an argument, they had opposite viewpoints, head vs heart ... and they resolved their differences without a fight, and without Arnav going off for a midnight drive in his SUV :) In fact, that is what I have enjoyed the most about the Arhi bonding this week ... the way they have come together to be almost one entity ... two bodies, one soul, incomplete without the other ... how Arnav from a point where he could not confide his feelings to anyone, now speaks out without any reserve whatsoever, without even thinking, in front of Khushi. In fact he needs her so much ... the moment they are alone, he voices his feelings ... feelings that he always kept bottled up inside him ... now he lays them bare in front of her.
And also loved how Khushi has insensibly taken over Anjali's position as lady of the house and the person closest to Arnav. Arnav might say he is closest to Di, Di is the most important person for him, but that's only because he doesn't think of Khushi as a separate entity any more. Khushi is Arnav, Arnav is Khushi ... what is important to him is equally important to her, and vice versa. And love the way Khushi is completely Mrs ASR ... everyone has completely accepted her right to be with him all the time ... in fact they all seem to have forgotten that there is a wedding and pheras pending :))
Byt everyone, I exclude Dadi of course ... she made it very clear that Shyam has indeed poisoned her against Khushi ... the 'musibat' to have hit the house ... clever Shyam, no words of censure against Arnav, only against the outsider girl who trapped him in her web and now has trapped Arnav.
And now that Arhi bond is so strong, it's almost time for the next dhamaka to hit ... because a love story that is so smooth sailing is no story ... :))
Like the way Khushi quietly takes over the duties of the lady of the house ... where is Payal, btw? The simple gesture of instructing HP to remove the paalna (what happened to the will stuck under it? Gone with the wind?!) as Arnav looks on ... calling her home to give the update (why didn't she do the same about Shyam's ouster?) ... and all the time, trying to give Arnav the strength to carry on ... give him the courage, the confidence ...
While Dadi tries to undermine again ... he was wrong, she was right ... both 14 years ago, and today ...
Glad that Arnav recovered his shatir dimaag to ask her how when exactly she had met Shyam, how she was so sure that Shyam was right, glad he pointed out that she was relying on hearsay, as she accused him of doing ... the difference being Dadi was relying on hearsay of one person, while Arnav was not only relying on the trust on one person, but also on the supporting evidence of many others ... Glad that he actually asked her to leave ... Glad to see Mami and Nani silently supporting Arnav, and making it clear that they did believe Arnav was right in what he had done, by inference, that Khushi was true in her story ...
Forwarded the Shyali scene ... Anjali a puppet in the hands of a master manipulator ... he cleverly plants the idea into her head about refusing to eat and take medicines ... now Arnav will be helpless ... Anjali, how about you go off with your loving husband to his house if you are so madly in love with him and can't stay without him ... why are you still sitting in your brother's house if you think your husband is so perfect?
Was not really surprised that Khushi thought about giving Shyam one more chance ... *head desk* exasperated though that she thought he might reform, would have been far happier if she had said, let him meet Di once, we know him, we will keep an eye on him ... and spike his guns by agreeing to let him meet Di ...
Because this way, Arnav is coming across as very arrogant and rigid in his refusal to let Anjali meet Shyam even once ... after all, Shyam is the father of her baby, and she doesn't know Shyam is also the killer of her baby ... by allowing that meeting, they will spike his guns, get rid of his brave martyr attitude and put themselves in the right ... let them allow Shyam to visit Anjali three times a day at mealtimes to feed her and give her medicine ... in the sitting room in the presence of the entire family ... bas!!! And if she wants more, she can go off to her husband's house once she is well.
Because at the end of the day, however much Arnav may love Anjali and hate Shyam, Anjali is an adult, and a married woman at that ... she cannot be kept away from her husband if she wants to be with him, however much of a kameena he is. And although Anjali is a child at heart (and in her itty-bitty teaspoon of grey matter), and Arnav wants to protect her from all harm, sometimes when children are stubborn and wilful, one needs to let them get hurt to learn from experience what is harmful for them and what is not. Let her go off with him, let Arnav stop her money ... in fact, Arnav should make that a condition for Shyam ... make a house for Anjali in the next three months, and make enough money to keep her happy and comfortable, without any help from me, and your wife is all yours. Then Anjali and Dadi will see how quickly Shyam drops her ... like a hot potato!
Anyway, am very glad that finally Anjali voiced her thoughts ... she wants Shyam back. Leaving Arnav thunderstruck ... and the rest of the family ...
What I did like about the ArHi scene ... they had an argument, they had opposite viewpoints, head vs heart ... and they resolved their differences without a fight, and without Arnav going off for a midnight drive in his SUV :) In fact, that is what I have enjoyed the most about the Arhi bonding this week ... the way they have come together to be almost one entity ... two bodies, one soul, incomplete without the other ... how Arnav from a point where he could not confide his feelings to anyone, now speaks out without any reserve whatsoever, without even thinking, in front of Khushi. In fact he needs her so much ... the moment they are alone, he voices his feelings ... feelings that he always kept bottled up inside him ... now he lays them bare in front of her.
And also loved how Khushi has insensibly taken over Anjali's position as lady of the house and the person closest to Arnav. Arnav might say he is closest to Di, Di is the most important person for him, but that's only because he doesn't think of Khushi as a separate entity any more. Khushi is Arnav, Arnav is Khushi ... what is important to him is equally important to her, and vice versa. And love the way Khushi is completely Mrs ASR ... everyone has completely accepted her right to be with him all the time ... in fact they all seem to have forgotten that there is a wedding and pheras pending :))
Byt everyone, I exclude Dadi of course ... she made it very clear that Shyam has indeed poisoned her against Khushi ... the 'musibat' to have hit the house ... clever Shyam, no words of censure against Arnav, only against the outsider girl who trapped him in her web and now has trapped Arnav.
And now that Arhi bond is so strong, it's almost time for the next dhamaka to hit ... because a love story that is so smooth sailing is no story ... :))
I absolutely loved the Arnav dadi face off... Finally seemed like his Dimaag - all parts had returned from world tour...
ReplyDeleteAnd of course then khushi's Dimaag goes on leave- fool!! She's the one person who knows the complete extent of his psychosis and yet she wants to give him another chance? Really now?... Hmm I wondering if the attempted murders thing will ever be revealed ...
Loved nani and mami's expressions in the background...
Also the way Shyam Manipulated Anjali was rey nicely done...Good dialogues perfect amount of pushing her towards the decision hersel and yet holding back...
The way things are going the only way there will be any vindication will be for Anjali to be the one to either shoot him or put him behind bars... Once they come to know wht he did to shashi, hi attempts to kill Anjali and his hand behind her miscarriage. That's the only vindication for this show and these characters at the end it has to be Anjali who takes action. Gets rid of Shyam and ensures that Arnav and Khushi are together for good... Inevitably making Daljeet and Abhaas co-leads in the full sense.
At last my ASR's dimaag is returning and my chulbul pandey's goes for a toss.. can't the CV keep the two using their dimaag at same time???
Deletebut at least can hope that TF entry is not because of Khushi... ??
but i liked that she did touch that topic.. that so much like her ever forgiving and giving a second chance .. here will it the thrid or the fourth chance .. made her stance clear that she thought about it only so that Di can get better...
best was she didn't push him accepected that if ASR is against it , even for his Di at this state he has to be correct... thank you CV's for mercy here for not making ASR blocking her with is attitude of I am right or getting off at her....
Ok with bitwa increasing the security will he ever come to know the CCTV which has been installed??
And for Shyam that guy knowns his pawns pretty well and how to push to get what he wants...
Now will ASR accept shyam entering for his Di or will he walk out ? will shadi happen or there is seperation due to Garima - DD past ???
and hope they keep that also in similar pace like DD-arnav face off regarding her return and shyam..
Aaru...i am not clear...if Khuhsi's attempt was going to be half-baked, why make it at all....what tokenism were they indicating....so the move of the Cvs is not clear to me....why did they show this in the first place? to show to the audience that when Arnav brings back Shyam for Di, to show that don't worry i am not offended by it...is it to save Arnav, the lover's blushes....STUPID STUPID...is this a love story at all?
DeleteGargi, Ditto to everything. *PHEW* What a relief, better late than never, I loved the way he said you met him once and you saw love in his eyes. And the way Dadi looked at Khushi and said she is the cause of all the trouble, No wonder he has never elaborated much with Dadi. He knows fully well, the moment he does, she will blame everything on Khushi as he sus pects she already does.
DeleteAaru: When he said from tomorrow he will increase the security I had my *head desk* moment, why tomorrow, why not just now, uggggggggh........No use, Shyam would have entry maarofied by then:(
Rekhs: Two things as lead heroine she is supposed to have dumb ideas but since this is Khushi and IPK , she immediately agreed to what he said, without protesting much.
I do wish he had since, after all he did to you, to me, to us, you want me to give a chance?
Also remember how she used to argue everything she did not agree with, this time she let him have the final say...growth in character I would say.
Shweths....ur takes always have this calming effect on me...
DeleteBut seriously ASR ke vaat laga rahen hain....uska haridwar brain sirf shifts/batches mein kaam karta hain..
Khushi...her token defence i now understand....when Shyam loiters in RM, Arnav will fume, and Khushi will say....teekh hain..yeh sab apke di ke liye hain...(DI-MY foot...DM,aisi nanad kisobhi mat dena, Khushi must start praying soon)
Rekhs: Dekh either he cleared all his papers in installments or is still paying the harvard tuition fee in installments, isliye Harvard is releasing his brain in installments.
DeleteAnd anyhow today it came back cos School aka college starts in September right, so for the past 3 months it was on a summer break.
Samjhi ki samjhaoon?*duck*
Ab toh instalments wala brain bhi chalega kuch kaam kare toh mane...
DeleteTu samjhayegi toh main samjhuning na?
Rekhs,
DeleteI am super angry with the writer for making khushi to give safaai for shyam, but then if i go for her character , I was sure she would have argued for shyam's entry.. and that would have been end of this show for me.... they did redeem there by making her accept his decision.... so i will think ... she did try for from the Di point of view rather than her good nature which was also the reason to get the topic and she clarified saying that she didn't want arnav tomorrow of not giving it try and repent...
I can see where she is coming from .. she did see ASR 's rage, his Di hysteria, DD giving him hard time with past, telling him that he is wrong in past and also today... and then they knowing that DD return was due to shyam and DD accusing her as the reason for all bad things and for proof..
In all this when she did see Di who is the reason for all above to blame Arnav or he himself blaming incase Shyam really is heartbroken...
she never said that they have to get him back.. she said that he might be heartbroken with the miscarriage and we should give a chance to repent.. (I hope I understood correct, that is what she meant)
But then ASr reminds her of the character shyam that he is ---she agrees because few mins back she had told him he will know what is right and will do it on his own.. so she backs off from going further...
Rekhs, that samjhay ki samjhaoon was Arjun line....Everytime i watch that show I end upr cursing 4 lions, itnay paisay hain arjun kay liye, cant they spend it on our show, grr
DeleteOHHH i didn't know that...these guys are doing some other shows as well.....that ganpati wielding guy....is it? i don't watch serials at all....galti se IPK se vaasta pad gaya...maybe DM ki ichha thi ki i should do bak bak with u all lovely people on R&R....tho i miss my special bak bak with Sandy....
DeleteI did not watch even Indian Idol this time becos i found singers totally boring...gave it up after the initial selection stage and saw some odd epis fleetingly,i thot this Vipul guy and other devender guy as above average....just read that the Vipul was the winner....
Looks like they are treading where I feared they would. With Anj begging from Shyam's return and Khushi willing to overlook Shyam's deeds in the hope that he has changed, we may get Arnav allow Shyam to return. How easy to manipulate these women. Su, this is what I feared. A peethal ka barthan moment would have been far better than this.
ReplyDeleteThe heights would be for Arnav to go ahead with the wedding (a small affair or large doesn't matter)and allow Shyam to live under the same roof as Khushi. If they show this, to me they would be repeating the blunder they did in their last show. Belittling sexual harassment of a family member in this manner is no joke.
ReplyDeleteHow can Khushi speak the nonsense she did?
ReplyDeleteI am fuming....her OTT was nirvana in comparison...how can u tolerate what he did apparently becos he has turned over a new leaf.
The writer of the character has forgotten Khushi helps people to look forward...she compromises when it comes to self not for others.....I did not like the half-baked scene between Khuhsi and Arnav....If i were in Arnav's situation, i would have exploded not calmly explained...where is the passion of the lover Arnav? Writer please go back and see Khushi Arnav scenes of old epis...that are loaded on YT...yes there is new understanding between Arnav_khushi but the scene on support Shyam abhiyan could have been completely avoided.....did nothing for the ARHI story...
Khushi was in her SKD, Rekha, where she thinks people are good at heart and galti ho jaati hai....
DeleteGeetu...sorry this is no SKD....this was the pathway to spare Arnav the embarrassment of having her and the man under one roof....
DeleteRekhs:
DeleteDoes DB realize she is being majorly fooled?
She wanted screen space, she wanted bro-sis bond and look what she has got:
Screen space resulting in everyone getting irritated when she comes on screen.
Bro-sis relationship - Yup, we see how her character seems to be so self centered and hence people are furious with her.
Prominence - Oh yeah, Anjali is now more hated than Shyam.
Badhaai ho Badhaai.
Rekha, its better to think it as SKD...itni takleef nahi hoti.. :)
DeleteShwetha : meri dil ki baat chhin li aapne :) Anjali got major influenced by Abhaas...
Rekhs, Geetu: She was being Khushi, that is all giving another chance.
DeleteNow although it seemes kinda half baked scene, see what it achieved:
Khushi has tried her bit, so tomorrow if Dadi screams you are not bringing Shyam because of her, Arnav will tell her, Khushi wanted me to bring Shyam back, I refused.
The audience is clear that Arnav is not going to bring Shyam back on his own. He has even overruled Khushi in this matter.
Khushi has wisely chosen to abide by his decision (ATLEAST looks like ) recognizing that it is his sister, his house and he is doing it to protect Di and somewhere her also.
Loved the Raizada family's look when they ended up siding with Arnav saying, you are wrong about Shyam.
Arnav can never refuse Khushi or Di. He just refused Khushi.
In this instance he will not be refuse Anjali, neither he will be willing to leave Anjali alone with Shyam.
So he will agree and keep a hawk-eye on Shyam.
I am sooooo looking forward to Jeeeeeejaaaji now.
Geetu: Credit to Barun, Sanaya, Abhaas, Akshay, Deepali, none of them created an issue when their character was being bashed or sidelined as the case may be.
DeleteAbhaas was and is very clear he is the negative guy. Barun was very clear, ASR has grey shades. Even if Sanaya was frustrated with her character with the OTT etc, she always used to laugh it off, same case with Akshay and Payal.
And speaking of Payal, where did Payal go missing today?
DB completely miscalculated that is all. Hopefully she has learnt her lesson.
Shwetha : ditto, infact Sanaya herself used to say that Khushi is so irritating, she wonders how ASR hasnt killed her yet.......Barun was so sweet initially when he used to say please dont hate me, m not that bad....Abhaas is the best, even after the miscarriage episode, he tweeted saying, 'running away, gn'
DeleteArnav, bitwa, finally u said the right things to Dadi.....my heart skipped a beat when nani stepped in between, but u dint let the chance go....u told her that evilwa tried to kill you, ofcourse she dint believe you thats another story....
ReplyDeleteso Creepwa has put the whole blame on Khushi, thats why Dadi hates her so much, then why did she mistook her for the servant on her first visit.....
anyways....Nani truly believes Arnav and Khushi, she was so stern in reply against Dadi...keep it up champion....
Anjali, digging our grave, are we ? lage raho bitiya....
Bitwa just ask ur sayani Di, is it ok for her to accept a person who tried to kill you....what am i thinking, i know u wont say that...best solution....give off a huge sum from your property to ur sayani Di, and let her off with her creepwa hubby..... jab paise khatam honge, aur creep chodkar chala jayega tab akal thikane aayegi.....
Khushi bitiya abhi bhi apni SKD me hai, she thinks everyone is good at heart... i think she has problem seeing evil in people just like Anji..... Creepwa ne itna kuch kiya, usse maarne ka attempt kiya...chalo woh she can forgive, but he tried to kill Arnav, not only her, even NK was a witness to that...toh aise insaan ko doosra chance...... are you out of your mind.....chalo atleast they redeemed her a bit by saying that she doesnt want ASR to be unfair towards Di, and Di to blame him for the rest of her life.....
Geetu: On her mistaking khushi as servant, I am sure Shyam wouldn't have shown her khushi's pic warna Dadi hopefully would have asked him, why do you have your BIL's wife's pic with you?
DeleteI am trying to defend Khushi here, half heartedly. I mean how can she trust a guy who almost killed Arnav, had no qualms about leaving her by the roadside all tied just so she could die,
*HEAD DESK*
Do you guys feel suddenly Khushi has been reduced to a supporting character or is it that they are giving her a bit of break till the blast from the past happens?
I agree Shwetha, on all the points....they have reduced her to a sidey...just Arnav's love interest....
Deletealso the pic thing makes sense....but how did he mention Khushi, as Arnav's wife ? cause even Arnav's marriage was a shocker for Dadi...
but i loved everything that Arnav asked Dadi...atlast his dimaag is on its way back.....
NO...shweths....its not about reducing her to a supporting character...woh nahin hua hain....but Gul has to get the love story back on track...thats gone for a toss irrespective of the ARHI understanding track.....thats becos Arnav's appreciation of Khushi the lover/partner is always derailed by the Poojali antics...
DeleteUnless Arnav gets some idea of how underhand his Di has been, it will be a lost cause....I can accept Arnav struggling to bring semblance in his life doing the balancing act....but it can't forever be Khushi sacrificing and Di demanding....i hope he gets some perspective of how diffi his Di has been too....apart from all the mollycoddling everyone in RM has been responsible for
it can't forever be Khushi sacrificing and Di demanding....i hope he gets some perspective of how diffi his Di has been too
DeleteShiddat to that.
I think they are waiting for the blast from the past. Now they are together, he is drawing strength from her, how will it affect them both when they are at opposite ends.
You know what I think, Teej will happen, Shyam would have been back by them along with Payash will go to temple.
I think either the marriage happens or not, she will be at GH fasting for him...and the time away from him will make him realize how alone he really is and how much he misses her.
So he will bring her back on Teej, before that he will hear Garima's side of story and unlike last time when he never gave the other party a chance, he will be neutral and tell Khushi, If your mom is right, then the only way we can prove it is if we do this together.
Just like LAST teej, shyam entered, this teej khushi will enter.
let us see.
Shwetha : not much hope about Bitwa listening to Garima being neutral...though i still believe tat Garima isnt the other woman, but if she is, then bitwa isnt gonna listen so soon..maybe later...aftet teej, if he realizes how much he misses her......
Deletewhat an anti-climax ....every freaking time Arnav says "Shyaam will never enter this house" camera pans on creepwas oversized face in the same very house *yuck*
ReplyDeletecan this PH give at least some self respect to the ladies. Anjali se avaiyn bulwadiya hota "hume aapke saath le chaliye" & khushi, did her broken heart, sham marriage, lust torture, attempted murder both on her and her husband had no effect on her thick head or WHAT!!! Today I would have loved ASR .... I would have taken any amout of wrist grabbing and shouting but no how can they do that.
Ammaebuaji really ..cvs you show them now feeling sorry over a loss, what were you thinking not showing them for a month after ArHi marriage.
Bhai Monday ke monday ArHi dekho ... Seems to be the new mantra .... Pasand aye ya na aye phir bhi ArHi toh hote hain.
Sama, happy teacher's day*hugs*
DeleteOMG, Will Abhaas ever join the gym he owns or planning to own, he has become triple in size.
Looks like Shyam kay kapdo main Akash, Arnav and NK ghus saktay ahin..
Is that what they are trying to show, 1 =3?
Sama, happy teachers day sweetie...
DeleteShwetha : 'Looks like Shyam kay kapdo main Akash, Arnav and NK ghus saktay ahin..' *rofl*
Thanks everyone who wished me on Teachers Day *hugs*
ReplyDeleteMona it feels good to hear that as an appreciation to the additional care we take of your kids. Just that these days most think main duty to be ours and their being additional. Really hurts aur humse taklif bilkul bardasht nahi hoti. So acche se 35, 40, 45 jiss age ke bhi ho haq se dant dethi hoon. "aap mitthi ko sametke dhiyaan se matka banaiye hum dhoop ki tarah inhe masbodh karnge" something in that line :D
Gargi apne toh tensionwa mein dal diya .... I need to take care of my wardrobe ASAP !! :D :D :D
Bio was and is my favourite too :D
hehehe no worries I'm sure all the kiddos love you;-)
DeleteAm just so disappointed tho ,to be honest I had nalways felt that it nwill be Anjali
ReplyDeleteWho will do her typical manipulation to get sham back ..if I heard correctly,(no re watch ),she said to sham that she will only have food and medicines only from him (thereby forcing Arnav to get sham back.
Now I really really wish Arnav decides to stay away from RM as much as he can ,spends more time in office
Till his stupid sister realises what a creep her husband is and how right her brother was.I want Arnav to have some self respect ..if in his own home he can't take decisions he should walk out..not only threaten to but REALLY WALK OUT.SHOW SOME SPINE..
Of course PH will not show this and this then is the end of IPK for me. I like men to have honour and stick to their words and not give in tamely to emotional blackmail?
Riya
Riya: Did you see how her the usually switched off dimaag went into overload and she caught ton what he was trying to say, only you can bring me back and this is what you have to do.
DeleteWhy should he walk out of his own home, which he built, he should get Lallan to kidnap Shyam, problem solved. Oh and feed him only pineapple.
If Anji can calmly ask for Shyam and throw tantrums of "eating medicine and food only when he feed her" what stopped her from doing this after slapgate....
ReplyDeleteokay this is no logic wala question...this is merely my attempt to understand the character Anji...work-in-progress.
Today, i added one more line to her character sketch.....
Anji becomes demanding only when the demanding gets tough....(basically when shit hits the roof!)
Anji becomes demanding only when the demanding gets tough....(basically when shit hits the roof!)
DeleteOooooooh they should give out more epi like this, I get to see this side of Rekhs, ROFL.
Kyun yaar mera dusra bak bak roop tujhe pasand nahin hain kya?
DeleteLOL...but i can do this avatar only when u are on R&R...u r my inspiration...LOVE U *HUGS*
Rekhs, the other side is your sensible side, yeh sarcastic side dekhnay ka mazaa hi kuch aur hai*hugs bey*
DeleteOkay serious question, Am I the only one who is utterly bored of the show right now?
ReplyDeleteOnce upon a time my dil used to go dhak dhak anticipating what will happen in the show.
Now the only reason I watch this show is so I can do Bak bak.
SAME HERE SHWETHS....I DO BAK BAK BUT THE DIL DOES NOT GO DHAK_DHAK...
DeleteMera additional problem yeh bhi hain....this is the only serial i watch so...bak bak is restricted to this serial only (thank heavens for small mercies tho!!)
DeleteI used to like the spoilers that zee_news used to give out once upon a time, the future tracks promised something divine...its a very watered down version and very average stuff that they are doling out these days....
Haan...once in a way there are these nice scenes that picked up the epi...but nothing earth shattering nowadays
rekhs, shewts
Deletesame pinch grils, I used to fight for the remote and even schedule my things around 8 pm , now a days my daughter reminds me its 8 pm .
and yes I watch it so I can do little bak bak .. because this is the only one I watch ...
head desk
Rekhs, Aaru: HUGS!! If it wasnt for R&R and IF, I guess I would have quit long ago. That magic is not there for me.
DeleteTHE BFTP track is the last chance i give this show, I want to see how they pit ASR and khushi against each other even if it is for a brief period and how ASR outwits Shyam.'
And ofcourse there is Akash, who was on maun vrat again today..oh well.
Shwetha, m in the same boat......only watching for Sarun and Arhi.....
Deleteshewts .
Deleteeven in the Khushi 101 and kidnapping there were good dose of Arhi and their love story although the logical and brains were Gone with the wind...
I still could relate with story.. now with Anji antics and shyams creeps i feel like am watching a ekta show rather than a storng female lead and a strong male lead who for change uses his harvard dimaag I had signed for ...
I want my ASR back with arnav part reserved for khushi like today .. hence even if the scene was half baked i iked it because it did have ASR in it but also arnav who would not lash at her and shut her without expalination.. he did give her chance to put her view point but also told her his and stood by it...
Speaking of Akash,My eternal Akshay supporter, i hope the only reason Akshay is still in the show is for some worthwhile action that is lined up for him.....i would so love to see him joining hands with Arnav or even some Arnav bashing will be ok by me...(how could u threaten Khushiji with stopping my marriage, bhai?)
DeleteI would hate for that talent i see (u see but somehow no one else sees ) go to waste....A Strong shiddat to a gud role for Akshay Dogra....
(i hope the only reason Akshay is still in the show is for some worthwhile action that is lined up for him..) SHIDDAT!!
DeleteQuick take on epi:
ReplyDeleteI would rate it 7/10.
The family confrontation had to be the best part especially when Arnav asks Dadi how do you know Shyam and also the whole family believing that Shyam did betray Anjali.
Arnav-Khushi scene...aap sambhaal lengay is getting quite repetitive now. Suddenly the focus and the effort on writing for this couple seems to have come down.
If khushi agreed to ASR's decision was supposed to be one of the big moments to show how far these two have come, well...there are better ways of showing it.
I was utterly boooooooored with shyam-anjali scenes, that scene required just 1 segment, 2 segments was absolute torture.
And why is it that ASR & Khushi have not changed into normal wear?
I loved this episode.. why? because Finally ASR is back. after some 5 months. the one who asks questions, the one who counters every argument, the one who completely melts in front of his Di.
Deletei am literally hating [barun overacting and losing the ASR touch] in the whole romance scenes. which is why the only recent romance i liked was the DDLJ verse-scene of "ab aur kuch na kehna..". i DO NOT LIKE the arnav who is mush in front of khushi. i want the ASR character to have softness in his hard shell when it comes to khushi. i can see that he can be 100% naughty and a great fit for sanka devi, but him melting into cotton candy in romance (personal scenes) with his wife is seriously turning me off.
lovebirds did not get a chance to change their outfits because,as far as i can see, the godh-bharai-mehendi-miscarriage-forced discharge-anjali's plea are happening on the same night. this will be another "iss raat ki subah nahi" like the original wedding night.
i agree that the writers seem to be taking a holiday.. or the actors are adlibbing so much because of the volume of dialogues they have.
When khushi starts acting tooo dumb, I try to look at the smallest of positives in the epi in order to make it seem better..
ReplyDeleteapart from arnav-dadi showdown and the final acceptance of arnav that shyam is pure evil through and through.. the other positive and the most important one was that for the first time since the shyam fiasco, anji was out in the open about her intentions..no taunting, no manipulation, direct statement - I want shyamji back.. how I wish she would have shown this before, I wouldnt have wasted time in hating her so much...today I actually applaud her for showing the guts and asking her precious chotey something (never mind that the 'something' in itself is utterly dumb)..
also, after khushi's dumbness today, I can safely say that it was not resurface again since it will be b/w arnav and anjali to decide now.. khushi will hopefully shut up.. I wonder why they made her say all the lines..probably SI was tired of being quiet, she told the writers "yaar mujhe hode to lines do!" and they obliged to her demands she she has never made any ... whatever! :S
anyhow.. waiting to see what's arnav's reaction...he can shout and scream the world with dadi...can plainly refuse khushi.. but with his di, he is quite sensitive... apart from the dumb clown that they made of khushi, I actually quite liked the episode.. abhaas as always was impressive! :)
Mads: Khushi for me wisely kept quiet and did not push it, for me that was a plus.
DeleteAs for Di, can I say yipppppppeeeeeee, thank god she asked for her hubby so it is her fault now...and not Khushi's,lol.
Mads, Shwetha,
DeleteI was not surprised K said that (Gloatwa vey with Mona):
It is just the goodness of her heart- she wants to believe Shyam wil reform, Di's life can become better- she is thinking in the best interests of Anjali for ASR's sake. She is willing to forgive the hurt he caused 'her' and what he almost did to ASR: "humein maaf kar dijiye." Will he follow it up with Khushi- "Humein hamari kiye ki sazaa mil gayee...hamari rajkumari chali gayee... humein maaf kar dijiye, Khushiji..." If ASR allows him within a mile of Khushi, that is.
Khushi believes there can be goodness in every person and evryone deserves a SECOND chance. What if Shyam has really reformed?
Su, i agree that it is inherent khushi character that she expects shyam to have reformed after he lost his child.. after all, he did make a great big show of "hamari rajkumari". even in the first instance when she found shyam was married , she saved him from a truck..
Deletethat dialogue was there because that adds a chink in arnav's resolute stand against shyam.. a grain of doubt.. because khushi said that shyam might have reformed, arnav will give weight to her words when anjali asks for shyam.
and before I forget again,
ReplyDeleteSama
happy teachers day !!!
And before I sign off, song dedication to Akash bitwa which I included in my sig in I-F
ReplyDeleteHar Din Mil Jaayega, Aakash ko BoL
Show may BOL paayega, 200-300 BOL
La la...la la laaaaaaaa.......
Shweths sweetie....a strong shiddat to those 200-300 bol...POor guy wouldn't know that in two corners of the world there are these two females praying for his success when he thinks "everybody loves bhai"....LOL
DeleteShwetha, Rekha,
DeleteYeh bole ya na bole.... I think the two of you will highlight every single thing he does or says.....
I am definitely noticing him and loving him after your takes.
Consider your efforts not wasted...
I am breaking my head over this: Kuchh bola tha kya kal?
Is that why you came up with the bol song- he didn't say anything?
...maun vrat... got it.
DeleteOk Su, glad to recruit someone for the "Akash ko 200-300 bol do" army....at present it has two members only.....now three....par what the heck....boondh boondh se banta sagar....(eeks sagar is Arnav....hain na? yahan par bhi bhai!!)koi mujhe mere bhai se bachao....
DeleteGloatwa vey...
ReplyDeleteYesterday I said Anji is quite capable of pretending to go silent to arm twist Chote into getting Shyam back..she went one step further from passive to active- willing to threaten hunger strike if she did not get what she wanted...to hell with what it does to her beloved(???)Chote...
Bitwa kab samjhoge - aisi Di ho , to dushmano ki kya zaroorat hai- too kamzore to sit up but she suddenly found the strength to walk to his room - apna ullu seedha karna ho to taqat aa hi jati hai..
Does anyone still belieeve she is white ? She is definitely grey..
Khushi - you idiot - he should have dunked her in the pool - but wait - vaise hi kapde na ke barabar hai - geele ho to kya hoga :)
ASR ke dimaag ne guest appearance diya :) hurray
Dadi gave a clue as to future track - shyamwa in , manipulate everyone into believing Khushi trapped him - Khushi out...back to square one - why do I get such horrible thoughts on where this is going - surprise us CVs.
Shwetha,
Akash se kaho thodi to mardangi dikhaye - he could have atleast come to ASR , Nk's support - I know its CV's fault but really..should the rest of the family not be jumping in to defend ASR against Dadi -liked the look on Nani's face when ASr tells Dadi you should have stayed in the ashram..
Just remembered the "Arnavji ko barbaad karna chahte hai ' dialogue of khushi's from the leading Shyam on sequence that Khushi did not refute in the confrontation...
DeleteAfter BFTP , if it turns out that the Mallik Sr was responsible for Khushi's parents death or for Garima's misfortune, Shyamwa can spin it that Khushi came into ASR's life to get revenge ..and drive the rift..
srisri, thats actually a good idea!
Deletehey all - sorry have not had the time to read through your posts - so sorry if i am repeating the obvious - don't know about you all - But I loved the epi - perfect!
ReplyDeleteLoved all the scenes :
Dadi ASR face off - very well done - loved him for using his brains (finally!!) - loved that the whole family stood by him, nani was actually furious (for the first time at dadi and all i can say is - about time), mami was clearly not supporting VLR, she was clearly with ASR, Akash had the right expressions and of course NK spoke up - wow - well done
-Loved that ODB actually gave it back to dadi - i have looked after di, i will continue to do so - loved his stance, you were no where around for 14 years - go back! Have to say that dadi is a good actress - her expression of hurt was conveyed but i loved that no one was weakened by it - they all knew ASR was right! (and dadi has some nerve - how can she expect to return after 14 long years - never bothering during this time on how the kids were doing and yet expect them to bow in front of her - that she was received with respect should have humbled her - had i been in nani's position - i would not have welcomed her at all)
loved that ASR said everything - including the attempted murder and dadi did not believe him - she looked straight at KKG and said - shyam had told her about the troubles in the house and loved that ODB got that!! - glad he did not mention the KKG TF engagement to dadi - she is sure to use it against KKG!
some gloatwas for me :D - told you KKG would ask for Shyams return!
Knew KKG would do her "everyone has some good in them' kind of stuff which she did - (back to her 'do good' moralizing self - but very toned down - and she accepted ODB's pov in the end - very much in character!)
loved that ODB stood his ground - in total ASR mode (are you kidding me *thumbs up*:D:D) - liked that they had this convo in private and not in front of all - loved that ODB controlled his anger in the end - he really has come a long way
LOved the Shyam Anji scene (yes i know i seem to have gone crazy) but loved it coz - 1- it validates my theory that Shyam had to kill his baby coz he needed a broken wife to gain entry and -2- coz the way he manipulated his wife was a master piece - 'i know Aap jab zid pay aajati hain to kisi ki nahi sunti' - i can do anything to be with you but not at the risk of harming you - i will be able to relax only when i feed you and take care of you personally coz you wont do it yourself - i love you - i can stand anything even humiliation and risk to my life but cant stand not seeing you..
AND no word against ODB - he really can play his wife like a fiddle - loved how smooth tongue he was during the scene - have to say this again - don't like Abhas very much as an actor but Shyam the villain is very well defined - (KKG & ASR are better actors any day)
so all in all - a very interesting episode - cant wait for Dia's post - am off to read all your posts now
the only thing i did not like - why are ASR and KKG still in the mehndi grandeur?? ok if not the clothes - atleast get rid of the jewelry - the tika - seriously - wont it be the first thing you take off in such a situation - can you actually be bothered about wearing such heavy jewelry?
Deleteand finally - the crib makes an exit - so basically the only proof against TF will stay hidden in the storeroom for the time being??
Dia - you and i seem to be in perfect sync today - i wrote exactly what you are saying but you do it with such perfection - mine our just disjointed thoughts - but we are def on the same age today. hope you are having a great time - we really miss you here though :D:D
ReplyDeleteI would like to add my two cents worth here...
ReplyDeleteDISCRETION IS THE BETTER PART OF VALOUR..Anji has really checkmated. Arnav ..sad but true.May be he should agree to let sham into RM but walk out himself along with Khushi and then quietly get the rest of the family out (. That should not be too difficult seeing the reaction of Nani,Mami,Akaash and NK)leavening Anjali,sham and DD alone,cut off the credit card and other finances and watch the drama..
CRUEL TO BE KIND..
Here I think Anjali
Has done great service to Arnav
By literally cutting the umbilical cord..in Punjabi we say Ma da palla chad te admi ban..I.e.leave the apron strings of the mother and. Be a MAN.
It is time Arnav
Stopped his Di worship and got on with his life!!
Further more by removing the loving family away from Anjali
He also be cruel to be kind ...the mollycoddling of Anjali will stop and probably
For the first time in her life she will be forced to face reality and may see sham in his true colours. This will oped blind DD eyes.
Sounds too drastic na,,!!But there lies HOPE at the end.Also Arnav
Will have to STOP playing God ..he cannot and should not take decisions for his Di..she is an adult and has every right to make a mess of her life if she wants to as long as he is willing to help her pick up the pieces when she really needs him. He should not abandon her then although she has abandoned him now by choosing her husband who she thinks is right over her brother.
Hope I am making sense.. I don't want Arnav to suffer any more.
continuing from my last ...
ReplyDeleteAnjali has not only back stabbed Arnav
But also betrayed the love and trust of the entire family ,Nani,Mami Akaash and NK
.They took these two orphans Arnav and Anjali
To their heart and nurtured them ..don't think Arnav
Could have got his Harvard edu. Without their help.Atleast Arnav
Is now looking after the family.
true Anjali
Has also been a loving daughter but that was when she was almost ruling like a queen bee alas aptly described by Dia in one of her earlier posts.Hence her betrayal of this trust is UNFORGIVABLE...
Excellent edit by Dia as always..hats off to you.
Riya
P.s. forgot to add name in last post so pl. Mafi.am still very new to expressing my thoughts .hope I make myself understood.
WOW! I thought at least Wednesday will be a dud, but no, they are giving us great stuff every day of the week. And without any promo…. Bahut adventurous log hai!
ReplyDeleteSo many thoughts on yesterday.
1. Shyam-
I’ve been saying this from the day of Shyam revelation- it ended on that incomplete note so that he can get his way back into RM.
And I think he was damn smart then…because he read everyone perfectly. He left without K being able to prove her point. He left without Anjali getting proof of his indidelity and still doubting Khushi. And he got ASR to hit him and throw him out without PROOF.
And… who wants proof now<
Anjali ..and dadi.
2. Arhi and the 3 tracks:
I said last week that Shyam’s re entry is 1/3 Arhi undone.
1/3: the past with Garima’s involvement in it.
1/3: Further tales that Shyam is going to tell. I had. This man is great at cooking up stories. Now he has gained Anjali’s and dadi’s trust and will get back inside RM. And he has unfortunately one more ally who will help him get back inside. SADLY, K is going to believe that ‘mera bachha’ line and beg ASR to forgive Shyam for Di’s sake. Afterall the villain is a changed man and everyone deserves a second chance.
ASR will have to relent with all the drama the WOMEN in his life are making, but he will not TRUST Shyam ever again. He also DOES NOT KNOW what other plans Shyam has to undo Arhi. He thinks mistakenly that Shyam is back only for the money, but Shyam will get his revenge on Khushi- with the next set of stories he will tell or whatever it is he has up his sleeve.
3. BEST DIALOGUE of the day:
AAp bas woh galti mat kijiye jo mein pehle bhi kar chukaa hoon : And the frame shifts to KHUSHI.
Though ASR was talking about Shyam in the next line, he had made 2 galtis:
1. Blindly taking everything that Shyam said.
2. . MUing and ill treating Khushi.
Dadi has already committed the first galti, very soon, she will be doing the second one? She will MU Khushi now and probably stop the wedding???
And di- ‘wil act in the best interests of Chhote’?
4 I was predicting doom and gloom for a long time….DOOM has come. Can GLOOM be far behind?
(BTW, I am not seeing any of those signs any more. I was watching RECAP and I noticed this today for the first time in the Shyam- dadi- curtain scene: Dadi had ceramic jar and some 3(?) wine bottle type things on her tepoy- OFC, dadi is not drinking wine or eating pickles in her room….What were those things doing on the tepoy? And Anjali enters the room. So, these three will bring the gloom???)
5. The scene I loved most:
DeleteKhushi getting medicines and water for ASR: Here is the love story they are giving me amidst all this drama.
And with this scene came this thought: I was reminded of the last time Khushi got medicines for ASR(at least the last that I remember)-
That was one of my FAVOURITE episodes- post hypo-
When a guilty Khushi enters with his medicines, ASR tells her the whole hypo thing was an act. It was such a mean thing to do if the intent was to hurt her further or to tell her ‘I am in control always’- some deadly dialogues he gave there- “For how long have you known me and do you think you know me well?”
- creepy thing to say…. I hated his attitude until…….. Anjali took Chhote to the mirror and showed him why he did it. Why he said what he said? It was to absolve Khushi of all the GUILT that she brought this harm on him….that she played with his health.
Such a BRILLIANT episode that was! (Nothing to correlate with the current track, just something that came to my mind out of the way…Even then, when he thought he hated her he could not bear to see her getting hurt on account of that guilt.)…. Kya love story hai………
6. The BEST ACTOR: Undoubtedly, it was DB…. That scene where she tells Chhote she wants Shyam back…No pleading.. no whining…no putting the foot down…just a broken down empty shell Anjali telling her brother ‘what SHE wants’….perfect characterization and great acting…. Just the right expressions, I felt. *APPLAUSE*
agrree wholeheartedly with point 6. that was one of the long lost *Brilliant* scenes of IPK.
DeleteWill ASR ask Anjali to leave with her husband?
ReplyDeleteASR- god bless his shatir dimag- now knows how Shyam has manipulated dadi and Anjali. He has even succeeded in getting K to trust him again....
Will ASR want to leave his poor soap brained (best way to describe a brain that dwindles with each brainwashing technique Shyam employs on her- there is no term like that-) sister at the mercy of a murderer who plays games with everyone's minds?
Di Hamari zimmedari hai.....
This is the probably the first time that posts that have been written to explain another POV have failed to make me change mine...otherwise most of the time, i rant, ask questions and when the answers come, i am satisied....
ReplyDeleteI am just saying that CVs should have thot of a better way to handle the oncoming crisis.....of Arnav having to bring Shyam back in the midst of Di hysteria....and Khushi getting the short shrift....so making her put in that stupid defence...harakiri for ARHI.and nothing will convince me that its the gudness of the character...if it is that...Khushi is doomed..and Arnav more doomed....
Are we saying the only thing that affects Arnav about Shyam is that he cheated his DI......come on.....thats not the case..." I hate that man" had all the passion of the lover Arnav.....The most unique aspect of this love story is this ..the man who cheats his sister is also the man who lusted after his beloved.....its not a matter that is dried and dusted for Arnav.....I am not saying that it is a problem between Arnav and Khushi, i am saying as a lover, that aspect will be a matter that will cause pain...he can't think of Shyam in kind terms ever.....even the "reformed" Shyam, if u will.........as a BIL....in the remotest possibility perhas but just as a man never ever becos of what Shyam also represents...
Does Arnav think still that he married K for his Di...IS that his genuine misunderstanding or is it something that the CVs are still not okay to confront...yesterday the scene seemed to indicate it was all about Di only....but even if Arnav has not accepted it mentally, his reactions to the suggestion by Khushi was too bland even given the understanding that two have achieved....I am trying to see this differently after Dia's edit but still finding it diffi to reconcile to that
Somehow, i could not bear the killing of that "i hate that man" moment by Khushi by saying what she said....
ReplyDeleteOpti,
'Looks like they are treading where I feared they would. With Anj begging from Shyam's return and Khushi willing to overlook Shyam's deeds in the hope that he has changed, we may get Arnav allow Shyam to return. How easy to manipulate these women. u, this is what I feared. ':
1. Shyam will worm his way back in to RM- I've been saying this for a long time.
2. What you fear will not happen: Shyam and Khushi WILL NOT stay under the same roof- Shyam will fulfill his second promise- woh shaadi hone hi nahi dega. REVENGE on Khushi is FOREMOST in his mind.
3. This marriage will not happen NOW.
4. Arhi will separate- but only for a short time.
I think it will be like the fall he could not catch.
A) She will fall in the eyes of the society, if Shyam gets his way.
B) ASR will think he has lost her for a second(Prob Khushi will go away due to multiple factors- Di, dadi,Shyam dishonoring her name, Garima's honour, or a promise she made to Garima that she will not let out her secret)
C)He will be able to find her (it all happened in a matter of minutes there- in the fall scene at kidnap- so I feel the separation will be a VERY SHORT track)
D) He will restore her honour (Covers her with her duppatta)
E)They will return back together to fight the evil at home. (In the meantime, my long time shiddat that Akash will be left in charge of RM- hopefully Shwetha and Rekha will love that track)
I KNOW I am sounding arrogant here (Dia's title for today);lol, I don't mean to.
I am trying to tell you why I am LOVING the track.
I DON'T expect things to go exactly as I predict.
But I was the only one who said Shyam will return to RM in person right from that revelation night(I wondered HOW for sometime, now we know) and it is happening. So I feel at least SOME of what I've been seeing- it is my DOOM and GLOOM theory-will happen too.)
Have patience...
All this is written. It will be a family drama with miniscule ARHI, I think till sep 15 ME.
Trust the CVs- they will not kill the love story. This is just to take Arhi to the next level in their relationship.
For Dia, my song dedication on ARHI......when i re-read the para on ARHI understanding....this song just struck....its not one the famous songs but i like its lyrics more than the tune....after a long time a song spoke to me on IPK...so i hope these are good tidings....ah the eternal optimist....will clutch any straws....
ReplyDeleteFor Su,
I want to believe on ur optimism so this song for u too....
kabhi raat din hum door the,
din raat ka ab saath hain
wo bhi ittefak ki baat thi,
ye bhi ittefak ki baat hain
teri aankh mein hain khumaar saa,
meri chaal mein hain surur saa
ye bahaar kuch hain piye huye,
ye sama nashen mein hain choor saa
kabhi in fizaon mein pyaas thee,
abhi mausama-ye-barsaat hain
mujhe tum ne kaise badal diya,
hairan hoon main is baat par
mera dil dhadkata hain aajkal teri shaukh najaron se poochhkar
meri jaan kabhi mere bas mein thi,
ab zindagee tere haath hain
Yunhi aaj tak rahe hum juda, tumhe kya milaa, humein kya milaa
kabhi tum khafa, kabhi hum khafa,
kabhi yeh gila, kabhi woh gilaa
kitane bure the woh din sanam, kitani haseen yeh raat hain
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-ja-PN5Q9A0&feature=related
Rekha,
DeleteThanks.
I wrote this for you and I don't know if this will help.
Rekha,
I am with Shwetha; there is a lot of fire in you today and a lot of passion in your writing.
“." I hate that man" had all the passion of the lover Arnav.....The most unique aspect of this love story is this ..the man who cheats his sister is also the man who lusted after his beloved.....its not a matter that is dried and dusted for Arnav.....I am not saying that it is a problem between Arnav and Khushi, i am saying as a lover, that aspect will be a matter that will cause pain...he can't think of Shyam in kind terms ever.....even the "reformed" Shyam, if u will.........as a BIL...”: beautifully written.
How do we know it is not the lover aspect that is causing more pain?
He says Di every second line because right now she is the one who is out of his reach. Khushi is by his side and he knows he never has to doubt her again. And he can protect her from every harm; she is already his FOREVER and he can MAKE SURE NOTHING hurts her; whereas, for di- he has no solution.
“KHUSHI IS STILL the FIRST PRIORITY for ASR.
ASR (hopefully) will never ACCEPT Shyam as his BIL.”
Knowing this,
CONCENTRATE on the siblings:
Anjali has been brain washed. (Even Khushi has been brainwashed. So you can’t just blame Anjali for being blind.)She demands her husband back.
What can ASR do?
1. Prove Shyam is the guy who kidnapped him- not possible.
2. Take off from where Shyam left that night…complete the court scene that was interrupted by Shyam cornering Khushi- DISHONOURING her – which led to the knee jerk, autocratic behavior from ASR…. Question is… Is Anjali willing to listen to any thing now? She would’ve listened to the whole story THEN but now:
Anjali has lost her baby. She is not interested in whether her husband is WHITE in Chhote’s eyes any more. She knows Chhote has MU-ed Shyam, because EVEN DADI BELIEVES IT TO BE SO.
And now she knows SHYAM IS THE MOST LOVING< FORGIVING HUSBAND in the world. HE HAS BEEN WRONGED…she does not want to drag him back in to that horrible situation again.
Back then, Anjali had the upperhand. She could demand: What was that about divorce? What is Khushiji saying? NOT ANY MORE.
If Chhote proved his love for Khushiji by going by her word, NOW is the time for Anjali to prove her love for Shyam by going BY HIS WORD.
Because, this is the perfect solution. Shyam is willing to reconcile, in spite of being thrown out, mistrusted by his wife and losing his baby… This man should not be made to go through more. And he still has the magnanimity to not ACCUSE Chhote for any of these things.
If Chhote could just contain his anger, and try and understand her husband, all of them could happily live.
I really feel this: ANJALI IS NOT IN THE MOOD FOR A COURT SCENE NOW.
Delete(Do you realize why that revelation night felt so incomplete? Shyam dragged ASR back in to the argument and played the entire scene AS HE HAD WRITTEN IT. If the argument was completed that night, Anjali wouldn’t be asking questions like “kaun sach bol raha hai” and now, she IS NOT IN the mood to hear the SACH.)
When this is Anjali’s stand…she refuses to hear him out, SUPPORTED by dadi and edged on silently by Khushi to give Shyam a second chance…what will ASR do?
He may have to allow Shyam in temporarily to keep di happy.
I want this to be clear. Khushi cannot mislead him into believing Shyam has turned over a new leaf.
I want to see that shatir dimag intact and hopefully plan a counter attack. Sadly, he has already wasted so much time…and so much might happen to again shift his attention…so it might take some time.
You asked this question somewhere above.
DeleteWhy did Anjali not demend this back then?
She was not sure then; “kaun sach bol raha hai”, Chhote could not have made a mistake….
NOW she knows CHHOTE HAS MADE A MISTAKE.
Su,
DeleteI am fine with Anji "demanding" Shyam....ab ya tabh..she should have demanded him then...teekh hain accepted...she was not sure then....now she is convinced ab maangh liya....great going..my question...do we get to see an Anji who behaves differently with Khushi now atleast? She has to....MU ho saktha hain for Arnav...but how can she ignore what Khushi has accused her husband of...being her fiance....or are we saying Anji is delusional which is the only way i can accept the character ahead.....
If Anji was merely mistaken, it means her faculties are ok...she can process information...ok she can be diffi when bad news is concerned but dimag chal raha hain...bandh nahin hain
Her MU of Khushi would mean she should show some antipathy towards Khushi...if i see even a wee bit of it....I will accept that CVs are going in the right way....else they have to show her delusional or a person whose sense of right wrong is majorly affected....
Meaning Anji waking up from her slumber becos she realises that Shyam is not what he has projected to be is NOT A HAPPENING moment if u have not shown her to be disbalanced in some way....
I don't buy the Durga avatar resurgence on knowing about the child being harmed by shyam..becos of "tumhara khoon khoon, mera khoon pani"....it makes Anji a very "jaundiced" durga, imo and that is not how i see the shakti roop...
But Su, am with u...on how Anji is proceeding....but the added change i want to see a white Anji, if at all, is a genuine dislike for Khushi as the person who brought this about.....becos then i can accept she is a person who sees khushi as a person setting out to wreck her world....and can make amends when she is disabused of her notions....
yahan woh smart bhi hain, buddhu bhi, pagal bhi aur sayani bhi....kya hain woh..batao....
sorry rant over.....
Rekha,
DeleteWhy should she hate Khushi?
"Khushiji has misunderstood...it is not a crime...and Khushiji has genuinely tried to be nice to me. She has tried to explain her version...only, I am not interested in hearing her misunderstood version. I remember my understanding hubby saying that night...yeh ladki pagal hai(he clearly said that)...and she said that engagement bit (weak one..I should not bring it in here, better to take it as Anji chooses to block that bit or not able to process it properly)...
I know K loves my brother a lot and I can never thank her enough for making RB perfect. Therefore, I cannot hate her (unless someone gives me a twisted version of her who did all this to gain my confidence-this might happen in future, who knows?)...I love her as my SIL...And I am an understanding person...May be Khushiji has some slight mental problem or something which needs treatment...
BECAUSE NOW I KNOW SHE PLAIN MU-ed my husband...I'll have to help her now...I;ll do it as soon as I clear up the mess in my life.
I promise you, I'll get to the bottom of this as soon as I can stand on my feet, because I want Chhote's world also to be perfect- I don't want him to have to hate his BIL or his wife to hate my hubby... My hubby is right- I'll give my life now to prove his innocence.
HATING Khushiji is not going to solve anything."
Even if Anjali -you can argue that she shouldn't be able to process all this- does not think like this now,
IMAGINE Anjali as a person who is very UNDERSTANDING...as the original Anjali who always supported and championed Khushi even when she acepted Chhote and La- she kept pleading with Chhote to stop treating K badly... SHE CANNOT HATE SOMEONE JUST.... LIKE THAT...based on a MU..even if that mu ruined her life..b'coz Anjali FEELS Khushiji did not harm her WILLINGLY.
SHE KNOWS KHUSHI is trying to be genuinely nice to her.
'Meaning Anji waking up from her slumber becos she realises that Shyam is not what he has projected to be is NOT A HAPPENING moment if u have not shown her to be disbalanced in some way':
Yaar, you have said it right here, you have described anji here as she is and as she is going to be (not sure of durga).
THE key word is DISBALANCED- that makes her connect somethings and not connect certain things...that word explains her perfectly.
It is not a DISEASE- it is a temporary passing phase...a part of 'GRIEF REACTION'- because she was put thru a lot she was absolutely not prepared for.
DISBALANCED is the word for it, right.
ohkay. just got the internet connection, and have spent the last 2 hours reading up all the comments that accumulated at RnR. spam alert, i'm gonna be posting in unrelated instalments.
ReplyDeletehad to comment on the peetal ka bartan discussion.. arnav singh raizada was always an escapist. he put his heart into work and built up an empire so he does not have to face his past demon, he can just squash them beneath his feet with money. he ignores rather than faces emotional moments. he gets in his car and drives away the moment something happens directly to his face, that he cannot ignore.
with the advent of khushi's love in his heart, he has started changing. when he would accept failure and run away after seeing anjali crying after the miscarriage, khushi holds his hand and fills his heart and brings him to face Di.
ReplyDeletearnav explains the past as " father and his lover caused his mom's suicide" and dadi says he was wrong in that instance.
nani twice said that ASR proved to be his father's son.. when arnav well and truly hates his dad(according to the recent revelation) ..some things do not add up here.
yes, by the scene they showed as flashback of the past, ratna MU'ed her husband. (eerily like arnav mu-ed snake .. "i saw you two hugging") and runs away to suicide? really? suicide by gunshot? (evil smirk)
ReplyDeleteLOLed at anjali walking on glass.. one, she cannot walk without her brace.. why did she get up and walk away without wearing her shoes? two, any self respecting human being will step back when you step on something... and then kick aside the offending carpet.. she contunued to walk across the carpet? and then, three, she did not sit down on the bed to inspect her leg? did she tie her bump too tight that it cut off circulation to her legs?
and four, she walked across the glassed carpet again to go out? full blown crazy idea, director-ji.
ROFLed at shyamu waiting for the exact split second when anjali would touch those exact wires..how could he see her? divya drishti? :D truly, did not see the arhi scenes in between on first watch. but on second watch, i want to hug the CT for the exact rendering of the lyrics to the scene.. and arnav and khushi speak so much via eyes.. fantastic(applause).
one little thing i couldnot wait to comment on.. in the song sequence on mehendi, arnav pulled khushi into a full hug.. in the middle of the dance floor.. and no one bats an eye? even the old bats? no tittering girls either.. only swooning fangirls all over IF.. nayi soch indeed.
Deleteloved LOVED that cry of anjali when she tries to touch her bump and there is nothing there... daljeet bhanot, take a bow! (yeah directorji, you too... ) i am a bit curious about how they took the baby out.. labor? CS? why anjali does not know? how can she act like she was completely uninjured in the ordeal? why is she sitting up and walking about?
ReplyDeleteSN did her "bad" leg miraculously get cured after the glass shards?
Tussi aa gaye BBE....aur chha gaye....HUGS J....
ReplyDeletebig hug rekha.. still cant believe how much i missed you guys and our daily chat!
Deletea quote from a past scene.."my father and that woman ruined my mom's life.. drove her to suicide.. i cannot explain how much i hate that man(shyam)... " now i can see the reason for his rage against khushi on the night of the original wedding.. he hated her with that intensity.. and yet could not stop loving her.. wow.
ReplyDeleteJaya, *hugs*.
DeleteNice to see you back in action- and lots of it here. Missed you...
The wow you wrote here...I know, it is so wow.
Agree with you on ASR back to what he is rather than moony Arnav- don't know for how long.
I guess romance will get him back to that mushy look...just prepared for it.
And that point on Khushi- Shyam - truck: Excellent! We had all forgotten about it.