Sajan Date

5th Feb
Sajan date - dream date - nightmare ending. Sheesh, Nupur, can you leave your sister alone??!!!
Writing this after your comment, mads ... I feel exactly the same way!!!

Nups stunned when Gunji is angry with her - Gunjan hardly ever gets angry, but when she does, it stops everybody in their tracks. It did mayank and now it stops nupur. And Gunjan refuses to say a word more, even after nups tries to explain how upset she was when Bauji kicked her out, even when she says she will always be there for gunji - Nups has said some unforgiveable things about Samrat and Gunjan is not about to forgive her so easily.
SG after MN have left ... such a beautiful, poignant scene, Gunjan in tears, says why did she say such things, how could she think that way, and what could I do, I know I spoke to her badly, he tries to tell her that Nupur loves her very much, but she breaks down and he just pulls her into his arms to hold her and comfort her, as though he wants to absorb all her pain and hurt into himself and stop her tears at all cost. And then she pulls away a little, as Nupur's cruel taunts prick her, and she says - were we too close? And Samrat drops his hand from her shoulder like he was burnt - had he done wrong by getting so close, would it have any repurcussions on her ... he says sorry, she says no, it was both our fault, and that of the 'mahaul' ... even in her distraught state, she has to reassure him that he did nothing wrong, nothing that she didn't want, she was as lost as he was ...

and I officially hate Nupur ... for turning their first real romantic date into a cheap affair, for raising doubts in gunjan's mind that what she did was not right (Gunji, if you'd seen what nups had gotten upto in the barn that night, you wouldn't bother so much about what she said) and for making her and Samrat conscious of their physical closeness, and withdraw again. After months of getting together, after spending all their time, effort and energy in Nupur's problems ever since they got together, they finally get an evening to themselves ... and Nupur has to land up there and spoil even that. She is really being insecure, over-possessive and completely unreasonable, not to mention hypocritical. She just wants gunjan to be her private property and personal doll, and cannot stand either that Gunjan can have an opinion other than what Nupur has, or that Gunjan can be closer to anyone other than herself.
MN scene - Nups cries crocodile tears, I can't see Gunji grow distant from me, mayank tries to tell her, let her go, she has to grow up and you should apologise to her because you said a bit too much.

College next day, Samrat waiting for Gunjan, the worry and tension on his face, he's so anxious to see her, make sure she's all right ... the awkwardness when they meet, their whole body language has changed, they don't need dialogues to show how Nups words are hanging in the air between them, just their eyes say it all - another beautiful and poignant scene. He tells her - just say sorry, but Gunji can be very stubborn - for once, she doesn't agree to what Samrat says. And that's because Nupur insulted Samrat, not because Nupur insulted her. And that she cannot forgive.

Dia tells Su, who tells Adhiraj his next task - deliver two envelopes to G and N, he gives them the wrong ones. N sees A with girlie magazine from Sam's bag - and of course, she's ready to think the worst again. Oh really, grow up Nupur! Just because a guy looks at girlie magazines makes him unfit for your sister? In that case, you'll never find a guy - ALL guys look at girlie magazines! The fact that it isn't Sam's is besides the point. Cv's are really sinking Nups to the depths - she is acting as narrow minded, conservative and unreasonable as Bui!

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