Did they or didn't they? ;)

The controversial episode of Sajan ... did they or didn't they pre-empt their wedding night?

At first look, it seems they did. They had just committed to each other yet again, this time to formalise what they both knew was a lifelong committment, Gunjan gave her unspoken consent to Sam to move beyond their first date, and they ended up pretty close and passionate. But morning after, Gunjan had no regrets at all, and although in a way, it showed how secure and sure she was about her relationship, after thinking again, for a very moral person like her, it seems a little strange. Which made me, while I was watching the episode, pretty sure nothing had happened. Then everyone seemed to think it had, so okay, I could justify it very easily - Sajan are the most committed couple ever, and for them to take such a step wasn't really so out of character.

But looking back, Gunjan ended up in a kurta at the farmhouse too, which made it look like something major had happened, whereas nothing had, not even a kiss. And she changed after spilling a few drops of wine. Here her clothes were soaked, she was in a strange house, couldn't exactly borrow clothes as well ... she might just as well have used the sheets for a far more innocent purpose, besides she trusts Samrat more than life, she would know he would do nothing ... BUT NOTHING ... without her consent.

So it's actually pretty much upto the imagination whether they did anything or not. And after seeing them in the next two episodes, and how normally they're behaving, I'm having doubts again. Cv's have left it cleverly to the imagination, and we can draw whatever conclusions we like. If the reactions had been as violent as PBM, maybe a CV might have come here too, to clarify that "they just kissed". But most Sajan fans seem pretty tolerant of their favourite couple's shenanigans - we love them anyway!!!

So UNLESS Gunji gets pregnant, we might never know ... did they or didn't they. And actually, we don't really care. They love each other, they're committed to each other for life, they're two consenting adults - it's really their own business. Everyone's morals are their own concern, and to show something like this in an urban youth TV show is not so out of the blue. As for kids watching, their morals are their parents' concern, not the CV's ... no kids in my house under the age of 14 would be allowed to watch a college based show. Those are my personal morals and rules which apply in my house - I don't make rules for the whole world.